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missimelda01:
I was going to use his phone for something then I noticed some pornography sites in his browser, aside that he makes some funny moves like skipping school and just being home alone, hiding when pressing his phone and lots more. I tried convincing his mom to search his phone but this boy cleared everything, now he gives me this funny attitude. I want to catch him red handed and report to his dad, but I'm not sure if that's the right approach.

This one you don't mind your business, you want to create enmity between you two. This is the age they are curious. If you are not giving him sex education, then back the f**** off. You are creating an unnecessary family enmity.

Tell us about when you were 16 and how you got disvirgined.

helinues:
At least good news for us..

More than average Nigerians in UK are well behaved

Because most Nigerians in the UK are omoluabis.

But ipob majority anywhere else = Problematic

Sonnyboom:
What tribe are you from coz am yet to see any Yoruba wailing over the. Ban of Keke marwa?!

SkyHighWeb is a Chadian

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Lagos is saner. Next are the danfos.
The okada and danfo driver's should be wise to integrate into the new direction of the government.

Business can not always be as usual.

In 2020, people are rammed into danfo as if they are goats, and you people think that is normal?

No bags were available when I picked up my kits/bib last Saturday. Are they available now?

Are you running the Lagos City Marathon?
Let's know ourselves.

I'm running the 10km though.

Let's interact here, ask questions, provide information, and prob meet up after the race for some drinks.

izubext007:
After Paying Truck Driver Nd Loaders To The Train Station, U Will Wait At Other End To Pay Anotherd Driver And Loaders Out Of D Station. Silly A P C Ideal.

Smh. How do you people reason?

GamalNasser:
Liar

I boarded first class KD to ABJ, Super cool with AC.

Blue3k2:
Source: https://punchng.com/rail-fg-to-ban-heavy-cargo-transport-by-road/

If he bans them tankers and trucks on major road, I would give a long hug anytime I see him.

If they were smart, they would quickly divert their investment towards the direction of the government.

The chadians and Nigeriens should please go back to Kano and Katsina.

When you are serious, you will put price.

That's the starting point before calling you on phone.

We don't have Ministry of Health in this nation. So sad. I don't even know the names of the ministers, which means with all the threatening diseases flying all around there's no proactiveness from that end.

The awareness of this epidemic should be a national emergency and all radio, TV and media outlets ought to be educating us by now.

What preparation is in place of it hits Nigeria? Do we the facilities to isolate hundreds of thousands of people? Do we enough medical hands?

Are the airport staffs well informed and trained to handle passengers?

I'm afraid.

This is a good one. It should stay on fp everyday.

Cc Sissy3, Dominique

Sissy3, Dominique

Please can a good thread enlightening people on the new mysterious Wuhan coronavirus be placed on frontpage for several weeks.

The deadly virus is now in nearby Cote d'Ivoire.


Several Chinese travelled home for the Chinese New Year and will soon be back in the country. I don't think much is being done by the government to prepare for a probable outbreak. I'm not sure we have a ministry of health anymore. The country is in a sorry state.

abiolap89:
My brother sent me a parcel from abroad using FedEx freight shipment in the parcel he stashed $4800 in it when the parcel arrived at Nigeria at there headquarters in abuja I was asked to pay custom fee which was N17750 and home delivery N15750 after that I was mailed that after unboxing and reboxing for clearance money was found and it placed on ban and I can't go to abuja to claim it because am in Lagos please what should I do. Who are the neccesary agency I can talk to. Nairalander please help me out.

You and your brother are d@ft. Sorry o. No offence

Now the revolution he didn't want will now come subtly

You need to work on yourself.
You are not matured yet to marry. You are still a mummy's boy.

I stopped reading at the point you said you disclosed to your mother where you were both going on Saturday. She was to come on Sunday anyways. You shouldn't have. You are such a chicken.

Your wife will get tired of the marriage very soon, unless your mum passes away. Marriage requires wisdom and decisiveness. You lack both.

Your mother is apparently the trouble here, and you alone is the solution. If you don't, your marriage will crash. I'm sure this problem is already causing disaffection between all family members who don't really know the true story.

Fareee123,
I for one don't like phone calls. I have established that in my family, workplace etc. But I love WhatsApp and text messages. I prefer you text me to ask me if you could call me.
And if you call too often, I will avoid you or block you. Even at work, WhatsApp, email and intercomm are the best to communicate with me. Any other thing is usually because of idleness or lack of proper planning.

Just to let you know there are people like us.

Don't mind that sylly guy who wasted all his energy just to type rubbish, he hasn't even been there before. Just the usual bigotry.
I was in Kano on vacation last year. Of course, they are different because they have their culture just like everywhere else. But there are places you can live and work that are just like Lagos, PH or Ibadan.
I like the contrast. The level of enjoyment I experienced there passed all the ones I'd ever had here in Lagos .
Churches are plenty and fun. Transport fares are cheap. The hotel I stayed too, so I'm sure accommodation are cheaper.

Sorted

Go on a vacation there first.
I did, I liked Cape Coast but I couldn't stand the heat both in Accra and CC.

Thanks

Abujaexpress:
My fellow employers in the house, I crave your indulgences to be guided on this issue, thus:
I employed a lady as my secretary. She had worked for about 3 months before she failed to resume work on a particular day and all my phone calls to her were not answered by her. After a few days, a friend that brought and guaranteed her employment with my firm called me that the girl said I shouted at her and flinged a document towards her, as a result of which she left.

The following day, I called the girl, this time around she picked, albeit reluctantly and I told her that since she has refused to show up at work, she should return the office key which was with her. A few days later, I did not know when she sneaked into the complex and gave the key to my neighbour, which he delivered to me.

I subsequently called the girl and asked her if she does not want to work again, she simply said that she is attending to her health in her village. I did not hear from her since then untill the 2nd of the following month, December when she called me to request for transfer of her salary to her. I initially asked her to come to office to resign and handover officially for me to work out her salary, but I later allowed human feelings to take hold me and I calculated/substracted the numbers of days she did not work for that month and transferred the balance to her.

Immediately she called to thank me and she again called on new day to wish me a happy new year.

Then suddenly on the 3/01/2020, she sent me a message that she would pls want to talk with me. I agreed to listen to her. She called me to say if I have not employed another secretary, that she would want to resume and that if I will allow her to work with me again. I simply told her that I would look into it and get back to her. Am yet to give her field back.

The issue now is, considering the nature of her leaving work AWOL, and now calling to beg to come back, should I accept her back or I should her engage a different person (already I have some applications for the job on my table).

N. B. Kindly note that her brief stay in my office have exposed the girl as a dishonest fellow and her penchant for excuses from office citing sickness and flimsy excuses is very her.

I need advice please.

Are you kidding me? Are you okay? Because I'm thinking she has gone diabolical on you.

Block her number for a while, if she uses another line, tell her you are busy. And tell your receptionist to keep her waiting all day if she comes to your office. Stay away from her for your own good.

AngeloPrice:
Don't be silly. There is a reason a case like this is called statutory rape. That the pedophile did not know she is of majority (old enough) is of no substance. That defense won't hold up in court when he is charged. And there is no such thing as consent from a minor. The law does not presume a minor has the legal capacity to grant consent as she is still under the law a minor. So if the guys perpetrates the act, it will sure amount to statutory rape and would go away for a long time.
My advice to Op is to get closer to the his sister than ever. Beating her will be a big mistake. He should constantly talk to her and tell her the guys just want to sleep with her and dump her after bragging to his friends of his conquest. If she's smart as he alleges then she should be well guided

I think you are silly with the first paragraph. My initial post did not say otherwise, but rather giving him an explanation since they have only chatted on Social Media. Anybody can be anybody on SM.
My post was to prepare him to rationalize well on the best approach to take. I should think majority of people on NL knows what statutory rape is and the legal backings, so your comprehension is the mischief.

Put yourself in the shoe of the op
- only you know the true age of both
- both prob claim to be of age
- no duress
- the deed has not yet been done
- both never met, only on SM
- you can't blame the guy (27y.o), so this will inform what's best approach to take.

Smat101,
1. The guy might not know she's 14. It's SM.
2. Though she's a minor, she's giving her consent. So, this isn't a rape, especially if the guy doesn't know her age. She will still have sex without your knowledge, but maybe best with her agemates. So, you need to intensify your counseling. You can deter the guy by responding to his FB chat or deleting his account and phone number.
3. Beating your sister shows you will be a wife beater. You display ignorance and entitlement to physically abuse her because "you feel you have the right or love"; same way you will do to your wife.

Alore:
9 degree and complaining?... SMH...

It is -2 degree in Berlin

Mumu, that is not even as cold as -25 I experienced in Russia. My point is that it is expected in Berlin and the structures are built for the weather, not the same in Jos.

TB, influenza etc will soon ravage Jos if I stays longer than 2 days, because of the 3rd World factors and the harmattan dust.

I gave a very old woman a lift going out of my way to drop her at her convenience. She said one prayer, she said "you won't marry the woman who will kill you".

That was early this month, December 2019, and I can't help but think deep about the prayer ever since.

jbnm:
imagine someone visiting as a tourist without knowing any of this dangerous airport

They will come to give "testimonies" in church, not knowing it's normal in those places.

Without thinking twice, the op's grammar and mindset (including comments from his ilks), clearly show how unemployable they are.

Efe42:
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They should be thanking their gods they didn't employ someone like you. All their documents would litter the internet and the press. Mumu

GIDIBANKZ:
Abegi.....why didn't dey Change 12/12/19 to 12/12/1968 .....Some people just want to Trend......Abeg make O.P go Die

Low IQ dey worry you.
Or maybe you're a juvenile who has never worked in an office environment