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PoliticsRe: Rotimi Daniel & Nefisa Wedding: Amosun Laughing With Gbenga Daniel, Dapo Abiodun by spiralwedge(m): 7:25pm On Mar 08, 2020
Maxymilliano:
To correct the bold assertion, OGD hasn't left Atiku. He was appointed DG of Atiku campaign, election has come and gone. He supported Dapo, as against Amosun's candidate and also played a part in GNI electoral concession to Dapo. OGD remain in PDP still.
It seems you don't know how Atiku ridiculed him as the campaign manager. He even left Atiku before the elections sef. He was a figure-head Campaign manager.
And no, he is no more in PDP. Just before the elections, he swayed towards Abiodun with all his PDP followers.

Be updated.
TravelRe: Abuja Vs Lagos: Which Is More Advisable For Relocation? by spiralwedge(m): 10:16pm On Mar 04, 2020
xristos:
Have you considered Jos town?
Very nice place...grew up in Lagos till 2010..then Abuja till now.
I prefer to settle my growing family in Jos.
What about income?
What about the killings we hear?
TravelRe: Abuja Vs Lagos: Which Is More Advisable For Relocation? by spiralwedge(m): 10:08pm On Mar 04, 2020
If money was a problem, where would be better?
HealthThey knew about this pandemic in 1981 by spiralwedge(op):
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Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by spiralwedge(m): 6:30pm On Feb 26, 2020
Bozzyironlady:
This one wey your children don piss put tire na im you wan sell for 50k.
O ti ready lati ta ja
Next
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by spiralwedge(m): 6:29pm On Feb 26, 2020
Children bunk bed. No mattress.

Solid and strong wood, polished.

Last price: 50k

Location: Mowe/RCCG Camp

WhatsApp or SmS before you call

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Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by spiralwedge(m): 5:59pm On Feb 26, 2020
Strong and solid polished bed frame together with thick Mouka Flora matress. 50k non negotiable

Location: Mowe/Redemption Camp

WhatsApp or SmS first before you call:

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Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by spiralwedge(m): 11:00am On Feb 26, 2020
jendor123:
Can the bed and frame go for 30k.

spiralwedge:
Location: Mowe/ Redemption Camp

1. Polished wooden bookshelf -20k
2. Polished wooden children bunk bed (6x3) with mattresses -50k
3. Polished wooden bed frame together with big thick foam/mattress - 50k

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Sorry, last price. The wood is solid heavy wood and the mattress is more or less a giveaway.

But I can give you only the bed frame for 35k
FamilyRe: Husband Betrays Wife And Made A Death Certificate Of His Wife by spiralwedge(m): 8:42pm On Feb 25, 2020
Akinsoladwayne, I read this story around 2007.
shocked shocked
FamilyRe: Help I'm Being Manipulated Physically And Spiritually By Redeem Christian Church by spiralwedge(m): 12:06am On Feb 24, 2020
I beg you in the name of God, seek help asap. Looks like a serious mental issue.

Don't stay alone

I repeat, don't stay alone
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by spiralwedge(m): 6:23pm On Feb 23, 2020
Location: Mowe/ Redemption Camp

1. Polished wooden bookshelf -20k
2. Polished wooden children bunk bed (6x3) with mattresses -50k
3. Polished wooden bed frame together with big thick foam/mattress - 50k

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FamilyRe: How Do You Handle Moms And Their Unending WhatsApp Broadcast? by spiralwedge(m): 5:50pm On Feb 23, 2020
You people are so lucky it's your parents sending those stuffs. For me, it's some archaic colleagues from work.
I can't deal.
RomanceRe: If You Had A Date Today&hope To Improvise,how Would You Spend #3,000? by spiralwedge(m): 1:12pm On Feb 23, 2020
Rent two bicycles, ride together. buy 2 chilled soft drinks and later on 2 bottled water.
Total= 1,000

Or go to a zoo park, and buy 2 soft drinks. Total =N1,500


Dating does not mean eating and drinking
FamilyRe: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by spiralwedge(m):
Girlwhocares:
Please help me, I'm loosing my sanity everyday!
I'm scared to open up to friends and families because of what they will think or how disappointed or bad I will make them feel, also I'm afraid people will be judgemental about my actions.

I'm not physically and emotional connected with my husband which is affecting our marriage and my well-being, we live as co-tenant, we hardly have any conversation, we do things differently, we share different rooms, no sex for the past 3 years! Even during courtship and the fist two years of marriage I can account for days we were intimate.

Things are fallen out of place everyday, we have a child together who will be 4yrs and the thought of having another child has not crossed my mind.

I get irritated at everything, I hardly show appreciation towards him even if it means he has done his best, which later i will find myself guilty and try to make up but the spark and connection isn't just there.

Most times, I have a non-challant attitude towards him and everything he does to make me happy.

I feel lonely, bored and incomplete even when I'm 90% sure my husband loves me and always ready to make me happy.

I feel awkward communicating my feelings and thoughts to him because I know I might flare up with anger even when he hasn't done or said anything to warrant it.

Please I have come to this faceless forum to pour out my mind, my heart is heavy, I need someone to talk to, I'm afraid my personal intention of walking out this marriage even when my husband hasn't done anything to deserve this might backfire and has its negative effect on our child.

I honestly don't need anyone to insult me please as I'm going through a lot. All i need is mature married wo(men) opinions

Thank you for your time.
It's good you're seeking help early. I didn't. I patched silently till the 10th year. At that time, we have both lost our minds and finally separated, something we should have done earlier. So, please walk out now before it's too late. Kids will always be alright, if you provide adequately for them including your time.
TravelRe: Adeyemi Oyetade Facilitating Deportation Of Nigerians From Norway by spiralwedge(m): 3:27pm On Feb 17, 2020
staga:
One side of the story.

Some of these people entered those countries illegally and now want help from the consulate. Of course the consulate must cooperate with the local authorities in such cases. If not, innocent travelers with genuine papers will be affected when sweeping laws are passed to prevent all immigration to those countries.
Will you sharrrap? You know nothing.
FamilyRe: Problem Living With Mother In Law by spiralwedge(m): 5:53pm On Feb 16, 2020
truthsayer009:
1.Fake Account
2.Fake Story
3.Fictional Writing
4.Bad english on purpose
5.Back to number one.

undecided
I find a lot of kids saying this lately. Please go to Children's section, you don't know life yet.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Has "Hookup Only" On Her Tinder Profile by spiralwedge(m): 11:02am On Feb 16, 2020
Stillthebest:
kiss

Create an account, upload a diff persons pic but a cute one, contact her, negotiate and get her number.

Meet her and then vamoose!
Best advice. Someone could have used her picture.
FamilyRe: Hazy by spiralwedge(m): 10:45am On Feb 16, 2020
The reason why you need full education is to help you to excel wherever you go and whatever you do. The lack of it caused you to be duped.

Education doesn't make sense until when you become a graduate. The curricula are so designed to make you an all-round.

If school fees are not the problems, better you go back to school asap. Business will come later. Don't get your priority wrong and don't be peer-pressured with materialistic values
FamilyRe: Laptop core i3. by spiralwedge(m): 10:11am On Feb 16, 2020
Take 25k for the lappy.

Serious buyer
TravelRe: Which City Is Safest To Relocate My Family In South West? by spiralwedge(m): 10:05pm On Feb 15, 2020
If you're coming from Kano, anywhere in the SW is just fine.
But note, women here don't just sit at home (like in Kano), but rather they work or trade and do things by themselves. Your husband is exposed to these breed of women and quietly appreciate them. So please do the same and be up and doing when you get here to really enjoy your marriage.
My 2 cents
TravelRe: I Need A Temporal Accommodation In Lagos by spiralwedge(m): 9:54pm On Feb 15, 2020
MrSurd:
Please am in serious search of a temporal accommodation in Lagos, where I can just stay for a month, if it takes me to pay for that month, I will pay for it. Pls help
Go on Jiji or Olist, search for short lets.
FamilyRe: My Daughter Hates My Girlfriend by spiralwedge(m): 9:51pm On Feb 15, 2020
Too many kids on this section.
WTF?
If you think it's fiction, then get the fxxx outta here to your romance section.what the fxxxxxing fxxxk are you miserable myopic lots doing here?
Christianity EtcRe: Flora Kwakpovwe's Birthday: Chris Kwakpovwe Celebrates Wife (Photos) by spiralwedge(m): 8:41pm On Feb 14, 2020
BigELofficial:
Oh no, the story is MORE than what you heard, WHAT you heard is completely false, every Evidence is on ground and presently in court. THAT LADY who was his staff, stole some Very Very expensive video Cameras, belonging to the church which are worth millions of NAIRA. she opened her OWN video shop with the stolen items and posted it on JiJi (Evidence is in court) She had a syndicate group WHOSE aim was to swindle and blackmail the MAN of GOD, insisting that if he doesn't produce eighteen million naira plus the title deeds of HIS house, they shall release a cloned voice which they created, just to blackmail the ODM
PUBLISHER. But they were arrested and caught Red- handed on the day they were to collect the Ransom (Evidence of thier voice recordings demanding for the house and money are in court). So they have been in court. There is too much poverty which drives people to all kinds of crime. What a country!
Oga PR, if the case is still in court, why are you so worked up defending him upandan here. Go to the court to defend him, when he is vindicated we will hear the news.

But all this one you are doing upandan is just damage control. We are no fools. A simple search on Google or Nairaland here bring results of diverse separate scandals over the years.

Cc: Olumide33, ogaBuhari, iamhonourable1 you too
FamilyRe: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by spiralwedge(m): 3:40pm On Feb 14, 2020
Overlordship:
Hello all, I got married to my wife 9 months ago and it has been a wonderful experience all through until her friend showed up two months ago. That was actually the first time I was meeting her as she wasn’t around for our wedding as she was doing her masters programme in South Africa. I knew she and my wife were closed as she was always talking about her best friend while we were courting.

She showed up at our house and I thought she came to visit and catch up with old times with my wife so I gladly welcome her. Later in the night, my wife told me she will be staying with us for sometimes while she gets a job. I was upset because we never discussed it before and I made my feeling known. Nevertheless, I had to give in since she said the friend also accommodated her in her room back at school for a session. So, I accepted her living with us and I felt it was only for a short time. We gave her the visitor’s room.

The first trouble started when I noticed her night gown barely covered her bum and sometimes were transparent with her boobs showing whenever she comes to the sitting room. I expressed my reservations about it to my wife and she dismissed it playfully that it was nothing and that what were my eyes wandering there for, so I let it go. Sometimes, she will enter her bedroom without knocking saying she wants to gist with her friend. And I will just stay on my side of the bed playing with my phone while the both talked. I noticed my wife doesn’t care, but I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it with the hope her friend will soon leave the house.

I must admit that the friend was a bit useful in the house. My wife closes late than I, and her friend stays home when she’s not job hunting, so sometimes she would have cooked before we arrived. Though, I complained about this also, but wifey believe it was trivial. Her friend was intelligent and as times goes on, we talked on a wide range of topic while waiting for wife to come back from home so I stopped complaining about her to my wife.

It became so normal about her dressing that I accepted it like that. There was a day she came to our room to gist with my wife and playfully, my wife hit me with a pillow and before you know it, the three of us were throwing pillows about and playing like kids. They were both jumping on me and incidentally, I had a hard on as we were playin. I noticed her friend was slightly brushing her hand on me. I had to quickly stop and stylishly use the pillow to cover myself until I came down. I was really uncomfortable with the whole situation, but I didn’t complain to my wife again since I know what she will say. What I just keep asking my wife is when her friend was leaving.

The incident that happened two weeks really changed things. My wife took one week leave and decided to visit her parents outside the state we reside. I wasn’t okay with it leaving her friend alone with me, but she said I will just do fine. I tried to come home late for the first three days so I can completely avoid her, until the fourth day when she came into my room. I didn’t want to be rude by asking her to leave, so I asked her to sit down on the sofa in the bedroom. We first spoke about football, politics and other things. I can’t really say what happened, but in a lapse of judgement, we started kissing and then I had sex with her. I felt regret immediately and started apologizing to her for taking advantage of her. What she said really dazzled me. She said I shouldn’t be sorry as my wife never keep talking of our big I am and how sex was so great. And how she wishes her friend can experience what she was talking about.

My regrets turned to anger immediately and I asked her if she and my wife planned this whole episode just to confirm what my wife was boasting about. She denied being in cohort with my wife, but said something that devastated me. She said my wife wouldn’t mind as they sometimes share things together as they are besties for life right from their school days. I had to quickly exit the room to the balcony. We barely talked again until wife came back, though she tried to initiate some conversation, which I rebuffed. My wife further heightened my apprehension when wife asked if her friend really took care of me and that I couldn’t have missed her much since her friend was around. The dilemma now is that I can’t confront my wife about the incident as I will be admitting I slept with her friend. Her friend is also acting normal and I am afraid if she will inform her “bestie for life”. I have been thinking, what if they had been “Sex partners” before and I married a bisexual cos of the way they do play together. I had just been asking her when her friend was leaving and I don’t want to be forceful because of what happened between us.

Note, my wife has been a good wife. All my family member love her like she’s part of them and she is so comfortable with them. We never had any issues except this. I need advice on how to go on so I don’t destroy my marriage.
The marriage is okay if you see things the way they both do. If all of you are okay with it, no qualms. Outside, keep it discreet, at home -you should all help one another. Cheating is when you do things secretly. When you're all playing together, put her friend on your laps and caress her in your wife's presence... And wait for what happens next.

What a lucky man you are.
RomanceRe: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by spiralwedge(m): 10:04pm On Feb 13, 2020
iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.
But her a gift instead. Safer and matured
Christianity EtcRe: Flora Kwakpovwe's Birthday: Chris Kwakpovwe Celebrates Wife (Photos) by spiralwedge(m): 9:51pm On Feb 13, 2020
You forgot to mention that this is his second wife.
He hasn't fully divorced his first wife he sent packing few years ago. I read that on NL here

Another one: https://www.nairaland.com/3755736/sex-scandal-chris-kwakpovwe-arrests

Just type his name on SEARCH and you will find various scandals over the years.
RomanceRe: Don't Fall In Love With These Kind Of Girls If You Value Your Sanity. by spiralwedge(m): 3:32pm On Feb 11, 2020
All of those ain't nothing.

NEVER date a girl with low IQ.
FamilyRe: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by spiralwedge(m): 1:17pm On Feb 11, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
How Do I Make My 4years Old Son Understand Or S He Still Too Young

Happy Sunday my fellow Nairalanders. Sure we all are cool?

Sorry to bother you all but I have been worried since what transpired between myself and my son who will be 4yrs by June this year.

I was not able to go to church today due to the fact that I just came back from travel very late yesterday night.

So I was asleep when my wife and my two sons left for service. I woke up around some minutes after 12 noon and decided to wash some of the undies I wore during my journey.

As I was doing that, my wife and kids came back and my son rushed straight to my room shouting daddy daddy, when I answered from the bathroom and he came in and saw me washing, the question he asked me has been making me uncomfortable.

He said "Daddy, why are you washing? Are you a girl? Before he could finish that my wife walked in and said to him, Don't worry, very soon you will start washing your clothes by yourself but what got me more worried was his reply. He told my wife that he won't wash his cloths that it's girls that are supposed to be washing.

Honestly, I'm worried, will he out grow this mentality?

I need a wide coverage, please.
It's simple. Do more "girls" work in the house and do it regularly. When he's older, make him wash socks, underwear with HANDS, and he should wash plates and sweep on Saturdays as a matter of routine. And y'all be fine.
CrimeRe: Policemen Seize A Power Bike In Lagos (Photo) by spiralwedge(m): 10:26pm On Feb 07, 2020
LosC:
Some policemen on Thursday were reportedly disgraced after they tried to seize a power bike belonging to a Lagosian while on his way to work.

According to the facebook user who also happened to be the man in question; Nmutaka Chikwendu stated that he was accosted by the officers of the Nigerian Police after they sighted him on his power bike while on motion , and before they could take any action, passers-by had already surrounded the officers, asking if the bike was a commercial motorcycle popularly referred to as 'Okada.'

The Policemen however, turned a deaf ear to the lamentations of the passersby and blatantly refused to release the power bike to the owner but things turned around when one of the passersby put a call through to the Police Command and it was finally released.

The Facebook user Nmutaka Chikwendu had to narrate his ordeal:



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10159449903443345&id=579118344
This story sweet my belle
PoliticsRe: Okada, Keke Ban: Occupy Lagos Releases Rules For Tomorrow's Protest by spiralwedge(m): 10:14pm On Feb 07, 2020

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