Christianity Etc › Re: As A Christian You Need These Books From Wise Men And Women Of God by spiralwedge(m): 2:09pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Here any for N150, few N200
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Christianity Etc › Re: As A Christian You Need These Books From Wise Men And Women Of God by spiralwedge(m): 2:07pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
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Car Talk › Re: Honda Cars And Their Hand Yanking Off by spiralwedge(m): 10:28am On Dec 21, 2018 |
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Car Talk › Re: Maintenance Tips For Honda Cars by spiralwedge(m): 10:20am On Dec 21, 2018 |
I'm at the mechanic now. He's changing the ball joints of the Nigerian used Baby Boy I bought in July. But what surprises me is that each leg has 2 ball joints... One up, one on the wheel. Making 4 ball joints  Na wa o. |
Business › Re: Please Help ,what Business Can I Do With N100,000 In Lagos by spiralwedge(m): 10:12am On Dec 21, 2018 |
I'm here to learn from the comments. I have same amount lying fallow somewhere.
But op, if you don't find any invest the money in Treasury Bill for 6months. You'll at least get about 4-6k ontop. |
Travel › Re: Where Is Best Place To Resettle Aside From Lagos And Ogun? by spiralwedge(op): 10:06am On Dec 21, 2018*. Modified: 2:23pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
I'm learning a lot. Please let's not use sentiments, so that we can at least have a true firsthand picture of things.
The thing is business/commercial activities are not enough, serenity and easy living must go hand in hand with it. Water, security, good road, friendly people, laid-back approach to life etc.
Has anyone lived in Jos, Lafia or Minna? |
Romance › Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by spiralwedge(m): 4:51am On Dec 21, 2018 |
Dogalmighty17: I have dated this girl for three years. We fixed a date for the wedding for late this year. However, events seemingly out of my control necessitated that I shift the wedding to February next year. Initially, she was against the shift but I pleaded with her.
Sometime in August this year, we had a disagreement because I noticed she was being disrespectful towards me. She is hardworking, cooks well and is very business oriented. But her sense of independence makes her struggle with submission to her man. I told her how uncomfortable I was with it and she's promised to make amends. She has but from time to time, her old self comes out.
I was at a loss on what to do that I had to voice out the issue to her family. When they asked her, she told them that since I requested for a shift in wedding date, she became uncomfortable with the relationship. Her family then told her to call off the relationship. I got to know about this decision and I called her and she said she was going to obey the wishes of her family. Her mom also told me that since I keep complaining about her daughters lack of respect, I should leave her daughter alone. It took serious pleading from me before the family accepted the continuing of the relationship. They asked me that since the date I initially agreed for the wedding wasn't going to be convenient for me, when then do I think will be convenient? Since I didn't want to loose my woman, I mentioned February. The desperation on my path was much.
My mom on the other hand wants a wedding in April. She has said February is not convenient for her. All my pleas have fell on deaf ears. She has threatened not to bless the union and has even gone as far as threatening to curse me with her breasts if I wed in February.
My girl has refused to even entertain the thought of shifting the date again. She maintains that it is better that we outrightly call off the wedding, than shift it again. I understand her fears. She feels that I may just be wasting her time. I am not
This is my dilemma. Should I go with my woman who has spent three years of her life with me or do I go with my mom?
I must also mention that my mom was informed of the initial date of the wedding over a year ago. But she foot dragged in her support for months until much later in the year that I now had to take issues into my own hands. You made a mistake by begging her family. Everything is wrong and you are about to start a house with a very very faulty foundation. The girl will struggle with you after wedding and you may not have peace of mind for many many years especially if you quickly have children. The family interfering at the choice of date of wedding and even calling off the relationship is a very very bad signal. You won't enjoy your in laws and indirectly your wife too, because they will control your home through her. The worst of all of this is that your mother is not 100% behind you. Her attitude shows she is not really in support of that lady but she can't tell you. Everything that will make you regret and loose your peace, or even cause premature death has given you signs. If I were you I would call off the relationship. It would be hard, but it is what it is. Forget about the 3 years and don't feel guilty for not entering a chained future. You will be alright. Tell your mum you have called off the relationship, and you will be surprised how happy she will be. She may even tell you some observations and prayer points she had raised. Please don't marry that girl. |
Politics › Re: How Alex Badeh Was Killed – Police by spiralwedge(m): 8:42am On Dec 20, 2018 |
haladadon: nobody knows the name of the driver.
no one is talking about the driver.
oh God no make me come this world to escort person. So all the drivers reading this should hang themselves? BTW, why aren't you asking for the abducted friend's name? I'm sure you didn't even read it, but you said carry that your 12inch wide mouth dey yarn katakana. I know you didn't read it, but the driver didn't die.. Only injured. |
Christianity Etc › Re: As A Christian You Need These Books From Wise Men And Women Of God by spiralwedge(m): 9:27pm On Dec 19, 2018*. Modified: 2:04pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Hi Mizwisdom, I'm disposing some of my books from my private library at ridiculous prices. They are used and some have names or stamps on them. They are mostly Christian books. Sold some already. Starting from N50, N100 and highest N500 |
Travel › Re: Where Is Best Place To Resettle Aside From Lagos And Ogun? by spiralwedge(op): 9:21pm On Dec 19, 2018 |
Resener13: You may tell me why you don’t like Ibadan. Guess you’ve been there once. Akure is not a cbd, Enugu is a civil servant state, uyo is not cbd. Just take your time by staying in Lagos more before you move to somewhere you won’t like Thanks for your advice. I will not rush. I am in the research phase and will carry out due diligence. I'd stayed briefly in Ibadan when I was younger. Well, since you asked I'd give you my honest observations, nothing personal. It was dirty, a bit rough, political thuggery was rampant, slight traffic, water shortage during dry season, rampant electricity outage, troublesome neighbours and some funny body odour, especially in the cabs. Lol. The city is very large yet there are no major industries or work except transportation, and trading. Though less aggressive than Lagos, the atmosphere was like Lagos. I don't want a place like Lagos. Only Bodija and Bashorun areas were my favourites. But it's possible things have changed now as I've not been for years. |
Travel › Re: Where Is Best Place To Resettle Aside From Lagos And Ogun? by spiralwedge(op): 8:29pm On Dec 19, 2018*. Modified: 8:58pm On Dec 19, 2018 |
Godchangemylife: Owning farm does real good At Ilesha the thing Ilesha know how to do best is sell goods. Not much companies. You gat be OYO to generate your income. Thanks. You have really motivated me. Will open my ears and shine my eyes very well when I am there. Resener13, sherylbakky, I don't like Ibadan. Unless maybe I try suburbs. Drmikeadams, heard Uyo is VERY expensive. Can only go that far if I'm assured of an income generating business or engagement. Aleora, Fonzie2u, been to Akure twice on official visits and didn't get to move out on my own. I loved it. I still remember we stayed in an hotel in Alagbaka and the second time in Òke-Jebu. 2 lovely serene places. But I really don't know much about the city. I remember we passed a busy place/market and we were told it's called Ọjà Ọba. What are the entrepreneural prospects and accommodation rates? Room/self contained for a start or a mini flat? Aleora, can I whatsapp on your biz line? Izuogu1, I will have to visit Enugu first. The closest I've been was Asaba, though I love Asaba but it's too dry commercially. Looks like a civil servants city. Haryoureendey4, thanks but from what I read and heard on the media and people, Kano can be very volatile. I was told it always appear peaceful but when violence sparks it is usually unannounced. Kano and any where else in the core North are No No please. |
Politics › Re: Why I Refused To Be Ambode’s Running Mate In 2015 –hamzat by spiralwedge(m): 4:21am On Dec 19, 2018 |
Hamzat is an id!ot who settled for less knowing that this is his last chance. It is this kind of people who won't be loyal to their boss because all he will be doing in the next 4 years is how to impeach Sanwo-Olu or simply be problematic to him. |
Travel › Re: Where Is Best Place To Resettle Aside From Lagos And Ogun? by spiralwedge(op): 9:26pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
Beautyaddy: Try Abuja. What are the cheapest room s/contained rates? And job and business prospects? |
Travel › Re: Where Is Best Place To Resettle Aside From Lagos And Ogun? by spiralwedge(op): 9:24pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
Godchangemylife: Ilesha, Osun State where God resides Coincidentally I'm visiting Ilesha for an event by month end. It will be my 2nd time there when I visit. What are income generating prospects there? |
Travel › Re: Any Nairalander In Abidjan? by spiralwedge(m): 9:12pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
[quote author=chimaxan post=73967566][/quote]Thanks. That's a organized country. |
Travel › Re: Any Nairalander In Abidjan? by spiralwedge(m): 6:34pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
harzontorh, pls I'm sending you a pm.
I'm considering to move May next year. I want to go first and later bring my young family to join me. Can I take my car there or do you advise I sell it and buy another there? |
Travel › Re: Is Ghana As A Country Good For A Nigeria To Hustle by spiralwedge(m): 5:19pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
willsonzzy: This is my 2years in Ghana and I can boldly tell you that Ghana is very good for hustle,the Ghanaian currency is a nightmare to them,here in Ghana the average security job is 600cedi a month which is 40k naira,if you can buy shoes from Lagos and sell them you won't regret it,i started as a security here saved up some money and ventured into business,i now move from cotonou to Ghana every weekend for my business Can you enlighten on accommodation rates? Also where so you sell the shoes? Shops? Markets? What's the minimum capital required? Finally, apart from shoes what else do you think is in demand? |
Travel › Re: Where Is Best Place To Resettle Aside From Lagos And Ogun? by spiralwedge(op): 4:25pm On Dec 18, 2018*. Modified: 9:31pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
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Travel › Where Is Best Place To Resettle Aside From Lagos And Ogun? by spiralwedge(op): 4:21pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
I'm tired of Lagos. Can anyone suggest a city or town in Nigeria one can move to to start all over again? Or even neighbouring countries?
Has anyone done that? Has anyone moved away from the hustling and buzzling of Lagos and maybe Ogun, to another part of the country where he/she doesn't know anyone to stay with, rent an accommodation, and find something doing to bring in income?
I want a laid-back, cheap, secured and peaceful place.
Please share. Will love to learn from you. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Flirt Zone. by spiralwedge(m): 8:05pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
If the lady is intelligent with high IQ, a professional, between 35-50. Marital status irrelevant. Pm me and let's start keeping ourselves company online first. |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Wants To Break Up With Me Because Of This Issue. Help Advise by spiralwedge(m): 7:43pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
Have a humongous vision together, achievable or not. When you are married, and you check reality, you can now beat down or cut cost. But dare to dream big |
Romance › Re: See, Guys Hardly Forgive Cheating. by spiralwedge(m): 3:30pm On Dec 15, 2018 |
What is the meaning of cheating?
Smh.
Date someone you can tell to their face that you like that other azz and you wanna fvck it or the other d!ck you'll like to have and get their consent.
Period! |
Family › Re: Everyone Blames Me by spiralwedge(m): 11:43pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
Nonye1234, pls how old are you? |
Romance › Re: Am I Being Stupid Here?? by spiralwedge(m): 11:37pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
Manyalove: Hello all. I'll try to be very brief here. So, I have this very cute guy, who's every woman's dream of a man- a typical TDH (tall, dark and handsome). He's the cutest of every guy i've ever dated. He also very good in bed. Exceptionally good. He's very much in love with me. However, he has a baby and a mama; the product of a fling he had. Thing is, his desire to be part of his son's life made him take in the mama (kid's three years old BTW), to stay in one of the rooms in his house. I've also got kids from a previous union which didn't work out fine and i'm doing my very best to move on and get settled again. He told me about his mama from the onset, but i hid my history from him. He later found out on his own and had no issues with it. I'm very beautiful and attractive and one would hardly know i've had kids before if i don't tell u. My concern with this guy is that he's not very stable. He does several hustles here and there, but is always struggling with cash. I do work and help him out sometimes but, i'm often restricted by the fact that i have kids of my own who though stay with my parents, are my sole responsibility. Again, the fact that he has a woman like me in the background, whom i know he'll be giving money to for upkeep turns me off from helping always as well. Besides, its not like i earn so much too, its just that its more steady than whatever he does. He hardly gives me anything, but i hardly complain. Couple of months back i missed my period and informed him. He was happy and wished for a daughter. However, i was against the idea of having another child, at least not out of wedlock. I tried to make him see reasons with me and somehow, he obliged. A month after again, same thing happened. As usual he begged that this one should stay, again i refused. I insisted he must provide the funds for it to be taken care of since he keeps refusing to protect himself. But as usual, he was broke. I took care of everything on my own and kept my distance from him. In fact, i wanted to put an end to everything between us. It was within this period i met someone else, who actually tickles my fancy. He's not as handsome as my other guy, but he's not totally bad either. (I'm sure by now u wld hv figured i have a thing for appearances). Anyway, this new guy has a steady job, and he's really fun to be with. He's very much single and knows about my status yet he's cool with it. Couple of weeks back, my other guy came pleading with me for us to get back together (as i have all this while been giving him the silence treatment). Somehow, he got to know that I've been seeing someone else and he's very mad at me. As things stand now, we're on the verge of a break-up. I should be happy since its what i had initially wanted, but I've been miserable; can't sleep well at nite, can't eat well too. Don't know why i'm feeling this way. There's this deep sadness that has since enveloped me and i cant seem to shake it off. Worse still, he's not taking my calls. I'm really confused and feel very alone right now. Should i just let him be and move on with this new guy or do i still try harder to win him back seeing how i'm feeling without him? Guess i made it long after all. Soo sorry folks, had to pour almost all out. Won't mind reasonable advice, comments and suggestions pls. Try to take it easy with the bashings too pls, as i'm qiute unstable emotionally now. Thanks. Try to get a you and me time with him in a public place to discuss. Pour out your mind and ensure you part in peaceful terms but show him you are really sad to part ways but that's the best thing to do. After that, allow for a week and block and cut him off totally. Never return to your vomit. |
Travel › Re: Gburugburu: My Trip To Enugu By Deji Yesufu by spiralwedge(m): 11:27pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
isan: 90 percent of westerners have never been to the east before Why will they visit if they aren't welcome there? |
Politics › Re: N143 Billion Budgeted For 2019 Election Can Lift 14M Nigerians Out Of Poverty by spiralwedge(m): 11:12pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
The best thing is for all parties to retreat and make PMB the only candidate; then share this money to all citizens between 25-45 y.o. with International passport, BVN, NIN and drivers license. |
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Politics › Re: Nobody Will Beg Igbos To Take Presidency In 2023 – Tony Momoh by spiralwedge(m): 9:38am On Dec 10, 2018 |
Absolutely, you are to earn it, it is not by wailing This is the summary of the long post... TonyMomoh: One thing is certain; in 2023 the presidency will move from the North to the South. So, it can go to the South-West, South-South or South- East but you earn it by providing the votes. If you don’t vote, who is coming to beg you? Nobody is coming to beg you to take freedom...., .... It is the zone in the South that produce the bulk of the votes in 2019 who should be considered on the basis of what it has contributed. Nobody is being begged, nobody should be begged and nobody is going to be begged to take the presidency in 2023. You are to earn it |
Family › Re: Marriage Gone Wrong by spiralwedge(m): 2:13am On Dec 10, 2018 |
Staceyjohnsn, do you still remember the registry? Is it Ikoyi? You can get a true certified copy.Pm me.
It is also possible to move on and settle down with somebody else, only that you wont legalise it. You don't have to explain or defend yourself from these people asking absurd private questions. If you are the other party in the marriage, you have the right to the certificate. |
Phones › Re: Carlcare Is Here With You by spiralwedge(m): 9:58pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Millichamp: Tecno Phantom 5 for sale for N45,000 with all accessories.
Call or Whatsapp me on 08182961284 Location: Ikorodu, Lagos.
3GB RAM 32GB Storage Capacity 3000 battery 4G Lte 30k? |
Phones › Re: Carlcare Is Here With You by spiralwedge(m): 9:54pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Carlcaresophia, carlcareopebi, carlcareikeja,
please i urgently need a Tecno W3 BL-25FT battery.
The original follow-come battery got swollen. I then bought a new one at computer village. The new battery only lasts for 20mins when fully charged.
Please help |
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