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My mother had so many phrases which i resented then but now i find myself using them on my daughter who is only a toddler.
" Dont eat what you don't grow in your backyard", "Its not what you wear but how you wear it", "the best thing you can do for yourself is give yourself a bath", "dont expect any special thank yous for motherhood" , etc etc


she was right. she was sooooooo right.

it is.

The only thing certain is death and taxes (In the U.S anyway).
dont know how business owners in nigeria remit taxes. is there even a way to keep track for business owners?

Thank you.
I have a daughter. I have been blessed.

OsunAmazon:
I didn't think that. You said a few yr marriage turned you to a 100 year old mummy and I guessed that those in happy marriages shouldn't be aging fast abi. I derived it from your last statement. Anyway sha, sorry.

Marriage is hard work. Many do not know that. They only fantasize about the ring. Its harder work than people realize. When i said i feel a hundred years old sometimes i was trying to emphasize on how much energy it takes from one. That does not in anyway translate into a bad marriage. Dont get it twisted.

You are probably in a bad marriage.

@osunAmazon
Is this how quick you usually are to jump to your conclusions? I am not in a bad marriage. Thank you. How you can think that without knowing me is what beats me hollow!

I try not to get into mouth fights on nairaland. thats just not my reason for being here.

I dont even go to that section of nairaland.

you guys keep saying debo is an ashi, what gist didnt i hear?  

4play cannot be moulded.

I've been a good girl. I dont get banned. I dont say bad things.  

The show is real funny but i dont get it when black sitcoms insert a bi-racial child in the mix. It is strange. it makes you wonder did the mother have an affair with a white man?

My sister you know how it is.
Kids on your agenda? Hurry before your mother inlaw visits you.

sheniqua na wa for you. i dey follow you talk yesterday all the while i no know say na you. You don run out of ideas abi ? 

no

@4him
It is interesting tying your soul with another's soul.You should try it.
ive found myself doing strange things in the name of love.   What is unfortunate is how society tries to define women's success by the yardstick of "married or not"?


why you comot the picture?  

@debosky you don come.  i've been cultivating that farmland for 2 years and it is getting more fertile with each cropping season.

4 Him:
oh ok. normal stress of married life.
No big deal.

Thats why i tell everyone whining for marriage to rock on now.

at 8 i was still playing with sand.

why?
because i am exhausted all the time. Its a lot to deal with. I got pregnant 6 months after i got married. My life completely changed with the addition. I sometimes miss my single years. I was free and carefree. Now my daughter is always crying wah! wah!

To single women i say enjoy your life. nothing prepares you for the complications marriage brings. I'm telling you. Ive been married 2 years and i feel a hundred years old already.

nwando if you show yourself, i'll show myself.  

seems tonight is the night for unveiling. nwando show yourself!!

stay tuned people. spoilt will unveil some day.  

we've seen debo abi?

@4him
I expected you to be light skinned for some reason.  


i thought i sensed the spirit of nwando, i wasnt sure. chei. you fooled me this time.

nairaland guys are not cute. [s]i'm looking for upside down crucifixtion.[/s]  

david you know, you dont look anything like you sound?

You kno

motun_rayo:
@spoilt
Your welcome, I like that not like all the other naija female blogs that just seem so fake

My dear, i tell it as it is. im as real as your average girl comes. Thank you.

motun_rayo:
@spoilt
I was just reading through your blog and just wanted to let you know that it's soooo good. . . .

Thanks.
Dont mind me. I have too many thoughts in my head. Try to let it out. I'm a real girl's girl.  

david even the married look for eye relief.  

@4him
ive had it a while actually. someone sent it to me. i wasnt sure if the person sent it as a prank or iff it was really you.

You think you are a monopoly?