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you obviously havent lived in the north omo ibo. i did for a while and i wore head warmers, gloves and coats.

thats a creepy picture of both runners.
[s]is that nwandolina of the nwando fame? get banned again? [/s]

It drives me crazy. My guy friends would play till their thumbs are blistered. I guess at heart all men are 13.

Vicjustice:
I'm not surprised that some people could team up to destroy my image with reviling accusations, i know that these people would have loved me if i were a visa applicant complaining to them that i was refused a visa, that is when they would love me: and give their "advice", but because i revealed that i am Irish citizen, i'm a physician, i'm married to an American they now hate me and are ready to do anything to tarnish me.

Didnt know these were criteria to elevate a mere mortal to another level.

do they have any reason to feel superior?

who set that number? you?

Can you wait for him? No use starting what you cant finish. You know he's still a student. when you start presurring him for marriage he'll lay out his 10 year plan for you.

So if his career does not take off, then no marriage for u.

@uche2nna
are you saying his career may never take off? !

why not wait and get the letter? It'll tell you everything you need to know.

Guys always complain about how women love money. when they find a woman who wants to marry them with the little they have, they rant that they are feeling pressured. make up your minds dudes! My ex had a seven year plan. I did not let him know i wouldnt be there when the seventh year rolled around. i just gradually plotted my escape and married someone else who couldnt wait to put the ring on this finger.

The only reason that a lot of women hesitate to wait so long is that the love of a man comes with no guarantees. When he is a made man will he love you the same? will he find you suitable to grace the front seat of the solid car he has bought? will he think you are a hag? Would he defend you aginst his family when they say you are old?
Anyway Those are questions you have to answer yourself. age is nothing more than a number. I look better now than i did when i was 20. It is the truth. when one man tells you that you are too old and leaves you, another will find you beautiful and cherish you. Dont push the marriage issue. I tell my friends to never talk about it. Let him bring it up first.

hypocrisy!I hear in some cultures they give you a nubile young girl to 'comfort' you while in mourning.

Another virginity thread!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Did they use hymens to swear for you people?  
A man who has been round the block and back has the gall to look forward to and expect virginity ?
I'm really tired of this whole virginity thing. It has been over thrashed. I hereby close this meaningless thread. I have been tortured enough abeg.  


Thread closed.

and pray what's wrong with the one you just posted? she's beautiful and real looking.

I always tell my friends who can afford it to have a baby overseas at least once. Just so they can see how a woman should be treated when she's in labor. In  nigeria you are virtually treated like cattle. Women are beaten, yelled at and verbally abused while giving birth. Their horror stories have me aghast and reeling in disbelief.
Many go overseas because of the citizenship status these babies will have. I on the other hand encourage many to go just to be treated like human beings. If there is indeed a clamp down then its not worth trying to risk deportation. There are many other countries where you can go. My heart just bleeds for the ones that have to face those mean insensitive nigerian nurses. God will have mercy.

when they put up picture perfect stick thin women we complain. when they put up normal looking women with meat on their bones we complain.

When you go to see him, dont eat his food. Tell him it wont be as nice as you like it to be.

LadyT:
We can all scream no. But I'm sure if it really happened it would be a different story. So I say yes I can forgive, depends I can't be sure,

I know myself. Merciless me. one strike and you're out. I dont have time for trifling cheats!

big father:
But with caution ! I hope her in laws are aware of this new friendship o ?

Since when did a person require inlaws consent or approval ? Left to them she should probably die celibate.

I CAN IMAGINE. MUST HAVE BEEN A HUGE JOKE!

I guess her mourning is over so she's free to date whomever she pleases. At least he's good arm candy.

Is this thread still here? I miss suya badly. Nowhere around here to get some.

Right now that student boyfriend seems like your everything. He's actually doing you a favor. Let a few years roll by and you'll probably thank the heavens that you left your options open. I kid you not.

nossycheek:
I wanted my husband to be present during the birth of my 3rd baby but the nurse refused. But with God by my side, I scaled through and will continue to scale through in Jesus name, Amen

i find it strange that men are still refused entry to delivery rooms in nigeria. where else is he supposed to be while wifey travails abeg?