₦airaland Forum

Chi59:
I haven't been fortunate with guys.
My first attempt at a relationship failed woefully.
And so did the second, third and fourth.
It isnt entirely without a reason though.
I'm SS. I have been a Sickle cell advocate for many years. I don't shy away from talking about it on any level.

Apart from that fact, I'm beautiful, smart, funny, very lovely, outgoing (even as an ambivert). I poses a healthy level of empathy, self esteem and confidence.

Physically I'm tall, slim, moderately endowed. I have been told that I look healthier than
some "healthy" people.
So I don't know, what am I lacking?
All the guys I've been in love with, for one flimsy reason or the other just disappear for no reason. Just like that.

Of course, I don't hide my genotype status, but then they seem cool with it.

Months later, he disappears and leaves me heartbroken.

Now I find myself liking someone again (the fifth guy). We haven't gotten that close but I'm scared. Should I lie to him? What do I tell him?

I am not too sure but I think I came across an article on bone marrow transplant as a solution to sickle cell.

Why not research on that and explore that option as a solution to that condition.
Whoever genuinely loves you and dates you can even be of great help as you seek medical help along this path.

Honestly it takes great courage for a guy to go along with a lady with this condition.

Wish you best of luck dearie.

Biko make Hope UZODINMA win ooh make I enter Imo Govt house, my head too no forbid better thing Jare.

Nairaland pray for us.

Satan66:
Failed woman with a failed career.
Those children look cursed from birth

This smirks of so much hatred.
What has she done to you.

You will be lucky to achieve 1/100th of her feat.
That lady is a living legend even at that age.

Let love lead.

Omg what a great loss.
RIP to the dead.

Anyhow, me I just want Amosu disappointed.
I used to like the man but he needs to be shown that your party comes first.

Double faced politician.
One leg in APC one leg in APM.

Na wa ooh .

Eleyi gidi gaaaan

NewDelhi:
went missing at age 3 , still remember things vividly at age 8.. Where did she get that kind of memory from. .This is called childhood amnesia its very rare to remember events of aged 4-5 not to talk of 3 and below.

Oga obviously you didn't read the write up or you didn't comprehend it.
She did not get missing at age 3 sir.
Rather her mother died when she was aged 3 in 2011. 3 yrs later in 2014 she got missing ,that puts her age at 6 yrs old.

A smart 6 yr old girl like she is, can vividly remember things, yes it's not common but not all kids are dummies.
This is one of the smart breeds.

baliyubla:
Lagos O TE GO! Haba!

How can one drug baron and his touts continue to hold a supposed enlightened state like Lagos ransom for 20 years.

Thiefnibu- Godfather
Wife- serial senator
Daughter- Iya Loja
Son- Governor in waiting.
Houseboys- Ambode/Sanwo-Olu.

Lagos Enough is Enough. O TE GO!

Oga it is "OTO GÉ"

kobosmart:
lol, kill ursef ugly man

Without any apologies you are a perfect definition of those called "fish brain".

That I am alive.
The devil attacked my health in match. I was hospitalized 2 times , took a total of 4 pints , transited 2 times but God said NO, he brought me back to live and here I am , alive , hale and hearty.

God is awesome .
If you ever doubted the existence of God, come and meet me I am an expression of his faithfulness.

Las las dem catch una. So what's d purpose of the charms.

Nonsense.

Amakababe:
I'M PRESENTLY AN ADMISSION SEEKER AND I WAS ADVISED TO WITHDRAW LAST YEAR AFTER JUST A YEAR ON CAMPUS.

I read but still failed. So I regret READING! In retrospect, reading now feels like profligacy to me. I read too much and it was rather counterproductive.

Au contraire, I regret not having lots of sexx

I wish I had fùcked more handsome boys en masse and perhaps girls too, to fully explore my sex life.

Laughs at the Sexx goals. You must be s good bad girl. Lol

wolexter:
Supplementary election is not same as rerun, it's important you get it right.Those places did not have votes recorded for them at all. And before you wonder why winner has been declared already check the the total number of cancelled votes in Lagos, Anambra and Rivers then compare with the gap.
This idea is Inec's way of preventing voter apathy in those areas.

Noted.
Nice way to communicate information .
You do well.

Winner declared.
Certificates of return given.
Now rerun will be conducted .... Biko of what importance is that?
Does that change anything ?

Why declare a winner and issue certificates of return when you knew you would still conduct a rerun election.

Is that a case of medicine after death or stupidity or you guys are just playing on Nigerian's intelligence?

But really I sense this guys wants to quickly block every chance of pdp winning the appeal due to technicalities.

Well what do I know self.

BanevsJoker:
Savage. Salvage means to save, recover, resolve etc.

Yea thanks.
Na slip of finger.

Nigerians can be "savage and epic " in their response sha:
These got me:
ceo domino republic
Balogun dodo ndawa
Dominati

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Madam Theressa May Biko face front. Goan win your Brexit war first.
Then we can have a conversation on having a smooth relationship.

Iwotago?

Vincent88:
Yes the story is true im not lying ... thanks the only family i have is my 2 brothers ,the other family members we dont have a very good relationships but i will try to talk to my middle bro who is in dubai to see if he can offer any help to talk to our senior brother . All i want is for this secrets to come out so i can beg for my brother forgiveness and be free

I feel you brother.
Just be strong while you look for solutions .

Am looking at this your position from a different perspective.

Do you want this secret to be let out because you genuinely repented ?
Do you want this secret let out so that you can be free?
If your wife has her own children would you have still wanted the secret to be let out?
Are you sure you ain't planning to do this so you can be rest assured your daughter is yours and it's known to all?

Do a soul search and answer those questions most sincerely.


All in all, it's really a good decision to let out the secret and be free for life.

This is not a prophecy but I foresee blood bathe in the governorship election such that the number of death recorded during the presidential election will only be a child's play.

Election in Nigeria is fast becoming nothing to write home about:

Politics of bitterness
Politics of hatred
Politics of campaign of calumny
Politics of murder
Politics of destruction of lives and properties
Politics of grab it at all cost.

It's honestly a worrisome trend that needs to be nipped in the bud.

This is really not the way to go
It is simply barbaric and animalisic.

I am afraid for my nation .

No point crying over spilt milk.
You lost already, just accept the result in good fate.
Congratulate the winner.
Don't waste further efforts, energy, money and other resources fighting a lost battle.

Remember the new CJN is not ONOGHEN.

Anyway, it's time for our lawyers to collect their own portion of the loot.

All the best.

Wow.

Evil scammers everywhere.
Yahoo yahoo CEO.

coolwater11:
She should COLLATE the result, use the information on ground

Exactly.
I can't see where she said she was asked to write results but to collate what she has which includes that of collation officers.

Well except there is more to what Amaechi wants her to do which is not clearly stated in her SOS Message.

God please help our nation.
We need urgent intervention.

What exactly is the problem with this girl?
Who are her handlers?
Who is her manager?
Who is her counsellor/adviser?

Is she suffering from inferiority complex or she is just being carried away by fame?

I pray for her that she doesn't regret her actions of today tomorrow.

For crying out loud she has a huge bright future ahead of her, why the display of her nudity to the world at this age.


A word is enough .

Jesus is coming back again.
Be ready.

You try Jare. God bless your effort. If everyon does his own quota things will be fine.

So so sad
RIP to the dead.

Adams the stubborn man vigorously passionate about his pocket sorry party.

I just don't get it. Is this one actually an actress or an 'hoe low show'.
All I see is an Olosho.

SmellySperm:
to carry ballot box just dey hungry me

My brother your village people are the ones singing, Biko don't dance to it oooh.

puretayo:
How can u use grand nut oil to fry water?

Highly recommended.
Understanding SARCASM 101

ChiefAzubuike:
Already on my way to za polling unit to cast my vote for Kingsley Moghalu. Nigerians think outside the box. There is more for this country beyond APC and PDP. They just dey play una head like ping-pong.

The same Kingsley Moughalu that I heard has atikulated?

Quick recovery to Baba Suwe.