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WIZGUY69:
Then this thread is for you

https://www.nairaland.com/4957496/ashewo-beer-parlour-share-ashewo/2264

lol..u think I get time for that yeye thread...u think say na ashewo I need for my life..this is 2020 I need G wagon in my life

ChristineC:
how is she any different from the average Silifa on your street?

this one no be silifa oo

Sometimes I just feel like Nigeria is an unfortunate country..before i used to think our girls are the best but when I started seeing females from Swaziland Malawi Kenya Tanzania Mozambique Botswana Cape Verde I see say naija girls dey learn... I no blame burna for taking stefflon don and Patoranking for this one see as babe set for everywhere..but naija is always incomplete either they have face with no yansh or yansh with face..I tire

2kaybiel:
Happy New year

pm me we need to talk I like that car...

eni4real:
Nonsense!!!

u think so o ye of shallow minds

WIZGUY69:
Small boy, everything is not about sex. The sex you're shouting up and down, you'd soon get tired of it.

don't be annoyded everything is not about sex yes but situations like this the proper way is too knack the hell out of your partner..case closed... If you are chopping only one food u will get tired of it but tasting different ones..wo ko le su e rara

Just make a smile by touching her yansh and brezzz look for a corner a nice corner in the house and smash the hell out of her till she gets tired..thank me later...

lucky4west:
the Corolla is best for Nigeria and Nigerian roads, and for e-hailing app business like UBER and BOLT...

y have said it all

Lol..Toyota corolla (2003-2005) uber special is fuel economical and good for island roads but you that car is just there..Toyota will be the car of year because of reviews from people its parts are day to find and replaced...That is the only positive about Toyota..the rest nothing but talking about cars that feels like cars Benz, Honda, Bentley, BMW

donbachi:
dat is partial blindness.

partial blindness ni kan ko astigmatism ni

nochillatalll:
Hmmn so this man will just render a lot of families useless without thinking of an alternative for them.

But still BAN these okada people. They are truly a menace.

make den no ban okada ooo with this Lagos traffic

donbachi:
Most guys are dat blind....they wont even notice d greenlight.

lol who told u some of them are blind ..person like me notice green light but will just pretend I did not see shit..a naija girl that givesvme green light is capable of giving yellow blue black indigo violet to other guys we are not stewpid

Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

sorry if am rude here, your wife has turned you into a tool for her own advantage I can't stand such marriage. If were wife is like that I will just leave and find abode elsewhere won't divorce her but will find a way of living elsewhere so that I can think. Your wife loves you but she having trust issues. A wife that will understand me and trust me is what I want in life. Relationship is built on trust not even love. If the trust is lost forget about the marriage. Please be careful and stop her from checking your phone put fingerprint lock. U can divulge all your secret to a woman it is dangerous that was what ruined Samson.Women are not that evil but they can be easily manipulated. Your wife has become something else. She is suffering from psychological trauma

I chased a girl through out this year only to find out she is into someone else painful

Kizzygentle:
Never!!!.
I repeat never!!!

The best form of discipline is by verbal communication.
If d child does something bad call him/her and sit him/her down and softly tell d child that what he/she did is very wrong and can cause damage.
U could use a statement that sounds scary to scare d child. And then u pet d child after d correction. Trust me it works better than flogging.
But such method is often used by d rich only unfortunately.

verbal communication pitiful..do u have kids.. Verbal communication with a child of 5-13 years..that works with k11 k12 children..Key stage 4

themaestro08:
Trying hard to justify how colossal of a bully you are?

If you knew my profession u would have withdrawn that statement.. I am not a bully I just don't tolerate indiscipline.. Mind the way you use words that is a powerful word that is compromising..

NiCurious:
For those in favour of flogging...why is it that there are children who are flogged, yet who grow up "undisciplined" or "immoral", while other children who were not flogged, grow up with discipline and a strong moral compass?
Flogging is not a substitute for guidance, explanation of why to do or not do something, nor proper training; and it is certainly not a substitute for leading by example.
At best, flogging conditions a behaviour through fear, but not by teaching how it is good to behave this way or that. Think about it. Which do you respond to better? "I wash the dishes right after supper, because otherwise I will be flogged" versus "I wash the dishes right after supper, because it is my job in the family, to keep the kitchen clean for mother, so it is ready for when she cooks for us." Which method do you think is more likely to lead to the child spontaneously choosing to be helpful in other ways?

see them ooo pioneers of Laissez-faire approach to discipline... I see baseless points listed above.. You were flogged during your days but now you are against it.. Flogging is an SCT of drilling a child let the child feel the pain of doing something bad..my child stole money and you think I wont beat the child blue black..abeg stop this nonsense campaign of saying flogging is wrong...

themaestro08:
How about someone who's parent never laid a hand on him ( discipline him through engaging in discussions with him and other smart methods) and he later turned out to be a Great man in life?

Flogging is terrible parenting, in fact it should be an offence just like an assault.

see what book has turned this one too.. you think it is by English..There are some children that are just impeccable to a point will u flog those ones..So don't compare.. Some children are generally stubborn and the best way to deal with them is by flogging

thotsofnaij:
Thank you so much for explaining this. misunderstanding of this is why we have turned our children to donkeys. No other race on earth beats and mutilates children except Africans, are our kids better off, more courageous in the face of tyranny? This spare the rod crap is what racist whites in africa used to justify their inhuman treatment of our children cause they were black. Before the evil white man came with this evil justification parents corrected their children with mainly patient teaching and correction maybe a raised voice but now i see babies having their bodies mutilated in the name of discipline. It needs to stop!

when a child is mutilated it becomes violence you can flog your child without scar or whatsoever. I dont get your time even cacausians beat their children don't be fooled by what you see online.. This is Africa. The best way to correct your child here especially in Nigeria is Flogging..Flogging Our Culture You Have Taught A Lot Life...most important people in the world right now where victims of flogging but why castigate it now is what I don't understand

Juliearth:
I may never resort to flogging my children as a way of disciplining them. We hope to have a reward system for every good deed...what better way to punish a child than he or she losing a few points and dropping a position or two on the table? The sane child would love to be relegated.
Another method may be to find out toys/ activities what they like using/doing. The mere thought that their actions and inactions could cost them that toy or activity may keep them on their toes.

Talking about BF Skinner' method of reinforcement it works but flogging is the most effective way to discipline a child but don't abuse it.. I have seen parents who saved their children's life through spanking.. Infact they are more disciplined. Some people flog and yet the child still misbehaves.. If done correctly it is the best way to discipline a child

[quote author= post=85357708]Flogging is so old school.

Good communication with your kids is the KEY.

And for the extra stubborn kids (we have them also) make sure they know the offense they have commited and give them one two 'phiam phiam' on the buttocks....never more than 3!!

We haven't and won't do that to our Jewels anyways[/quote]am taking my time to reply people on this thread against flogging.. Please dont listen to them..This is African dont let civilization fool you.. Flogging will shape your child' behaviour.

GraGra247:
I DON'T SUPPORT FLOGGING CHILDREN OR ANYONE AT ALL.

IT SHOULD BE COMPLETELY ABOLISHED.

AFRICAN PARENTS EXTREMELY ABUSE IT A LOT.

THERE ARE MANY OTHER PROPER WAYS TO DISCIPLINE A CHILD WITHOUT FLOGGING.

u better Go and sit down flogging is the best and effective way to discipline an African child forget the rubbish norm saying flogging is bad it I part of our culture I don't know why this current millennial is trying to remove the important part of disciplining an African child..should be done in moderation and for ME it is totally acceptable but not to be abused

No stage bro anything after school will be nice 21 and above as long as u have pali and u have a job or source of income no age is a barrier

I no dey impress girls, they impress me..

The 30k works with geographical distribution.. Its a yes/no for me provided your wife is bring I ng the same amount in. 30k in places like ikorodu agbara ajegunle iyana ipaja Ilorin some axis in Ibadan and in the north is possible provided u can work your ass out and gain xtra 10k from elsewhere.. Those places mentioned their cost of living is okay..but a place on the island like lekki Ajah Victoria island ikoyi abuja, port haccourt oboy no even think about getting married unless u are dating a girl who can bring in 250k at least that one sef na debt Una go dey...with 30k I can marry on some parts in Nigeria

Midas01:
So because you know one or two people she's been with makes her a hoe but somehow Future with at least 4 known babymamas, several gfs, side chicks and bootycalls is a saint to you. Mumu.

see this mofo wetin u dey find for my mention sef.. U dont know what coded olosho is I pity u ur GF might be one sef.... Did I mention Future..u better take ur time...

Kingrexyl:
Say nah Steve Harvey daughter

b4 nko maybe adopted or whatever I sha know say na that big nose man be her papa

This Lori Harvey sef na one kind coded olosho and the papa dey do motivational video upandan yet the daughter dey milk celebz..no be the same lori dey fvck Memphis depay b4.. But the girl fine sha hands down..wouldn't mind logging in too..girls below 25 years dey do me one kind don't know how.. If u know u know

Stevecovey:
Beautiful woman with 3 sons and no daughter to pass all dt beauty to.

His mum is a very rich business woman. She was in the oil and gas sector for years before starting SchoolKits. Her company supplies uniforms to all those megarich schools in lagos.

one of the kids has to be gay if not.one one would be close...

Not to strafe anyhow... Always be careful

eni4real:
People are very disrespectful here ooooo.. Is that how you talk to your grandpa?? Old cargo

u had better chunk your respect into your tiny a$$hole.. My grandpa is dead and BTW I doubt if he is older than my dad sef... See ehn this is social media not outside where we bow down to people. Same baby boomers who have destroyed our country and corrupted the minds of our generations and ones before me.. mschew