₦airaland Forum

helinues:
Tell our people to behave...

Ghana should be one of the tolerant countries accepting Nigerians uncultured behavior

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Why do Nigerians like to claim victims when they are indeed the culprits.

Are Nigerians the only foreigners doing business in Ghana?

Is the imaginary $1m tax applicable only to Nigerians?

Have you guys even bother to ask the worth of their investment before Ghanaian authority will demand $1m tax?

Our people are now running same Ikeja Computer village scam in Ghana.

How about brothel house running by Nigerians across Ghana region?

How about organised Kidnapping? Yes you read right, Evans was closed to Ghana remember....

They are spoiling business for Ghanaians with fake products and you expect their government to fold hands.

Ghanaian authority, please deport as many of Nigerians that are not ready to abide by your law.

Nonsense

you have said it all ,our cutting corners and sharp practises keeps giving us a bad image .The truth be told a lot of Nigerians outside the country are actually bad ambassadors of our country (they portray a very bad picture of us ) .

arthorjnr:
Very unintelligent post.
Your friend got married to a Kenyan girl, the love of his life and now Kenyan girls are better

Do you know how many happily ever after that happens in Nigeria?

Just because you've been unlucky doesn't mean every Nigerian girl is like that.

Heck Kenya has Bitches too. Our problem is, we have one of the most active internet users in the world and still growing. We wash our dirty clothes in public and give a very bad impression about ourselves. Bro, move to Kenya and see how it is over there.

Fvck, I just defended Nigerian girls. Damn. It is what it is tho.

kenyan girls are too lose and have no self control

UDUJ:
These are benin people in Italy.

The boyfriend should be happy he caught her. No need for too much talk. Just move on.

it is very common in Italy ,but it also happens in Naija too these set of girls only date working class men they are very well calculated .May God save us from this Jezebels

bereto:
Mode and Manner of presentation matters.
If you serve a dish and the look is unappealing nobody would eat even though it is tasty.
Problem of Nigeria has never been not taking advice but hypocrites like this.

Bros she is just displaying the mindset of the normal Nigerian big man that has made it through the corrupt system,she is actually seeing this boys as a threat .She is the type that just want most people to remain in abject poverty(where they see living in a normal flat as luxury or owning a used car as luxury) and remain loyal to them just to get the peanuts they throw at them (more like slave and master relationship) she is pained most youths of today have discovered a way of making money (legally or illegally) other than waiting for that government job or contract .These so called big men do not want any-form of competition for their kids. They just want the circle to continue (the rich getting richer and the poor becomes poorer) .I have met a few like this that will price your service like they are pricing tomatoes in the market yet their hand bag is running into millions of Naira .This is the type that frustrate young contractors that bid for contracts in the agency they head .This woman son was living lavishly in Dubai when she was a serving minister .

Thelimitbreaker:
By the time Oshiomole is done with this man, even he himself will gladly accept that Edo is Lagos raised to power two.... Oshio will fight him with every available artilleries until he is crushed beyond measure.... The truth be say even if be say Oshio get many wahala for him head but wetin i no fit dispute is the fact that the man na true grass-root pesin... Too many foot soldiers at his disposal...

why is oshiomole trying so hard to get the palace involved in politics when it has been said the palace is not involved in anyform of politics ,i so much dislike this man called oshiomole .If it is not allowed right from the gate of the palace they will ask everyone going in to take off their caps .And why is oshiomole forming custodian of culture na wa

Goalnaldo:
This is seriously serious . If his family couldn't back him, then who will?

Sweet food sells itself

LordNicvuitton:
Hi Romancelanders, don't know if it's right to share this topic here, but I'll do for now.

I'm Victory, from the East and currently a resident of Edo state. I came to this state, as an intern and thereafter, still served here and in the course of all these, I thought out and established a laundry business, which is just about 8 months old. This was to keep life going and to better bond well with the lady in my life currently.

While in Edo state, having rounded my internship & kickstarting service sometime around 2017, I met this Kiki Osemudiamen (Name changed), and it was nothing serious at 1st, cos I never really thought I'd date someone here, fact is that I never thought I'd stay beyond my service year. I met her while she was in 200l. We encouraged each other, she saw potentials and had faith in me just like I have so much faith in her. She is simplistic, encourages me to save and I in turn, encouraged her and guided her through some of her studies. She passed her 2nd MB.BS. and is currently awaiting lifting of the lockdown on schools, so she can start her clinicals.

Problem is that she came from a not buoyant family financially, and although both parents are alive, she struggles to survive/feed daily. Her dad supplies about 1000litres/trip water to households, while her mum sells at the local market. I on the other hand, came from a middle class family but my Dad is late since 2012, and I've been a sponsor of my education and that of my younger ones through the lil I inherited (which mum manages for now) plus my various endeavours. She depends on me for daily meals and other basic essentials, in fact I had to place her on salary in my laundry shop during this lockdown, so she plays the role of secretary in my shop too.

The latest challenge came about, yesterday. While she slept in the shop, I was out on errand, someone sneaked into the shop and stole her android phone with all of her e-medics textbooks (she reads mostly e-copies because she can't afford hardcopies), she has been crying all through and I really don't know what to do. Since I knew her, She'd been an appendage and an extra financial burden to me, I can't begin to list what I've done for her, although I kept reminding her never to not have entitlement mentality and she does appreciate. Out of desperation to ease her pain, I promised to sponsor her in getting a new phone. I have burdens, huge ones, I'm yet to acquire a diesel engine for my laundry (I use ponytail industrial iron which has higher voltage/current than normal ones), plus other related merchandise that I need to set up and I feel like she slows down my financial pace.

Honestly, I don't do all these for her, hoping for any personal gains, in the words of my daddy in the Lord, Prophet T.B. Joshua, He said and I quote: "We make a living by what we get and we make a life by what we give" but I am almost fed up and tired, especially when I remember that both her parents are still alive.. I am scared that that for the 1st time, I may fail her in that financial obligation because I honestly need money now, with the whole pandemic issue plus, I feel like she slows me down in life financially and a huge burden to me. Right now, she's so attached to me, more so that when I initially wanted to hault our relationship, it almost nearly affected her academics negatively. Please I need matured minds to help me think this through and garnish me with advice(s) because I almost feel so choked up and a rising urge to relocate from here, so i can breathe again.

NB: Advice from married couples and those in serious relationships, will be highly appreciated.

Modified: She went to her bank (First bank) this morning, only to be informed that about 20k (Her mum's business money) has been used to purchase recharge voucher. Her mum sends/receives money from distant customers through her account. Yesterday's scenario, all over again. Please folks, lock your SIM cards just as much as you lock your phones. Learn from this painful experience please.

bro alot of men are going through the samething even in their marriages,it is a pity women now depend solely on men (even when they are gainfully employed) since you are not married to her yet do not stick your neck out too much (should it be it does not end in marriage).when it comes to providing for her try to be very rational (use your head and not your heart ) .Try to get her what she needs but not what she wants.And lastly try to enforce and stick with these things now that you both are courting so it wont pose as a problem later on when you get married to her .

GeneralPula:
This Obaseki sha.. I hope he scale thru..

It’s hard to win over the finger that once fed you...

It’s not about Politics, it’s about Nature!

if the finger that once fed you is trying to choke you no crime in biting it

any kenyan that wants to trend now will just mention nigeria.She should be more concerned with MPESA taking over most of the functions of a bank ,the banking halls in kenya are mostly empty cause people can receive and send money via their mobile phones

this one small na i have seen someone play 5m for 3 odds at a shop and guess what he won.(the guy na super agent sha)

VickyRotex:
my own question is, wetin dem/he wan use 16 passports do

abi ezz my eyes deceiving me

to enrol the op for common entrance ,waec,neco,gce all at once hahahahaha

Torie8:
An internet fraudster is a fraudster simple. Call a spade a spade.
Yahoo yahoo no dey pay una no go hear . You people don't know the pains of a struggling person who has be scammed or whose money he has been saving went to these bastards account and they will be flaunting it on social media saying"God don pick my call" thunder fire anybody wey support this guy and all others who are doing the same business or those who intend doing so. When you commit a crime karma awaits you.

Aunty nobody holy pass ,most nigerians dont hate the crime they just hate the people making them feeling less of person on social media this is what i figured out lately .Can you authoritatively say you have paid all your taxes as a nigerian (from nepa bills ,to car papers renewal,to water bill) .The society we live in as made the average nigerian lose their conscience (you can not carry out a simple transaction in nigeria without one party trying to cheat the other from market women , carpenters,mechanics,plumbers,electricians) it is really crazy .

bigpicture001:
How much is your state allocation.?

Has he been owing you...?

Are you so daft not to know that declined revenue will affect Edo state allocation..?

If u like God fatherism say so, don't hind under the blanket of malicious and senseless blaming!

Bad follower!

Don't mind him? Someone is trying to stabilize and normalize the atrocities committed by past governments in Edo state, he his busy clamoring for white elephant projects. Emotan Garden ? of what economic benefit will it be (just the way hundreds of millions was spent on a water fountain that yields no revenue).I am personally satisfied all through Obaseki's first tenure all salaries were paid on time, government buildings that have been abandoned for years for no just cause have been renovated and will soon be put to use . And most importantly I am impressed with the little road projects he has done all over metropolis (it is a way of reminding the electorate they have not been forgotten)

Taich:
Thanks, the vehicle is less 5 months old, getting a new body is the main challenge now, someone was suggesting I check in Ladipo.

check owode onirin in lagos you might be lucky

filitech070:
Oloriburuku nih guy yih sha....omo ale jati jati

keep swearing when you should be more concerned with his likes that are out there( they run into millions) .the Average Nigerian has a dubious mind many are just so pained cause they do not have the information to also perpetrate the same fraud

nedekid:
Dont forget, the lady visited along with her 22 year old sister who was downstairs tending to the kids. The same sister was whom the estate officials met when they came to complain of the loud music comming from the house.

loud music will not stop you from hearing someone under going such torture the police should look critically into the issue there is so much evil going on these days

nedekid:
You are very imaginative

this is nigeria and it is highly possible,people are willing to do anything to throw police off track

op from my own point of view, I think you married too quickly. You married at the age of 26 and I would assume your wife is younger than you so she must have been 22 or 23 .Marriage is a lifetime thing so what is the point rushing (you will only end up marrying a kid and you expect her to grow up in the marriage) You should have let her experience life a little and know the value of marriage. You can imagine when you are 36 you will be celebrating your 10th year wedding anniversary and a lady of 33 or 32 still looks so attractive (if she is working in a male-dominated environment you should be ready to experience what you are going through right now). Cause most of all these young girls that rush into marriage do not know their limits (friends to keep and all that ) take heart bro.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Obasanjo na strong man. Still Nigeria best president till date.

baba no dey waka ,he brought two american presidents over

shekone:
Anyhow Anyway, Obansanjo had some of the best Economic team

he brought 2 american president to this country and i am sure he would have brought trump also if he was still president .Baba himsef

NockMedia:
They look like the SIDIS living in the remote part of India.

this island is not far from india

Exc2000:
atleast be able to earn what can feed you, cloth you and provide one room self contain for you... funny thing is abusive men are generous, and they spend the money on them in a way that they are dependent... they never invest for them, they barely buy them luxury to make them addicted to flashy lifestyle they cant afford

alot of naija women see marriage as a way to escape poverty ,i can remember some years back i had a landlord that was extremely rich (he owned more than 10 filling stations) but his wife was working with the state government ,she was earning less than 50k .I was always wondering why she was bothering herself when her husband was so rich .Now that i am married i understand better (if the 50k can only take care of feeding in the house and make her look neat and nice ) it is worth it .Ladies out there learn to develop yourself and stop chasing early marriage when you have nothing to offer than just your body

Exc2000:


when they lack skills to give them income they remain there.... this is currently happening to my ex, in her mind she must marry early, and since I wasn't ready she moved on to a guy who had more money, sells car and was a yahoo big boy.. just 5years in and she chats me up daily complaining of one thing or the other, he cheats, he is diabolic, smokes sk, drinks, beats her.. but spends on her non stop, at this point even if she tries to leave her family , church , pastor and financial her position wouldn't let her, at 30 she has BP problem but still slays hot hot

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most women are the cause of all this domestic violence,you see them looking for early marriage instead of acquiring a skill or developing themselves ,they just want to depend totally on the man .Love is not enough to make a marriage work .No matter how well to do your husband is try to have a job or business ,endeavor to also bring something to the table at the end of the month.My own two cents

Stephenomozzy:


Aah.. Committee of armed robbers for one house!

These number of people in this kind neighborhood and there are no security guards If only the owner of the house had a sniper rifle!!!!!!!!

even a double barrel will do the magic.Just shoot from different windows them must move ahead

instinct57vm:
Going by the scheme of things, her stay is not temporary bro and the couple both earns salaries that cannot accommodate third parties. No be people wey get money to spare go buy bed? The mother even brought bed after a few days clearly indicating they have come to stay.

About ppl coming to stay when a time comes, my case for instance, I am married since 2018 and my wife and I both agreed that nobody will stay with us for at least 3years.

The person that had stayed longest was her mum for a week when we had our child. Infact, when my wife was pregnant, she’s always naked all throughout our stay at home moving from living room to rooms at will. How can anyone even stay with us in that situation?

People have proposed staying with us from my family and my wife’s family but we declined even though politely and diplomatically. My wife handles responses to her own ppl in this regard, while I handle responses to my own people as well.

If we have our 2nd child and we still have a girl. That will make it 2 girls. Bro, My wife and I are already discussing that nobody will stay with us at all coz I need to protect my girls if u understand what I mean. Life experience taught my wife and I this not our fault.

See this thing na understanding, if husband and wife cannot understand one another they have no business getting married in the first place.

no matter how you put it ,there is no way in this our country you wont have one person or the other coming to stay over for more than a week .The earlier they learn to accommodate people the better .God forbid any thing comes up and support is needed is it then you will start allowing people to come stay .Better open the door to your home to family members and friends (but limit it).Dont wait till you need them

instinct57vm:
Just to correct you, The mother in-law isn’t bedridden. She only came for a check up and decided to stay permanently. The husband knew this but failed to communicate it to the wife. The couple are still struggling financially to harbor anyone and the wedding is also way too early for anyone to start staying with them. Na common sense bro. When the guy was squatting before marriage why didn’t the mother and the rest move in then. She waited until the wife helped her son in paying half of rent and bought many things herself before coming to scatter their marriage.
No matter how we look at it, the guy simply exposed his wife ,disrespected her, violated her rights and above all never loved her.

am not taking sides here i am just suggesting the easy way out of this ,the couple should have jut gotten a bed for the other room, her stay is just temporary it is not a biggie .The wife should know these things happen all the time ,a time will come someone will come through her that needs to stay so she should not lose her marriage over what is not worth it .

LordShiva97:
You're misyarning and you're doing it with the confidence of one who's intoxicated on an exotic strain of weed. Are you even sure we read the same post, you probably know more about this issue than the OP revealed to us?

So confronting her husband on the continued stay of the husband's folks in her home which is clearly infuriating her means she's indirectly wishing her mother-in-law death, how?
What's the logic behind this conclusion? :>(

And what's wrong with her asking the same question thrice in two weeks, it's her home for Zeus's sake and she contributed in the rent, it's not as if it's the man's sef
Asking a question thrice within the space of fourteen days in your own house is now a crime that deserves punishment?

If the mother-in-law was only coming for treatment, what's up with bringing the brother and his girlfriend along?

You're trying so hard to excuse the man's folly, but you're failing woefully at it. If you genuinely believe that the lady's is wrong and the man totally absolved of any blame then you have a serious problem.

This is my last reply to you though.

obviously i see it is difficult for you to read and understand easily ,lets put the write up into reality assuming the couple stay in Lagos .And the boys mother stays in ikorodu and the hospital she receives treatment is in yaba and her son stays in yaba also.How easy do you think it will be for the sick mother to come from ikorodu to yaba under this total lockdown situation but it will be easier if she is in yaba .Then for the brother and the girl friend staying it is justified so they can attend to the sick mothers needs .The brother for the physical part of it and the girlfriend for the womanly part washing of the clothes and other female shit .Obviously you have not experienced handling a sick eldrly person .The house is a 3 bedroom for crying out loud so what is bad there (5 people in a 3 bedroom flat for a couple of months)PLEASE YOU DO NOT HAVE TO REPLY