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I'm dating one now. Girl is so clingy like kilode. Always holding hands, likes to bury herself in my body at the slightest opportunity and grabbing me. I'm huge sha Sometimes if I want to para, she'll just look so cute and I'll just free her to express her love jare .Let me also add that I agree with the feminine part. She's very intelligent and submissive. Despite having a good job |
Don't buy anything. Take her to calm place where you can taik with some drinks. That's how to know a girl that's into you. Plus you don't want to appear like you're trying to please her and it won't pain you when she ghosts you. Don't treat your date like a girlfriend. If she doesn't like it, thank your stars and on to the next one. |
If my wife asks me to write my will, I'll be fearful of such a woman |
adewake34:Don't be so emotional over nothing. Na your chest and head dey suffer am |
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drnoel:Your level of simping is beyond cure. So it's only runs gals that demand favour. Keep exposing your myopia. Your response all these while shows nothing but a simp hiding behind masculinity. The friendzone headmaster Enjoy your life bro, I ain't got time to validate simps. To each his own. |
drnoel:I'm 200% sure you're the one doing all the favours for these your female friends. |
ubunja:It's pitiful. I don't even keep female friends. That's how one wanted to friendzone me cos she feels she's too fine and everyone wanted to talk to her. I played the ignore and I don't care game with her Babe got curious and followed me up. Long story short, I now know where those guys chasing & spending on her end up ![]() I'll just enjoy it while it lasts. I agree with the guy in being principled. Ready to lose everything at anytime. That has keep me afloat with these girls. I just walk away the moment I sense B.S and they end up chasing again. It's all a game bro ![]() But nice guys will never understand
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Damn bruh!!! You're thirsty as hell ![]() |
henrygale:Women can't help the attraction they feel around good bad guys. It's too much energy to ignore ![]() It's the natural order of things |
xendra:That's why it's good for a man to have goals to focus on in his life. Women and marriage wont be his problem. Loneliness is different from being self-sufficient. |
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Please, whatever you do, don't compliment her looks. She will start forming for you. Just be calm maintain eye contact (don't just be looking into her eyes like a creep. Look down her lips and go back into her eyes) get to know her ask questions boldly and calmly (don't be too uptight and smile only when necessary). Just be yourself with confidnce and have a mindset that you're theprice, not her. That's why guys need to keep developing ourselves to make us high value to these women. |
Giving you her virginity was the trap she set for you to trap you down while she can finally fvck the said guy. Bro, please don't make yourself a slave to the pvssy. Fvk her and keep your options open. When she sees that you're still out there with other women around you, she would either behave for fear of losing you, or follow the guy. Either way, you still win. Please, don't make yourself a slave to the pvssy. |
The main thing is about finding a balance. Being an alpha male is not about controlling women but staying in control of your emotions (feminine side). Every man has a feminine side, the same way a woman in charge of a relationship develops her masculine side too. Treat a woman right, take care of yourself, develop yourself mentally, and focus on your goals. This will help you draw the line when you have to and keep her in check. Which in turns builds respect and more sexual attraction. Cos every woman wants a high-value man that's got his sh1t together. Me just see relationship as a game whereby if you let your guards down for these women, you become a doormat ASAP |
5 weeks? Bro, before playing that kind of games with agirl, make sure you confirmed her level of interest in you. 5 weeks is too small to start questioning all these. Focus on yourself oga, free her, if she sees any good in you she'll call back. That's how I started dating this church gal who's exactly the same thing you described. This one had very rude attitude and the moment she started displaying them (started with insults to my personality), I simply told her about the disrespect and gave her an ultimatum to apologize. After which I deleted her number and everything about her in case she never called back. (You need to understand that you're the prize, not these expiring b1tches with age against them). Guess what, after a week she called and I laid the law firmly, which she's still taking my d1ck with so much respect. But me don comot anything woman from my mind already. Nigerian women with their useless entitlement mentality and mental laziness don't deserve all these stress abeg. Improve yourself mentally, physically and financially, detach yourself from pvssy and focus on your goals/passion. Na dem go dey rush you. That way you can weed out the useless one's. Free her and maintain your self respect. You already fvcked up on this one. |
@op, follow these pages on YouTube and learn what you're doing wrong. The33secrets, 21 studios and alpha male strategies. There's nothing bad in learning and you need to wear the pants back on or your wife's constant disrespect will ruin you mentally. |
Why not be kind and tell her. I wonder why people are so afraid to say the truth. It will hurt but know that you're doing it to help her. Even if you don't end up dating her, she will never forget you after she has found a solution. |
That's why they say don't use money to entice women. From the look of it. She has lost all respect for you and nothing but cutting her off completely will bring it back. Just be a man and do the proper thing. If she's not attracted to you, free her and focus on your goals and dreams. The women will chase you and you can select yourself instead of chasing them and losing your self respect in the process. Our weakness is our Ego, which gives us the motivation to make money instead of begging. The money we make is automatically attached to our ego too. Women understand this and play the game well. Try to detach yourself from thinking of how much you've spent on her. You've already spent it and nothing will bring it back even if you fvck her brains to coma. It hurts but you'll survive. Women are like babies (in fact, they are). You need to use the carrot and stick approach with them. Pamper them and be firm with them when you have to (especially when they cross your sacred boundaries). Your infatuation for this girl may lead to more troubles for you if you don't back out now. Just respect yourself bro. She will later start seeking your attention. Then you can have your revenge. If not, I'm sure by then, after learning from your mistakes you'll have had another girl. |
Omoh89:Internet gangster . Ordinary woman you no fit handle ![]() |
iLegendd:The mumu sef that is seeking advise doesn't want to face reality. He's still going to keep getting played and come here to cry. Pikin wey dey ask elder wetin he don see. That one don pass f0ol na |
Omoh89:I guess the truth is hurting you right now. You realize you fvcked up and refuse to accept. Pele See mumu wey ask for advise. Mind you, I never claimed alpha. I've only learned better ways to understand and deal with women. Something you're clearly lacking. And the guy who understands is treating the love of your life like trash. Truly you don see something ![]() But if all that sounds alpha to you, then my message dey enter |
XhosaNostra:Just ask for my number and let's fvck. I'm not interested in chatting with you. |
XhosaNostra:And how is that a bad thing? Girl manipulates guy, guy wakes up and has his sh1t together and remains happy till date with lots of women in his life begging for marriage. With evidence shown ![]() I see how you skipped the other parts and focused on the one your brain is only capable of responding to. Typical classless low quality/dead brain wh0re attributes ![]() |
XhosaNostra:Yea, I found the website long time ago when a girl I really liked started playing with me. I was just like this guy until I upped my game. I don't like to brag, but lemme show you a chat from an ex that still wants us to despite having a loving guy who treats her like a princess and does whatever she wants ; Well, I don't need to tell you what's been happening after that conversation ![]() Obviously, she misses the MAN, not the PROVIDER ![]() I don't have to keep arguing with you cos it's obvious you're one of the damaged goods that may probably die lonely .I treat my women well. Just That now, I'm awake and know when to draw the line whenever necessary. If you have a problem with that. Then your damage is beyond repair |
proclinician:Your profile pic has given me all I need to know about you. A Simp |
proclinician:Bro, na confirm community property you dey argue with. Free am abeg. If you check her history, you go see sey men with game don chop am wella ![]() In fact I can bet she still has one ahes crushing on that doesn't send her ![]() Women claim these tricks don't work, yet fall for the players who use it on them ![]() Na the mumu people wey dey always seek women's validation I dey pity pass. Woman wey no fit help your life ![]() |
Omoh89:I'm 35 with 2 businesses and a lot more experience than you, wetin you don see? Na pesin like you go father another man pikin. Just look at how pathetic your post is. Reaks of a weakling who's not ready to wake up. An apologetic weakling wey man wey sabi dey fvck the love of your life like olosho. If you like, go marry mary magdalen, she will still lose respect for you and fvck a ruffian if you keep up with your mumu. May God grant you sense |
XhosaNostra:No girl I dated ever cheated on me out of respect. You're probably used to low value men. You've probably had too many d1cks behind your man (if you even have one) so you think every girl will cheat ![]() My fiancee has a good job, enlightened and respects me as if I'm her father. Why, because she understands my reaction when she crosses my boundaries and I treat her like a queen for it. Mutual respect. Something I'm sure low quality/dead brain women like you will never understand. |
If your girl cheats on you. it's your fault. Simple The moment you apologized when she tried to manipulate you with her crocodile tears, I knew you're a Beta male. You got caught up in the love game and gave in to her exesses. In doing that she saw you as weak and moved on to look for a man with backbones. Check out "alpha male strategy" channel on YouTube. And also the33secrets & Donovan sharpe You'll understand where you got it wrong and improve your game. |
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In what way did she play you? That's if you don't mind reliving the pain of course *smirks*[/s]