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Realdeals:
Others people will not always view issues from your perspective, you must understand that.
That you feel bad doesn't mean others will feel same too, something you've learned (from your environment) fuel your perspective on the issue.

Think of it from the perspective of the unborn child. Like it or not you live in a society that shape your actions.

Nice, hosted on what platform?

Realdeals:
That's why there is consequence because their action might not only affect them.

your earlier statement said that people are free to do as they like as far they can bear the consequences.
My response is a disapproval of your statement, rules and laws should be placed. people should be stop from taking some actions. The consequences don't alway affect the perpetrators only.

Realdeals:
Sincerely, there's specifically no rules on how to live your life, whatever your conscience is clear about is the way....just be ready to live with the consequences too.

But the consequences of some act don't affect the perpetrators alone!

martineverest:
this is why I like my culture.....if they were from my culture,they won't be alive to make this announcement.

To hell with your culture.

frbona:
like your own sisters are any better

dude be sensible for ones. How would you feel if a guy impregnate your twin sisters?

nicepoker101:
Pythons do not bite. It stings. That's why when ever you spot a coiled python it's tail is always positioned far away from its body.

phython stinks ke!!

you're not serious

Alchalugo

Shikini:
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Weldon STELLA ODUAH

So, truly Buhari does not have any project of his own to commission in 4yrs?

What if GEJ did not negotiate funding for these Railway and airport projects with China?

Na wa oo

Get busy with something profitable. severe pains is the end result to people like you.

some Igbos won't comment now o

mekuso89:
The one wet dev vex me here are those people telling others to mind their business do they realize how this thing is going to affect our society

I just tire o. you wash your dirty linen in public yet tell people to mind their business. This trend of 'minding your business is alarming'

The headlines is just misleading.
The mod that pushed this to front page is not talented.

Tennyola:
Are u a Nigerian at all??�

he isn't too far from the truth.

Kingkun69:
carry ur MI veco and all those rubbish and go inside river dey listen to them only ppl here relevant now are falz and dremo and that is how us LaZy YoUtH like our music each generation has different tastes in music the music ur papa dey enjoy when him be pikin ur grabdpapa go say which kin rubbish be this but that was what old ppl dey like when dem small call Zlatan tharsh that is ur own he will still trend whatever and rema sef is ovrrhyped just carry fine boy face

you type many rubbish and made little points.

Realdeals:
Someone has said it 'forgive yourself and move on'

move on to where. She has to learn an important lesson here. This event is a reflection or her wrong marriage decision. and how the marriage would fall.
She need to fix sexual pleasure in her marriage.

Marbella003:
I have a main account but I decided to create this one to post this in order to avoid embarrassment or reveal my identity.

I got married 4 years ago to my husband. He was in his 40s and I was in my 20s. The age difference between us has never really been a problem as we are both educated, well spoken, have similar personalities and share a lot of interests, and as a result we mesh well. My husband is a very caring and thoughtful man. This is one of the traits that made me fall helplessly for him, along with his intelligence and fun personality. I will not reveal anything pertaining to kids as this might punch a hole in my wall of anonymity.

I've always loved my husband and I still do. But I've never really been sexually attracted to him. This is not to say that I find him unattractive. No. He is okay as far as physical appearance goes, but his look has never been the kind to turn me on sexually. To put it plainly, I find that I'm only sexually attracted to young men around my age with tall, athletic bodies and with the energy and agility to please a woman satisfyingly in the bedroom. I met this kind of man in my work place and after we talked a few times I couldn't help but become attracted to him. I realized he was also attracted me, and fast forward to a week ago, we had sex in a hotel room.

I'm ashamed to admit that sex with him was glorious, but it truly was. It was better than anything I had ever done with my husband. I loved how he tossed me around the bed and did stuff to me that my husband doesn't do and I liked how ever part of his body felt firm and strong. After the act I felt a wave of shame wash over me. I recognized that I had committed an atrocity and I knew I had broken my marriage vows. The guilt of what I had done followed me around like a stench. I hated myself for betraying a man that had always loved and cared for me.

The problem I now face is that despite the guilt and the shame I constantly feel, I still yearn to experience another period of sexual bliss with my colleague. I can't help it. I'm torn. I already told my colleague that that one time was the last but deep down I don't want it to be. I know that if I tell my husband about what I did, that it would mark the end of my relationship with my colleague, but I don't know exactly how my husband would receive this information. I don't want him to look at me and see a betrayer of trust; a woman lacking integrity and virtue. No. I even thought of resigning from my job or requesting a transfer so as not to be in close proximity with my colleague but I know that wouldn't solve anything as I still have his social media info and occasionally stalk him(yes I do). I'm so conflicted. I don't know what to do.

sorry to say, you will always remain like this. your wrong decision of marriage will haunt you forever. Change if you would. No good feeling at either end. You stay with your husband and suffer lack of pleasure, you keep with your adulterous life and shatter your virtue. I see no good end here. As a Christian, I will say you stop being adulterous and discuss sex improvement with your husband.
As for the confession part I have nothing to tell you.

emmanuelpopson:
I will say my mind and I'll keep saying it... what had Nairaland turned to of late? this blog should be at same level with quora if I'm right but the major information getting the attention are all about sex, sex and ass, boob's etc.. we are what we portray to the outside world... if this trends continue. this blog may loose it appeal and that the end.. the owners or mods should salvage this sites from crashing...
my opinion...

Quora isn't a blog. and Nairaland isn't a blog either. Nairaland should have been the likes of XDA. it should have been the world largest Forum and Discussion board for black people if possible. But seun is managing it like the way our government is managing Nigeria.

zanebaddo:
am i the only one who had never commented on any post on instagram

you are not alone...

Jayslicky:
For the wages of sin is death, the guy simply implied it for her, same treatment would be given to him.
I'm sure if was a female that did what he did, different excuses would have been brought up for her, people would say he was wicked to her he should bear all the cosequence.
We are truly living in a hypocritical world, am not justifying his crime but just saying the truth.

shut up jare..... Who are the ones bringing, So u mean we men shud start our justification episode too?
Tryna to make 2 + 1 = 4 mtchew

Chayilnotes:
Please I want to own an app but I'm on a small budget.The bills I have gotten so far are so huge for me at the moment.Is there any affordable app developer in the house?

what platform is the app. whatsapp me @ zero eight one seven two eight three three zero seven three

QuickProcure:
Hi Am Paul by name .


I need your advice in my intended career path .
I wish to pursue a career on Computer security abroad. I already have a 2.2 degree in Political science . Now,where I need you advice is on the fact that I don't know maths at all

So my questions are :

Should i process to travel and start another degree on the above field ?
Should I go for masters on computer security and uptain some certifications as well ?
Can I be able to do this as I have never had interest in maths since primary school.

I would really appreciate advices from matured minds and perhaps experts in the field of computer science .
Thanks!

Before I give a reasonable answer to your questions. please why did you opt for a computer security course?

crowniran:
I need help with the topic pls

apply for online courses at udemy or go to codecademy. Lastly find a web hub around. it is not a thing you learn in one moment.

babyfaceafrica:
love?..be deceiving yourself.. chioma is with Davido because he has money
and famous...no.love anywhere...

stop all the nonsensical ranting, so no girl can love Davido again without it being the money.
People like you make 2 + 2 = 5

GraGra247:
Till a thousand years, I still wonder what he saw in that girl. Nothing stricking or outstanding about her.

Well her luck. Enjoy while it lasts.

my question is if you will recognize outstanding when you see one.

adams345:
Your crush keh

I am crushing over her like the way Grinding stone would want to crush a tomato 🍊
This my crush sef. when are we gonna meet for real?

[quote author= post=77969601]We thank God we have a President that does not intervene in the rule of law.
At the Council of States meeting recently, Gov Willie Obiano publicly registered his appreciation to President Buhari, for the level playing ground he made available during the election in his state. With do or die apostles, and a certain political party in power, such would never happen. Not with their garrison mentality. All states are territories that must be conquered, willy-nilly.

God bless our President MUHAMMADU BUHARI.
God bless Nigeria.[/quote]stop trying to look unreal. you are actually looking like a fake plastic

Debaiz:
They have come again.



I’ve learnt very long ago that statistics can be skewed/ manipulated to suit the need of whoever is preparing it.


All this is to condition the subconscious mind of the unsuspecting populace towards a greater future cause.


So they are basically telling us that life in nigeria is worse than life in Syria or Zimbabwe or even Venezuela as it is at the moment or even Palestine where Israel has blocked all land, air and sea access to the people in that area basically locking them in a real life prison.


My level of exposure won’t allow me the stupidity to believe all this propaganda aimed at programming the mind of the people.

it actually not, stop being naive. The age you see is a mean representation of life expectancy
it didn't state you will die by then. Nigeria has become very dangerous over time and go out and have an idea of the death rate going on in this country. Not necessarily through war but many other things.

Justinba1997:
dy Will Surely Do Better For Kids Like You Washing There Film, Cus Marvel Films Are For Mature Ppl Marvel Is Still D Best

Dc are better in comic and cartoons but marvel has killed them on movie. Marvel puts fun and comedy in their movies which makes it enjoyable.

trapQ:
It's not our fault your low IQ couldn't absorb it's very essence.

learn to respect others opinion, he didn't call out anyone name.

asalimpo:
research whether enterprise java is dead or research most popular stack in the enterprise. Popularity has nothing to with it. Java rules the enterprise world. Good nite.

JSP isn't dead, infact COBOL are still used in bank system and in reality, all programming language are bit relevant. But for now the sake of documentation and public repo, almost no open source give documentation anymore and also many system developer will barely recommend it for a new system, so why still go that route??. it is a shot in the foot to learn JSP as a starter.