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Chingle6:
I have a course but the teacher skip some deep part in css and went to bootstrap... My other friend keep telling me, he doesn't have time

Then report specific problems

Bkayyy:
African men are the most stupid creature I have ever seen.
The way they rush to adopt European practices neglecting their customs brought this kind of disgraceful event we are seeing here. Just look at how the stupid lady in question was standing by the side waiting for the winner to take her.

you are stupid as well.

Moferere:
Too bad!

Two able bodied men fighting because of a woman.
I am ashamed for them.

What nonsense did you write here? So they are suppose to shake hands abi?
Anyway I don’t support anyone fighting over a cheating partner

Confirmedzombie:
Very ugly, shapeless, broke, useless, frustrated olosho.

See her dirty and useless ass.
Nonsense

But transformer dey around your area now. E no hard

omooba969:
If anyone feels marriage would be an impediment to the kind of life they live and enjoy, I think it's within their rights to refrain and remain single.

You have no basis to conclude that it's for the 'freedom to cheat at will and generally be irresponsible'.

Kindly respect their 'Freedom of Choice' abeg.

well said, although the person you quoted didn’t put his word well but the lifestyle of many randy men/women today is that they can afford to be committed to one person l except such person is everything in their dream world which is not possible

blinking001:
As for me I really dont intend to close any circle. The times have changed and men got to change their sexual strategy too. A millennial woman doesnt deserve to be wifed up. Make them your baby mama for your own peace of mind and sanity.
Men being the romantics have always had the wealth and yet the world still remained a better place but immediately the female folks became emancipated they changed everything into this Amoral society we find ourselves today.
Women cannot handle wealth and power so it's better you let them burn into ashes or you save them with the baby mama strategy.

For God sake what is this garbage you wrote up there?
Just simply say you like the baby mama strategy and don’t want commitment. Why now start the blame game on women?

chingle5:
God, I have suffered at the hand of CSS ........ I just don't know why it is very complicated ......... learning HTML was very easy feeling like a boss, unlike CSS ...... please any aspiring web developer in the house ....... lets link up jare and help each other out to grow......... i stay at lagos around unilag side.......... i need a learning buddy ......... me I want to make money sharp sharp jare

Mentor : see learn to program because you have passion for it...

Me : I want to learn to program because I want to make money to take care of ya father , ya mother, ya children, their generation, and even ya forefathers that are in their grave...

Start by asking specific questions of challenges you are facing. “CSS is hard” is a generic problem and you may need to get an online course or a paid teacher.

fuckingAyaya:
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Idontknowyou:
I have been learning web development for 4 monthly now (self taught).. I have finished courses on HTML, CSS, BOOTSTRAP and JavaScript... But now I want to know what Backend and framework do I need to understand to program a website like Nairaland..

Please help me

We have many languages that does this
PHP
JS(NodeJS)
JSP
ASP.NET
Perl
Ruby

And each has frameworks
Moreso be rest assured you need to get the softwares to run codes.

Just use a YouTube video to get started

Techola:
I have been blogging for sometimes now, and someone wanted me to create a crypto investment website for him recently.
I have gotten the script, I know I'd be needing a host and domain but I don't know how to continue from here

It is a little complicated

azawuoba:
will they ever learn?

painful and horrible death to you OP

Why are you painful

grim33:
I thought you were making sense until I read why do cultists fight over women. That’s easy .

When I was in school a cult member tried to toast me.

He specifically said to me when I asked what I was to gain for joining his cult, “ the finest looking ladies in your class is your if you join.

Me way be mgtowmonk the offer became even more ridiculous. And I just walked away.

You’re right that there are no shortage of SIMPS out there but men are gradually waking up.

In the end it’s a choice Everyman needs to make for him self.

Online ☺️☺️

Akinbahm:
For the sake of not derailing this thread can we let it slide?

Here is an evidence below that's if u believe...

Oh Allah, that is your own religion

Akinbahm:
The creator who created them when he was describing them he compared their nature as that of an egg that analogy shows how fragile they are nd ow they should be treated. Who I am to be twisting the word of God?

Now because we human are superior over egg does that mean we should handle them carelessly? NO and who even dare handle egg carelessly? we being superior to women doesnt give us the room to maltreat them bro deep it.

Note:

Where is the part God said the male gender is superior?

I think you’re confusing “value” with “role”

pansophist:
And the mod will not push this to the frontpage. Seems like nairaland mods needs to put men in bondage with their selective spotlighting of awesome post.

Nice one ubunja. Respect!

Research and post not backed up by research references. All is make believe and mass generalization

Akinbahm:
At the emboldened, if you notice this no matter ow soft a man flesh is it cant be as soft as that of a woman that alone should tells you more about nature.

The post never mean woman should not have a say in their relationship, it's actually talking about both parties should face their primary assignment/role.

How has soft skin describe a women nature?

More so you should read about estrogen

jpslick:
Reading Ubunja's Miseducations has educated me far more than my 5 years in school did.
At first glance you may think his teaching is just about handling women, but if you're wise, you'll realise that it goes far beyond that, because the truth is; as a man, once you can master how to handle women, you have mastered how to handle your Finances, your career, your health, and your Ambitions.
GOD BLESS YOU UBUNJA, PLS KEEP IT COMING �

Only if you could spot the garbage in this post then you would have realized you’re just pathetic

Pearlbaby:
Please pardon my diction. �
I started coding not too long ago, like 4 months ago. I'm relatively done with HTML and CSS. But JavaScript which most probably is the next stage isn't that easy. Looks so much different and foreign.

Please what job or project can one do with JavaScript, so that I would weigh my chances and see if it's worth the Brain cracking or suffering rather.

You need to understand what it is before you decide you don’t like it. So far so good what did the material or resource state as your objective?

Are you satisfied with such objective?

raphretle:
We had some technical faults which affected the flow of water to the second floor of the house we live in.. One has to go down to get water to use... So my neighbour told me his girlfriend Used the toilet but refused to flush it,claiming she can't subject herself to that kinda stress to get water.. This guy only comes to my room to complain but he can't tell it to her face...
For three days now, she does the shitting while he does the flushing...

So what should we do?

MOLOTOVcockTAIL:
Fvck Trump. Kamala Harris is our In-law here in Anambra. Nimo town precisely. So I go with Biden.
Igbo Amaka!!

sentiment

FRANKOSKI:
HELLO REDPILLERS!!, IM FINANCIALLY DOWN.THERES THIS GUY THAT HAS BEEN CHATTING WITH MY GIRLFRIEND SINCE 2016(I met my girl in 2018) .he has been sending her money, ... 5k 10k, without even seeing her face to face.my girl and I live in calabar but the guy stays in lagos(an electrician).HE IS COMNG FROM WHERE HE IS HANDLING A WIRING PROJECT IN IMO STATE TO COME & MEET MY GIRL , AND PROMISED HER 50K TO USE & START WEAVON/ WIG MAKING.she promised me that she won't stay in a closed door room with him nor kiss him.I'M THE ONE THAT DEFLOWER HER & WE BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER .
What should I do in this situation

You’re asking us how you can eat your cake and have it.
Indirectly you and your girlfriend are playing some kind of games with the unknown guy

Beirut01:
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Most of these things are not totally true o.. some women love u just the way you are fr. But the case of this guy, that woman don't loved her. if a woman love u and you're doing everything to provide for her, she'll never think of leaving u
But he will heal. Just accept her if u can forgive her. Even God forgive us when we sin

you are preaching the opposite of what they preach. Here you can only hate women and women are evil

dajobi:
I'm burning.

I'm in pain.

The reality hit me hard the past few Weeks.

How do I heal from this?

No job any longer.
Broken to pieces by the same woman I've loved all my life. The same woman I dated for 4 years before we got married in 2018 just after my 30th birthday. Gave me a baby the same year we got married but need I say the baby and her were never mine? Got pregnant for the same ex she claimed was a deadbeat and good for nothing man ( too much stories here that I can not say here for some reason)

I've been deceived by everyone I've ever loved. I'm not worthy
Nobody can give me love

I've been somewhere reading all these things after a friend refer me here, the more I read, the more I hate myself and what I've believed of her that she can't do no harm.

I need directions. I'm so lost. How can I even come to terms with all the things I've read here?

In my Next life, I'm not getting married again. Marriage with her made me empty

Lost my family, friends and everything cuz of her

You specifically quoted how she made you miserable. Like you’re some kind of robot.

I smell blame games

Skyfornia:
Sad story...I have noticed that many of the victims of police brutality seem to be Igbos.

Also I believe that some of these incidents could have been avoided if the victims obeyed the police. Please whenever you are stopped by police, kindly obey every instructions from them..no need arguing and claiming you know your right, some of these police men are always high and scared too..don't go and waste your life arguing with a trigger happy policeman.

This part got me.

I Stan with you

TheGoodJoe:
You really don't get it.

The elevator has the cabin door and the floor door. The floor door was not good.

So hence that floor door was not there, there should have been a warning sign. She would never have gone close to it.

So I don't get what your saying because you are really not saying anything.

The floor door was not closed and no warning. The cabin was down and the door not open is a death trap. Now warning is a fatal setup.

I am referring to the elevator as the complete system and when the door is faulty then we could as well say the elevator is faulty

Uncle93:
You're right, well I was more focused on the female gender because I'm a guy and only talking about possibilities of what could happen to guys in a relationship.

Psychologist, Eric Berne defined games as:

“A game is an ongoing series of complementary ulterior transactions progressing to a well-defined, predictable outcome. Descriptively, it is a recurring set of transactions… with a concealed motivation… or gimmick.”

I want you to focus on the bolded

Uncle93:
No advice mehn , everything is life is not balanced. Sad reality of life. No matter how handsome or rich you are , one person could still chop someone's wife or girl .

How about looking at it like this.

Anyone could be promiscuous rather than using a gender?
Or are we talking of lesbians here?

Uncle93:
I'm trying to say that its scary what happened between the girl and I because it could also happen to me as well . Her guy was a victim.

so what is the take home advice?

Uncle93:
So, there is a girl I met not too long ago, a university student we were both in 400l. I just moved to a new hostel . I met her in a shop where she was buying something and we started talking, shes brown skin, very fresh and slim . After a few days of bumping into each other randomly, I finally got her number. Phone calls started. After a week , she started coming to my room

We just usually sit , talk and gist, even some of my male friends comes around and we all start gisting. In less than a month, we started kissing , ass grabbing she does not complain, she sleeps off on my chest sometimes . Long story short. We ended up having one crazy hot s*x one night .. it was such a lovely night though, cool breeze ,nice jams playing on my speaker. We both reached climax. That day went, she started avoiding.

Only for me to find out that she is in a serious relationship and she and her boo talks for hours everyday. Their Family knows each other and all. Funny ,the boyfriend trusts her like crazy and didn't suspect a thing .

This could have been me and someone doing that to my partner that I believe we were both in a serious relationship.

At the end of the day what is the advice?

Kyngfarabale1:
pretend u still like her so u can get more of her toxxxto.....lol b4 she finally marry...

I just don’t understand the perversion for sex. So what would he gain from more sex? Chai! Some guys would miss their destiny for sex!

I believe some people would die without sex