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bestabigaelever:
There was no mention of any gender or country, it's not only guys that say "I love you" and definitely not only Nigerian guys


OP, TF is "u make me breathless"

justiniyke29:
Sorry if its a bit long.
About twn months ago i noticed my girlfriend wasnt really the same anymore, we have being dating for over a year since she did her IT where i worked sometimes last year. I couldnt exactly place what was wrong but it was like she suddenly was always busy and had one excuse or the other.
I knew something was up and i asked her but it was the same talk about how i am just imagining it. like 4 weeks ago she came visiting and i was going through her gallery and i was shocked that there wasnt even any of my pictures talkless of the ones we snapped together whenever i take her outings(i actually love going outings and travelling to fun spots), i asked what happened and she said she dont value pictures, after the argument she said she wasnt interested in the relationship because i didnt understand her or trust her.
She apologised the next day and we met after that, when she wasnt looking i went through her phone and saw series of chats between her and a guy on whatsapp and she even told him

Moneysoldier007:
Sitting here on my toilet sit this chilling morning , dragging my S.K, journeying down memory lane when men would cross the seven seas because of 'LOVE' and after doing the silliest of things for example like washing a girls pant and still chest out with pride like Brad Pitt in Troy and shout at the top of your voice " is there no one else? , IS THERE NO ONE ELSE?", does anyone remember that advert on Silverbird just a lifetime ago?

Oh that?, of course I fuckinggg! did too, I am not a hypocrite, a lot of us did or did a random silly thing during our naive days so when Ozo was 'nzuzuing' over Nengi and Neo washing Vees pant, when I came across that topic on Nairaland I struggled to Shalaye not to click it, thanks to Nairaland my BBN TV, I like to save mb but this particular video, if I no watch am wetin I come gain?, I needed to see it with my eyes , that guy went international with that shittttt! on Live TV, I couldn't have done any better so for that he deserves an award, one word, Epic.

I'll rather spend my time scratching my balls than watch BBN, I'll prefer staying tuned to Urban TV, listening to gbedu cos to me MTV 9ja is overrated, I have only saw it once since it started and a female visitor forced me to, you are my guest so the remote is yours, d'amnnnnn dem babes?, they live for that shiiiiiiii!

Snapping back to reality, I was wowed watching that video but experience will always humble you, so I was in no place to judge cos I have sailed that ship, you won't even know you are acting stupid but that's what happens when you allow your emotions control you, it makes you powerless. I believe once if you kill your emotions in your dealings with people then you've solved 99% of your problems because in every decision making of your life you'll act with a clear head, fact over feelings. There's every possibility we can still love and control our emotions, it's reality or facts first and this is where self love or self interest comes in.

It's not a bad thing to love but from what love has taught me, I'll never put a woman first or on a pedestal again, it's not if you are happy I am happy, it's instead I have to be happy enough to make you happy, I need to love myself enough to be able to love some else because any other love you get out there is conditional, even parents. Be the most successful in the family and you are mom and dad's favorite child aka "The Asset". Both sexes practice it but I'll rather do a favor for a guy than a for girl, niggas appreciate things way more.

Buy a guy you are meeting for the first time a bottle of beer and your face is stored in his head for a lifetime, meet him 5 years after he'll remember your face and reciprocate the gesture but give a girl the world and watch her throw you out of it when things go wrong, afterall it's hers, you gave it to her.

"Before you give a girl the world, make sure you have a world of your own". Ken 1651 AD.

Like I said in my dealings with both sexes in my 33 years of existence guys appreciate things far better than a woman ever will, especially in this present age and this part of the world.

Give her the world without having a world of your own, she'll still ask you one day when things go wrong ,

"Manchi, what have you even done for me?"

E go shock you.

Regardless, speaking for myself, ofcos I still want to marry and have yellow pawpaw kids like me, I might not be as handsome as Oshoimole but I be spec in my own way.

Would I love to get married?, of course yes, Am I ready to settle down? damnnnnnn! right I am cos to even top it up I am an only child but I have studied women, adding their drama to you, it's a course on its own, I am not in a haste abeg, plus It's hard with our present generation of Ladies,

To most of our present day Ladies, relationship is nothing personal, it's just a business in disguise. You give me sex under "we are dating", and I reciprocate with giving you money under same "we are dating" . Sad to say but it's the fact, then I compare it to marriage and realise its just a tushed one waiting in front for me, you add someone else to your life you are compelled to protect and take care of them, it's handling a whole new responsibility but when you are comfortable and have stayed single for too long, the definition of Peace of mind becomes glaring ,but a quick question?

"Can a woman tag along and give you this kind of Peace?",

For me, I still don't have an answer.

I am single and I believe I get more sex than some guys in relationships, especially the ones in long distance relationships or the other kind where the babe is not a virginnn yet put the guy on a 'no sex before marriage' terms and still cajole him into investing heavily in her and the dead man go get his sex elsewhere because you didn't put the term, she did, you were just st! upid enough to buy it (That's the Oga kpata kpata of dem all). She's in a serious relationship but sending nudes to another guy while another somewhere else is dying over her(Aka The LOMLs crew) , meanwhile we both know our dealings are sexual , it's a f'uc'ked up shhhhitt, me sef don love with my strength and might, another guy has done it to me during the love hunting days so I am not even surprised, you only relate better with what you've experienced, some do it for long throat in our present age , things are hard.

Sometimes, I don't blame them still , we are revelations of our government, all they do is steadily fuc:kkkkkk us in the ars! se and still milk us hard to rub insult to injury, no Joy on the streets no more, we are the monsters they made, as my Guy Odogwu said.

If you want to know women, try being the side Guy for an eye opener, she would tell you stuffs to make the Main Guy look weak no matter how much of a man he thinks he is, tell and would do things with you she wouldn't with the Main Guy, in plain terms a Saint before the Main guy and her real self with the Side Guy.

I don't even want to date, I love my peace and calm, when I finally meet her and its right I'll marry, the more wait the more value I add to my life, gives you more time to keep doing better but heaven knows I am not going to in the name of 'we are dating' shoulder any woman's responsibilities, a broke woman has no business dating, before you kill someone's son with

"Baby, I have not eaten since morning"

E no balance, I have my shit together and for me to be better and to take you serious you have to have your shit together too, nothing personal but if sex is all that's in it for me, something we both enjoy, I'll pass cos it's the cheapest thing to get, if it's all about the pus#sy then she's a total drag back, if not, I'll never take anyone serious.

It has to go both ways, I want to be spoiled and pampered too, I can't buy you a wrist watch of 30k on your birthday and I get a boxers, white singlet and handkerchief on mine, I am not a cultural or atilogo dancer.

And yea, S.K?, yeah I smoke herbs, its my therapy and the realest women I have met are herb � smokers, they come with a whole new vibe.

Please don't take it the wrong way, I am straight as a ruler so I love women, before someone tags me a mysogionist or Gaybriel!.

Just a clean heart venting.

I rest my case.

D'amnnnnn! I miss writing. I hope to be back soonest. Meanwhile check out www.waywardpikin.com

Waywardpikin, Ubanja, pansophist, CaveAdullam, Martinez38

The floor is open.

DonMekino:
People condemning those watching and trending on BBN, is this the kind news you want to be listening to? Things that can take away your sanity if you have conscience

manychallenges:
I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.

At 27:
.. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate
.. Can't boost of a skill
.. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine
.. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here
.. Papa already retired and Mama still in service
.. Still ask Mama for money for haircut
.. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet
.. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different?
.. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town
.. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years!
.. You see am so bleeped
.. Giving up? Nah, I ain't

TkhGuy:
It calls for concerns to remember that girls don't feel for those who adores them or play by their rules but those who act the opposite way,

At a time like these, calls for a reflections and cross examination of whom we call our girlfriend read it again.

I was in agony when I saw him, I know something big has went down the drain, I was hurt seeing him so hurted beyond control, and the Jezebel throttled hard without a thought, or remorse,
even before the face of heaven and earth,
My heart was broken cos I can't stop imagining myself being in his position cos I was once a dangerous lover who never looked back when loving and spending on a girl.

As the story goes, he simped with his sweat and life, with all he labored for, to trained her in high institution and build house for her parent. 5 fcking years, and rolling in the mud, and rejection is his take home share,

Boys are watching, but simps will never learn, as for the girl, kerma is around the Conner racing to spend the rest of his life with her,

I wish I could reach out to him to console him, I wish I could mend his frustration.

The falling of the dry leaves, is warning to the fresh ones,

A guy who does a girl a favour and expecting it in return, is like a passenger awaiting to board a train at express way,

One who spends on girl in the name of love, is like one who cooks a local rice without removing the stones, he must preper to crush stones with his theath by surprise,

Girls loves putting a show, my pain is that we have been hearing the rumours now we are watching the reality, but still there lot of boys who are heading to that pit of agony..

this girl has digged her own grave while alive

If you are reading this, step back and reexamine the girl you call your girlfriend, I don't know the spell she casted on you, but if she has been using you as her provider or one of her saviour in times of her financial turbulence days,

It's time to burn that bridge and road to agony and sorrow, there is hope, if you reject her rope,

You must not be the next victim of scapegoat bro,
Good morning..

alexvic12:
Recently, the number of persons and posts claiming 'Redpill' on this forum has increased. Hardly a day goes by without three or more posts about Redpill and MTGOW hitting this forum.

Personally, I am not againnst redpills; I have learned a few things from the posts the frontliners of Redpill have made (I won't mention monikers).

The purpose of this post is to caution everyone toeing this path to be careful of a dangerous trap I have noticed. HATRED.

REDPILL and MTGOW is about teaching males how to manage their emotions and masculinity to avoid manipulation from the opposite sex, as well as from fellow men.
It is an idea that seeks to help men grow and become better without falling prey to the wiles and traps of feminine manipulation.

Sadly, the recent trend I have noticed is nothing short of PURE HATRED for the female folk and this is very wrong. Nothing done with hatred can last or be fully effective.

This is the same trap that has caught FEMINISM in Nigeria and some other countries, making it difficult for the real feminists to pass their message.

A lot of disgruntled guys are passing off hatred as Redpill and MTGOW on here and it is scary. If not checked, the movement will go the same way Feminism is going -complications and potential failure.


Suggestion

1. Please if you are not well-versed in Redpill, do not come here to chase clout. A few heartbreak and sour relationships is not enough to make you a Redpiller suddenly. Sit back, learn and up your game. Self development is key.

2. If you see any post that packages hatred for women as redpill, do us all a big favor and call out the poster immediately. REDPILL IS NOT HATRED FOR WOMEN.

3. Pursue self-development. I'm not talking of financially only, but all-round development. Redpill is easy when your mental faculties are sharper.


Please, refuse to make redpill a HATE MOVEMENT against women.

loversforum:
Procedures for Candidates seeking changed of course and Institutions?

We understand that the JAMB change of course and institution for 2020 has commenced. Some candidates have confirmed that they were able to process their changes at accredited centres and JAMB offices. So we urge other candidates who wish to change their course/ institution to proceed to an accredited centre or JAMB office for that purpose. You can also correct your Bio-data which include your name, date of birth, gender, State and Local Government of origin.


The process costs N2, 500 only (excluding the service charge by an accredited centre) and can only be processed online, just like every other process of the board.

http://www.myunicalnews.com.ng/2020/08/procedures-for-candidates-seeking.html?m=1

Demmylove:
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Stileswills:
This is a platform to passing interesting articles it's everyones choice to choose to read you don't get to decide just go

Petyprincess:
I love how every guy on this thread is forming but in reality na dem dey woo lady for 5 years

ubunja:
Why should they look for a job when simps are willing to give them money? If I was a lady and pretty I would never work one day. Never.

SweetBuns:
Effeminate men littered all over the place.
Your ancestors did their part without nagging and complaining.
Nowadays we have sissy boys and overgrown babies posing as men while wailing about the opposite sex simultaneously.
Its a shame

soberdrunk:
Maybe the kind gesture got her emotional......

Greengrazz12:
I use to be of the opinion of making money before trying to woo ladies and the glory of God he has been doing it. But one issue getting me depressed is ladies don't give me sex no matter how available they are to me. This year alone five ladies have slept over at my house and they all refused sex. I have tried all the tricks I know. They only see me as ATM. What is really making me depressed is when my friends ask me how I devoured the girls only to tell them we didn't do anything. It's so fustrating. Its making me feel less of a man. I just leave my friends when they talk about all the girls they are knacking and am the one sponsoring them. It's so depressing don't understand where am not getting it right

Dicktion:
Saw a hefty young man this afternoon scamper to the extent of almost landed in a pit for just sighting a snake. A big huge macho man for tha matter running for his life just because of a lil crawling creature that he was supposed to chase with a rod and smash to a mess. See how they were laffing at him when he couldn't even hide it and said it was a snake But if it was his fellow man now you'd see him shouting upandan venting his anger and flashing his biceps as an attempt to instill fear in them. To scare them away. If you see them working out and flossing you'd think they can face anything with their abs and biceps. But here was one of them disgracing the entire manhood causing ladies to say things they weren't supposed to say to a young man Now I have lost interest in the whole body build up trash I have been contemplating on partaking in if the lockdown is extended further

Guys do not be deceived most of these physically built up men are the biggest cowards on earth. Na dem dey fear pass.

At least I would have snapped and sent the picture of the snake to lala to put on FP like he did this one
https://www.nairaland.com/5954550/see-python-killed-street-morning

But big hefty man no gree. I'm so pissed right now man My only pacification now is he went home with lots of shame thanks to his cowardice

jimmyolasun:
pics of you in your elegant angel look or we don't believe it.

FeliciaOja:
If you brought out an iPhone 7 during the ancient times in Igboland. They will automatically worship you.
If you show them how you can send photo to another phone via Bluetooth. They will start carving your photo on wood and start worshiping you.
We humans are still touching the tip of iceberg in terms of technology.
These aliens have so much powerful technology that defy gravity and do magical stuff like help them win wars, healing, teleportation.
Who helped isreal fight and win many wars?? The alien called Yahweh. Which was later translated into english as Jehovah.

Yoruba,Greek and Igbo had alien called Sango,Thor and amadioha.
He is the same alien. He appeared to different tribes of people and they all call him different names. This alien use his electromagnetic device shaped like a hammer to destroy any threat to the people he was guiding.



So to an ancient caveman this is enough proof that these aliens are God due to their powers.

streamsofjoy:
I wish ladies will see all these stories and learn. Of course there are also stories of men desperate to be married for one reason or the other, but na our own plenty pass. See the way men talk about women any how cos of the attitude of some of us. Las las na we dey make men treat any woman dem see without respect and dignity. I wish we can just repackage ourselves. The sentimental talk of "they have sister, mother and daughter" no dey enter men again

2buffagain:
Except in rare cases, the claim of "I was a saint, he was the devil" is generally how you know the female in question did not learn anything about herself in previous relationships.

No-one is a saint.
Women generally have issues with taking any kind of responsibility for their actions.
Unless she has reached a certain level of maturity, most women get off on social sympathy and so must always see the need to project themselves as angels in every story they recount about something.

This is because to a woman, her social reputation of "purity" matters a lot...so good luck meeting a woman who has done the growth work needed to be able to stand as an adult to incorporate the phrase "I said/did some things I was not proud of(that might have hurt him) and I wasn't perfect..." when talking about past relationships. Some won't even use that phrase even if she cheated.
Must. project. sainthood.

Personally, I tend to only truly have sympathy for a woman when she is mature enough to be real about the role she played in matters.
She can pull that manipulation ish with other people who are ready to take her saint propaganda story.

eneye1:
I am victim, I graduated from school and my female neighbour told me two of our neighbors said I almost raped them.
I felt so so bad because there was nothing like that
The lady A Was staying with her elder bro, so she usually come to my room to complain how he smokes India hemp.
She has a friend I was always asking of , there was a day she was angry and said she lives in the same compound with me and I am liking another girl. And then she asked me out. I asked of her age she said 17+ , I told her I don't date below 18 and she said she will be 18 by December. All these happened February.
There was a day she brought semo and okro for me, I was surprised. I told her thank you and Goodnight and she is that how I will tell her Goodnight, she came and kissed me on the bed I was shocked because I felt how a lady below 18 has this boldness. This one was April.
She ran away from from me for a while, I called and asked her why was she running away from me. She said she was shy.
November same year, we just resumed to school for new semester. Her brother has not resumed then, she said the brother spent the holiday with their uncle in Abuja.
Now, that same day she arrived, she sent me chat on 2go around 10pm that she is scared to sleep alone that she was hearing foot walk behind her window. After Much encouragement, she begged to sleep in my room and promised to sleep on the rug.
I allowed her,she actually slept in the rug.later she woke me that she is cold and can she come to the bed, I allowed her
Later ,she put her head on me and we kissed.
We talk about her age and she said will be 18th in December ; less than 10 days.
We started touching , removed her Short, and the whole place was hairy and bushy.
She told me to be careful that she has not done it before. I encouraged her to to keep it that I have not deflower a lady before
I encouraged her to face her studies we talked. She moved away again for a while and started telling she has a boyfriend. After 6 months. She came to sleep again and she told me she is a virgin . we didn't even kiss.
She was angry though.
Now, I graduated, and they were talking about the the guys that left the lodge, she she said God saved her that I almost raped her. Meanwhile, I took her like a younger sis that her elder brother knew. She comes to my room.
The senior lady she told knew me very well. She had slept in my room countless times and nothing of such happened. She calls me her Uncle sef and they Even believe I don't have private part
This happened in Kogi state University, I don't want to describe her because she is married
Funniest part of it, she I left school. We still talkt we even talked about dating, and she said she no longer a virgin ooo. I have her money even shown she was going for her NYSC. She usually beg for money and I was angry that you can't be spoiling me and be eating my money. I heard this like 4 years after I left school[color=#006600][/color]