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Ujujoan:
Okay Moderator . . . Warning acknowledged    

[s]_{But don't expect me to respect  a dunce sha}  [/s]

You just had to go back to call him names again.

debosky:
BAN BAN BAN!!!

Seriously, that seems like the only way out.

Adam Brody:
@stephen p

This is what i don't like at all. Nobody is saying you shouldnt criticize or complain about derailing threads but why are you been so biased in favouring uju and attacking only me? didnt you see what she wrote and is still writing?

I've been following you both around so I pretty much know who to talk to. Plus you rightly said:

Adam Brody:
Why? Because i am blunter than she is but it makes sense for her to insult and criticize people using subtle language?

Adam Brody:
Its okay for you to critize me that i am a bad person but you refuse to warn the other party.

Can you prove that? You should probably ask around again before making that claim.

Adam Brody:
If you say 2 of us should stop, i will heed to your clarion call and honour your request but don't favour one party for the other. Be an arbitrar of justice not a side taking umpire in a dispute!

Thank you for your words of wisdom, sir. Now all I ask is that you don't hijack any other threads. Can you do that for me?

I'm done with you derailing threads. Yes I'm talking to you Adam Brody. This would be the only warning I'm giving you. Please it's enough.

What is this?? Middle school??

chika98:
Sauron: Yes i LOVE akara and i can make a mean one too

Lmao!! Reminds me of this incident. I don't know if you remember this song" lets talk about sex baby. . lets talk about you and me. . lets talk about all the good things all the bad things sex baby" etc. . So my mum had visitors and i was coming from the kitchen singing the song jejely ooh. Na so my mama whoop me that day tire. She's like what do you know about sex? blah blah

LOL!!! Pretty Ricky. You shoulda told her all you knew. There's absolutely nothing wrong in knowing about sex, you know?

drwhopl:
hey men who the mess are ya?

Ok . . . like that was relevant.

drwhopl:
dude i never said i pointed accusing fingers at her,

Of course you're not. You simply opened a public thread putting her business out in the street and portraying her in a negative light and she begging for your forgiveness as if you are that important. She must be messed not to ask wtf you were doing at a strip club in the first place.

drwhopl:
i guess u need some schooling in English language.

Right.

It's sad how sexist the world is. You're mad because she lied she was at school, well, did you tell her you were going to a strip club?? Your girl should be mad that your trifling ass was at the club looking for some girl to lust after yet you've got the nerve to roll up on her like that. It's probably not your first time at one because you know the ones that are new or old. Freakin' hypocrite.

tope2000:
I learned from the best honey

Hmm . . . I know I didn't teach you that. I only remember teaching you to be more flexible with your legs and such but not that.  

omi tutu:
All this one wey una dey praise Debo so . . .

abegi, make e carry go

too much good sense will make a woman use man as aso akisa

Hating already? What happened to

omi tutu:
Now why can't I ever write posts like this. . .  .

Sensible, well written, good syntax, and correct punctuation.

tope2000:
Baby, u know we both have an understanding as to where we stand with each other
And have have been with Daphoenix all this while and i didnt complain but u know all u have to do is claim ya girl and I'm urs again

LOL . . . you're such a playa. I can't even keep up with you!

tope2000:
Dead!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Brash n i broke up na
Altho I'm with sauron now

*cough* Oh really?

@Debosky, that was pretty good.

sillyboy:
Stephen, we are still saying the samething here. My best friend is a man and not a girl. Best friend is someone you trust and can confide in easily be it a man or a woman. In this case, mine happens to be a man.

LOL Oh God!

DaPhoenix:
One of my girlfriends is mad with her boyfriend because a picture posted on Facebook showing him with a some girl sitting on his lap and his arms wrapped around her . . . sorta like the way a boyfriend and girlfriend would. My friend was even madder because people kept calling her to ask if they'd broken up.

I called him up and asked him about her and he said that girl was his best friend and there was nothing going on between them. I then asked him why he couldn't hang out with his girlfriend like that. He said that he loved her but she is not his best friend; they don't share similiar interests.

Ladies: Is your boyfriend/husband your best friend? How would you feel hearing your boyfriend tell you that you are not his best friend?

Guys: Same as above . . . just switch it to girlfriend or whatever.

sillyboy:
Y the angry face? 

For me, my best friend is a guy and I don't do guys. . . .am as straight as a nail. (A guy can never be my lover) 

You got it all wrong. She's asking if your girlfriend is your best friend?

Locked.

DaPhoenix:
I would still leak that one picture on the net somehow lol.

LMAO I don't know which one but I'd do the same to you.

DaPhoenix:
Aren't you gon' answer those last two questions?

Dang even after all I said?

1) N/A
2) It will be nice to hear that I am but realistically, I don't expect to be her best friend especially since she has had some friends since childhood and I met her some months ago.

DaPhoenix:
He isn't a playa. . . he just isn't that romantic You need to see two of them when they actually do something together, they look soo good together. I think its the fact that they are so different from each other that is keeping them together.

@Stephen, did I mention they have been going out for a little over a year now?

Oh that's good. Well, then I guess it's just a phase then. Was the picture that bad for people to be hitting her up asking if they broke up? Good thing I don't have a facebook account

DaPhoenix:
@Stephen, mon cher I see what you're if she was jealous I would know. She has tried to connect with his friends but its seems like they all be hating on her. I know there was a time she gave up because it just wasn't working. However, you're right on point about the excitement part because he's the kind who loves to go out to parties and she's more like let's sit and watch a movie.

DaPhoenix:
@ David, Granted, she let her emotions get the best of her but trust me, she's tried to be friends with his friends. Sometimes, she tells us (our mutual friends and I) about how she tries to sit and talk with him but its seems like all he cares about is the next big party or event.

Ms. Phoenix, I know you want to stick up for your friend but you know she's being jealous. She can't stand the fact that some other girl is her boyfriend's best friend. They both should find a common ground; she needs to go out more and he needs to know when not to go out instead have some alone time with her. I don't want to be a pessimist, but judging from all you've said about the relationship, I don't this lasting very long unless they switch things up.  

DaPhoenix:
between, I see you trying to be a Doctor Phil or something

LOL!!! I try.

@topic, I think we're ignoring the main thing here; your friend is pretty jealous. She's jealous of the fact that her boyfriend is close friends with another girl. It is really not a bad thing though, it's normal to feel jealous. She just needs to know how to control it. She should be the one who should try to be friends with her boyfriend's friends both male and especially female just like how he is friends with his girlfriend's friends like you (I'm assuming since you have his number).

Anyway, as per his comment, there is nothing wrong with him being best friends with the other girl. Like someone else said, he probably knew the best friend first before he fell in love with the girlfriend. Plus, he says nothing is going on and I believe him because I've got female friends who are my best friends and I haven't done shit to them. We just kick it all the time and that's that so your friend would be wrong to break up with him or anything.

DaPhoenix:
Thanks for your comments guys but I still feel that he should make an effort to be bestfriends with her . . . I mean you can't have just one bestfriend.

Agreed but like he said they don't share similar interests so he can't be best friends with her and that is probably what he loves about her (that they don't share the same interests thus some variety in the relationship to spice it up). But then again both of them need to work it out and bring some excitement into the relationship . . . this whole jealousy thing is just a phase.

RedHotChic:
men are two times more in number to women in China.

LOL that doesn't count.

Anyway, I see why people would think so but he is not marrying for love, he's marrying her because he wants her body hence the high number of polygamous marriages in the old days or in recent times the high number of cheats. So it's best you give me a taste of it and I get it out of my system and focus on your inner beauty than you end up fighting with some other woman for my attention.

RedHotChic:
Better still, pay for the damn cow and test drive as much as you want but not BEFORE.

Well what the ratio of men to women again? While you're waiting for someone to pay before test driving, the others are being bought lol

RedHotChic:
Do you have a limit for this test driving?. If he aint ready to pay the full price for the car, he should better park in in the lot till the price is paid.

She is the one who should know the limits. . . the meter maid. Keep me waiting but don't tell me no every time. What is it? The sign then drive offer?

RedHotChic:
So you recommend she keep dishing it out like jollof rice?. Why buy the cow then, Steve?

No, I'm just saying she shouldn't cut him off totally. Let him have a taste of what's to come . . . somewhat like a test drive.

I doubt it will speed up the process. If anything it's gon' make the average dude want to cheat and/or look for someone else to marry since this one's let her mother control her life.

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Love is undefined.

Tgirl4real:
StephenP,

I bet u check ur mail once in a year

Did you send me an email?