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You are very silly. You think everyone is as myopic and silly as you? Which silly lineage are they continuing? Does the female child have less of her father's DNA because she is female?

I can not really fault you. it is not like you have anything to give to this world other than your cheap seeds. I understand if your myopic thinking revolves round having a male-child.

Hypocritical ko hypocritical ni.

LIVINGICON:
What is ridiculous about it?? You are an African for crying out loud. So tradition and cultural values are still held in high esteem. Fine, a baby, be it a boyor girl is important. But at the same time u can't rule out the fact that a baby boy is very important to continue his father's lineage.

Do you think families with all their children as females are really happy? Do you think they never wished to have a baby boy??

Enough of all the hypocritical thinking.

Nothing is automatic even with faith

tunderoc:
Madam I don't know if this is actually true but then there's no error in trying and having faith ok. A pastor once said There's some verse in Leviticus that states that "laying with your partner somedays after your period will automatically result in having male child. Besides I don't know what our obsession with male child is Sha.

Your daughters don't have a father yet.

I am surprised you don't see the kind of man you married. You may never that boy he wants so desperately. Who do you think they will resent more? A father eho left hime because he was disappointed in their gender or the mother who wished for male children to please her husband because the previous births have been disappointing.

OR

Your husband has not been home because he is in danger.

Psalme91:
you guys are right i should not worry about something which is not in my control.Thank you very very much for your support and kind words

Some people's school, hospital, good roads etc

Do you have farmlands for sale in Ibadan?

omoluabi87:
Still available

With what lab?

Silly news!

The relationship between a Lawyer and CAC is different from Lawyer and a Client.

It is the same reason banking halls, hospitals etc cannot introduce a dress code to their users. The lawyer's obligation is to the client not the CAC.

Gnaeusmagnus:
So, do you dress casually on official visits to civil service offices?

Mark Zuckerberg dressing down does not mean everyone else should dress.down.

Or you would like it if your banker or doctor or lawyer dressed anyhow when transacting business with you?

Zuckerberg or no Zuckerberg, dressing well still carries better influence

Has your family been blown up today?

Firebomber:
Have you slam your head today?

Most of them are definitely Muslims. There is a conspiracy to wipe out Muslims. May God bless their souls!

They still think we are in the era where men go to farm and women spend all day taking care od the home

Brazenbabe:
This is how you dolts "unsimp" yourselves into uselessness
Your redpill brain cannot envisage that the 4 year old child would get married in the next 25 years at least
Do you really think that this women belong to the kitchen and men belong to the office crap you people are struggling to hold onto would exist in the next 10 years?
Take a look around you, is it only men that were affected by this keke and okada ban? Did you not see men and women protesting side by side (occupy Lagos protest)
Everybody should learn how to wash clothes, everybody should learn to make money. It is a necessary survival skill.
If a man washes his wife's panties, is is bad? No be him dey chop wetin pant dey cover?
It is men like you that look after their wives after childbirth, cook for them, clean them up , hold the baby while she sleeps, they dont have two heads
yet some of you are pushing an outdated narrative that makes you so useless to your partner that you cant boil water
That why why your wives make useless shakara and refuse to cook when they are angry cos they know you are uselessly useless in the kitchen.
Keep making yourselves irrelevant, Women are replacing you in the boardrooms, dildos are replacing you in the bedrooms
Dont reinvent your selves please. Dont be a "simp". Mtcheeew

I don't understand the people shouting 'assist' on top of your own underwear

Slavery, persecution of witche and pagans. Persecution of Jews in Europe. Persecution of Catholics, Inquisitions.


Truth is people are people. Overzealous people will do crazy things for their religions. There is paganism without human sacrifice.

SenecaTheYonger:
Christianity has been responsible for a significant number of death? Name them

Christianity has been responsible for a significant number of death like other religions too. Whether these people who have killed for religion are true adherents, is a topic for another day.

Paganism is usually about animal sacrifices. The human sacrifice is the extreme type and a choice too.

SenecaTheYonger:
Until they cut off your big dull head and grind it into soap That's when your spirit will know that some practises are plain evil. Maybe you're even one of them.

But you are qualified to judge others who are merely worhsipping their gods just like you do.

eni4real:
You are not qualified to be a judge of after- life!!

Exactly

There is no part of what these people do that is any different from the rituals of other religions. Same concept, same difference.

I am pretty sure my thoughts the same when they saw Muslims praying and Christians singing praises.

At least they don't go about condemning every non-believer's soul to death.

Emperor4tune:
all men could be fetish at some point due to what people thing or feel is inapopraite base on their believe,culture,religion and ethnic differences about others.e.g how will you feel seeing me eating snake,offcourse you will feel am fetish to eat snakes because your believe deos'nt support it & lot more,how will you feel seeing aboki washing his preek by the side of the road with satchet water before bowing down to pray to Allah at noon,fetish right?,infact i can boldly tell you that most muslims sees regular communion taken by christians as a fetish practice because they dont believe in it,so the bentch mark is this MIND YOUR BUSINESS & YOU WILL FIND PEACE WITH ALL MEN

You are misled the devil and you are going to hell fire if you don't repent.

eni4real:
Delusional comment

You can use your holy water, speak in tongues, fast, pray at midnight but they can't say incantations and sprinkle some powder

Paranoid people!

And Mothers in law don't act that way abi? Who told you it easy to live with an adult anyways?

The funny part is the wife will also be able to control her father and take actions to let him understand boundaries. Swap the gender, it is going to be how the wife should learn to live with her new family when her own family wouldn't dare.

What stupid authority? You no get wife or are you planning on marrying an adult who has an IQ of a baby?Or do you stop being human because you have a penis?

nwanneni:
It's like you don't know how father in laws like to look down on son in laws and feel they know better
I am not bringing another captain in my house that will want to challenge some of my authorities na.
Very natural phenomenon,not about me hating my partner's people.
MILs to me can stay as long as they want but FIL?HELL NO!

She should visit the Ministry of Women Affairs in your state.

Forced17:
Good morning Nairalanders

This has been eating me up for days. Me and this girl have been together for 3 years now, she's 17 and I'm 19.

I accept all bashings for being in a relationship at this age, she's the last born though and we perfectly understand each other.

Now her father is forcing her to marry a man in Kaduna, she refused and the father threatened to throw her and her siblings including the mum out into the streets or send them to the village if she doesn't marry the man.

Now she hasn't even for days now and she's contemplating on taking her life and she just told me about this yesterday and this has brought me down so much. I don't know what to do, I need help. This is about her future, I don't want her to be forced to become a mother at 17 and living under a man she doesn't know.

She has only three weeks before the man comes to take her away.
My girlfriend is being sold into marriage and I don't know what to do.

I need help, I'm heartbroken��
I don't know who can help me push this to front page

In one sentence: Your family is more important to your wife than her family and her family is nothing to you!

nwanneni:
I don't really think it's a poor people's problem.
For instance,my mom is in her mid sixties with mostly grown up children scattered all over the place and no one to live full time with her at home.
Do you think I will let her live alone when I know I have a functional family that can make sure she is well taken care of and be under my watch in case of any emergency?
Does she living with me in this scenario mean she is poor?
Also,about your dad coming to live in my house is almost impossible,unless of course we get along like buddies,if you think otherwise,maybe you should get your own house and stay with him there.Else you will be needing my permission to bring him over because;IT'S MY HOUSE
It's just the way it works out here.

Unfortunately for you, the Op says the babe is not a Muslim.

lebron7:
Islam and rubbish are like 5&6

What is the age difference? They are in the same peer group. All of you should calm the hell down.

adamslukman19:
You're very funny! You're dating underage girl and you still have the confidence of saying it out. If you were properly brought up, I'm very sure you wouldn't be thinking of that at this stage and unfortunately, you have already derailing the career of that girl already. So is good for you to focus on your career.

You don't have sense at all. First Islam the Culture.


Does your Islam tell you that women should be forced and thereatened into marriage?

Does it also tell you that it is good to threaten to one's family?

Culture is dynamic. If part of your culture doesn't see the wrong in a forced marriage, that cultural norm is trash.

Quality20:
in Islam parents are highly responsible for their children and wards under them. Pls allow the man do as he please, he isn't going to hurt his daughter. she is under his care and will account for her on judgement day. Pls don't spoil another man's family, u are only a random boyfriend who might eventually use,dump n spoil d innocent girls life.
I'm myself dating a Hausa lady and I know n accept that the father can chose to marry her out to any man he wish and I can't question that. Even though I love her, I'm not going to tell her to rebel against her parents. I repeat, don't spoil things for other ppl, u r not responsible for this girl and u can't change that. Cultures vary a lot, u can't impose ur cultural views on others

If a man needed to say nonsense like this, it is either he can't deal with his family or the woman he chose has a screw loose or he is just being paranoid.

Hcqmela:
Like me self I wonder but if it was to be the woman's case now na that time they go dey urge her to drive them away exactly the same thing dey accuse women of that's their area of specialization. Don't u wonder why some women don't relate well with some of their relatives. Its because of these same selfish men.

Men will be acting like they are the only ones that have families.

This whole madness is because the guy is a painter.

.!

I rarely make eba and I don't do owanbe nor telemundo

Go ahead and prove me wrong. I am interested in the history of the black race.

MRcocaFanta:
I will advise you to stick to Telemundo or how to make Eba or tie hairscalf for owambe party.

This topic is above your brain capacity.

Adios

Watch out! He is going to tell you about Egypt to prove a point about the black race

pocohantas:
Naso. Story that touches the heart.

Like all the development and technology they enjoy was by them or the blacks in SA are ever up to any good. Dakar indeed.

Porn is illegal in Nigeria. Besides, I doubt they had knowledge it was going to become public record.

OcVoice:
She said the association and its partners would do all they can to ensure that the perpetrator was brought to book.

Which perpetrator? Did he force them? They willingly agreed to do it!

Only God knows what this woman must be going through. We can only imagine.