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Why are you apologising to God?

DenreleDave:
As for me, God I'm so sorry I wunt be going.. This one they said 50 per church, b4 I reach church, 50 go don full.. Actually I am not scared of corona virus but since an order came from above that public gathering shud be limited, so I wunt be going.


RCCG in da house



Happy Sunday to you all!

Foolish youths

She should go ahead then.

Born2conquer:
Sincerely, She is

Her happiness lies on staying away from this husband

Have you ever had a really bad tempered and easily triggered boss? Imagine having to live with such boss for the rest of your life. And you are expected to cook, clean, care, have sex with this boss for the rest of your life.

Why should you think it is best for her to walk on eggshells for the rest of her life . Do you really think it is best to act like a slave because she wants to stay married. Would you continue a marriage where you have to tread very lightly?

Wiseman5:
By the way you sound, you really want your sister's marriage to work but your post here altered the motive.
Never worry the only thing without solution is death and your sister and in law are alive.
First of all, remove divorce from your mind expect if he is a cheat.
Your sister must avoid confrontations and every other body language that suggests they are rivals.
She should seek knowledge on how to win a man she is currently seeing now.
Whatever brought them together should be remembered at such a trying times as this, and they must succeed. They should prove to everyone that attended their wedding that they are mature enough to handle their issues.
God's help is present with them, relax weeping may endure for a night but JOY comes in the morning and that's very soon. Shalom brother, it's well.

Is she ready to divorce him? She must be mentally ready to divorce him, she will need your support. It can be a long and frustrating process.

Please ignore those imploring you to keep her married. If you love your sister, you will not want her to be walk on eggshells for the rest of her life. Even at that, you will never know what might his latest trigger then your sister is disabled or dead.

Born2conquer:
If I don’t act FAST, I might lose my sister

She made a mistake marrying this beast and I can’t keep on looking.

Please, what’s the fastest way to institute a divorce in lagos?

I am very aware of what is going on.

These people suspected. Other than the
alleged symptoms etc, they didnt defer to the medical authorities. Their experiences were before the government guidelines.


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salford1:
Yes. Most government are behind because this is an uncharted territory for a lot of government or health care workers. The guidelines just started becoming available. Before the guidelines, alot of people just thought it was a cold or a mild flu.

Even with the symptoms, they need to meet certain strict requirements before they can be tested. The two experiences in this post do not meet the requirements and won't be added to statistics if the symptoms appeared today and they seek healthcare.

If you displayed all the symptoms in this world but have not traveled or been in contact with someone that tested positive, you would be declined testing in Canada, so you won't be added to statistics. You would just be told to self isolate for two weeks, then if the condition detoriate, then call emergency.

The situation is also fluid so guidelines are consistently changing, atleast in the developed world. Heck, like they just found out that aerosols makes the virus airborne for a few hours and also just determined how long it can survive on different types of surfaces. These were Information not previously available.

See the bolded. That's from the government's website of my province.

Their experiences made no reference to guidelines in place. From what I can see, they were sick before government started coming out with those. They didn't even call so that their names could be added to the growing statistics.

salford1:
It's not easy to get examined in developed countries due to the limited number of testing kits. They will not test just anyone that shows up at the testing centres. You need a referral from a family doctor or via a specific number that you have to call, then the operator would interview you on the phone. People are experiencing long wait times as the number is overwhelmed too.
In addition, you need to meet certain strict requirements:

- You must have travelled and have symptoms. If the symptoms are mild, you would be told to stay home for 2 weeks in self isolation and recover. Hospitals only want severe cases to come to them.

- You can only test if you are within 2 weeks of arrival into the country and you have symptoms.

- You have been around a person that tested positive, and the person already has a file with the government.

If the lady we believed brought it to our office had gone for a tests and confirmes positive, we would all have been mandated for a test too, but the lady did not.

You are experiencing shortness of breath. It is a new experience but you chose to stay at home in the abroad with all the panicking.

Say I understand the US guy, he doesn't want rack up debt. What's up with the Canadian guy though? Lol, the other one said he blacked up and he still stayed home.

Good jokes!

SenecaTheYonger:
Don't be stupid, it obviously isn't that serious for those who don't have underlying ilness. I can vouch for that first guy that said he's never had shortness of breath before, but what he described is accurate because I have bronchitis and he explained the shortness of breath, inability to take in enough oxygen, muscle pain from struggling to breath - it's too accurate. If someone with asthma or bronchitis or any othet serious health issues catches it, they'll likely be admitted.

Lol. Some stories..

They had it before they knew what it was yet did not run to the nearest GP when they couldn't breathe. No mention of those they passed it to either.

Some decisions in this delicate times

Obviously like Ebola

Yet Living in Bondage won against King of Boys.

Will you mind your business?

danilmo:
I know u ll not like this bitter truth o..

meanwhile the person u quoted is a Lady who has decided to make things work..

If a man cheat, do the necessary medical checks, forgive him, as a lady don't go and try such coz ure forever out , and he ll bring in another mistress comfortably as an alpha male within weeks, Man can't forgive a cheating wife, in fact I can't sex her again, irritating already.. that's nature bitter truth, but u ll disagree.


Men cheat and we talk it with confidence in fact, because we are Men.. One major thing that can tame a Man is a responsible wife, not d nagging ones like u, I'm very sure ur husband ll b cheating on u with confidence. ur fault..


Don't worry, wen ur husband cheat , divorce him and marry another man with ur children.. who marries single mother's this days self, tueh.. Another Man's left over, except she's a widow.

Hopefully it doesn't get worse. I shudder to think of other measures the government might take if it goes sideways.

Cetona:
I am hanging in there , taking it one day at a time. I have stocked my house with all essentials and my school will resume lectures online from next week. The country is on lock down now and that scares me

Why don't you observe instead of jumping on what you also don't know about?

deepfreeze:
[s]Just Like John Snow, You Know Nothing !

For Him To Say Forgiveness Is The Key, most "MARRIED" NLs understands perfectly well what he's saying without need for him to explain further. On the contrary, it proves you are not married, at least YET.

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Really? Like

She cheats on you with your best pal
Some or all your children are not yours
She is often rude to your parents and siblings
She insults your parents to get at you
She cheats on you and also badmouths you to the men she sleeps with
She is happy when things don't go right with you
She is abusive (could be emotional, verbal or physical)
She becomes a constant trigger of your anxiety

LifeMapEmpire:
I tell people "FORGIVENESS" is key in the success of any marriage... Been married for about 10years now and I can say without mincing words that "NOTHING IS A DEAL BREAKER FOR ME".


I have forgiven in advance for the things my spouse will still do!

How many women have you told that their success depends on their marriages? If you raise your children right, they might surprise you.

bonnyhope:
How many of them have this kind of break through

I don't even want to understand that BS. It is no different form every BS I have ever heard in my life.


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opribo:
You wont understand.

How does marriage take away a female child?

opribo:
Who told you that, so when marriage takes all the females away and their mothers' begin their game where will i be when the strength is gone.
There is something about male children.

I think she meant her peace not theirs or anyone's.

donbachi:
"now I can marry in peace"...building dem a house is d condition for dem to let u marry...ok oo.

Cetona, how are you coping?

What is happening in the world that is sufficient enough to discriminate against them too? Is Lagos another name for Wuhan, China?

If they don't want to serve Nigerians, they should not be opening their doors to anyone. The FG had made their decision for them. I expect them to be glad.

mauchiz:
With what is happening all over the world, are you supposed to go to there shop to eat?
You are not supposed to go there to eat,

They don't want you to eat there before you people wlll start saying they gave you coronavirus.
Even were I work, when I see them I give them distance.

I tire for una

Self respect= -100.

It is like you have a Chinese god you worship every morning.

mauchiz:
All of a sudden they became racist after 20 years of selling in Nigeria?

Is this what makes Africans cry of racism? If someone has been selling a product to you and decide not to sell again, there should be a reason you need to find out, that is what the government would have done, by issuing them a query, so they can explain,not everyone chanting racism.

Is too bad, let's learn to tolerate others, no matter what,If is a Nigerian shop will they close it?
People push people out from there shops in Nigeria, why have they not closed it?

#Do to others what you want them to do to you.

Then when we realise it, we will shut it down again.

jaxxy:
If they were smart they wud have created different sections rather than saying Nigerians can’t eat in.

Mad people

At the rate you people are moving mad ehn, I might just look for witchcraft to collect. Of all the things to use my powers for, frustrating a man with wet dreams will be my priority.

Have you been following the news?

babdap:
Like or Hate him,the welfare of US citizens has always been his priority since inauguration

I am sorry but your children are more important than your husband. Your boy is still young. He can still change for the better. Find someone who can talk to your husband and if he refuses, your children are still more important. They are the future and you are responsible for them.

Vyvyanvyvy:
He will be 12 years in August , my daughter is 6 years, I have one daughter for my husband she is 2 years and I’m pregnant with another one. Their father is not in Nigeria and I don’t have his contact or his siblings. Yes I have a grocery shop I foot 70% bills in my house

You don't have anything to say. She is the mother. The man knew what he was getting into.

Davash222:
Your siblings that are your relatives doesn't want the boy but you want your husband that is not your relative to accept the boy
You should learn to attend to your responsibilities and mistakes. Don't drag your mistakes to that innocent man. He has done more than enough for you.

Marrying a Nigerian girl with two children(not even one) is not what every man can do. That man deserves peace and respect from you.

Please sir, in the above list, Which of them mentioned cousins or describes cousin?

ThatFairGuy:
So you're still arguing what is not in my religion that it's there?
This is Suuratu N-nisai (Quran 4 verse 23) I screenshot for your reading pleasure

If your father is alive, why are you with your aunt?

First cousins marriage is not prohibited explicitly or implicitly. Therefore, it is very much allowed.

It is common amongst Arabs and Northern African Muslims. It used to be huge in the west especially amongst the royal families until it faded out (or outlawed)

ThatFairGuy:
Why asserting what you know not! Where is it permitted in Islam to marry one's cousin? The people of the past practices it before the ISLAMIC LAW FORBADES IT(during the lifetime of the holy prophet- pbuh). Since then it has been unlawful to practice such
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