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Saintinoo:
Bro that number three also trouble me, what ked to our current fight, she talked to me un a disrespectful way, i told her to mind the way she talks to me, that aside being her boyfriend, i am not her mate, this girl picked offense and startedaccusing me of being ddominating and forming god.

Which also led her say that she regrets saying yes to me, she been saying this for long.

kendraloops:
My dear, its English oo then he n baby's grandparents speak Esan to him when we go visiting as I don't speak Esan. You just need to see the way he gets when I speak yoruba to baby

Nextlife1:
Am not proving any point to anyone.
You can only forgive someone who is sorry over her Action and ask for genuine forgiveness.
Than you can forgive the person and move on together.
In this case the person question did not care and still enjoying herself.
My best option is to inform her family and move on with my life and my kids.

Nextlife1:
I have that in mind
I only want her to finish school before I start my own.
But for now she will stay with her father.
After I upgrade myself I may still come back if our level match by than.

Nextlife1:
Lost the only best friend I think I have
The only one I trusted with my life.
I can't sleep I can't think I can't even eat
God have mercy for me to come out of this heart broke alive.

Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

Klass99:
You don't want this on front page, abi you wan collect? By collect I mean unnecessary insults and vileness, this site can be extremely nasty to women and judgmental of them, add divorced to it and you're asking for a crap load of bullshit. You don't need that sort of toxicity on top of all you are dealing with right now.

Motivation is not a constant thing that happens every day, there are days you'll feel energetic and days you'll feel lethargic. Make the most of your energetic days to pursue dreams or set goals and don't sweat it on lethargic days (as in, don't fret or worry needlessly about feeling demotivated)

I stumbled on a website recently that might be helpful to you, it covers true life stories of different women who've had varying degrees of hardship, crises and setbacks but they triumphed through it. Read their stories and be inspired, remember what I said in paragraph two.

https://dailyinspiredlife.com/start-over-stories/

Gudfadah:
Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.

She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?

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