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harry01:
Wow is that what you think? You are so wrong. Please kindly read the thread @Gboliwe posted and see guys (more than 5 so far) sharing their experiences some were not as lucky as myself. Why I posted the advert was to show where it all started and to say we still open to business and still believe in the power of social forums to get contracts moreover all this just makes me stronger, one of those things you will never learn in class as an entrepreneur/business man.

I believe your prayer and that anointing oil set you apart. You became like a repellent to that man, that is why he was sweating so bad from the onset.

May God continue to glorify his name in your life. Also thanks for sharing your story. Dude continue to hold God tight oh! I have learnt from this your testimony.

mufutau55:
But why are you guys not reporting all this incidents before Dominion started this thread. I mean since about a year ago...
Your past experiences could have helped other people too... "When you see something, say something".
Let's not think about Owerri or Eastern part alone, this could happen anywhere, even in your backyard that you knew so well. Beware.

Hajji M.

I am shocked people have experienced the same thing from the same Owerri yet kept mute. Nigerians we don't like ourselves. Such a scam targeting Nairalanders and we don't have a topic addressing this scam sticked at the front page of property section? Its incredible!

Someone is saying money was paid into account. Did you inform police when dem for nab the guys with that bank account. May God help us.

Gbenke:
I was not lucky?atall. this same David called me for a tiling?job in Owerri last week . i was in Owerri last Friday and just as your story went so was mine. i was taken to an uncompleted building where i was da dipossesed of all my belongings at gun point . i was tied hand and leg while my Atm cards were taken to the bank to empty mt accounts. i just thank God they were satisfied with all they got and let me go.
Let us all be more careful as we search for our daily bread.

This is my problem with people like you. Did you come back to the same Nairaland to warn people? Even if you were ashamed of using your real name which you are known by. If you did sorry. If you didn't pocket your warning. Thanks to op for doing the needful.

Please let's be our brothers keeper and speak up on time.

tobishills12:
Kissing while Single: Judas Version

Saturday night was a splendid one, you know why? Because I had to lecture someone on this above topic. I was sleeping when I heard my roommate conversing on phone with his girlfriend (MTN refer to that as xtra-cool). Yes that was a disturbance, I couldn't sleep any longer, fortunately for me I could hear what they where both saying: I eavesdropped!

it was a very interesting conversation of which I felt jealous, did I? No I didn't. All I know was that I felt like calling someone too, unfortunately I had none. I have been enjoying the conversation until it came to the shocking part of which I heard his girlfriend refusing sex before marriage, claiming she's still a virgin but she was not an opposition to the act of kissing before marriage. That part shocked me, I have been hearing about this but I have never heard someone I know talk about it, I had to beg and pester my friend to please hand over the phone to me of which he agreed, then I was fulfilled when I talked to and convinced the ignorant lady.

Is kissing before marriage a sin? This is a frequently asked question by singles that really want to leave the bird undefiled. It is so unfortunate to notice that although they want answers but when they get one they decide to go against it and they twist the bible to suit their decision: they really wish to explore the act (at least it's romantic). The aforementioned lady had made some references to the Christian scripture—1conrinthians 16:20, Romance 16:16 et al.—of which the act of kissing was encouraged. when I heard this I laughed so hard to the extent of being challenged by a watch guard, then I said to myself: forgive her father for she knows not what she said.

Now listen, there is a big difference between the Jewish kiss and the French kiss. Noticeably, the Jews greet themselves with kisses, it is equivalent to the Western handshake. To the Jews, kissing is not a mouth-mouth, it is done to the cheek, and it is just a sign of respect, it is used to salute with no other ulterior motives. We all know what kissing in Nigeria means to Nigerian Youth— its not to salute each other. The word "holy" is actually being added to those aforementioned verses in the bible and so it will not be holy when it leads to premarital sex.

The motive behind kisses is what makes it right or wrong. You will not call it wrong when you see your Mom kissing your Dad or your Mom kissing your younger sister because of the motive behind it. I likened kissing in Nigeria to the event that occurred between Judas Iscariot and his master: Jesus. It was a serious event that led to the death of the two parties involved: Jesus was killed and Judas committed suicide (Luke 22:47). The motive behind the kiss given to Jesus was not to salute him but to reveal him. Then I say on to you, any kiss that is offered to you except with the motive of greetings is dangerous.

Can't you just wait until the fullness of time? A time is coming when you will be allowed to kiss through out the day with your spouse (although, not possible). A five minute kiss can lead to five years of shame and dejection, can you please wait for the right moment so you won't regret your action? If you can, then, you're on the right path. Happy Sunday!

Its wrong to eavesdrop on another person's conversation. Its worse that you got the fake ass roommate to part with his phone so you can lecture his girl friend. That is just weird, lame, childish and truly shameful. How old are you guys?

Franzeez:
Stop fooling yourself in disguise for politics. Follow the fact of matters. Buhari embarrassed Tony in Washington is a true fact. For Gods sake Tony is a Business Mongul who employs thousands of Nigerians, Buhari should not do that. Buhari needs to stand up to the contemporary era, this is not Military era.

Bros I'm dealing with facts here. The lady I quoted said Buhari does not realize Tony's worth and that he is vindictive bla bla bla

There were trying to give the impression that a prophet (Tony) is not respected in his country. Lol Now I don't do a lot of politics but right there from Tony's account, you can see he was invited by the fed govt to Washington!

That na common sense nah. Show me a report from a reputable newspaper where Tony was embarrassed in Washington by Buhari.

Abi are you mixing Tony with Jim? By the way you are the one fooling yourself! This will be my only reply to you.

@FannySwindler I've checked and you were wrong. Unfortunately you picked the wrong thread and probably the wrong dodo. Some people can ignore while others cant.

By the way it's 22:43 Nigerian time and you are on a cooking thread (mainly dominated by females) trading words like a market woman. No wonder there is Fanny in your name. Are you not a man? How old are you? Are you married with kids or do you have a job? You don't have to answer me for those are rhetorical questions. Dude you need to let it go and calm the f*u*ck down.

There are Nigerians all over the world and they will post what they eat or whatever they like. I am not intimidated by foreign meals. Why should I be? I actually look forward to people like Cococandy, Efemena's, Baby Osisi's (miss that lady) post and co. I don't even think about the fact it's mostly foreign meal.

You must have a very low self esteem to bring that to the fore. Shame on you and the others who liked that your useless post. This is a serene thread with mature people and I'd like to think no one is intimidated by broccoli or the likes. Go to Shoprite and pick them off the shelf.

By the way don't bother replying me. I rarely join issues with your type. You bloody bet you will not get a reply from me, not tonight not ever.

Freddieyankee:
Please was it because of her kindness she find timaya go hotel or wherever the rape scene took place.... Make una use una head abeg... All of us knows this musicians are dogs, wetin d girl dey find

Is that an excuse for rape? Even if she use her leg waka and she say no, you suppose drive am comot sharp sharp. Make una learn from this kain thing oh. Na the same thing a whole Bill Cosby do naim don damage that man so.

I believe this is true. Let me tell you people something and please use your number 6 while at it.

[size=28pt]Number 1 if you doubt that is Timaya's voice just know his publicity guy abi manager has approved it by replying the girl and asking her why she recorded his client unlawfully. Dude shot himself right in the foot! [/size]

[b]Number 2 a lot of guys do this stuff and get away with it because they are in Nigeria where rape victims are allowed to lick their wounds. You need to be mindful when you go abroad and do stuff. They have very tough laws there and an allegation of r.ape can drag a man down. I dont care what this lady's intention was. I don't care whether she went to see Timaya or not. I don't care whether she was wearing pant or no pant. The moment she said 'STOP!' as tough as it might have been Timaya should have let it go. That's it. Hate me as much as you like. Reply me and cuss me out but it does not take away from what I've just said. I know its not easy to withdraw then but it take a real man to know what is at stake and walk away or ask the biatch to leave his room!

Listen to the very first video from Timaya. You can hear the lady purring. You can hear the lust in Timaya's voice. The poor boy was probably thinking 'f.uu.ck it! I cant withdraw!' and while i feel sorry for him the fact remains that is his weakness and his fault. The law will not take account of his weakness and in a sane society he will feel the full weight of the law.

Guys, i know it is hard but if at that point a lady says ''STOP!'' you must withdraw. If you continue, that is RA.PE. You may not believe its true. You may not like it but if you continue from that point, just know you have committed the act of ra.pe. If you know you cant withdraw or control yourself, then don't put yourself in a difficult situation. [/b]

OMG Jesus Christ see wahala. The recording is for real. Guy has goofed big time. Damn it!


As for you Mrs girl, why did you report while he was still in Atlanta. Cos of his children? Nah you had your chance but blew it now go and sleep.

Timaya as for you too bad sha.

PROVACATEUR:
Imagine the men yoour daft presido rejected their association in USA being welcomed by the most powerful man in the world

Buhari is too vindictive for him to lead this country, I can't see anything good in him

It is good to read and read well. Let me repost again for you.

Read how Elumele's week went here:

It has certainly been a hectic week for me, with
travels to four countries in a matter of days. The
week began with a visit to promote African
entrepreneurship in Washington DC where I
travelled as an invitee of the Federal Government.
During his visit to the US, His Excellency, President
Muhammadu Buhari GCFR addressed a business
roundtable dinner organised by the US Ch…
I flew straight on to speak at the Forbes Afrique

That is why they call you people weeping wailers!

WukedP:
I heard him telling the very rough looking man that in USA u dnt see cue like this or something, him lower front teeth Don remove finish people just dey look at

So sad. The other time I saw a picture of him on the dentist's chair. So sad...

RichDad1:
The Jamboree is over.

Amen to that.

Karleb:
You spanked him for bearing pain?
Fear God now!

Was shocked to read that myself - very shocked.

thelish:
He can bear pains as well. There was a day, the dad mistakenly jam the door against his hand, every other would scream or shout to alert his dad, but my son kept quiet there bearing the pain while his hand was still strapped to d door. It was so annoying that I had to spank him for keeping quiet.

Now that is weird; I hope you are not the one with the problem. I can not imagine spanking a child cos he/she is expected to cry and they failed to do so. Shudders!

Another thing. Is he the only child for now? I'm asking cos perhaps if he had siblings he may be more open but then again only children could also be chatty. It depends on the child's temperament.

Finally how is the atmosphere at home? Sorry to ask but do you quarrel, cry out or scream at the hubby a lot? Does your husband yell a lot at you or anyone else? Do you people do this in the presence of the kids? I tell you kids don't need to see or hear such things.

Please search yourself. Do people stay with you guys like relations? What is the boys behavior with them?

If you have examined every one of the above and its fine then I'll say don't worry. The kid is fine; give him time to grow. Good luck

Why won't she? With the way she was running her mouth like tap.

123papas:
Yawwww. I have 2 tortoise also, much bigger than yours (same species as yours). Bought them from some street boys that went to catch fishes and eels trapped in gulley. They were initially 3 before my 'longthroat' calabar neighbour convinced me that we should eat the biggest one. I don't think this specie of tortoise can reach 5kg sha.

Are you joking? Someone convinced you to eat your pet - a tortise and you did? That's super weird

Hoii:
Yea, i caught four squirrels at different times but they all died after few days. I've been trying to understand why this happens

You should have googled it long ago to find out why. Well now you know, you should leave them and admire them from afar. Try and get something else that will blow us away - maybe a snake. LOL

Well done though. I love your enthusiasm

Jsmile:
there was no part of my testimony that claimed what you were saying beloved. I was NEVER RAPED. It all started from a friend that wanked me. But remember the kind if funny plays i told you I was having when I was small, so maybe such feelings or thought might have unknowingly birthed in me , I graduated to having sex with guys before i later allowed few guys to have sex with me. Remember I also said that sinful habit will NEVER leave you where it picked you from, it will surely cut across other levels of it. I practiced full sodomy but thanks for God's mercies and saving grace. In all i did am not worthy of existence but the thought of man is never the thought of God. I still give glory to God

It is well with you. Thanks for sharing. Thanks for speaking out boldly by the power of the spirit of God. I was blessed by this. God bless you.

MasterMinister:
You love him, I don't. Period...wait until after 4yrs, then i will ask you if you still love him or not...it is not about whether you love him but it's whether he will fulfil all the suger coated promises he used in deceiving people like you.

Thank you sir; stay your lane make I stay my own. The one when comot wetin e do for you.

[size=38pt]That's my president; SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE. [/size]

SAMBARRY:
I've broken it down before let me down again


parlour Parry means small party. The child doesn't have to invite all his classmates in school and Sunday school class. Tell him to just invite 3 of his close friends in class
3of his close friends in the neighbourhood and 3of his close friends in church making 9 children


there are affordable low price cakes. Find one struggling caterer you can tell to bake you better cake of not more than 5k.at most 7k



rice of 8 derica is ok . One derica is 200 naira, so making it 200naira x 8 cups is1600 naira.


tomato 400 naira, pepper 200 naira is ok then 100 naira onions, 50naira Maggi, thyme of 80 naira making it 830naira then buy 2kilo of turkey. A kilo is 800 naira so 2 will be 1600 naira




photographs shouldn't be more than 2k

A pack of plastic coke is 2k.mix it with fanta another 2k making it 4k.no need for dj.na parlour party. Just make the environment children friendly and put children music on


those that want to play video game should go to another section of the sitting room

No need to buy water. Water is in the dispenser near the dinning table. Any child that wants water should indicate


then pack of sweet is 400 naira

Big bowl of ice cream is 1500 just pour some inside small plastic cups for them


decorate the sitting room with balloons. Just buy 150 naira balloons


calculate all that money and tell me if e reach 10k talk more of 40k


.you people just believe that if you've not done a big party for kids you've not done anything


souvenirs too shouldn't be too expensive. Inside the souvenir will be exercise book of 100 naira. Put 3sweet and 3chewing gum. Buy sweet of 3 ten naira and chewing gum 10 naira making it 20 naira. Put eraser 5m 30 naira and pencil 10 naira inside the souvenir small nylon as take away for 9 kids lobatan

Your head dey there! Op follow this lady's suggestion. Remember when you invite friends to make it clear its just for the kids. Say something like "l'm just doing something small for the kids - nothing much just a gathering of 10 kids or so. You can drop them and come later to pick them up"

By then message should be over clear. No reasonable parent will still come by and sit down to eat rice.

The reason is I write that is cos I've seen countless kids party that became adult party by extension. The parents arrive, sit down, eat and dance. If that's what you have in mind, your 40k nor go reach sef. Good luck

Damn it. Lolz funny as.s story

Such a shame. Don't know what else to say. Anyways dude needs to spend some time in prison for this crime. Enough of getting away with it.

emmatok:
Comments from some women on this thread is so crazy.

So it's ok for a woman treat her husband's family anyhow, you ladies forget that same woman might need the assistance or support of the husband family in the future.

All this gra gra she is making about its my house Will disappear of something bad happens to her husband and his family aid is needed.

Some women can be shortsighted.

How does that take away from the fact she does not want him in her home? Do you know the discussion husband and wife had on relations staying? How can she be making gra gra inside her own house? Do you know who brings home the beacon in that family?

I don't support the woman's bad behaviour but at the same time that is her home!

Adamsdelrio:



There was a day she repeated the same thing and I became angry. I couldn't take it that day so I told her about what she's doing. She told me what I will never forget in a hurry that day. She said 'This is my house and I can do and undo'. I was angry that day and I talked back at her. She reported me to my uncle that day. I apologised to her without countering any of her lies because I don't want to disrespect my uncle by arguing with his wife at his presence.

How can I live peacefully with the woman?

She is right at the bolded. It is her home and for reasons best known to her, she does not want you there. Perhaps her husband did not ask of her permission before allowing you in there. Perhaps your mother did something or said something about her. You are the guest there and she does not want you. You should not talk back at her or run around doing childish stuff.

I think you should leave her home but if you have nowhere to go, keep quiet. If she finds your trouble, keep quiet and move on. She will get tired with time. Just ignore her. Greet her, if she dey form vex, crack one small joke if you can and move along. All the best. Try and get something small even if its teaching job. Anything to get you out of the house and out of her hair. May God open doors and help you bro.

PunkyVeer:
Kikikiki.

See how quickly she comes when I call her name or throw a bone. See how she wags her tail. Hehehe...

PunkyVeer:
Maybe she doesn't want an ugly gnome of a baby *sideeyes stonecoldcafe*

I'm just kidding Well, the marriage is still in its infancy stage. Time will tell. lol @ someone will catch his eye. 2nd time "lucky" ? I doubt it since he won't look any better himself as he gets older. Some squatty old lady, maybe

Hello lovie. Did you call for me? Do you like the attention?