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TonyeBarcanista:
What are you saying?

Take a deep breath and read it again.....it's simple English.

TonyeBarcanista:
On the contrary, the woman that I'll get married to will enjoy me more than you enjoy your husband. I'll love her so much beyond words and spoil her BUT it doesn't negate the fact that my mother comes FIRST in order of importance. I believe it is even to her advantage because the kind of mother I have love her in-laws more than her own biological children just the way her own mother in-law loved her more than she loved my father.. Like my grandma, my mother won't interfere in running of my family, she's a Christian that believes in the sanctity of marriage. That said, she comes first.

Meanwhile, some of you ladies her hypocrites. You see nothing wrong with the family lifestyle of British monarchy because they are monarchs. Abeg joor

If you truly believe that dragging an unsuspecting woman into your idea of marriage is to her benefit....then you're deluded.
Your wife will regret meeting you. No hard feelings I'm just letting you know early.

Beno3:
I don't believe because of divorce, a man will wake up one morning and butcher his lovely wife include his mother inlaw. Though I don't support violence against women.
But I strongly believe that either one of these may be the cause of this.
1, May have disobeyed him, championing her mother's advice, challenging and insulting him beyond his tolerance limit.
2, Comparing him with his mates outside and forgetting when the going was good and how he spent hell on her .
3, Causing him to lose his assets, exposes him and try to run away into another man's arms and her mother is in support of it.
4,Telling him his kids of ten years struggle, werent his, and that she is moving to the real fathers, and the mum supports it under his roof.

You've chosen to write your own story now. Continue

nashito:
Well, b4 I answr your question, I want to say smtin. First, did you confirm those things they said bout him? What if they were just mere lies to cover up? If my sister knows the kinda man he's dealing with and still loves him regardless, yes I'll.

You'll let your sister marry a man with three baby Mama's? Continue.....or maybe you think they lied about that one too.
That guy tried to ride of Tiwas back.....she simply refused to be used. For how long should u show your gratitude to someone that's hurting you? The rest of your life? Why? So Naija will call u good wife material?? Lol.... abegi. Let's stop lying to ourselves

TonyeBarcanista:
I married my wife INTO my family, my home is 100% owned by my mother. Same way the Queen has absolute right in the decision making of her sons (princes) but their wives fathers don't. You must accept the bitter fact that in marriage the woman is married INTO the man's family. It's a reality irrespective of whether you term it primitive or civilised.

Actually no woman has to accept this bitter pill.....cos it's not the truth. It's of no benefit to a smart woman to agree with this. Why bother when there are men in the world that have sense? Just make sure whoever u marry is aware of your mindset.....nobody can trap me in a loveless marriage.....who has energy to be contesting with your mother? Hian.....

TonyeBarcanista:
Sorry Babe, My mothers comes FIRST ahead of my wife in order of importance in my life, it doesn't mean my wife is less human. She will earn her place just as my mom earned her place in my life by being a loving, caring, loving and sacrificial mom. As for my kids, they are my blood and flesh just as I am my parents flesh and blood.

Meanwhile, the occurrence of men paying wives with unfair coin after they help build them is VERY rare. A lot of men appreciate the women that make them (that's why we don't joke with our mothers) and doesn't look down on their less successful wives. But women? Lol One Chance


I won't contest this your claim, opinion is free but facts are sacred.

Please make sure the woman that makes the mistake of marrying you is aware of all this. Tell her you'll love the children that she will give u more than the woman who gave them to you. Also let her know that you will place your mother above her. I believe whoever the unfortunate lady is deserves to know the truth before getting married to you.
Men like you are the reason people believe marriage is useless.

Mariinee:
Why virgins specifically? They don't deserve any girls.
And, did you say comic writer? Comic must have another meaning.

Sweetheart...they're too dumb to even realise a mistake was made. He meant to say "comedic" not "comic"
I doubt they know what a comic means. Instead they'll come here and be doing what unintelligent boys always do....accuse you of being ugly or a prostitute......e nor go ever pass that wan. Mumu they worry dem.....just ignore.

tosyne2much:
They are different but kinda similar sha.. Some people are paedophiles but they don't rape

To be very frank, every paedophile is a potential rapist

Actually every paedophile is a rapist by definition. You shouldn't be having sex with children. That in itself is rape by law. It's disgusting.

igetjoyfromthis:
So this is the Mariinee people talk about

She no even fine sef

Jeez too many fake dudes on nairaland.

Asslicking average looking girls

Use your mirror dear

hot1sauce:
all these people talking about ear piece blah this and that.... how can u conclude that's what lead to this man's demise? were u there? and even if he was wearing an earpiece there's nothing to say that whatever he may or may not have been distracted by would have obstructed he awareness to make him to point where he would have failed to be alerted by the presence of a moving train.... I think the bigger issue here is why is it(and I know this train track at Ikeja) that this train track should even be exposed with no barrier in the first place. Is this what needs to happen before the government can implement structures like we have in developed countries to prevent people from getting caught on the railway in the first place- in fact this kind of thing not just for the fact that the pictures r too graphic to be uncensored OP, makes u ashamed to be a Nigerian- I've been in a bus at Yaba/Jibowu side some years back now whilst lodged in non-moving traffic and an oncoming train approaching- I've never seen that kind of panic/hysteria in my life- and it is uncalled for..... that same track I just witnessed a while back has an attendant who comes to clear people away from the site when there is a train in motion at the scene and furthermore there is bell like alarm which is sounded and I'm sure loud enough to alert someone who is virtually deaf talk less of wearing an earpiece. Looking at this is pathetically sad, just seeing people circling the dead body I mean enough is enough- when r we going to get it right

God bless you for this

I'm surprised nobody has accused this man of wearing headsets to walk on the road.
There is obviously something wrong somewhere. Maybe more signs need to be put up or something. These freak accidents can happen to anyone. RIP to the dead


Edit: just realized some clowns have already played the "he must have been wearing earpiece card" Nigerians...we will never learn. Something is wrong and it has nothing to do with earpiece.

Omololu2121:
Men I don't pray I find myself in this sort of situation o

This marriage might collapse soon

Lol.....if she is lucky she probably married a better man than you. Cos what she needs is support. Hopefully her husband can be a man now that she needs him most.

I wonder why the op is trying to show us pictures of the woman that was raped. Like she hasn't been through enough. I even thought I'd see pictures of the criminals.
I pray the rape victim gets all the help she needs. It's not going to be easy for her. Trauma....they've just ruined this woman for nothing.

Kobicove:
Incidences of murder/suicide are more common among caucasians than among blacks...the statistics are there to prove it!

Suicide yes...murder no. Domestic abuse certainly not. Our women simply don't talk cos society teaches that they should endure. Also we do not keep records....so which statistics can u even actually quote? We can't even keep a real record of rape cases in naija.

rex444:
This writer sef.... I didnt want to say anything but then again i thought otherwise. This people you are asking to come and rescue her from her marriage,am sure she never sought for their consent before marrying oyibo man.. I want to really know wht ur beef is......only family buries d dead not outsiders..... Rip to d dead

So if she doesn't seek consent she deserves no support and can be battered to death abi? It must be her fault either way in your eyes abi?
Nigerian men also beat their wives to death so please stop talking as if this happened cos its a white man.

SamuelAnyawu:
So we should not scream for Justice for someone who was murdered in cold blood?

Kaycee Ichie Oguejiofor you just wanna trend




Senator Samuel Anyanwu my Governor Imo 2019

You should support people when they're alive.
I've seen other threads...calling her a cheating wife, a slay queen a gold digger for marrying a white man.....rubbish talk.
These same people would have closed their eyes while she was being abused in her marriage. Now she's dead everyone is talking....like they ever really cared.... rubbish. When the next hot gist comes you'll forget this one....we never really care

revontuli:
"Exclusive death photos"
"See the corpse photos"

What kind of messed up mentality is this, framing a crime news story as death porn? What's this sick obsession with morbid photos?

God bless you. It's sickening

NwaAmaikpe:



If only she were faithful.

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Women please stop cheating; Some men can't tolerate it.
Preek is preek.
No one is sweeter than the other; it is all in the mind.

Please where did u people see that she cheated? All these rubbish speculations.


Ladies please get out of abusive relationships fast. Do not endure....cos when he finally kills you this is what people will say....that you cheated....tufia kwa

MissRaine69:
You don’t need to be a detective to realise that this part of the story

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She said, ‘My name is Madaki Gift I am Zainab’s sister, the late Zainab who died. It just happened over night when she finished preparing the food for her husband . The housemate went to her room and I was the last person to leave the kitchen. So after a while , there was a fight between both of them and she was just shouting “Help Help!!

“I woke my junior sister up asking her if she heard any noise, later I saw the man hitting her head on the floor. I tried to help but he locked everywhere, there was no way for me to run and call people to come and help.

“This was around 4am In the morning, by the time we got there later in the morning she was dead”


Does not make any sense whatsoever!!

You hear someone shouting help, you see the person hitting your sister and can’t break a door a window? Nothing?
And what is she doing talking to people other than the police?

This is Lagos oh.....is it not Lagos? Maybe I'm mistaken. Sha Naija doesn't have rapid response police....so at that hour of the day there's really nothing she could have done but to shout. I've heard a similar story in that same Lagos before....a man just woke up one day and decided to kill his wife and their son. He got a pressing iron, heated it up....burnt her with it....took his son...her son...outside and killed him....then came back to finish the job with the wife......I think she was lucky cos a neighbor actually helped....that wan na rural setting somehow. What will u do in a house with fence and gate? How will neighbors help? No 911? God help us.

Avedonn:
This should serve as a lesson to those slay queen aspiring to marry the Caucasians.

RIP to them.

Insensitive, insulting and unnecessary. People should marry who they want to marry. African men kill their wives with cutlass inside villages...and even in town. Violent people exist everywhere. Nobody deserves to die like this....there is no lesson to learn here. Just an unfortunate event.

I don't know why people keep uploading pictures of dead people. How would u feel if your dead sisters picture was all over social media? It's just sad sha.

R.I.P to the dead. Pretty lady and her beautiful daughter....what a waste.

The man is likely to walk. They'll soon cook up one rubbish story. I even thought the crime was committed outside Naija.

pressplay411:
Take away the caption of the photo, now take another look. Doesn't it look seductive?
It would've appeared at least innocent if she was properly dressed without all her goodies out.

But obviously some will call me a prude.

To be honest I'm not seeing what you're seeing. There's no other way for him to have held her up....I don't even know how he had the strength to do it. As for her breasts and ass....lol...sorry it's making you so uncomfortable. She's a grown woman na. I'm sure that's not what was on their minds when they took the picture but no wahala.....you can focus on that.

Aww this is lovely. How is he even able to hold her up? He is strong though.... hasn't even changed. Congrats to him.
I wish them both long life....his baby girl has grown lol.

prolog2:
No man in Edo state wears skirt !
And for your information the language is called Edo. And it is the same spoken in the entire state and in Delta state and some middle beltan states (except for a few people).
You are confusing a traditional white sheet which Edo chiefs tie around their waste (for some official ceremonies) with a skirt.
That is a clothing which has thousands of years of history. Romans themselves wore that same thing.
When you tie your towel around your waste, do you consider yourself wearing a skirt ?
I am just wondering what process of approaching knowledge you guys learn at school.
Did you actually go into Edo state or at least consult with any Edo before just spewing that trash ?
How high has ignorance climbed in the nigerian society ?

Did u just say Edo is a language? And that it's spoken in all of Edo state? Please na.... Edo state has different people who speak different languages and I can sure u that "Edo" is not a language. This is what happens when you do not travel. If you don't know about a place please just do some research instead of guessing. Edo is not a language please. Hahahahaha Kai....what won't I hear in this world?

Since u don't even know the languages of Edo state how can I take you seriously when u talk about their dressing?

DeadRat:




Abomination!


This Is A Slap To The Bible and God... That Pastor Is A Dunce... "Thou Shall Not Wear What Belongs To A Man"... You Broke That Rule, to Crown It All... In Church... ANY MALE COULD PLAY THAT ROLE... Tell Me You Found None...



That Woman Must Be A Lesbian...

Hahahahaha funniest statement of the year. So you really honestly believe this woman has committed some sort of sin now? I'm just tired.

jiorhemen:
First, George Bush never said that God told him to invade Afghanistan and Iraq. I raptly monitored Bush's presidency from his campaign in year 2000 to the day he handed over. The only time he referenced God with regard to the war on terror was when he told ABC's George Stephanopolous that God told him that terrorists have been planning to do damage long time ago, and I watched that live. The report that George Bush said that God told him to invade Afghanistan and Iraq was fake propaganda like the fake report that Trump said that Africa should be colonized again, meanwhile, he never said that. Meanwhile, the invasion of Afghanistan happened after the September 11 attack, not because any God said Bush should invade.

I agree with you that there maybe some very fringe elements who commit crimes shouting Allah's name, even though they are not Muslims. But trying to say that it is Christians who are disguising as Muslims to commit crime is refusal to accept a bitter truth. I hate it when people associate Islam with the crime an evil person commits, however, the brutal truth is that many Muslims commit crimes and use the Quran to justify it, and that gives a bad impression. The only solution is that criminals who want to commit crime should just do their thing and leave Allah's name and verses from the Qur'an out if their deeds.

Well said....

ziddy:
Honestly I cannot comprehend why anyone would do this to a fellow human being. The police need to do more to unravel the motive behind this rash of ritual murders in the south west.

I don't understand the dynamics of 'skull management' as our brothers east of the Niger have termed these atrocities.

Ritual murders occur here in the east too. Let's not pretend this is a Yoruba problem.
I'm also confused....cos I cannot see a motive here. Did he murder her to keep her quiet? Cos this ritual thing people keep saying to me is just cover story.

The stuff is confusing. I'm confused.... don't know if they should just kill these men or interrogate them further to understand the motive. It's just crazy.

Originalsly:
Never said to be [b]good[/b]parents...just said to be parents period. Parents can be good...can be bad. It is unnatural for two guys to be living as husband and wife... have a child growing up in that unnatural environment will mess with a child's head.

That's what you believe.....it may not be true.
But we can agree to disagree.

Kennydoc:
I'm not homophobic. Homosexuality is unnatural, and I shouldn't be tagged homophobic for failing to support things against nature.
To you, homosexuality is acceptable. What about those who practice paedophilia, especially men who love teenage girls? What about those who are in love with their pets? Isn't the society homophobic towards them?
As for such children, if having 2 dads will cause a psychological confusion for them and mess up their psyche, it's better they remain orphans.

There is a huge difference between paedophilia and homosexuality. Two adult women decide they want to have sex and live together....what's my business? They're both adults. Neither is hurting the other....same for men. They're both mature enough to make their decisions.
But a man that wants to sleep with a 10 year old girl? For the love of God! What does she know? It's rape. There's no other word for it. She has no choice....she can't say no.....she has no power at all. She isn't old enough to make that sort of choice. She is being used infact. It's not the same with a 19 year old boy having sex with a 16year old.... obviously
As for people that sleep with animals....it's the same issue. You cannot chyke a goat, the goat certainly cannot express sexual interest in you....you if you're sleeping with an animal you're abusing it. That's my opinion.

As for whether homosexuality is natural....I don't know. But I know that it has been here for years....even before the time of Christ. I can assure u that I didn't learn how to be heterosexual. Did u? It just happened. So who am I to assume that something that has been here for years is unnnatural?
You can say the Bible doesn't support homosexuality cos it's true it's unbiblical. But then so is cheating on your wife.......

Starks:
gay marriages are known later to be abusive depressed and promiscuous. I pray for that child safety sha. that adopted child may turn to their sex doll. they would have adopted a male child. anyways I trust USA govt they don't tolerate nonsense.

Hahahahaha please don't make me laugh. Just say you're afraid that this will happen..... don't quote it as fact. Actually do research on gay couple's.... don't just make assumptions.

How did your mind even reach this level? She's a child na how has your mind already started thinking about her being a sex doll? And what makes you think that a male child cannot be sexually abused by a heterosexual couple? Lol.....
Like u said In the US they are vigilant. I'm sure they did a background check before giving them the child.

Originalsly:
Do you have to be qualified to be parents? A mom and a dad...a man and a woman ...that's all it takes to be parents.... pAstor or crackhead...doesn't matter. This child's head will all be messed up.

I understand the point that you're trying to make. But you're wrong. Animals can make kids....having sex and making babies isn't something you need brains to do. Having children is ALOT more than that. You can't say it only requires a man and a woman to be good parents. It's just not true.

Some people here think they are men for calling women bitches
They also think they can spell cos they said bitch instead of biitch
Like I said anger everywhere.......angry people on Nairaland.
Very soon someone will tell me to work on my spelling for typing s3x instead of sex
Bye bye biko.....

Gangster1ms:
instead of u to correct ur fellow about the thrash she is spilling out of her mouth u tagging me as the emotional one.. don't let me start with u now

You need to work on your insecurities. Read your comments and see how angry you sound. So unnecessary.
She wants to date a rich man. That's your pain?
You'll soon tell me that you wanna date an ugly girl that cannot cook but has a good heart. Please stop being emotional. I've said my piece. I won't even reply u again.