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PoliticsRe: Official Results Of Edo Governorship Election 2020 As Announced By INEC by Strech(m): 10:56am On Sep 20, 2020
ODJ124:
cry

am just laughing because ize will Cruz to victory...

watch the shocker soon..
are you insane? with only two LGA remaining, which magic them wan do
AgricultureRe: A Day Old Chicks (broiler, Pullet, Cockerel And Turkey) Are For Sale In Ibadan by Strech(m): 8:19pm On Sep 17, 2020
please can you deliver down to kaduna.. I need a carton of brown corkerel. how much? and is the transport fare included in the price mentioned above?
PoliticsRe: El-rufai: Online Petition For EU, UK Travel Ban Nears 25,000 Signatures Target by Strech(m): 6:33pm On Sep 17, 2020
helinues:
If una like sign 1 million

Wasting of time and energy

Lazy youths everywhere
abeg, you get the link? make I enter sign my own sharply. Wesaynotoreligiousfanatism.
CrimeRe: Castration As Punishment For Rapists In Kaduna Approved By House Of Assembly by Strech(m): 7:37pm On Sep 11, 2020
na the only thing wey this short devil fit sign into law be dat. when innocent people are been killed on a daily basis in s.kaduna, and this murderfucker looking elsewhere.
CrimeRe: NSCDC Officer, Bulus Sanda, Killed By Kidnappers In Kaduna State by Strech(m): 8:48pm On Sep 08, 2020
..my heart really bleed.a very kind and humble man. we served in the same unit with this man 2016 before I relocated, this man would wait for me at the junction and give me lift and still wait for me after closing, doing all this things for me even though I was a junior officer to him..I am really heart broken,. I know you are in a better place, rest well sir..we will not rest until your killers are brought to justice.
PoliticsRe: Primate Ayodele: Buhari Will Dump Tinubu In 2023 by Strech(m): 11:20am On Sep 05, 2020
Magicians:
Let your father know that Tinubu may be the devil, in additional to that I personally do not like him for anything n don't even want him as the president of Nigeria and am a Yoruba but your father can take it to the bank that no living soul politics wise is on the same level with Tinubu so Tinubu whether your or you wail to death n beyond is Yoruba best choice and when the push come to shove if he is the annoited candidate he will become the president of Nigeria n there's nothing your father can do about it.
Tell your igbotic father I said so, should you care to argue you ain't igbo n whatever other rubbish you have to say kindly rot away in hellfire with each n every member of your household n unborn generation.
people like you are the reason why we keep on getting this sets of wicked people as our leaders..he aired his view and all your DULL brain could come up with, is an insult to his beloved father..please permit me to say this " You are a compound FOOL.
RomanceRe: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Strech(m): 4:54pm On Aug 29, 2020
fake ass nigga, forming Romeo..You better return that money and all the money she has been sending to you while abroad and you refuse to mention here..
SportsRe: Gsg 12.25 Group Starts Millionaire Schedule Today by Strech(m): 9:00pm On Aug 28, 2020
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SportsRe: Which Team In EPL Has The Best Attack For Next Season ? by Strech(m): 5:27pm On Aug 27, 2020
anti man u every where...we go shame wunna this season..we go carry champion league, premier and f.a cup all in this season..quote me when this season finish.
RomanceRe: Should I Marry My Boyfriend With This Behaviour? by Strech(m): 2:04am On Aug 27, 2020
Localchampion:
I'm really confused about my boyfriend if hes worthy of getting married to.
We are in a long distant relationship, we hardly see, sometimes thrice in a year, but I believe the reason we are still together is because its a distant relationship, as each time I go to Enugu to greet him and stay for 2weeks, my love for him is always reduced.
So much this time around, we haven't seen for a year, and I had something important to do in Enugu, so I decided to stay in his place and use the opportunity to greet him. The first 4days, we were totally fine with each other, as I was busy with doing the stuff I came to do. Meanwhile, I didn't spend his money, as I came with my money and give him money to buy me food, so for the first 3days he was the one buying the cooked foods we ate, but I would give him 1k. Naturally, I don't eat outside, nor do I eat junks, but because he said he doesn't have money, I just pitied him and did not mention the fact that he should get foodstuffs, I don't want him to start feeling bad that he has no money plus I was even busy, remember I came for a purpose. And I don't use it as attitudes for him, I'm a very happy enduring lady.

Now after the fourth day that I finished the program I originally came for, I lost my money, about 150,000, truth is when I'm sad, im usually harsher, and would not talk much, would become exessively quiet, because if I talk, I may start to cry, this is when problem started between us, he acted unconcerned about my predicament, I just ignored him, trying to see how I can get back my money. And the truth is, if I get the money, I will surely give him part of the money, there's no time I will make money and not give him. So for like two days, I was in depression due to my money, I didnt sweep, I was just sighning, and not cheerful to him, the next day afterwards, was when he bursted, and started talking
1. He said I'm useless to him
2. He compared me with other people's girlfriend, how they take care of their boyfriend, how they cook for them, cook extremely homey food for them.
3. He said his friends couldn't visit him because I'm in his house, and thus hes missing because the fact that I'm in his house I'm useless, not doing anything for him, and yet his friends couldn't come.
4. He said his cousins girl did this and that.
5. He said I'm talking of marriage, he said what is he marrying, he said when I'm not even showing any readiness bla bla bla
6. He said I should look at his house, does it look like a girl is there, he said his friend told him that since I'm around now, his cheeks would become bigger, and in his mind, he knew he would only grow thinner.
7. He said I should leave his house first thing tomorrow morning, since I'm not useful.
8. He said at this point, hes confused, if i want to break up, I should just let him know, because what is the point of our stay together
He said just too many hurtful things and those are the ones I could remember.
I was able to record some of those things, so I can relisten to them later. But he collected my phone and deleted all I recorded.

All through, I was just quiet and smiling because I don't even know where to start replying him and he was very serious, his face was in a fight mood, I don't wanna talk because I really don't like problems or fight. Then later, he said I must say something, he seized my phone, and almost made me loose a deal.

I just kept quiet, later when I started talking, he denied having said USELESS, something he mentioned more than twice and apologized swiftly.

All his accusations were wrong because the reason I didn't cook is because he has no single food at home and hes the one always complaining he has no money, so I just taught that, I wouldn't make my stay to disrupt his life, he knew I hate eating outside, and the fact that we buy food is something I am enduring, because the foods makes me nauseated each time I eat them. He knows how much i cook for him when he comes visiting me, I will cook several things, what I can't even eat myself due to financial problems, I am the one always fighting him to cook that Junks are unhealthy. But just because I was pitying him, I didn't bring up the idea of cooking, he accused me of being useless, he said I'm the one to bring up the idea as a girlfriend, bla bla bla.

Later that day, I brought the idea and he gave me 5k to the market, I cooked and did everything. I didn't buy a single food I could eat (I don't eat pasters), because the money isn't enough, so I just bought foods he likes and made a nice sauce. His friend came visiting, I packed foods for her and did normal. His friend called him to relate how I treated her, this is when my boyfriend started filling extremely happy, and thanking God for meeting me, saying nice things.

Since then, he has been saying stuffs of how much he's been gifted to have me bla bla bla, to me, whatever I have for him has greatly reduced, because I don't know the Essence of the relationship, because to him, its a roleship, where I must do my roles and if I miss, he won't even think why could I have missed it, if its intentionally, was it because I'm sad, the next thing he would be saying is if we should break up or not. Now, this is someone I never compared with anyone, I don't even compare people, I just do normal to him, like I will do to a brother, plan for him, etc, yet he compares me all the time and wants me to live like the other average girls that are using iphones.

I told him yesterday that since he wants a roleship, he would also man up, and for the first time in our 5years relationship, I started behaving like the normal girls, I asked him for money to make my hair, he doesn't have, I asked him for money for cream, he doesn't have and he has been angry because I told him I don't care whether he has money or not, since I must do my roles, he should also do his roles, and for the first time I also compared him and told him what men are doing for their girls.

He has been frowning and sad since I said those words to him, because they are deep, I just served him exactly what he did to me. I'm not happy, I'm doing that to him, I'm even sad I'm telling him all these because this is not me. I'm still going to make him realize how useless he is in my life, absolutely useless, and that is the truth, since he sees our relationship as a role one, then hes useless.

I can't marry him like this, God forbids, someone who can't endure due to the situation of things and understand, and he wants me to understand his own and endure for him, its not just possible for me, and he's good at talking, abusing, bullying, etc. Hes the one that will tell me to snap pictures for him, I will tell him I don't have clothes, he will say ''Go and Buy now'', He will bully me with my hair and compare it with that of other girls. He wasn't broke before the lockdown, but I didn't collect money from him because I want him to achieve and grow with the money, so that by the time we get married, he would be financially very okay.

Please should I marry this kind of Man? I really don't know why I should because it seems his happiness towards me, his affection and romance is dependent on fulfilling ROLES in his head.
maybe you no dey give am wetin him want.
SportsRe: Roll Over (3 Odds Daily) Twice A Day by Strech(m): 5:34pm On Aug 26, 2020
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CrimeRe: "Lady Tried To Touch My Manhood In A Car & Her Boyfriend Slapped Me In Ibadan" by Strech(m): 7:43pm On Aug 22, 2020
fine boy with no money...
PoliticsRe: Romoval Of El-Rufai: NBA Misfired - MURIC by Strech(m): 9:05am On Aug 22, 2020
So! hell rufai has now become the governor of northern kaduna.
AgricultureRe: Where To Buy Pepper And Tomatoes From The North by Strech(m): 12:39pm On Aug 05, 2020
contact me on this number 08165336573 if you are serious.
AgricultureRe: Help, Insects And Pest Ruining My Vegetable (ugu) Farm by Strech(m): 12:27pm On Aug 05, 2020
Edojoma:
Thanks all, I av finally gotten d right pesticide..


One love
please what is the right pesticide? cos IAM currently facing the same problem.. though my own is just on a plot of land.
PoliticsRe: #RevolutionNow Protest Ongoing: Over 40 Arrested in Abuja (Photos, Video) by Strech(m): 12:14pm On Aug 05, 2020
Oduduwa revolution.
SportsRe: Sure 1.20 - 1.70 Odds BOOM Sports Tips Daily On Whatsapp Group Free!!! by Strech(m): 3:20pm On Aug 03, 2020
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AgricultureRe: APPLES Can Be Grown In Nigeria! SEE NOW! by Strech(m): 8:40pm On Aug 02, 2020
impeccable001:
I stay in Kaduna. And my farm is in same location.

I do sell the strawberry separately. Price-#1500/ seedling.

And also sell other fruit seedlings too.

Reach out to me
where is kaduna precisely do you stay? and can I come to your farm directly for the seedlings? cos I am also in kaduna but I stay in zaria..
CrimeRe: Zainab Justina Adeyemo Raped To Death In Ondo by Strech(m): 12:28pm On Aug 02, 2020
Johnayoola:
you must be very unfortunate in life to be blaming a whole tribe on a crime committed by one man
will you shut you dirty mouth there..or till I come and shut it for you?. must it be only Yoruba that do rape? abeg make them kukuma give afonjaa them country before them go infest every region with rape.
SportsRe: Roll Over Investment (earn More Than 3 Million In 20 Days) by Strech(m): 3:21pm On Aug 01, 2020
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PoliticsRe: No Inch Of Yoruba Land Will Be Ceded To Fg's Creditors - Afenifere by Strech(m): 1:19pm On Aug 01, 2020
Seunpaul01:
I have said it, Yorubas should separate from anything Nigeria. Yoruba should better be on their own before everything is destroyed.
see talk. Wunna never begin see anything..na wunna selfish interest land us for these mess..we go all die here.
RomanceRe: Resurfaced: I Don't Love Him But This Is Happening, Advice Needed. by Strech(m): 7:59pm On Jul 29, 2020
You don't feel any thing for him, yet you always want to hang out with him? it's either you are naive or you just want to form shakara for us.. okay let me just be straight with you..you have already fallen for the guy.. make this guy just ignore you for just 1 week, and see if you no go comit suicide.
PoliticsRe: Nigerien Arm Supplier To Bandits Beaten To Death And Dumped In A Sokoto River by Strech(m): 11:40am On Jul 29, 2020
And upon that the police even had to disclose the name of the community that killed the demon..Later you go come here say bandits don come visit the village.. funny set of people.. Nigerian police are just too daft.
AgricultureRe: Dont Be Fooled, Here Is A Practical Cost Analysis Of Raising 100 Layer Birds by Strech(m): 2:28pm On Jul 27, 2020
each day they lay massively with 500 bird I get 14 to 15 crates of eggs .
TravelRe: FRSC Official Hanging On A Moving Vehicle In Enugu State - Video by Strech(m): 7:21pm On Jul 25, 2020
SportsRe: Bet9ja Mate ....check These Tickets Out by Strech(m): 9:59am On Jul 25, 2020
08135603930..please add me.. I promise you by God I serve that all my first winning will go to you, cus of your lovely daughter.
RomanceRe: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Strech(m): 10:52am On Jul 17, 2020
kukuma marry the anty na.
Science/TechnologyRe: Ayuba Hussaini Makes A Turbine Engine That Generates Electricity In Gombe by Strech(m): 11:30pm On Jul 14, 2020
realestniggah:
Bro this is nothing new, no sense government will invest in this when there is already advance level of turbine engine.
I even thought the guy created the thing from scratch..he just bought all the parts and assembled them. EOD.

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