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eyeview:
Predict and win!

How long do you think he will stay before going back to london?

Two weeks

haryorbarmie83:
payment are in batches, please be patient.

What of backlogs my friend, are they not paying it again?

Baba bubu come back home biko, you haf stayed enuf. All we are saying........baba, Resume or Resign""! This people funny sha

See as I dey laugh you not because I don't feel you but I am just imagining my self in your shoe, e go be like say make ground open, make I enter. But not too worry, it happens at times. At times sef, you go forget how you take cook some meal, may God help us women. Just go on your own and apologise for the meal jokingly, na only dem go tell you wetin dey their mind. Just try something like this, "mama, aunty, I no say the food no sweet, but, make una help me manage am for today, I promise a sumptuous one tomorrow ma" I don't know if I ammaking any sense shaaaaa. Dooooou amariyya!

silentrock:
if buhari is a saint click like. if he's a sinner click share

No one is righteous, no not one!

sonnie10:
The one that gives you quite notice almost every two days

chaiiii

bigplayerz:
How about Me wey My landlord dey always tell me say i no sabi take care of Old man... abeg if i wan take care of am no be Old people`s home i suppose go drop am

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RichDad1:
The one that check the waste bin regularly..
Shoprite nylon, pizza packs, new electronics and gadgets packs ; my brother , your house rent is about to be increased.

:
, you no go kill me with laff ooooo

chaiiiii, the guy funny sha. KANU Chineke mere gii ebere oooooo

dicksonadams:
How can I be like this

By being yourself!!!

graceberry:
Hello my dear,, tears came rushing out of my eye as i read ur store, marriage in this our time has become war which we all women has to fight and win.. strange women.. hmmm .... side chick, i place curse on all of this who are bent on destroying a beautiful marrige..

I believe you must have been seeing some sign before all this escalates. But you dint bother to address it on time.

Same thing almost happened to me but once i noticed a slight change i prayed to God to revealed all hidden secret and also i went on checking his phone and i found out it was even an Edo lady,,

Am happy my husband has come back to his senses after i confronted him with evidences

and dont forget men will always be men

That is why i still insist on all married women to always snoop into thier thier husbands phone and see what is happening with then before it is too late.. because i still do it till today

Some people may say i want to give myself Hypertension, fine it better i give my self small Hypertension and addresses the issue early than ignoring the signs and end up having biggest hypertension


also if you have not been giving him enough respect pls start doing that because men loves it so much, just be humble to him and see him change

i promise you that anybody can change for good



Jesus help us

My dear with prayer all thing are possible


So my dear you re to blame you actually ignored all those sign and now it has become worse

Please go on ur kneel m fast and pray to God, and you will see how he shall turn it around fir you

I suggest you start watching chnnel 390 on dstv and see lot of story like urs changed for the best, go to synagogue Church of all nation and tell God ,,, prayer answer

May God helpnyou re build your home and please dont kill him ooooo,u will end up regretting that

Prayer is the key

Also if you need someone to talk to send me a mail

Well said madam, but I wouldn't agree with you 100% especially in the area of snooping into your husband's phone as a means of checkmating him because some smart Hubby oftenly delete whatever could give you traces or clue to their infidelity, hence I don't check, in fact I have stop checking for my own sanity and peace of mind but resolve to watching his character and actions. Only spiritual warfare interms of midnight prayers to God could help one chase away those demonic home wreckers. I always sing it as a song for God to put divine hatred between my hubby and any woman lusting after him or the one he is lusting after. Prayers does wonders my people. Marriage I tell you isn't a child's play, so many ups and down but in all may God direct the steps of our husbands. As for checking of phones, I no dey check because i no get the liver and ever since I stopped checking in other to find an incriminating stuff in his phone, i have got peace and i choose rather to watch and pray. For those who can check and are ready to take whatever they see, its ok and good, but for me, na only me advice my self to stop checking because even if I catch am, wetin I go do am, na sorry him go still tell you but with my spiritual and heavenly weapon, only him go confess and repent forever. The word of Gods says "what God has joined together let no man put Asunder", hence @Op, my advice is simply for you to remind God of his word and invite him into your marriage, this has been working for me whenever I am going through a turbulent time, and watch God handles the rest. Pray until something happens!!!! I don't know if I have made any sensible contribution shaa

Buharison:
Bring it let's campaign for Buhari

You are such a funny fellow, you just make me smile now

Lord God Almighty, you can take me at 100 without sickness, let me just meet you peacefully through my sleep. RIP to mommo. Eternal rest grant unto her soul oh lord!

TinaAnita:
Idonbelivit
Hehehehe

Yes ooooo my friend, its a personal decision though. May God help us all amen!!!!

ImaIma1:
You need to correct whatever is wrong or lacking in your marriage. Cos on my own part, when i see people getting married, I feel like getting married again and again to the same person...

My friend, huhhhh, marriage is the practical and not the theory, when you enter you go understand.

FX:
It is not about compatibility. My wife loves me and I love my wife certainly no doubts about that. But if u add, multiply, subtract and divide everything, u will find out that marriage is burdensome. Check all the marriages of the world, no one is perfect. People are getting married because d society wants them to get married. 99% of married people are not happy but they cover up. The truth is that freedom is priceless. It is not about love, money and compatibility . You can still achieve everything without getting married. I'm married but when I see people doing wedding, I will just say in my mind that these couples don't know what they are getting themselves into.

Infact, we are on the same page.I have stop attending wedding sef. Only wedding anniversaries i do celebrate with friends.

FX:
Marriage is not easy at all. If you know what married couples are passing through just to keep the marriage, u will better stay on your own. If I'm to advise my child , I will tell him or her never to get married to anybody. You can have all you want without getting married. Freedom is priceless. Money can't buy it.

I am tempted to quote you because of the freedom you mentioned. Yes its true, you will somehow loose your freedom but then, i wish couples will learn to enjoy and free themselves in marriage rather than all these protocols most couples go through in marriage. Just pray to marry a liberal man, then your freedom might still be intact even in marriage.

mykel25:
This is a faceless forum.... U don't spend your time to reply everyone.... U ll be disappointed if u fig d kinda person Ure replying .... So many immature minds here no be by bn a law graduate.... Some wanna forcefully act adulthood buh u can't give that u don't ve ..a kid is a kid

Thank you my friend, I am only replying him because he said he is a learned guy and I am just surprised at how he is giving a different meaning to what I personally post.

ebig21:
Madam I have told you my observation, you know deep inside, some people even mentioned it in the thread.

No body mentioned anything in the thread. Don't just say things for saying sake, be sure of what you say and type. I have check the said thread and read it all over again, I only requested for prayers and miracles so that my friend who promise to loan me some money which I earnestly need will not relent in giving me. I didn't ask nairalanders to loan or give me any money, so why saying I am begging indirectly Don't just say things because you want to hurt the person and at the end of the day, you will end up sinning against God. I said the Op is stingy because the said water couldn't have consumed all his 6000 naira gas at a go. At least, the sister in law is a visitor who probably may not be aware of the electric kettle, he could have just advice the cousin to make use of the electric kettle next time rather than issuing warning.

MrMoney007:
Can you just shut the fvck up !!!
How dare you call the Op stingy, lazy fool !
Your type are still in their parents house or sugar daddy displaying their parasitic, lazy, and mentally decayed tendencies.
You call it ordinary water, you didn't read about how much he replaced the gas, with electric cooker as an alternative, with all explanations, your dead brain couldn't decipher that Op is not financially buoyant.
What a shameless thing that you are !
You mentally stinking little fool !
How can she come to the house without her husband's knowledge, and left without his knowledge.
And all you could think of is stingy.
How I wish yahoo boys will your stingy self to fortify their voodoo.

Common my friend, no need for insults. In life, it isn't mandatory that we all must share the same view but it takes a mature mind to counter the views of others constructively without recourse to insults. In the name of Jesus, I will never by use by any mortal for any evil deeds amen and same for you too. If you are not comfortable with my views, no need for insults, all you could have done was to state your own. The sister in law is a visitor and from where I am from, our in laws are pampered and cherished because we believe that ones in law is a rescuer of one when in need, hence, in laws are always respected in my place. It is the duty of the said cousin to make use of the electric kettle since she is the one living in the house and also to boil the water.

stainless239:
that is my own view too

hmmm!!!

to marry come dey tire me small small

Hahahahaha, don't worry you go marry better guy

victor8269:
It's clear Ur wife is a house wife n u don't like it. She contributes nothing financially and you are not happy. There is an annoyance you are carrying from the introduction. Her people probably showed you shegeh n u want to revenge. My dear, I understand your anger but tamper justice with mercy, aburo!!!

On the contrary I am a woman. I know things are hard but at least, op for pretend small because of the sister in laws presence. She is a visitor and may not be aware of the electric kettle in the house, it is now the duty of the said cousin to make use of the electric kettle instead of using the gas. Secondly, op now mandated his cousin to report to him first before carrying out any assignments given by the sister in law, to me, this should have been left for his wife to handle.

Ajanacool:
From this ur post, its either u are earning enough money and living comfortably or ur feeding and house rent is taken care of by someone else. I'm 100% sure u are not a guy man cus no dude would reason this way. Though I'm not saying d man is right but he may be hustling big time to feel that gas, buy food stuff and settle other bills.

But it is not the sisters in laws fault that the cousin used gas in boiling the water, all the sister in law requested for was just for the cousin to boil water for her, whether she uses electric or gas, isn't the sisters in laws fault but that of the cousin who should know better. The cousin should have used the electric kettle instead of the gas because the sister in law just visited and may not be aware of the electric kettle.

ebig21:
The thread you said you need prayers and miracle, dear go back to ur topics

Bring it out my friend I am waiting How does prayers and miracles tallies with the begging of money you mentioned I indirectly ask I remembered asking for prayers and miracles because I was expecting money from someone and not begging. Get your facts straight or I will report you to the mod for false accusation. So bring out the thread where you said I am indirectly begging for money, I am waitinggggggg pleaseeee
It's because of people like you that I am always and extremely careful of what I write and post on a forum like this, because you are always looking for what to insult people with. I am waiting, bring out the thread where you said I am begging indirectly, bring it out I am waiting......

ebig21:
Nawa for you oo, and you were in your other thread asking for money indirectly , and you are calling gas and water common, don't you see why you might not get any help

Which other thread please?? Do you know who you are quoting?? Kindly bring out the thread where I am indirectly begging for money as you said Please do I am waiting

MrMoney007:
Can you just shut the fvck up !!!
How dare you call the Op stingy, lazy fool !
Your type are still in their parents house or sugar daddy displaying their parasitic, lazy, and mentally decayed tendencies.
You call it ordinary water, you didn't read about how much he replaced the gas, with electric cooker as an alternative, with all explanations, your dead brain couldn't decipher that Op is not financially buoyant.
What a shameless thing that you are !
You mentally stinking little fool !
How can she come to the house without her husband's knowledge, and left without his knowledge.
And all you could think of is stingy.
How I wish yahoo boys will your stingy self to fortify their voodoo.

God bless you dear. There is no need for all these insults. If you aren't comfortable with my opinion, you could have just state yours without probably insulting me. Remember, this is a small world that we came with nothing and shall return with nothing. If they had told the sister in-law to use the electric stove and she refused and insist on using the gas, I would have understand but I didn't read where she was told to use electric stove and she insist on using the gas. she only requested for hot water to be boil for her and the cousin boiled it using gas. The onus lies on the cousin to have used electric stove instead of the gas. I am still insisting that op reacted too harshly. He should have secretly called his wife and aired his grievances to her, the wife in turn will now talk to her sister in an understa

Jman06:
Hope if it were the other way round you will respond this way And not start telling us how the man's siblings should let them be

You ladies are selfish lots. I am sure if it were the man's sib that showed up in that manner and started boiling water with gas when there's power and electric kettle,the lady would have made a whole lot of mountain out of it.

I don't think she would have refused if the cousin had told her that she would boil the water with electric stove. She just requested for hot water probably to bath and I don't think she would mind how it is been boiled. This is probably her first time of coming to visit and may not be aware of the electric stove. What I am saying is that the guys reaction is just too much, na woman dey react that way not a gentle man like him. Anyway sha, this is just my own view of his reaction, some other person may not see it that way.

Stevebamdex:
The problem is that the cylinder is old and the small object at the top of that cylinder which ought to have keys the components together is already loosed and no longer fixed.
Hence,the reason why those heavy stones were put on top of the cylinder.
Removing those heavy stones while cooking may result to fire explosion and fire is a friend of no one.
I hope have answered your question ma?

Tankuuuu very much, I was thinking the outcry was as a result of where it's been kept, cos I know the place it is, is safer than any other place. Thanks once again

Stevebamdex:
Living with this kind of people is like when you are consciously cohabiting with suicide bombers.It's obvious people like this don't value their own lives not to talk of others.
if this explode now.dem go still blame buhari and apc.
My people perish for lack of knowledge.

Bet,where is lalasticlala sef.

Honestly my friend, I seem to be lost here. What is the hazard here in particular, is it where it is kept or what is on top of the cylinder, honestly I need more explanation, please help me out here

yomi007k:
U jus dey talk like dt....u dont knw how much he earns, how he spends it n who he is supporting plus courtesy demands dt a guest informs d host before coming over.


Im a very disciplined guy and my friends n family knw better dan to visit me b4 informing first....im sorry but it's who i am.

....well sha God knws best.

I understand the fact that she didn't inform him before coming but then, she is here already, why not pretend for even a second because this person in question is now a family member, who might be of help to them someday, especially when his wife is pregnant or about putting to bed, she will need a sister to assist and be by her. These are some of the things he should have considered or thoughts of before reacting the way he did. Any way, God knows the best.

yomi007k:


Its obvious u dont work for money or pay bills....its actually better to be stingy than to be poor.

How can you be rich when you are stingy? Remember the law of wealth! This is her first time of requesting for boiled hot water, not as if she has been doing it regularly, why not give her the benefit of the doubt by watching her first before issuing out instruction to his cousin. Anyway yomi, bobo yii stingy walahiiii, mi oooo pa iro or, he just want to show his resentment towards his in-laws visit.

Plankton2017:
Good day fellow NL,

Please judge this case. Last week thursday my sister inlaw visited me and my wife from NYSC camp. I was shocked when I welcomed her because it was no ordinary visit. she came with a full ghana must go. We greeted and I got to know that she escaped from camp due to the tough tasks on camp. My wife never told me her sister was coming to stay. We have lived amicably till yesterday.

My lil cuzin that stays and helps us with chores was mandated by her to cook 2 big pots of water for her to bath. I scolded my cousin and told her why didnt she use the electric kettle so as to save gas which we just replaced with 6k. I now gave her a warning that whatever my inlaw wants that she should ask me 1st. I even got to know that my wife lied to me that her parents knew she left camp. My wife heard our conversation and started antagonizing me that why did I tell my cuz to always ask me b4 she obeys her sister. she was shouting at the top of her voice even my inlaw could hear. This angered me and I shouted back and told her to leave my room. she continued shouting and even slept in the sitting room as I slept alone.

This afternoon while working on my computer for hours I came out of the room only to find out my sister in law has packed her things back to her NYSC camp without telling me but my wife knows....I am slatted to officially do my white wedding next saturday. I just feel down because we quarell too much and my wife talks in a domineering way. I have warned her about it and I do not want to turn a woman beater. Any quarell we have she tells her parents and siblings which make them never free with me and act cold towards me. Damn it! pls advice me

If I were to be your wife, marriage don end be that. You are too womanish, habaaaa kilode! Person no fit come your house in peace. @Op you are too stingy and a nagger at the same time, complaining of gas because of common water, na waoooooo.