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abiodunalasa:
Drugs again ? No way sir. Drugs seems to be worsening the situation.
Back in the university days, he was a motivational speaker himself. He literally talked me to graduate with a first class.
So I don't how to bring down his guards with motivational stuffs.

Pls and pls edit ur post. Do not turn this thread into one of those childish ethnic nonsense. Thanks.

Thank you o jareeee!!! I am impressed with your last warning to that tribal being that thinks with hatred all the time.

Nothing like peace my people, let's pray for peace I beg us all!

BoluGabriel:
lol. Deal with it dear. Stop doing defending wrong in the name of opinion.
Grow up my dear. Put yourself in the shoes of the op, and imagine finding out you are only a backup to someone who you made your own first choice. The girl was just a lie. A big lie!
Deal with it!
Peace, love and unity.

I choose to ignore you, please will you kindy do same? and if you choose not to, then I will apply the theory of silence. Bless you

BoluGabriel:
see them.... some girls have become nuisance to their generation.
is this how your parents brought you up?
put yourself in the guy's shoes before you comment.
you really need to start using your brain to think.
what a shame you are!!!!!

Jesusssss! You are so so uncultured! How can you insult someone who just make her opinion known. Why the insult for Christ sake? If you are not comfortable with my opinion, why not just ignore mine and make yours known. Habaaa!! God have mercy! You just choose to insult someone you don't know and who didn't insult you in the first place? Huh!!!! May God help our youth and this nation!
The Op who ought to pick offence didn't do that but rather won me to his side by making me see reasons with him constructively but you, whom I don't even know just choose to insult me for no just cause or perhaps because you aren't comfortable with my views. Haven't you seen where a marriage was call off right there before the priest and the congregation that has gathered for the ceremony?? How much more someone you haven't pay a dime on, just a fiancee and you choose to condemn her because she is still nursing a feeling for someone else. In as much as I don't condole unfaithfulness, i just wanted the Op to soft pedal his anger towards her because in the eyes of the law they aren't married yet and can't lay claim to the lady, hence she is free to love who so ever she choose but morally she may be guilty. Well, for insulting me simply because you aren't comfortable with my opinion, I leave you to your conscience.

jieta:
there is no powerful message here, a woman that can't keep her husband is that one a woman.

My friend, it is not by might, beauty nor by power but only by the help and grace of God does a home remain knitted as God ordained it to be. Dont judge her, only God will help us all to chase the wicked from our marriages Amen.

Na una know ooooo. Na popularity Op talk, (no be classy or eloquency) be it for wrong or good reasons, popularity na sha be popularity, hence, even my small niece dey always dey say, sister, chaiii there is God ooooo, I go begin dey laugh. Nobody beat my Madam Faka faka, my madam PPP for life, my madam born Throway, in terms of First lady popularity. Madam Patience Faka Ebele Jonathan all the wayyyyyyyyyy. I love that woman die, ruggedy mama!!!! Portharcourt Agbero Mama!!!!

Livinus56:
Remember am talking about a girl that I have introduce to my family and friends as my wife to be. not just ordinary girlfriend. the major reason we are yet to get married is bcoz she wanted to complete her education and I also wish to marry as from 30yrs. so are u telling me that what I discovered is nothing or what?

Ok, no problem, now I understand you but then, a lady is free until you take her home legally and otherwise. May be she still have feelings for the other guy, just sit her down and ask her to make her choice between you and the other guy, the earlier the better. Stay cool bro. God bless!

Stop being childish, no offence meant. She hasn't done anything, and you guys aren't married yet, biko free the young lady abeg.

tommybliss007:
like how they did nothing to your ass in the civil war, you guys are sore loser .you don't learn from history.have you forgotten how your hero fled the country after wasting innocent lifes. the joke is on you Igbo

Abeg e don do una, when real war starts now, it will get to everybody, be you Yoruba, Igbo or Hausa, so you guys should stop all these childish ranting here. Do you guys think when Igbo's fight with Hausa's it wouldn't affects the yourbas or other tribes? It will my dear people, so make una forget all these tribal fight and pray for peace in our nation. Fight never start, things are expensive, now imagine what the situation will be when the crisis starts.
Abeg mod, kindly ban any nairalander that promote ethnic crisis and misunderstanding here. Thank you all

Prudent200:
sorry ooooh I hear say if person they use phone touch light dey on Generator he fit explode how true is dat??

I have no idea about that.

wadetaw202:
What led to the gen's explosion? Abeg educate me

I caused it by been careless. The exhaust was still hot when i added fuel to the gen, some poured on the exhaust and pooooooo!!!!! Was all I heard next

Prudent200:
chaiii sorry oooh but he go sound like gas cooker explotion?

Huh! See as fire dey burn my body with the fuel wey pour on me. Fire no good walahii. Na God save me, since then, I no dey take all these fire something play ooooo

Prudent200:
my sister sorry.but how generator take exploded what really happen

I caused it by been careless. The exhaust was still hot when i added fuel to the gen, some poured on the exhaust and pooooooo!!!!! Was all I heard next

diva90:
Can't really remember cos it happened about 6 years ago. I think it was a bad cylinder that was sold to her, exploded while she was in the kitchen after she went to put on the generator. I guess chemical reaction sparked the explosion. She had 3rd degree burns all over her body, rushed to hospital but died 3 days later. Their kitchen was ventilated so yes it can explode in ventilated area

Thanks so much for your response. I really don't understand the chemical reaction stuff but will try and question the gas station attendant on this issue when next i visit the gas station. E se gan, thanks a lot.

BeautyBaebee:
none of his relative stays in same state with us or maybe none that I know of.

lol@going insane

Please leave the house for him and try squat with someone, until you are fit to stay on your own.

Mama eyes don open for American. Na wa, honestly, no one hurts you more like blood relations, talking from ESP! I go just leave mama make she continue her life while i informed the rest children. Life continues.....

Huh!!!!! The world is really coming to an end. Lord please save your people. @Op please, run far far away from your father and report him to some of his relative, who knows he might be going insane.

LordOfNaira:
Fear don catch my sister. Hahahaha...

Huhhhh!! My brother dem say ignorance is no excuse. When my gen exploded, only God saved me, the scar still dey my body, since then, i dey try to dey careful while I leave the ultimate protection to God Almighty.

diva90:
Same thing killed one of my aunts. Very deadly. May she RIP

Please educate me more biko. How does it explode, just like that? Do you mean the cylinder can explode even when it is kept in a ventilated area? Please your enlightenment on this gas explosion is of great important to me. Thanks in anticipation of your in depth explanation.

Laburos:
It's better to live a single and have a clean conscious than love with such burden.

Tell him and free yourself.
If he forgives you fine if he send you packing you can continue your Olosho life style without recourse to anything.

You no good at all......, you dey take style dey vex for her. hmmmm!! Honestly, I am learning a lot from this thread. Now I know that sin get levels no be small. Na run I go dey run for men now because this flesh too dey weak especially when you are not in Christ. @ Op if you must confess, just confess from a distance when you must have packed some of your things out of the house, probably you can stay in a friends place, then confess via a text message to him, i think that is a better way to do this kain confession because, to look the guy face make dis kain confession no easy at all, may God help you @ Op. But, I for say make she wait small before she confess but one spirit come still dey tell me say, no matter how long she wait, her conscience will give her in. Just confess and be free but first leave the house before you do your confession oooo, to avoid the disgrace that will follow in the neighbourhood.

kasheemawo:
it is an assumption
Bible didnt say that
Why did Abraham, Joseph amongs other prophets marry more than one wife

Yes you might call it an assumption but is there anywhere in the bible that God stated that man can or should marry two wives? How many eve did God create for Adam? Answer me abeg. Why didn't God create two Eve for Adam? Answer me abeg. I don tell you my own, it is left for you to accept or not, if you are not contented with one woman, even if they give you hundred, e still no go do you, na him make Solomon marry thousands women. Na my own I tell you so. Contentment is a virtue that not all possesses.......

kasheemawo:

Why always Christians
Tell them to marry more than one wife to curtail adulterous life they will say God created only Adam and eve
Where does it stated in bible that man should marry one wife? They won't tell you
So many cases of raping underage girls by pastors too

God only gave Adam Eve and not Eveses, meaning God knows that the woman is enough for Adam, hence he gave him one woman and not two.

God has really been MERCIFUL to this guy. God bless your home. Happy married life.

professorfal:
see Head!

Oh my God!!!!!! I no fit laugh again, you guys are something else when it comes to this air force of a guy. Wetin d guy do una? I don laugh tire for here. Air force abeg forgive all of dem u hear.

Thoniameek:
True...

But I just wonder why so many grown men would allow church elders take away what makes them happy

My sister you will not understand until you are in cwo or cmo before you can understand those men leaving you. Catholic men takes pride in saying " I wedded in the church' the church here is the catholic church not just any other church. But any which way sha, Catholic church is unique I must confess. Them get standard that doesn't change no matter the century we are in. I respect the foundation of the church. You can only understand the church ones you have made up your mind to be part of the church, otherwise, na so so vex you go dey vex for mass, especially if you mistakenly jam Latin mass. Proud to be a catholic by marriage but still dey miss my Anglican shaaaa!!!!

jerrybakermillz:
Kk..this is what happen when your house on water path,with out drainages to suppress water flow

My advice is that you start a fish pond in your house

Walahiiiii you no good at all, fishpond kwa!!!!!

Sometimes i wonder the essence of life, when it can be cut short with or without your knowledge and approval. May God grant us good health and longlife amen. RIP

idrisolaide:
Olukayode Salako:

You Have Nailed It Already.

WHEN SUCH A MAN OF CRUDE, DIRTY CHARACTER AND ORIENTATION IS IN CHARGE OF LEADERSHIP AND POWER.

What else do you expect?

Shikena.

Arrant Nonsense!!!! It is not by force to sponsor any burial. Is she fayose's mother, father or relation that he has to receive all this insults because he refused sponsoring her corpse back home? Everything is politics in Nigeria. The man is right in this situation. We are too sentimental in this country that we oftenly forget what is ethically right.

cutestcuty84:
thanks so much ma,I really appreciate. I'm on medication right now and can't even close my eyes because I feel pains in them. They said it is not advisable to travel now ,I will wait till October to revalidate because I'm not the one typing any longer.All my system is weak now.
Thanks alot I'm really grateful.I think I would just go to a fashion school to sign six months just to become a better person before i go for service and also to while away time. I think with my skill,I will be able to survive during and after Nysc.

May the balm of Gilead heal you and restore your health Amen. Not bad at all, nice idea. Do take care of your self and your mum too. Be strong, bold and courageous, and the world will pave way for you.

Viking007:
I hope she listens.

Most of you guys just ended up insulting her, why won't she feel that way.
Posting things on nairaland is sometimes an error. Young lady, don't give up. Be focus, be strong and daring, never let any man pull you down. Never allow situations around you determine your success, let your goal be success success and success. Don't worry, all those your needs will be supplied to you by faith, that I can assure you of. Except for your mums health, don't give up on your posting. I served in katsina, and I tell you, you can survived there, with a well planned budget. God bless and favour you amen. As for me, I will give what I can. Just let me know if you have made up your mind to continue your service. God bless you!

[quote author=eyinjuege post=56623914]Young lady, you've got potential power in you. You will raise future generations.
Its not everything you bring online to solicit for funds.
Even underwear, sanitary towel, bucket, sponge?
If it were something life threatening, it would still be understandable.

It would have been better if you opened a thread asking people to help you with odd jobs before your camp. We've got caterers and event planners on NL, and a lot of other service providers that may need help or have a link. People may even then voluntarily offer help if you get no offers.

Please don't let desperation make people question your values and how it was imparted.

Don't take this the wrong way. Its an advice I would give a sister.
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This your advice is too harsh and sound more of an insult than advice. She asked for an assistance, if you don't have to offer, you keep mute than trying to make her feel bad for asking for help. I have never seen where it is a crime to ask or solicit for help. She has summoned up courage to do this, let those who can assist her do so without you discouraging them.

Ohhh lord my God, any woman that longs for my husband after knowing he is married, let your anger visit her in Jesus name amen!!!!! I no dey too talk na prayer I pray.