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betafuture:
many thanks. But how do I know they never have anything together, I left her in Nigeria with my son for three months (though my cousin was in the house with her) before she came to join me in the UK. One thing that tourched me was that my son said 'Daddy, please give mummy a second chance, she is not a bad woman'

I felt like crying with that little boy's words

Why would you involve your son, in the whole tussle. I really don't appreciate that at all and secondly, I beg you to forgive and forget since you aren't sure of their meeting physically and you also aren't a saint either. Give her thus last chance I beg of you and I promise you, she wouldn't dare do such again, please I join in begging on her unbehalf, at least she is remorseful. Have mercy and forgive please, I beg of you. Do let this stay between you guys and never be disclosed to any one else I beg you in Gods name, Forgiveeeeee!!!!!!

mrvitalis:
Do you have any other ideas to give us consistant good Road in this country apart from taxing car owners and toll gate ?

So all the tax money isn't enough to maintain our roads right??

MissRaine69:
That is so factually inaccurate
Autism is a broad spectrum it does not refer to one thing
This is a common misconception autism be it Aspergers Syndrome or Childhood autism does not mean you will be a prodigy. There are some individuals who have the condition namely Aspergers or who have traits who excel at SPECIFIC areas but not everything. There are also people who do not have any autistic traits who are exceptionally intelligent.

Huhhhh! My friend, talking from experience, just check out any family with an autistic child, that has a one on one therapist( not taking the child to a centre) visiting him or her at home, my friend, those children are gifted! Once they commenced therapy, just forget it especially when the therapist is a good one that integrate sensory therapy into it, that child comes out to be the best and with prayer and faith in God, my friend that child sure will be exceptional.

michaelwilli:
U cant compare yasef to autistic people. Those guys are geniuses.

They have lost something and their incredible brain power compensates for that

You can say that again and again!

No need for blood shed, if you can't stand it, gently walk out. I pray for peace in our homes!

Israeljones:
wtf!....
Some woman are just devil incarnate,,,,, the real devil in them manifest immediately they are activated by that ring..... .

To every man on this forum who is yet to get married, I pray we will never fall into the trap of this women devil in sheep clothing parading themselves as slayqueens..... ..

To everyman on this forum who is yet to marry or already married, I pray that you remain faithful to your spouse. I just pray and nothing more!

nurseibraheem:
In view of the unfortunate killing of this young man by his wife by stabbing for cheating, I would like to proffer the following advise to my brothers:

Keep 2 phones- 1 for not to be brought home but kept in the boot of the car downstairs.

Develop the habit of deleting as you read. It will save your life.

Take your wife for mental check up regularly

Save your girlfriends number with your mothers name. It's a major repellent.

Change your password daily.

Never marry a quiet woman. The ones that will scream and slap will never kill you.

Never pretend to be faithful. Let them catch you once in a while. It's training and will prepare them.

Lock up all the knives in your house and let her sign a register stating what she needs them for and allocate time frame for usage.

Regulate the usage of rat poison and other chemicals In the house. Make sure her mother taste your good before eating.

Regulate and supervise her relationship with her mother. That would cut off supply chain for arms.

Date secondary school girls they are not very needy and will not send texts at night

Sleep with your body ensconced in armour and borrow or buy okada helmet to protect the head

Have a sit down with your wife and discuss possible methods of your death on the event of her catching you. This is to ensure a painless transition

When choosing a girlfriend go for the most beautiful and exotic that you can find. Since it is now a matter of life and death chop better meat so your death would be justified

Finally, update your will on a daily basis because you will surely be caught.

Na my own opinion i share ooo...��������������

You know nothing about life!

AdesegunSanni89:
ori e ti Daru. Omo ale jati jati. Iwo o se bumi? Ki sopona pa idile e run.

O ga ooooooo!!!! Broda segun, imoran ma nii mogbayin..., kilode, ti ara se wa tayin bayii? E pele, ti imoran mii ba n dun yin. E ma binu ooooooo

AdesegunSanni89:
STFU. You silly BASTARD. Oloriburuku somebody

Won o komi kin nma bu eniyan, nitori e, mo fayin sii ikoto olorun!

AdesegunSanni89:
STFU. You silly BASTARD. Oloriburuku somebody

AdesegunSanni89:
yeah you vote with your dead brains, that’s why you all motherforkers queued behind the obviously losing party in 2015. You fools should learn. The suffering of Igbos just started. Igbos are losers in Nigerian politics and they will continue to lose. Bunch of hate-filled morons

Broda segun, ewo nii tiyin nbe? E de fii tiyin se tiyin. Leave the Igbo's alone to worry about themselves and mind your region , habaaaaa!

Proudgorgeousga:
dream on

Serious dreaming my friend, infact he should change his name to Joseph the dreamer! Rubbish!

FortifiedCity:
Say, Till "I" not "we".

;DNa wa for you ooooo, na so life dey sweet you reach? You no wan die at all oooooo. Anyway, I feel you shaaa

ireke:
Yes, I am. That's what i said earlier. You have problem with that?

Do to others as you would they do unto you.

Blizzy9ja:
Politicians should understand the difference between speaking for themselves and speaking for an entire ethnic group

I am telling you, they should learn to speak for themselves biko

oyonu:
Noted. thanks

You re welcome! May God bless you with a happy wife that will fill your life with happiness, hence you will not have cause to sorrow nor get upset to the extent of hitting her.

SexyDenzel:
I agree with you, a man should Never lay hands on his wife UNLESS the dire need to comes up.
Basically what I'm saying is treat people the way they deserve to be treated, if your supposed wife starts acting like a tout, a snake, a vicious untamed animal instead of a wife what should you do?

Then you send her back to her parents if you can't stand her attitude again

oyonu:
I like the way u talk but what I mean is that ur woman should reverence you. pls read through romance section about domestic violence on men . pls read this and many more
https://www.nairaland.com/4133663/beat-wife-what-done-differently

Please take correction! You should respect your wife and never in this world lay your hands on the mother of your children!

@ Npower biko, I am waiting for my 5monthsbacklog. I have gone to my bank and confirmed that my account can accept ypto 1million, please let me know when I will be paid because I need that money to start up my business. Thanks as I await your positive response

MrDKR:
Hello Guys,

Just recently, I lost my 2 years+ relationship with my girlfriend, reason because she said she can Never get married into an Anglican Church & I said I can only leave the church if I'm not okay with the church anymore, but since nothing has triggered my leaving, I'm not willing to leave now. So we both decided to call the relationship Off.

Furthermore, her Daddy also do not like Anglicans, he feels they are not born again. But initially, I felt it was just from her Dad, so I felt like most marriages, one or two family members may not consent to the marriage at an early stage, but with determination from both lovers, they will be able to convince them, so that was why the relationship went this far in the first place.

Sincerely, I really do love this lady so much but its sad to see us part ways.

Was my decision reasonable?? Kindly advice...

Regards!

Don't worry my brother, I get plenty AYF sister for you to marry. Honestly, you guys need to be compatible church wise if not, your marriage will lack that spiritual compatibility. Anglican my first bride! Fellowship!!! In Christ!
Please don't leave Anglican ooooo

lordmanuelle:
Meaning "ur blood dey hot oo"

OK, thanks alot

lordmanuelle:
lolss
Jini ka da zapi fa

Abeg do try and interprete because of people like us wey dey learn the language, nagode!

In Jesus name, Buhari will never lead this country again after 2019 Amen!

Bhella5:
by who?

By me and my friends and in-laws from the EAST!

mrphysics:
@First bold sentence ---- Op is a student, she have expressed herself, and she rightly pointed out in the bracket that she is single. She wasn't talking about any father or husband.

@Second bold sentence----You are trying to bring gender into this. No one attached gender issue here. Just like you will condemn an action irrespective of the gender, same way people are doing here. Please, kindly respond accordingl

Lastly, you didn't seem to offer her any advise rather, you tried interpreting what she wrote. It seems like its the same person using different moniker.

Mr physics, kindly take your time to read and digest properly before running your finger on that keyboard of yours

EdCure:
I gave up on Buhari long long ago. He and his nepotistic and sectarian style of governance is the worst form of corruption that has hit Nigeria.

This anti corruption tag is a mere propaganda cliché.

Infact heh! the guy just came to position his northern brothers into various sectors of the economy undermining the federal character and principle. Our president is filled with hatred and vengeance!

kasheemawo:
yeebows

Yeebows oshi WO? E de fii a won Igbo nle nitorii olorun. Kini won ra nigba yin?

thonyokun:
See as ladies avoid this thread like plague. Birds of a feather...

twilliamx:
Baba Buhari, me I like your style, you deal decisively, we know those that hate you, don't mind them cos they hate every thing even themselves, it is only amongst them that they have such quotes as " if you see a snake and a fellow tribes man (mbaise) kill the tribes man before you kill the snake, what do you expect from such a people, we that are not biased and filled with hate know the kind of country that was left in your hand and we know truthfully that even with your deteriorated health you still strived to give your best. This same peoples voices where not heard when boko haram decimated over 10,000 Nigerians under their beloved ineffectual Buffon while he got drunk on otuoke local liquor , turning a blind eye to the cries of dying soldiers until suddenly he realised that election was close by and decided to act.
We that are sincere with our analysis know that it is not easy to run a mess like Nigeria but we can actually see a sincerity of purpose in your move to take the country to greater height. We pray to God to give you the wisdom to continue to do so.
Our hateful brothers are so blind that they forget that the 16yrs of the corruption ridden rule of the previous people destruction party left Nigeria in 16yrs of darkness, poverty, theft of the country's common wealth and without any good development in any region of the country yet they cry for them to come back.
We that are in the know always expected that whosoever will decide to lead and take the corruption fight head on will always meet corruption fighting back so for this we hail your courage to take on such herculean task.
Because we want a good country where there is love peace unity and prosperity we endear you to tackle their hate with love.
As Nigeria celebrate its 57th independence anniversary we pray never again to have another 16years of the of the locust.
May God continue to guide you my president and we wish you success in coming years ahead and success for every region of the country and all its citizen.

God bless the federal republic of Nigeria

Pray for the peace of Nigeria. May all those who love the country prosper.

Abeg tell me how much has been paid into your account with all these rubbish you just spilled out. You guys should just let this country enjoy peace for once!

kwb567:
It isn't wrong for a mother to call. But we all go to work and I get back after meal the only time I have to discuss with my wife, ask her how her day was her mum calls and the conversation lasts for mor than 1 hour. At that time I usually sleep off. There is a communication gap my wife and I feel it is a recipe for disaster.

D Am I sensing jealousy here?

9jvirgin:
Don't mind them, it baffles me how a sensible individual supports a criminally minded eediot like Fayose just because he insults Buhari, anyone who insults Buhari is a messiah to these guys.

Sure!, because there is a saying that ' the enemy of my enemy is my friend". The Igbo's dislike buhari for so many reasons which is glaring for all to see, so anybody that will help butt him out of that government is welcome by them including me despite the fact that I stand for one Nigerian where justice is upheld, equity assured and tribalism shunned and peace enthroned!

lefulefu:
so dont u feel jealous when ur married lover uploads his pic of both him and his wife with cute kids on Facebook and talks about how he loves his family and all while he only visits u in secret?