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essentialone:
Abusive husbands didn't fall from the sky, someone raised a boy wrongly.

Your 3years old son gets angry whenever you give him food he doesn't want and throws it on you, you laugh and say "😃😃 children ehh".

Baby boy will lift his hands and slap you when he wants you to drop him...All you'd say is "you're beating mummy 😃"

No other child in that area messes with him...And you're calling him "A no- nonsense boy"

He picks up things from the ground and hits people whenever he's stopped from doing something...You smile and call him "action boy😃🤾🏿‍♂️🤸🏽‍♂️"

You expose him to all manner of violence and say "He's a man, man suppose get mind"

Few years down the line the teenage boy bullies his sisters, commands them around, shares slaps as souvenirs to anyone that dares to challenge him.
You call him "man of the house"😃

He grew up having his way all through. Now he's a full grown man in the society. And it's not funny anymore.

Abusive husbands didn't fall from the sky, someone raised a boy wrongly.

*IT'S EASIER TO TRAIN A SON THAN TO CORRECT A HUSBAND.*

We could address a lot from the root.

Sorry if you’ve been hurt with this post ?

But! This is just the Fact 👌🤷‍♀️

May Almighty God make it easy for us all AmennN 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Angelfrost:
You are still digging that hole out of misguided self pride...!

Well, that's your choice... Your opinion has been noted sir.

Once again, enjoy the rest of your day.

We are done here... You can read and move on now. Thanks.

Pride will kill you. You made a misguided comment and can't accept it

Angelfrost:
You have been corrected... Take it like a man, and stop shifting goal posts like a child.

It's unintelligent to keep making silly comparisons especially in such threads... It also smacks of insensitivity.

There is no basis whatsoever to compare two nations except on the basis of leadership. Period!

Have a nice day.

Stop been dumb and get off. What correction. I am sure you have never travelled in your life to see that most developed countries do not drive their cars regularly, not that they do not wish too but the cost. Is that what you are correcting? You are obviously not thinking. Did you see a two nation comparising in my post. It is a Monday, get busy to productives

Funkyswagzz:
Can you compare there value of there current to yours.

Why are you people so dumb. Below par human development is the main problem

Angelfrost:
Corruption and Embezzlement are unknown in government circles of Developed nations... Taxes and Revenues don't get diverted into private accounts. They are judiciously used for the development of the nation's which all citizens see and enjoy.

Always make proper and complete analogies like a truly learned person.

Don't just pick what suits your narrative.

Grow up. your focus is different from what I focused on. If you choose to focus on all the problems is your choice, If I choose to comment on just a feature, it is my choice. Go and get a life

Reality of a developing nation and a feature of a developed nation. Nothing is cheap in a developed nation

taylor89:
Dangote killed BUA, IBETO and other cement companies

He paid heavily to attain monopoly power

God will punish Nigeria government

God will punish Tinubu and Buhari

Dangote is our main problem

How is BUA dead

mangood74:
Lastma officials are too arrogant even when you begged them. They need new orientation if not they beating will continue

Why committing an offence in the first place. Everyone is behaving same way both citizens and enforcers. Is it difficult to be law abiding?

Autobot05:
Nigeria wey nor get law ? No security
Mr economics Ghana is doing better than Nigeria currently if you wish to be realistic

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32.8 million population competing against 213.4 million population.
Go and argue with our Lagos state.

EyeCumInPiss:
If person press now, dem go scream sexual harassment.
Is this her dressing not harassing the male gender.?

I tire o. Their fish brain is unprecedented.

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Kingsnairaland:
I can show you video of him going to submit forms to work for Russia government directly.... With the rate of cgi and ai... USA evil nato propaganda won't stop




But

This is how things stand. The Western countries have not been able to damage the Russian economy. NATO couldn't defeat the Russians in a regular war or through terrorism.

The United States hasn't been able to isolate Russia diplomatically. The group of powerful people has also failed to turn the Russian population against Putin. So far,

it is Russia that has stopped NATO from directly getting involved in the conflict. On the other hand, Russia has greatly weakened NATO's group of soldiers in Ukraine, and they have also reduced NATO's weapons supplies, which will cost billions to replace.

The Western countries will also need billions of dollars to support the unsuccessful and corrupt Ukrainian government. Additionally, the West is dealing with high debts, a recession, and the growing influence of the BRICS countries that are reducing their reliance on the US dollar.

As a result, it can be said that Russia has inflicted a "strategic defeat" on the Western countries....


God bless putin God bless mother Russia.

There is no NATO group of soldiers in Ukraine. Ukraine is not NATO

jargonzboi:
Seemed like a good IGP.
I don't believe the jubilation was for his removal.

Probably a police function or something.

True

ManWater:
This is good.
But they can as well call it Scholarship because no student will pay back a loan.

Why not with to see the mechanism

Jennyclay:
MONEY
SEX
LOVE
ATTENTION.

If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.

BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.

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At the end na building like any other uni.

Crispels:
9m naira for graduate school in the U.S? That can barely pay tuition for a semester in many programs - mind you, Master’s degrees are usually for two years in the US. The average graduate school program in the U.S costs around 15m naira per year(and this is just tuition).

That is average depending on the institution and your lifestyle. In some instances it can as well be more than 15m. My cost is per year anyway which can be more.

Lyricalgod:
I graduated from the university in 2017 and served the following year, have tried a couple of job applications and internship programs but none has paid off.

Days back my parents asked me to apply for a masters programme abroad, since they would have less financial engagement next year,they would be able to sponsor me comfortably, I suggested giving me the money to setup a business instead,but they were not too interested.

But am confused don't know where to start,and how to go about it I.e application, visa etc.. I know a lot of experienced readers are here who have been there,and i know their are people like me out there who want to learn and gain vital information.

Mods please push this to front page

Determine your budget.
If you have about 9m for UK, USA, Ireland, Canada, Australia go for it.
You may consider if you have about 3m Mauritius.
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fergie006:
https://af.reuters.com/article/topNews/idAFKBN20T14K-OZATP

Why are these countries bringing diseases to Africa? Should Africa not regulate them the way they do us for malaria?
Anyways they still have a world class education system. Check my signature for a trusted hand

Mimiey:
Hello Nairalanders.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?

So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if he could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currently seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.

Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on Tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways. He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.

Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.

Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didn't kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.

I told him I don't want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I don't want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling, away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.

Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didn't stop again and just continued driving.

This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isn't all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious?

Cut him off immediately.

Azazeal007:
This is really a sad moment for every Nigerian students out there, when you fit into a job description and then you found out they only want people with higher degree.

Graduating with a 3rd class or pass degree I believe is no sin. But employers out there would not even look at your CV when you are below par, no matter the amount of experience you are bringing. Some unavoidable things must have happened in school that led to that, but nobody cares.

How then do you tell that to the people around you? Especially your parents or guardians who’d be feeling like their investments on you went down the drain. When people finish from the university with a third class or pass degree, they most times feel like their whole world came crashing down on them. How then do one get to a good job?

I personally fall into this category due to some unforseen circumstances but who cares. After searching fruitlessly for jobs for a year now, I just have to sit back and think about my life.

My fellow Nairalanders what is the way forward?No job, no capital to startup my own business, no money to go back for a postgraduate course. Its just me myself and I (Owusagi)

Go and write a professional course and pick up from there

Market wey never local finish dem dey call am international.
Come and experience real international by studying abroad. 2 years post study work visa in UK, low tuition and scholarship in Malaysia and more.

It is well.

However studying abroad is yet available. Study in UK, Ireland, USA, Canada and a quite low destination, Mauritius. Check signature

CrimeKsmart:
This is very good. Let the Christians also clamour for their laws instead of trying to tackle the Muslims. Like Falana said, let the Christians too bring ideas that will Christianize Nigeria instead of wailing all the time.

Don't be a child of confusion

You have no issue in getting a lecturing job as you will be referred to your Phd if you are able to obtain it.

But for most Phd admissions attention will be on your first degree grade, and MSc thesis score.

There are different strokes for each country you are applying to for your Phd Nigeria to the UK, US, Canada, Ireland etc.

If you are applying to the US and Canada I'll strongly advise you write GMAT. For UK write a strong personal statement explaining your third class and justifying your ability using your subsequent stride of 4.0 CGPA.

Also be able to proof your research ability and understanding in your personal statement and proposal.

To access scholarship in USA and Canada do GMAT/GRE and have a very good score.

UK and Ireland Admission is much predictable to succeed though not guaranteed compared to US and Canada that application success is very low.

Back2Daura:
Good day all,

Please I need honest advices on my career path. I made a third class in economics and applied for pgd management but got admitted to study marketing after I got the Pgd marketing I moved on to study Msc management which I made 4.0 cgpa.

Now I am about to apply for PhD management. The issue here is that I am confused if I will get a lecturer Job since I made third class and I didn't study a particular course from my bsc to PhD level.

Further more, can I get a scholarship to study for PhD with my degree in any foreign university still admitting? If there is, kindly avail me as the schools I had search have closed admission.
Thanks alot in anticipation to your kind replies.

My friend if you are looking for scholarships you are good as even those with 3.5 are getting it. If you hope to study in Canada or USA write GRE or GMAT and have an outstanding score.

Ithream:
Just about yesterday after speaking with my Class advicer, I was left in a depressed state.

I am currently on my 400level IT and I am to return back to school this coming new year by January. He told me about my result. He said my CGPA is the highest so far. Which makes me his best student. I asked him for the exact CGPA which he replied with with a *4.06*. My God I wondered why he was glad to break such a sad news to me. I thought I had chances of making it a 4.1+ the previous semester. I told him thanks. But I know I wasn't Happy

I did the maths...and I found out that the highest CGPA I can make is 4.2+ after my final year(2 semesters left) I feel terrible right now. How can I shift it to 4.3+ Cgpa? I have heard of students borrowing courses but I don't really know if this could be one of their reasons for doing such.


NB: I am not in anyway trying to make it look like having such a CGPA is bad or I am ungrateful. It's just that I have plans of applying for scholarships to study abroad but won't such a Gp hinder me?

Pls I need someone to placate me with motivational words. I feel like a looser. After all these years of studies! What if I loose the passion for school or studies after returning next year? I feel real bad

What if I might even loose the chance of being the best graduating student of my set like my class adviser had said

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sizer07:
See correct warlord.sad thing is Africa is where there biggest market is. Lie Muhammad will come denied this one now.this illegal buying of fire arms hapun during Jonathan regime. I can't believe we have not learn our lessons. Too bad that money don enter voice mail again like others once seized during jona tenor. Bad markettttti

Supplied has been done Already. So no scamming

BlacSmit:
Dealing with the Nigerian government is now illegal in the advanced world. Very soon, being a Nigerian would be illegal too,

Welcome to Next Level... the only countries that take us serious are terrorist nations like Saudi

Selling Arms to Nigeria isn't Illegal and Nigeria isn't illegal. It is the Vendor that sold illegally by not having a valid permit.