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Travel / Re: Bride-to-be Dies In Terrible Car Accident 2 Weeks To Wedding (Pix) by Successfulben: 9:08pm On Dec 13, 2022
Most people are oblivious or should I say ignorant of spiritual battles. They don't know or believe in family battles. Most pastors or religious leaders do not prepare there members for real life. They tell them to shovel to God so God can tipper back to them. There is more to this life than what we see and what we were taught. Jesus said that men ought always to pray and not to faint. That accident was an arrow shot at her from a member of her family and could have been averted if they understood "war-fare".In the realm of the spirit Ignorance is not an excuse. We pray for
the repose of her
soul[.quote author=Obio4real post=119131438]By Obio Monday

A beautiful lady whose wedding was scheduled for 27th of December, 2022 has died in a fatal accident, leaving her husband-to-be heartbroken.

Blessing Ebodo, a nurse from Bekwarra Local Government Area of Cross River State, lost her life yesterday in a terrible car accident along Calabar-Ikom Highway in Cross River State.

GRASSROOT REPORTERS gathered that two other occupants of the vehicle survived the accident with injuries.

Lamenting his loss, Blessing’s husband-to-be, Bernard Ushie wrote on Facebook:

“Dear Blessing 27th is close and our cloths have arrived from Aba I’m waiting for you to return from Calabar so we can conclude the plans. You know this marriage will be top notch .

“Please do not leave me on this dark place.”

Another of his post read:

“After the lost (sic) of my only sister I found you a perfect match and feels more comfortable being with you.

You gave me love,care and attention more than I expect.

You were a strong woman
A prayer warrior
A dedicated woman to the nursing profession
I’ll forever miss the love of my life.
Short time with you I learned so many.
Rest on Babe”

Source: https://www.grassrootreportersng.com/2022/12/criver-photos-bride-to-be-dies-in-terrible-car-accident-two-weeks-to-wedding-groom-left-heartbroken.html?amp=1[/quote]
Celebrities / Re: Celine Dion Diagnosed With 'Stiff Person Syndrome' (Video) by Successfulben: 12:25pm On Dec 09, 2022
You have made your point please shift and let others make theirs.
etrange:


Yes, and all the terminally sick people in your hospitals also sold thier souls, right? So you're healthy because you're more connected to your God than they are? Using someone's health challenge to score religious points is the most insensitive thing. You people call yourselves Christians, but y'all are just toxic and cold-hearted.
Celebrities / Re: Celine Dion Diagnosed With 'Stiff Person Syndrome' (Video) by Successfulben: 12:24pm On Dec 09, 2022
You are a big foooool and an unfortunate being to say that I will die before her. You are cursed already.
MufasaLion:


You'll likely die before her. She lives in a country with proper healthcare that can manage her health and has been managing it for sometime, and high life expectancy.
Celebrities / Re: Celine Dion Diagnosed With 'Stiff Person Syndrome' (Video) by Successfulben: 4:51pm On Dec 08, 2022
It is possible he/she might be older than you. Another over-sabi.
MyExpression:


All this indomie generation children wey full here. � � �

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Celebrities / Re: Celine Dion Diagnosed With 'Stiff Person Syndrome' (Video) by Successfulben: 4:50pm On Dec 08, 2022
A life without Christ will surely end in shambles. She gained the whole world and she is about to loose her soul. What is the approximate value for your soul?
Celebrities / Re: Davido In Osogbo For Adeleke's Inauguration (photos) by Successfulben: 11:41am On Nov 27, 2022
All I know is that you can conceal the truth but not forever.

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Celebrities / Re: Davido In Osogbo For Adeleke's Inauguration (photos) by Successfulben: 11:40am On Nov 27, 2022
Look at this frustrated fool, instead of agreeing that Davido used his son to pay his tithe,you are coming out to defend him. When wind blow fowl yansh go open, nothing but hidden under the sun.
sokeril:

Oloriburuku,oloshi ni e sha
TV/Movies / Re: AMAA: Burna Boy Presents The Manager Of The Year Award To His Mum, Bose Ogulu by Successfulben: 7:01pm On Nov 22, 2022
You are part of the few in this world that have sense.
candygist:


Like Davido used is son and other members
Politics / Re: Vote Buying: APC Harvests Over 10m Voters’ Bank Accounts – CUPP by Successfulben: 6:58pm On Nov 22, 2022
You have nailed your conscience and exchanged your common sense for a pot of porridge. If you cannot disprove the authenticity of the news then keep your rotten mouth shut. PDAPC is dead on arrival.
femisplash:
Ugochinyere a PDP lackey. Niggar has been wailing since 2015, he is representing PDP constituency in Imo. Probably might have joined the Obìdíot camp.

PS; NL has edited Obi-diot to Obidient... Lol.

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Family / Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Successfulben: 6:04pm On Nov 20, 2022
I am holding my head with tears as I read your comment. May I not run to Tarshish when my ordination is in Nineveh.
Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner? He sent you to Nineveh, but you ran off to Tarshish.

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TV/Movies / Re: AMAA: Burna Boy Presents The Manager Of The Year Award To His Mum, Bose Ogulu by Successfulben: 10:17am On Nov 19, 2022
Ogun keee your papa
Yorubaipobhausa:

Like you used your mother for rituals
Family / Re: Man Caught His Pregnant Wife Having Sex With Pastor On Their Matrimonial Bed by Successfulben: 1:25pm On Nov 18, 2022
Sense no dey your head I swear.
LotaTee:
I guess the husband has not been satisfying his wife sexually. Pregnancy comes with a lot of packages including high libido, make he no vex. I'm sure she meant no harm.
TV/Movies / Re: AMAA: Burna Boy Presents The Manager Of The Year Award To His Mum, Bose Ogulu by Successfulben: 1:19pm On Nov 18, 2022
You people should just wait until Burnaboy use his mother for rituals.
Romance / Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Successfulben: 7:37pm On Nov 10, 2022
I just dey shame for you. That guy na sharp guy, he knows what he want and once he gets it, he go begin treat you like other girls. My advice fit no make sense Sha.
Shybeauty:


You are crazy grin.
Anyways, when i was sick and couldn't eat. Most people got me juice but he was like he wasn't sure of what i'll like to drink and bought me four kinds of drinks: juice, yoghurt, smoothie and tea.
If he's asking everyone questions directly on a group as a group leader, he will prefer to send me a text and ask me, making me feel respected.
Romance / Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Successfulben: 7:35pm On Nov 10, 2022
Let me read and learn.
Shybeauty:
Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department.

Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.

If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?
Family / Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by Successfulben: 7:31pm On Nov 10, 2022
You just motivated me, sir.
Davidave:
NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING,LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OFF IT
Politics / Re: Chinese Ambassador Visits Bola Tinubu In Abuja (Photos) by Successfulben: 9:19pm On Nov 08, 2022
Wow to anyone who will cast his/her vote to Tinubu
Politics / Re: Pictures From Osogbo Tinubu/Shettima Walk And Rally by Successfulben: 12:41pm On Nov 08, 2022
You be mumu woman aswear. [quote author=INDOMIE9090 post=117871239][/quote]
Family / Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Successfulben: 12:40pm On Nov 08, 2022
Op, you must be a mad man for bringing every minor family related issues here.
Mide70:
Please I need your opinion on this issue.

Though before I got married I discovered my mother inlaw calls all her daughters both married and unmarried everyday (only 3 ladies no boys) and they fear her to the bone.

At times every morning and night just to talk to them but I believe when they get married they need privacy and respect but this is not the case for my mother-in-law and I detest such act.

Mind you I'm not against call or trying to break the bond but I believe this is marriage. I'm looking for a way to stop all that

I'm I wrong or right to take that step ?
Sports / Re: Premier League Player Injured In Groin From Having Sex In Unusual Position by Successfulben: 6:16pm On Nov 07, 2022
This vawulence towards Manchester- disunited fans is becoming unbearable grin
PlayMaker14:
“He had serious pain in his groin and he told me he’d been having hard and vociferous sex with his partner.





E nor go pass Manchester United player... Greenwood has done his own before... They can only impress their fans in bed, but not on the pitch. grin
Celebrities / Re: Autopsy Confirms Davido’s Son, Ifeanyi, Drowned by Successfulben: 3:25pm On Nov 05, 2022
Autopsy cannot reveal spiritual causes of death. Even if someone was used to renew a ritual, autopsy will still say he died of food poisoning �

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Politics / Re: Pictures From Osogbo Tinubu/Shettima Walk And Rally by Successfulben: 5:58pm On Oct 25, 2022
Paid crowd. Nobody in his right senses will give a 2 seconds walk for Tinubu except he is given urgent 2k.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Rishi Sunak: 18 Things To Know About Incoming UK Prime Minister (Photos) by Successfulben: 11:02pm On Oct 24, 2022
If it was in Nigeria, they would use "he has no structure" to frustrate him. In saner climes, RIGGING is an aberration.
Family / Re: How Do I Forgive Him? by Successfulben: 10:49pm On Oct 24, 2022
Must you spiritualize everything? You be mumu aswear.
Righteousness2:
My Sister, you have a right to be angry. Yes your husband has offended you.

But because of the Blood JESUS Christ shed on the cross of Calvary for your sins and my sins, Despite all our evil and wicked lives, Forgive him. Forget about the past.

You both should together go before GOD in Prayers. Forgive yourself and Build your Home on GOD and GOD'S Principles for the Home.

I Pray for you, the Peace of GOD that passed all human Understanding take over your life and your Home in JESUS Name.
Family / Re: How Do I Forgive Him? by Successfulben: 10:46pm On Oct 24, 2022
You women will never learn. Because you are doing well financially doesn't mean that you should dishonor your husband. If I were to be your husband, you will give birth to that child in your father's house and afterwards marry your father. Nonsense.
Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

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Celebrities / Re: Candlelight Procession For Rico Swavey by Successfulben: 7:42pm On Oct 19, 2022
The guy is an elderly fooool.
premierlead:



Jusr because you sell alcohol, drugs and grill dead meat for people who drink and drive late in the night or why your sudden remorse?

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Politics / Re: China: We Don't Have A Police Station In Nigeria, Only Outreach Service by Successfulben: 7:17pm On Oct 19, 2022
To those "if you don't drink you are less a man" crew, I hope you guys have seen the benefit of drinking? How that drinking alcohol can make you a real nigga and add length to your days on Earth. Drink-driving has claimed more lives, especially that of young people. I hope we learn and be wise. IF YOU MUST BE DRUNK, BE DRUNK IN THE HOLYGHOST!!!
Crime / Re: Nigerian Man Defrauds Several US Banks After Presenting Himself As Yoruba Deity by Successfulben: 8:42pm On Oct 10, 2022
The stupid man will wrot in jail and ifa will not be able to save him angry
Celebrities / Re: Adekunke Gold Gifts His Old Friend And Music Director A Rolex Worth N11,000,000 by Successfulben: 8:36pm On Oct 10, 2022
I am tearfully handing this over to the vanity crew, let me just sit and read comments. Indeed, this world is not my ohm angry
Health / Re: Amelia Pounds, Nigerian Lady, Dies During Plastic Surgery In India (Photos) by Successfulben: 1:15pm On Oct 08, 2022
May she burn to ashes in hell. Look at her looking unreasonably light skinned, she just looked like a demon. Useless and worthless life. Whether you type r.i.p from now till tomorrow it doesn't still change the fact that she lived a wasted life and truth is most of our girls will not still learn from this.
Politics / Re: This Viral Picture Of Man Shaking Tinubu Is Not Peter Obi by Successfulben: 1:02pm On Oct 08, 2022
As your stupidity gotten to this level? judging a man's intellectual ability or capability with his class of degree shows that you never passed through the four walls of the university. You are a big foooooool. The useless Buhari your useless Tinutiku brought to power which academic qualification(s) can he boast of? Have you not seen even pass graduates doing far better in there chosen careers and first class graduates even yet to locate there bearings? Use your akpako sense Biko.
KingKO22:
Who is Bitter Obituary to shake Jagaban ?

Ordinary 3rd class dullard of IPOB republic


He can't even match the likes of Ambode let alone Fashola.


Tinubu is his master in all ramifications
Celebrities / Re: Man Who Dumps Wife And Kids To Marry Actress Liz Anjorin, Keeps Harassing Her Po by Successfulben: 4:33am On Oct 08, 2022
Real women do not find pleasure in taking other people's joy. I pity those of you who celebrate this yeyebrities, God will judge you.

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