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Clown. He has canceled his engagement but he won't cancel opportunity to loot today o

DSS1335:
Thanks.

She will go back to the village and put to birth, thereafter return back to the city after weaning the child. Whatever arrangements to be made must involves that boy's family too.

Next year UTME, she will register and write it in the village.

Thank you and God bless you and your wife.Amen

Okay, Zamfara. Be because it can never be in Lagos.
In Lagos one of those is 700.

Biko, Dont let her sacrifice her future because of this pregnancy. There are kids who have babies as teenager and still continue with their education. Please continue to sponsor her, she can leave the baby with the mother and continue with the education. Other kids have waxed stronger after teenage pregnancy.

That boy will further his education, so why should she pay for her teenage sexual act by sacrificing her future.

Please sponsor her and let her be the light on her family, I beg of you and your wife.

May God guide you aright. Please I beg of you.

Thank you Sir

His bandits monies is about to be traced Abi?

jeromestarks:
If a girl rejects you, go down on your knees and thank God.
Na woman leave you, no be God leave you.
Na she go regret.
Never ask a girl out more than once. You're not born useless and worthless.
Keep your head high and walk away the moment she gives you negative vibes.

Person wey love you no go stress you.

Goes both ways for females rejected by men.
.You have spoken well, nobody is born worthless and useless.

Happy Birthday to her.
Oga, enjoy the wife of your youth.
I just want to advice you that no born again o! Make una train unaselves and grow up together in love, peace and understanding.

God bless your union. Amen

Blessedmercy8:
When the father gave all his wealth to Charity and told his son to go hustle for his own money, why wont the daughter queue for free food?

Seriously speaking, I dont like what Jackie did to his children. Denying them their birthright just to appear a great philanthropist was not the best. He could have done a 50-50 split of his wealth between his children and the charity.

I hope you know that his son also is involved in drugs? So he should will his estate to a junkie of a son to blow everything away on drugs abi? This is where the foreigners are different from us Nigerians. As Nigerians we will continue to use money to patch up disgraceful kids while they continue on their reckless ways
Just to avoid what society will say. But the society never stops talking anyway.


As for the daughter, I wouldn't know why. But she should make her own money. It isn't bad she is queuing for food stamps. Everyone goes through bad times, she will rise above it. Ben Carson also depended on food stamps as a kid with his mother and brother.


Thank God she is in Canada na.

In Nigeria, is there Fold stamps? Those having bad times in Nigeria with this economy, a times I wonder how families feed.

It is well abeg.

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

You have every right to be angry.
Tell him the only way you will forgive him is if he pays that money back to you.

And to think he was even bragging that woman go build house for man , no ear go hear am. You are his wife blah blah. It shows he was remorseful.


Anyway thank God you have your own money to stand on your own Nd he has seen you aren't handicapped.

That man lacks integrity money wise and please if and when you decide to go pay whatever decision you choose to make, don't do joint business ventures with him even joint account sef. No do.


Marriage reveals the spouses we end up with as choice of spouse.

voltron14:
That is enough to power half a million homes.

Half a million homes you say, in a country of over 170million people.

700MW?
When I heard on radio that SA generates 35000 MW some years ago?
Are we as country thinking futuristically considering the rise in population that will depend on power for life and sustenance?

What is 700MW to a nation that is supposed the giant of Africa?

I'm supposed to praise them now abi?

In 2022 we should be applauding leaders when the build roads, light etc. What are they there for? Whose monies did they use to build it? Their personal monies? Was the project funded by taxpayers' money?


Road, light are basic needs that any leader and government should provide for it's people

LaSenior:
Everyone here is saying harsh economy as if it is the wife that is providing for the family

For me I can do family planning without all this planning method

I no dey everly pour inside I don't know if am normal or I was created like that no matter how sweet the vjaay is I will always withdraw

Op do

Not every man is like you na.
You have gained mastery and not carried away. Is it some men battling pre ejaculation you except to do withdrawal?

DamnnNiggarr:
My wife says– No family planning, No sex.
for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.

Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.

I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.

I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.

But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.

Please assist me for wider audience.

As educated as you are you with 3 children (2boys and 1 girl) you are battling with family planning as wahala in your home? Hmm


It simply shows.... You have a long way to go o!

Oga, go and see a doctor with your wife and discuss the family planning options available.

Do you know there is something called vasectomy for men? You are even battling with the use of condoms with your wife suggesting it, it shows you will shut down vasectomy with your doctor sef.


Oga, use your tongue to count your teeth, if you like born plenty children full ground say you dey obey be fruitful, multiply and replenish the whole earth. Who go pay school fees, rent, clothing, feeding, other expenses? Sebi the man is the provider of the home and the "head"? And sebi the head will not want the wife, the weaker vessel to assume the headship of the home else e finish for his manhood abilities(decision making power) as we have seen with some homes?


Okay, Oga, is up to you finally o!

I drop my pen in the basket of love. Abi how dem dey end letter writing in those days hahaha

Masterito:
Mehn Nigerians like you are low lives. Even Iranian women get sense pass you.

Do you know that those with high lives are not online classing people as low lives? So what does that say about you?

Have a blessed sunday Mr sense while at it, life by the rules of whatever land you find yourself. Peace!

Masterito:
So if she was killed she can't film it? Common sense isn't common indeed.

If she was killed and she filmed it with your common sense that is common what will it change? The pictorial evidence of Falode's son, what did it change?

The day we as Nigerians going to foreign nations know that every nations has their laws we must abide by, the better for us. Yes, at home here we are quick to film every thing we see and post, but some nations regulate their social media space and are mindful of what people in their countries and citizens post online about them.

Masterito:
So making video and posting online is crime in Dubai? Wow but it is not wrong in line with international law. So her case can still given attention.

In their Land in Dubai they said it is wrong. With Intl law, I don't know.

Pending when it is proven by Intl law, she go still hearing am for there, next time she will obey the laws of application on any land and how to behave.

Is it not that same Dubai, that Aisha Falode's son was pushed to his death from how many storeys, what happened? He died for nothing, what was the conclusion on that matter?

What is so wrong with Nigerians obeying the law of another land? They said you must come in with family visa and you do otherwise?

You make video and post online which is against their laws. You think outside the shores of this country is your zoo where anything goes?

When you stay there for the offences, you know how far.

Ladies will never hear the word.
They think they are smart.
How does a man train you and you open your mouth to say he is an illiterate and not your class? Who gave you class, if not that the man who trained you?

I blame men and who continue to blame them, if you must train a female, marry her first, I don:t care how expensive their bride price is, marry her first and while she is schooling dey knack her belle, make I see if after 4 years in school with 3 or 4 kids she will come out to say he isn't her class.

Nonsense and ingrates.

Thank God I don't have any brother who will be foolish enough to say he is training a girl that will later dump him. If your father can bear you, he should train you.

Some of these ingrate ladies who call their benefactors or helpers illiterates have illiterates fathers o! Why didn't they disown their fathers?

Till they finish it, then I know they have completed the project. Nobody should use the flood as an excuse.


Fashola should also come and tell us why since 2015 the Lagos /IBADAN express way is yet to be completed. The hardship on that express is just unimaginable, commuters face robbery in traffic there.

ahnie:
There's this distant brother of mine (not related by blood) my family has known him for some months now.

He's the fire praying churchy type of person, he does normally visit my family, but we have never met his family.

He's a foreman that does any type of job, he's hardworking tho, not the lazy type.

So some days ago,when I went for an exercise on sight seeing organised by Nigerian army, it occured to us to check on him since he stays closer to the venue.

I rang his line and told him to direct me to his home,which he reluctantly did, when we finally located his home.

To say I was disappointed with the environment was an understatement considering what he was up to lately which prompted this post.

I met 4 of his kids, at home playing, they ought to be in school at that time and his heavily pregnant wife, we exchanged pleasantly, all thru our brief staycation there, the bros was uncomfortable, after some moments we took our leave.

This same man came to my hood to paint the apartment of a young beautiful big God female UBA banker who just moved in.

To my painment and chagrin, my brother didn't even collect a dime from this lady as wages for the job done, he only collected phone number and started chyking the lady, who obviously has a rich taste for big boys and my bros was pretty pained.

Simply put, he did a free job, a job that took him 2 days to paint ,

My brother said he wants to have as many kids as possible, I'm afraid he's not making the necessary moves to care for them, which really is bad, with the present situation of the country.

My question now is.... Why would the wife and my bros agree to littering the house with kids they cannot care for and the ninth one is on the way?

Why does low income earners always have energy to knack and produce kids without the necessary bucks to care for them?

When you saw him, you didn't ask him, now you have come to Nairaland to bore us with this distasteful story and question.

An we dey him house, him gblokus to know answer to give you?

The wife no dey suffer to born na.
If she dey suffer and use surgery horn, she no go born 8kids down for this Naija wey we dey so.

She for don use local contraceptives hold body even as oga dey fire her back and front if hospital own too cost for her

Go and buy clove(kanafuru or zobo pepper). Pout it in a container, add hot water to it,. Let it sit to cool. Sieve it and turn it to a spray bottle.

And use it to spray on your hair.
You will visible changes in hair growth and texture.

The left over clove in the container can be reused so don't discard.

You are wicked.
2weeks after birth you begin to have sex with a woman who is sore down there. Do you think it is easy to push out a baby?

Didn't you speak with your doctor about when to resume sex? Nonsense and I don't want to cheat.

I blame women who endanger themselves just to keep your lots from cheating.

Will you die if you allow her to heal for 4months before you resume sex? The woman was even crying and you were still digging in with your shovel of an organ.

Who is that woman carrying the baby in that photo? Hope that isn't your wife? If she is the one, just look at how a woman and a wife who just gave birth look, because you have used sex to finish her, a woman that will be sleep deprived and should be sleeping and feeding well.

You are here saying the aunty is making your home uncomfortable, if that home was comfortable, a mattress wouldn't be on the ground.

Oga, go and work and earn money, only lazy men use sex as consolation.
How can you be banging a woman who is still releasing lochia?

Make dem continue to drive recklessly under the influence of alcohol.

After rejoicing alone, you can go back to olosho patronage.

IntelChief:
My elder sister is around 32 years and still not serious with marriage. Her only focus is on making money and she had been very successful in that aspect. She has a well paying job and is not only comfortable but also supports me financially sometimes.

But I just can't imagine why she is not disturbed about the fact that she is still single at her age. A lot of guys I know had been approaching her but she never accepts even a relationship offer from them, talk more of marriage. (And am very sure that she is not a lesbian or any of that).

As a church guy, I have seen a lot of women stock in this not being married thing and jumping from one church to the other seeking for husbands. Some of them, out of desperation, fall victims in the hands of fake pastors and sharp guys. I really don't want my sister to go through such.

Initially, I wasn't disturbed, but right now, this issue is burning not only me but also my aging mother. My mother had even stylishly urged my sister to go get married on several occasions. But she won't.

What really got me mad was when I was discussing with my sister some days back about her future plans. She told me stuffs like planning on travelling abroad for greener pastures, bla bla bla, but made no mention of marriage.

Honestly guys, I am tired. And as a man in the family, I am thinking of changing it for my sister. Am planning on threatening her that if she doesn't take the issue of marriage serious, I will go physical with her and teach her some lessons. But the issue is that she is my elder sister and I have some respect for her. And my action might end up affecting the bond in the family.

Yes, tell her.
To you she doesn't know, so open your mouth waaaa and tell her.

Did you hear of Bimbo who just died, sebi she was married to a man.

You have a sister who is 32 and focused on making her own money to be financially independent before a man comes and you say she is only focused making money?

Oh! She should wear white gown and end up without her own money and be slammed on the way with her head to her death and stay with her abuser because she is getting old?

At what age did Ruth, Esther get married in the Bible? If the bible didn't mention the age Rebekkah got married to Isaac either, then you have no business bothering about her age at 32.

Sebi you people have made marriage all about birthing kids in Nigeria, when she eventually marries and births 1 or 2 kids, sebi e go don complete? But she will be financially independent in it and be capable to run for her safety if it turns ugly and not be told to go back fast and pray because she is financially handicapped.

Your prayer should be God should send a man her way who loves God, will love her also, push her to accomplish her dreams in life and they will be happy as a couple not just marrying because she is old.


So if she was your younger sister, you will go physical with her and forcefully push her into any man's house abi? When you marry your wife, turn yourself to a statistics of those men who go physical on their wives, you hear?

Fisiryorh:
Stating the obvious is way different from judging...Mary Magdalene was a prostitute whom RENOUNCED her trade to follow Jesus...

Remember, Jesus also got angry at the temple due to the waywardness of its worshippers...

It's obvious she ain't gat no respect for the house of God...abi she fit go common job interview as she dress so?...

Reason am sef..

Guy, job interview is different
My point is let people know God, let the have access in and let the holy spirit do the work of convicting and converting them to be Christlike.

This journey is a daily one as we read and study the Bible, and hear the word of God, the word of God reflects us and shows us where we err to make amends o! The word reproves and correct us to make us thoroughly furnished.

Fisiryorh:
Good one to the Church...

The church is a hospital for the spiritually sick and not a brothel....

Even Jesus didn't turn Mary who broke the alabaster box of expensive perfume at his feet away. He clearly knew she was a prostitute and properly acquired that expensive fragrance via her trade.

Let her come in, hear the word and let the holy spirit do his job of conducting and converting the soul to Christ.
The scripture says paul planted, Apollos watered and the Lord gives increase,isn't it. She found her way to church one way or another, you let her in not judge her by her looks as unclean or unsaved, you let God do his work.

The scripture says none will come except the father draws them.

Did God say we should judge who is fit to enter and who is not?

Yes, there are dress codes by churches like Kumuyi said, you turn people away, not caring if they are saved or know Christ yet, which is wrong. Nobody be assistant Jesus o! We are all running this heavenly race by grace and the help of the holy spirit.

general111:
i choose good health, i promise to change my ways

Cheers!

general111:
so you want me to stop eating maggi laidis?

Guy, choose between good health and Maggi.

I have taken my time to educate you and even gave you assignment to read up on MSG side effects yet I don't know you from adam.

Choose ye this day good health or Maggi consumption.

Remember it is seasoning cube, Maggi is just a brand name

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Oga town crier. Keep crying.
This is the problem with you lily livered men as husbands.
How can your wife be living a cheating lifestyle and you be crying?

First where are you from? You didn't tell us if you are from the cultures where cheating is forbidden for ives, you are here complaining she stopped cooking and banging you. Maybe that is why she stopped.

Oga do your investigations well before she kills you with her chosen lifestyle.

general111:
My fiancee has threatened to do this ti my meal, and i threatened to unmarry her once she misbehave

Have you tasted maggi cube or any other seasoning cube before adding it to your meals?

In case you haven't, seasoning cubes are loaded with salt that is why Doctors advice to skip seasoning cubes from meals.

Now look at it this way, you cook rice, you add salt, you cook stew, you add salt and still add maggi to it. Now imagine the amount of salt we all eat daily.

Do you know salt in the body leads to excess water retention and hypertension? That is why doctors advice people to remove maggi cubes and every other seasoning cube from out foods. Do you even know seasoning cubes contain MSG(Mono Sodium Glutamate?)

Look up the side effects of MSG in seasoning cubes and noodles.

So because of these, people now formulate health seasonings, that is what your wife-to-be wants to do for you. If you like appreciate her or deal with her na your health las las.

Why do you think patients with hypertension are given a medication that makes them urinate? As they urinate, the excess salt is flushed out of the body.

freetojoin:
The Church has 2 floors, it happened on the top floor, speakers are everywhere and the First service was about rounding up. Some Church delegates came in later.

After witnessing this, did you wait to see the Pastor about this to register your displeasure? No.

You ran here to tell us, what do you want us to do now?
Abeg let God handle them based on their actions today. It is a totally wrong and sad occurrence that should be addressed speedily. Worshippers shouldn't be beat up like animals.