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Go with your spouse now and face the initial challenges together.
We no wan hear say it is difficult to bring her over later o!

Go together nao.

No park your car here for Naija vacant o! At owners risk.

What a stew.
You didn't even fry your onions first. Meat added raw. Hahaha

Best stew maker indeed. Learn how to cook, you say no na woman job hahaha.

See the outcome now.

If you don't know how to cook, Even if you have access to oyibo peoples sophisticated condiments and tomato puree, you will still cook medemede .Hahaha

joyH:
Please guys I need your help.
@mod pls help me move to the appropriate section.

I am confused and need advice on what step to take next.

The whole thing begins on 25th July when I had unprotected sex with my bf. before then my last period came on the 17th of July. so I had sex just about a week after.

Since then until now I have not seen my period. Initially, I worried I may be pregnant but after several urine and blood test it all turns out negative. what could be wrong here? This is the first time I am experiencing this.

I have done 4 tests myself using pt test strips. but all came negative. Yesterday I went to a private lab and de used my blood and urine sample for a pregnancy test, but it still came out negative.

Abeg any medical expert or anyone with experience should assist with advice on the next step, please.

Note, that my boyfriend is aware of the whole situation. he is confused. plus I am 23 yrs old just in case my age will aid in the diagnosis.

Tell us the truth.
Have you been dosing on postinor and other oral contraceptives?
Because if you have and have abused it by taking it multiple times in your cycle, it could have affected your cycle.

I will advise you to go do a scan. Since you said blood and urine tests showed no pregnancy. A scan will seal it for you.

You are 23years old, you should be using protection. Can you see that you are the one bearing the burden of your missing period now, guy man is free.

Use your head. How much is a condom, buy, if he won't buy it and insist he uses it?
Na you sabi, if you like to place a guy in the name of love above you and your career in life, your eyes go neat. Go and price pampers baby food, and school fees now and that should give you an idea of whether you are ready for the aftermath of unprotected sex at your age. The economy is tough, you can't bring a child and be hoping your parents will raise them while you school. They are battling to train you, don't add another one to their stress biko.

Have protected sex or abstain.

You see the disadvantage of being too friendly with neighbors without setting boundaries?

When she started peddling gossip, did you as a man of your home tell that woman that your home is no gossip home? No, you allowed it fester to what it is today and it has blown up in your face as a man.

Now do what God told Abraham to do, that is go with what his wife has said.
Your wife doesn't want that woman and her affiliations, so be it for peace to reign. You married your wife, not your friend, his sister, her husband and other gossip mongers.

A home is made up of a husband, wife and kids not neighbors n gossip carriers. Set the records straight!

If you don't, they will role your wife into one major gossip that you see won't be able to handle. The one on ground is just preamble.

CheapHomes1:
The man obviously has issues. But for a lady to see this red flag and leave her job in Scotland to come and sit in the palace, says a lot about how some ladies reason. Not sure she would have agreed to be a house wife to any man

Make we leave her to come and see with her eyes. Sebi she she wan dey wear white cloth and be releasing pigeon abi doves during festivals about?

She go encounter her own too.

In 7years on the throne. Two women have left him. What does that say?

Now, he wants to marry them in numbers. A data electronic engineer leaving Scotland to come sit in a palace.

If he like make he marry Oil and gas magnate and Engineer of Scotland. If it goes south, dem go return back to base.

All of them sha want to be referred to as Queen blah blah even after leaving him.


The broom wey pursue the first two dey on top roof dey wait for others.

This is a case of others are doing, me sef go do my own. Hmm.

If na one of those no nonsense men she marry eh and he sees this photo online eh hahaha

chuose:
I beg tell us why Atiku deleted the tweet about the lady murdered in Sokoto?

Please note that the tweet was deleted not to offend the criminals
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Fbtu5wmX0AAG9q9.jpg

Does Atiku not agree a crime has been committed?
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/FbVYM5VX0AI_fVG.jpg

Because he was threatened after that post that he just lost 1 million votes in the north na. Man hungry for presidency deleted the post.

We are watching with eyes wide open. Make he come rule make we see.

So what?
She is entitled to her enjoyment and rest pending when the strike is called off and she resumes back.

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Omoluabi16:
Listen. Hopefully you never experience stuff like these mentioned. You don't know impulse, that 30seconds moment of madness? I've been in such situation, and did not think straight. We're human after all.

Inanimate things can be replaced when there is life.
Since you have experienced it before, after your initial 30seconds of madness, did it change what had happened that you reacted to?

Remember I started by saying, Timaya's manager, risked his life in a country with data base, surveillance cameras that would have tracked the thieves within a mile radius not like in Naija where my friend's father was robbed of his car in their home and till date they
didn't see the car because after he reported to the police, they asked for 20k to radio the other police stations. He didn't give, saying all they wanted was bribe. Now in Atlanta, he wasn't asked for that.

Why trade your life for 30mins madness?

Toks2008:
Like seriously! Wow! How easy it is to sit behind the keyboard to type whatever we feel.

Have you heard of impulsive action?

Okay na, we have now seen the aftermath of impulsive action.

While you give it a big name, I'm bothered about the living, taking a few mins of their time to think before acting.


A certain man was driving to work in Ojota axis, his car got bashed, he left his car, hung on the danfo bus towards Maryland, then comes along another danfo bus that hits him while he is hanging on the first danfo bus, he falls to his death. According to you, it is impulsive action. The other man got into his car and drove off leaving him standing right there, without a car. He was lucky to be alive.

In cases like this, safety of life is paramount than trying to safe guard things that can be replaced with money as long as there is life.

You dey say impulsive action. Impulsive action can only happen when one is alive. We are to control and subdue our actions whether impulsive or not.

I rest my case.

I no argue with you. Did his running after the first danfo bus and hanging on it fix the car? He lost his life in that process. That danfo driver never got apprehended by the law.


In another case, a man on the Lagos IBADAN express got bashed, he came out obstructing traffic, while an argument was on, a trailer on top speed games along and clears his vehicle causing irreparable damage,

You are running after a car about to be stolen in a country with cameras, surveillance and database for every car that is registered.

A car that could have been traced within a mile radius and the culprit brought to book. A system with w working security system.


Was that car more important than his life?
Rest in peace. We need to stop to think and question ourselves before we act. His action just put his family and friends in mourning this time.

So?
The students will be assigned another supervisor. It is as simple as that.
If the Project supervisor had died, they would have been reassigned also.

So this isn't news at all. Even the students, if they had their way, would have relocated to Canada also.

LaSenior:


I don't even like that Dubai

How many blacks there lives expensive lifestyle

Dubai gave Hushpuppy out

They should have covered Hushpuppy abi?

May her soul rest in peace.
I speak comfort and peace to all mounting her passing now. Amen

Since you you are complaining, quit your job and raise your kids.

Do you think the mother of your kids, is happy to work and raise her kids in that hotel? No. But their are bills to be paid and she has to be a responsible mother to earn money to raise her kids and foot the bills.


Did your son tell you he learnt how to open doors using knife from that environment or from movies he has been exposed to? And what did you say to him at age 6 as a father figure?


If you and their mother are no longer together, can you now see the danger of a dysfunctional home playing out here on the kids at 6 and 4 years of age?

Have you tried setting up their mother to do business? If you have not, then you have no business coming online to shout your kids are raised in a hotel. Nigeria is dealing with people economy wise, if you don't know, know this now.

You leave home 8am and return 6/6:30pm and you are complaining of their mum. If they were with you for this holiday, would you have fared better as a single parent?

Sit down with their mum and make things work.

As madam wey you be, you sent your maid Phyna to go convey your feelings to Groovy. Hahaha

If you like something, go after it, don't send an errand boy/girl.

In life, if you want anything badly you go for it.

You are a loud mouth.
Is it everything you know you say out?
Is it every question you are asked, you must answer?

Oya call your family members into it and the entire society. That is how family members will also step in to settle every issue later on in marriage.


Oga, grow up and be a man.

Own your choice and decision.

Is birth certificate/age a requisite for marriage?

Man is a man who doesn't need to be telling his partners age difference to nobody

This is so sad.
These killings are just too much and unwarranted.

They just rendered a woman husband and kids fatherless.
This country tire person abeg. Bad news daily

chigoziri2403:
I never knew they were separated, moreso remarry
Most times try reading meaning to words, everything is not about feminism

What is feminism in my comment?
The marriage didn't work. The man in question has gone ahead to remarry and you talk as if the woman shouldn't have moved on.

Would you tell your sister to pause her life simply because a marriage failed?

I'm not a feminist, you hear because all I see is being branded online about it as male gender bashing.

Feminism should be about allowing a woman to thrive in her sphere of influence and have a voice, not women bashing men. It shouldn't be a power tussle.

OneCandleAway:
Never.
Recently the king is about marry someone new. He has nothing less than 4 wives in that palace presently. The prophetess has left him mind you. Seems he prefers that older with their own money so they won't be too much burden on him.

How true is it that the prophet's has left him?last I read, the elders tried to mediate to make her stay na.

Hmm, didn't know she left finally o!

There must be something wrong with the Ooni not being able to keep his women.

chigoziri2403:
When did they separate?
That she has already remarried

When did they separate that the Ooni already married and has a son and even has other distractions that made the Olori want to leave him?


Abi na only woman suppose pause her life say she marry and e no work?

E no work, life does on. No need crying over time wasted on what was worth it.

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

Did you court? Did you discuss children during courtship Abi you were only hanging out to eat shawarma and doing frivolities ?

Jesu!

This is just too much o! How this couple is surfing daily is by God's grace. How do they sleep without remembering their 4 kids lost in the inferno?

My God.

satelliteDISH:
U left your heavy pregnant wife who needs your attention and presence more than anything else to go whoring for 3 months.
U could not give out your slot for the attention of your wife and unborn child.
Misplaced priority.

Because men with pregnant wives don't chase their hustles. They have to put their lives on hold because she is pregnant. Tomorrow, people like you will say he had 9months to prepare for the birth of the baby.

Do pilots, military men and men in other professions pause their lives because madam is pregnant?


He went to use the BBN platform for his craft and fame. Since he got in, has he been whoring and knacking under the sheets with females? Abi the family no go chop after the show? Do you think he and the wife didn't discuss before he left?


If he was home, wetin go happen go happen. He isn't a doctor and he isn't God either. Wives have miscarried in their husband's presence, no be say the man go fit keep baby inside wet wan come out.


I pray for comfort for them and God grants them double for their loss.

Heathrow44:
u go still fall yakata for him, wat u re saying is what many of them were saying before they knew wat was happening, their panties is on d ground, shouting "oh my goodness "

Walai! You don Kolo hahaha.

How can I be screaming "oh my goodness" for married man?

Make dem paddle their canoe o!

Mercury12:
Surviving a week in Nigeria deserve a testimony in church every Sunday

Walai! you just talk am finish o!
we are living testimonies in Nigeria o!

But I want to ask a question o!
who doesn't know Tuface and his issues with his wife and his baby mamas and kids?
then another woman will go and put herself into this love triangle as it is called in big brother's house?
what is wrong with some women sef?

when a man comes, you know he is married, why not send him back where he belongs?

okay, Banker woman . welcome to the Idibia household.
enjoy yasef, while it last.

To Annie, the town crier and IG magaphone on crying matters,
now you not only curse out Pero, now bank chick don join the mix,
Oya wail the more.

To Tuface, who can't keep himself in check, continue to more ladies and expand your baby dynasty biko.
afterall you have denounced being a role model to make good music.
I wonder who ever called you role model before.