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IntelChief:
My elder sister is around 32 years and still not serious with marriage. Her only focus is on making money and she had been very successful in that aspect. She has a well paying job and is not only comfortable but also supports me financially sometimes.

But I just can't imagine why she is not disturbed about the fact that she is still single at her age. A lot of guys I know had been approaching her but she never accepts even a relationship offer from them, talk more of marriage. (And am very sure that she is not a lesbian or any of that).

As a church guy, I have seen a lot of women stock in this not being married thing and jumping from one church to the other seeking for husbands. Some of them, out of desperation, fall victims in the hands of fake pastors and sharp guys. I really don't want my sister to go through such.

Initially, I wasn't disturbed, but right now, this issue is burning not only me but also my aging mother. My mother had even stylishly urged my sister to go get married on several occasions. But she won't.

What really got me mad was when I was discussing with my sister some days back about her future plans. She told me stuffs like planning on travelling abroad for greener pastures, bla bla bla, but made no mention of marriage.

Honestly guys, I am tired. And as a man in the family, I am thinking of changing it for my sister. Am planning on threatening her that if she doesn't take the issue of marriage serious, I will go physical with her and teach her some lessons. But the issue is that she is my elder sister and I have some respect for her. And my action might end up affecting the bond in the family.

Yes, tell her.
To you she doesn't know, so open your mouth waaaa and tell her.

Did you hear of Bimbo who just died, sebi she was married to a man.

You have a sister who is 32 and focused on making her own money to be financially independent before a man comes and you say she is only focused making money?

Oh! She should wear white gown and end up without her own money and be slammed on the way with her head to her death and stay with her abuser because she is getting old?

At what age did Ruth, Esther get married in the Bible? If the bible didn't mention the age Rebekkah got married to Isaac either, then you have no business bothering about her age at 32.

Sebi you people have made marriage all about birthing kids in Nigeria, when she eventually marries and births 1 or 2 kids, sebi e go don complete? But she will be financially independent in it and be capable to run for her safety if it turns ugly and not be told to go back fast and pray because she is financially handicapped.

Your prayer should be God should send a man her way who loves God, will love her also, push her to accomplish her dreams in life and they will be happy as a couple not just marrying because she is old.


So if she was your younger sister, you will go physical with her and forcefully push her into any man's house abi? When you marry your wife, turn yourself to a statistics of those men who go physical on their wives, you hear?

Fisiryorh:
Stating the obvious is way different from judging...Mary Magdalene was a prostitute whom RENOUNCED her trade to follow Jesus...

Remember, Jesus also got angry at the temple due to the waywardness of its worshippers...

It's obvious she ain't gat no respect for the house of God...abi she fit go common job interview as she dress so?...

Reason am sef..

Guy, job interview is different
My point is let people know God, let the have access in and let the holy spirit do the work of convicting and converting them to be Christlike.

This journey is a daily one as we read and study the Bible, and hear the word of God, the word of God reflects us and shows us where we err to make amends o! The word reproves and correct us to make us thoroughly furnished.

Fisiryorh:
Good one to the Church...

The church is a hospital for the spiritually sick and not a brothel....

Even Jesus didn't turn Mary who broke the alabaster box of expensive perfume at his feet away. He clearly knew she was a prostitute and properly acquired that expensive fragrance via her trade.

Let her come in, hear the word and let the holy spirit do his job of conducting and converting the soul to Christ.
The scripture says paul planted, Apollos watered and the Lord gives increase,isn't it. She found her way to church one way or another, you let her in not judge her by her looks as unclean or unsaved, you let God do his work.

The scripture says none will come except the father draws them.

Did God say we should judge who is fit to enter and who is not?

Yes, there are dress codes by churches like Kumuyi said, you turn people away, not caring if they are saved or know Christ yet, which is wrong. Nobody be assistant Jesus o! We are all running this heavenly race by grace and the help of the holy spirit.

general111:
i choose good health, i promise to change my ways

Cheers!

general111:
so you want me to stop eating maggi laidis?

Guy, choose between good health and Maggi.

I have taken my time to educate you and even gave you assignment to read up on MSG side effects yet I don't know you from adam.

Choose ye this day good health or Maggi consumption.

Remember it is seasoning cube, Maggi is just a brand name

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Oga town crier. Keep crying.
This is the problem with you lily livered men as husbands.
How can your wife be living a cheating lifestyle and you be crying?

First where are you from? You didn't tell us if you are from the cultures where cheating is forbidden for ives, you are here complaining she stopped cooking and banging you. Maybe that is why she stopped.

Oga do your investigations well before she kills you with her chosen lifestyle.

general111:
My fiancee has threatened to do this ti my meal, and i threatened to unmarry her once she misbehave

Have you tasted maggi cube or any other seasoning cube before adding it to your meals?

In case you haven't, seasoning cubes are loaded with salt that is why Doctors advice to skip seasoning cubes from meals.

Now look at it this way, you cook rice, you add salt, you cook stew, you add salt and still add maggi to it. Now imagine the amount of salt we all eat daily.

Do you know salt in the body leads to excess water retention and hypertension? That is why doctors advice people to remove maggi cubes and every other seasoning cube from out foods. Do you even know seasoning cubes contain MSG(Mono Sodium Glutamate?)

Look up the side effects of MSG in seasoning cubes and noodles.

So because of these, people now formulate health seasonings, that is what your wife-to-be wants to do for you. If you like appreciate her or deal with her na your health las las.

Why do you think patients with hypertension are given a medication that makes them urinate? As they urinate, the excess salt is flushed out of the body.

freetojoin:
The Church has 2 floors, it happened on the top floor, speakers are everywhere and the First service was about rounding up. Some Church delegates came in later.

After witnessing this, did you wait to see the Pastor about this to register your displeasure? No.

You ran here to tell us, what do you want us to do now?
Abeg let God handle them based on their actions today. It is a totally wrong and sad occurrence that should be addressed speedily. Worshippers shouldn't be beat up like animals.

freetojoin:
[b] I went to Winners Chapel Bembo Apata Ibadan today and was highly shocked by what I saw.
A woman was charging her phone when one of the members of the Church Security group walked in and disconnected the phone from the socket that the woman should stop charging her phone and the woman complied. The phone was on a chair and the man said he doesn't want to see the phone on the chair but the woman asked him to leave it on the chair that she will come and pick it. Before a second, the man carried the chair with the phone and slammed the phone on bare tiles to destroy it.
The woman was annoyed with the damage of her phone and slapped him on the ear. The man started boasting that they will gang beat her in the Church as they normally do.
Before you knew it, they all came in and rushed at the woman, eye witnesses explained to them what happened, that the destruction was uncalled for but they insisted on beating the woman. One of them in Ankara shorts was shouting that he will kill the woman. The slapped man started using walkie talkie to rain blows on the woman's head while others pushed nd pull her. She was thrown down the stair case and being beaten downstair and dragged in the Church like a common criminal. All these was happening inside the Church during service. The man in Ankara shots took it upon himself to beat the woman into their Security ofice which is an uncompleted building and started rolling the woman on the sand and cement on the ground. The woman tried to walk out, he beat her back 3 times to sleep on the sand inside.
Is this what a House of God is to be about? Boasting to gang beat and kill people?
Both parties were wrong, the man for destroying the phone and the woman slapping out of emotion for the damage of her phone. But what happens to reporting the issue to the Pastor to summon both parties after the service.
Let them show their cctv to debunk this allegation
#winnerschapel #Bishopoyedepo #winnerschapelapata
Mods front page please.[/b]

She was charging phone.
Her phone was smashed and it didn't disrupt the church proceedings?
The pastor didn't see all these?

What is your location? WHATSAPP number

Congratulations. You dodged a bullet. Do you mean to tell me you don't recognize that guy has character flaw?

Let him go biko, so that you don't come back here with hide my identity advice me blah blah lamentation stories.

A man who wants to marry should be respectful to inlaws. He is already arguing and being rude to your people. The signs are showing already and you are still asking if he loves you?My dear, face your God who will give you a man to live you well and respect you. A man that respects you will respect your family.


If you like to and beg him and shook your head, anything you see you take it. And beside a marriage starts with introduction, why will your Dad say because of logistics issues, they should wave it? But they will brave the logistics issue to come do marriage rites Abi?

Next time introduction is where you meet both families and see their family dynamics for yourself.

Make that guy waka abeg.

They should kuku bring back Big brother Africa joor

So they mean to tell me they can get any Chinese in Nigeria or from the Chinese embassy in Nigeria to be an interpreter?

They better get an interpreter asap.

BirtherOfKings:
Am not surprised
Only few matured women can leave their family and stay with the man they love

Not when the man they love was verbally abusive to her on the show and the history of battering his ex-babe.

You expect her family to watch her go to her death because he is Mr Ikoyi? To hell with his Ikoyi affiliations.

Who cares?
For you it is power above your health status. We no send you

Doctors don dey kill their girlfriends and married concubines too? Wahala dey o!

Oga, where do you live? Which of the Airforce School are you talking about?Is it the one in Jos?

Give us details then I can talk.
If you live far from the Airforce, no just send her there. I don't fancy sending kids far from home in the name of schooling.Let the kids be in the same state with you whether you spend 250k/500k.

I no wan hear say bandit and boko carry your daughter commot from school o!

JackDaAlienz:
Omo we busted village yesterday, we are in my grandmas place.
After lunch, i was shocked when my grandma told my dad to go outside and buy recharge card for her.
See man wey dey form hard man for house
Dem dey send to go buy recharge card

I couldn't help but hold my laughter when my dad went out to buy recharge card

E really shock me, my dad is a Big man ohh
As well respected thats why im wondering why his mother (my grandma) still send him on errands

He will always be her child.
Pikin no dey big pass him parent.

Oga show that lady this trash you have written her so she sees it.

A man filled with dust in your head, you called someone to help you with a fractured leg, you couldn't maintain boundaries, you complicated the friendship by adding sex to it.

Now you have the guts to see she is irritating you? You are just a user!

Before you called her over and initiated that sex, did you tell you will just be friends with benefits for sex sake?


ABeg commot for road make we see better issues attend to.

Drive her and stay alone with one leg and fall down struggling with yourself.

I know Florence Ita-Giwa will be where money will be shared .

Oh!/Jeez!
Thank God he is alive. He will recover but I pray he recovers from Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) that soldiers are faced with.

How much did Jesus charge her when he taught us how to pray in Matthew 6:9-13? They have started selling the gospel.

How much did Jesus charge her when he taught us how to pray in Matthew 6? They have started selling the gospel.

He should face the law for sexual assault. No be Nigeria where he go go free.

You try, next time less is more.
The noodles is just too packed with a lot of things that we can see it them in the final dish.


Well done.


The Koko is you achieved the taste. Proportioning will save you condiments and veggies you can save to use for like 3 more noodles preparation.


Well done

Harry walked away from his royal ancestry with his family without considering the impact it will have on his kids in future.

He and his wife should sit and see where they goofed in their decision.

Why didn't they bring this up when his grandma the Queen was alive?

If Jonah could be thrown into the sea an stowaway Nigerians dem no go throw into the sea and kill?


Nigerians should learn to travel legally.

Kabirudeen25:
The other way round as in how? I have never heard any Ghanaian music in my life. That tiktok artist abi wetin b him name no dey hear 'swallow your pride'

You didn't hear Azonto from Ghana too?

holatin:
remember those days bird flu cases was rampant. me and some bros of mine were dead broke and hungry. one of dem has a fowl dying. na so we kill am eat. drank garri on top. to the glory of God....we are all still alive today.


we are more scared of hunger killing us than the bird flu. pray I don't be to do that again.

check my signature

Hahahaha

blackfase:
Arab country? How friendly is that friend of his? Well, a FRIENDLY advice from this corner, be sure about his intentions yea? ORGAN HARVESTING is real. Not trying to be a spoil sport but do your due diligence. Forget the FRIEND thing, even blood brother dey off him bloodline person...

Is Asia now an Arab country or the middle east?

Abi is it me that doesn't know?

This one still dey ask?
You have an opportunity you are asking if to study in Nigeria first?

How many months have students been on strike due to FG/ASUU palava?

How many months were they on strike in 2020?

Oya stay and study in Nigeria and let strike strike you of your youthful year's na.


Guy, go yo Asia joor. Find out is Asia a middle easterner continent known for organ harvesting? No.

You can get a job and study part-time. By the time you do short courses, you are good.

Just be focused!

illuminutty:
He promised to see your people by the end of this year while you are already 6 months pregnant.

Welcome to 2022 where babies accompany their daddies to pay their mothers' bride price.

Believe these clout chasers at your own peril.

Gbam! The way she is celebrating it sef dey give me goosebumps.