₦airaland Forum

Centurion101:
We live in a country where there are no emergency services,so all we have is each other.
I'm here with this story today with a sole purpose, please don't ever stop helping people, don't refuse to lend someone a hand if you're in a position to help, I understand that it's difficult to help sometimes In this country because of the baggages that comes with it, for example some people said I should have left him because it wasn't worth the risk that I could go to jail and the police might lie that I killed him if he dies, which is a bit far fetched to me.
Sure I knew if he died the police would have to detain me till they figure out some details,but personally I would happily spend a couple of days in jail if it means giving a human being Thier life back.

I hope if I was ever in that kind of situation someone that values life comes along and help me too

Hey God!
Help will show up for you and all related to you in time of need. Anyway you already know that won't lack help. Can you see that thee vehicle you left in a traffic jammed road to save a human life, was intact when you returned the following day without your car or tyre being vandalized by hoodlums? It isn't a mere coincidence Sir. You kept watch over a soul, God sent angels to watch over your belonging.

You have shown love to an entire family and friends of this young man, love won't elude you. God will be your ever present help in time of need. Before you call, He will answer and show up for you and your loved ones.

You have sown a seed and it will manifest in future. Because no seed we sow ever leaves our lives, it goes into our future to manifest and wait for us. This seed will surely manifests as long as the earth remains, seed time and harvest will not cease.

God bless you real good. Amen.

P.S: I took my time to bless you this morning because this family won't end the year mounting because of you.

It made me remember Rico Swavey of blessed memory.

I say again. You are blessed Sir.

Urheadmaster:
She is busy criticising other people's families while her own family are on fire

Now her son is saying she doesn't care about her flesh and blood (family) except herself. Sebi she said she was going to expose her sister and sister's son that her father begged EFCC to cover up what they did.

I'm waiting for her to expose her family secret as she entertains us the more with her stupidity. At 59 years of age, she no get sense.

She left her own farm(family) to go weed the Adeleke's farm.

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Please help her.
This life eh.
May God grant her more help.
As you are led, but when you choose to do it Anonymously hope the middle man wont divert the help again? Be sure to monitor so she isn't cheated

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Please help her.
This life eh.
May God grant her more help.
As you are led, but when you choose to do it Anonymously hope the middle man wont divert the help again?

Oh! Life don hit am now he understands. Never judge anybody's path in life if you never experienced it.

Now he understands because he is single in his 30s.

I have been waiting for the self acclaimed investigative journalist isonu to talk.

Happy Birthday to them.
They look like they are in their 60s

Ehen. Na like this dem package BuBu inside suit for us years ago, we think say he dey bring correct change. Now we can't eat sardines that used to be 200, titus fish nko, flood ravaging citizens from their homes because govt wast proactive to build dam not yo mention the hardship and insecurity the nation has faced in the last 7years, students have spent more home sue to ASUU strike than in lecture rooms.

Them don package agbado and cassava for suit to come continue where BuBu stop.

Clown. He has canceled his engagement but he won't cancel opportunity to loot today o

DSS1335:
Thanks.

She will go back to the village and put to birth, thereafter return back to the city after weaning the child. Whatever arrangements to be made must involves that boy's family too.

Next year UTME, she will register and write it in the village.

Thank you and God bless you and your wife.Amen

Okay, Zamfara. Be because it can never be in Lagos.
In Lagos one of those is 700.

Biko, Dont let her sacrifice her future because of this pregnancy. There are kids who have babies as teenager and still continue with their education. Please continue to sponsor her, she can leave the baby with the mother and continue with the education. Other kids have waxed stronger after teenage pregnancy.

That boy will further his education, so why should she pay for her teenage sexual act by sacrificing her future.

Please sponsor her and let her be the light on her family, I beg of you and your wife.

May God guide you aright. Please I beg of you.

Thank you Sir

His bandits monies is about to be traced Abi?

jeromestarks:
If a girl rejects you, go down on your knees and thank God.
Na woman leave you, no be God leave you.
Na she go regret.
Never ask a girl out more than once. You're not born useless and worthless.
Keep your head high and walk away the moment she gives you negative vibes.

Person wey love you no go stress you.

Goes both ways for females rejected by men.
.You have spoken well, nobody is born worthless and useless.

Happy Birthday to her.
Oga, enjoy the wife of your youth.
I just want to advice you that no born again o! Make una train unaselves and grow up together in love, peace and understanding.

God bless your union. Amen

Blessedmercy8:
When the father gave all his wealth to Charity and told his son to go hustle for his own money, why wont the daughter queue for free food?

Seriously speaking, I dont like what Jackie did to his children. Denying them their birthright just to appear a great philanthropist was not the best. He could have done a 50-50 split of his wealth between his children and the charity.

I hope you know that his son also is involved in drugs? So he should will his estate to a junkie of a son to blow everything away on drugs abi? This is where the foreigners are different from us Nigerians. As Nigerians we will continue to use money to patch up disgraceful kids while they continue on their reckless ways
Just to avoid what society will say. But the society never stops talking anyway.


As for the daughter, I wouldn't know why. But she should make her own money. It isn't bad she is queuing for food stamps. Everyone goes through bad times, she will rise above it. Ben Carson also depended on food stamps as a kid with his mother and brother.


Thank God she is in Canada na.

In Nigeria, is there Fold stamps? Those having bad times in Nigeria with this economy, a times I wonder how families feed.

It is well abeg.

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

You have every right to be angry.
Tell him the only way you will forgive him is if he pays that money back to you.

And to think he was even bragging that woman go build house for man , no ear go hear am. You are his wife blah blah. It shows he was remorseful.


Anyway thank God you have your own money to stand on your own Nd he has seen you aren't handicapped.

That man lacks integrity money wise and please if and when you decide to go pay whatever decision you choose to make, don't do joint business ventures with him even joint account sef. No do.


Marriage reveals the spouses we end up with as choice of spouse.

voltron14:
That is enough to power half a million homes.

Half a million homes you say, in a country of over 170million people.

700MW?
When I heard on radio that SA generates 35000 MW some years ago?
Are we as country thinking futuristically considering the rise in population that will depend on power for life and sustenance?

What is 700MW to a nation that is supposed the giant of Africa?

I'm supposed to praise them now abi?

In 2022 we should be applauding leaders when the build roads, light etc. What are they there for? Whose monies did they use to build it? Their personal monies? Was the project funded by taxpayers' money?


Road, light are basic needs that any leader and government should provide for it's people

LaSenior:
Everyone here is saying harsh economy as if it is the wife that is providing for the family

For me I can do family planning without all this planning method

I no dey everly pour inside I don't know if am normal or I was created like that no matter how sweet the vjaay is I will always withdraw

Op do

Not every man is like you na.
You have gained mastery and not carried away. Is it some men battling pre ejaculation you except to do withdrawal?

DamnnNiggarr:
My wife says– No family planning, No sex.
for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.

Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.

I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.

I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.

But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.

Please assist me for wider audience.

As educated as you are you with 3 children (2boys and 1 girl) you are battling with family planning as wahala in your home? Hmm


It simply shows.... You have a long way to go o!

Oga, go and see a doctor with your wife and discuss the family planning options available.

Do you know there is something called vasectomy for men? You are even battling with the use of condoms with your wife suggesting it, it shows you will shut down vasectomy with your doctor sef.


Oga, use your tongue to count your teeth, if you like born plenty children full ground say you dey obey be fruitful, multiply and replenish the whole earth. Who go pay school fees, rent, clothing, feeding, other expenses? Sebi the man is the provider of the home and the "head"? And sebi the head will not want the wife, the weaker vessel to assume the headship of the home else e finish for his manhood abilities(decision making power) as we have seen with some homes?


Okay, Oga, is up to you finally o!

I drop my pen in the basket of love. Abi how dem dey end letter writing in those days hahaha

Masterito:
Mehn Nigerians like you are low lives. Even Iranian women get sense pass you.

Do you know that those with high lives are not online classing people as low lives? So what does that say about you?

Have a blessed sunday Mr sense while at it, life by the rules of whatever land you find yourself. Peace!

Masterito:
So if she was killed she can't film it? Common sense isn't common indeed.

If she was killed and she filmed it with your common sense that is common what will it change? The pictorial evidence of Falode's son, what did it change?

The day we as Nigerians going to foreign nations know that every nations has their laws we must abide by, the better for us. Yes, at home here we are quick to film every thing we see and post, but some nations regulate their social media space and are mindful of what people in their countries and citizens post online about them.

Masterito:
So making video and posting online is crime in Dubai? Wow but it is not wrong in line with international law. So her case can still given attention.

In their Land in Dubai they said it is wrong. With Intl law, I don't know.

Pending when it is proven by Intl law, she go still hearing am for there, next time she will obey the laws of application on any land and how to behave.

Is it not that same Dubai, that Aisha Falode's son was pushed to his death from how many storeys, what happened? He died for nothing, what was the conclusion on that matter?

What is so wrong with Nigerians obeying the law of another land? They said you must come in with family visa and you do otherwise?

You make video and post online which is against their laws. You think outside the shores of this country is your zoo where anything goes?

When you stay there for the offences, you know how far.

Ladies will never hear the word.
They think they are smart.
How does a man train you and you open your mouth to say he is an illiterate and not your class? Who gave you class, if not that the man who trained you?

I blame men and who continue to blame them, if you must train a female, marry her first, I don:t care how expensive their bride price is, marry her first and while she is schooling dey knack her belle, make I see if after 4 years in school with 3 or 4 kids she will come out to say he isn't her class.

Nonsense and ingrates.

Thank God I don't have any brother who will be foolish enough to say he is training a girl that will later dump him. If your father can bear you, he should train you.

Some of these ingrate ladies who call their benefactors or helpers illiterates have illiterates fathers o! Why didn't they disown their fathers?

Till they finish it, then I know they have completed the project. Nobody should use the flood as an excuse.


Fashola should also come and tell us why since 2015 the Lagos /IBADAN express way is yet to be completed. The hardship on that express is just unimaginable, commuters face robbery in traffic there.

ahnie:
There's this distant brother of mine (not related by blood) my family has known him for some months now.

He's the fire praying churchy type of person, he does normally visit my family, but we have never met his family.

He's a foreman that does any type of job, he's hardworking tho, not the lazy type.

So some days ago,when I went for an exercise on sight seeing organised by Nigerian army, it occured to us to check on him since he stays closer to the venue.

I rang his line and told him to direct me to his home,which he reluctantly did, when we finally located his home.

To say I was disappointed with the environment was an understatement considering what he was up to lately which prompted this post.

I met 4 of his kids, at home playing, they ought to be in school at that time and his heavily pregnant wife, we exchanged pleasantly, all thru our brief staycation there, the bros was uncomfortable, after some moments we took our leave.

This same man came to my hood to paint the apartment of a young beautiful big God female UBA banker who just moved in.

To my painment and chagrin, my brother didn't even collect a dime from this lady as wages for the job done, he only collected phone number and started chyking the lady, who obviously has a rich taste for big boys and my bros was pretty pained.

Simply put, he did a free job, a job that took him 2 days to paint ,

My brother said he wants to have as many kids as possible, I'm afraid he's not making the necessary moves to care for them, which really is bad, with the present situation of the country.

My question now is.... Why would the wife and my bros agree to littering the house with kids they cannot care for and the ninth one is on the way?

Why does low income earners always have energy to knack and produce kids without the necessary bucks to care for them?

When you saw him, you didn't ask him, now you have come to Nairaland to bore us with this distasteful story and question.

An we dey him house, him gblokus to know answer to give you?

The wife no dey suffer to born na.
If she dey suffer and use surgery horn, she no go born 8kids down for this Naija wey we dey so.

She for don use local contraceptives hold body even as oga dey fire her back and front if hospital own too cost for her

Go and buy clove(kanafuru or zobo pepper). Pout it in a container, add hot water to it,. Let it sit to cool. Sieve it and turn it to a spray bottle.

And use it to spray on your hair.
You will visible changes in hair growth and texture.

The left over clove in the container can be reused so don't discard.

You are wicked.
2weeks after birth you begin to have sex with a woman who is sore down there. Do you think it is easy to push out a baby?

Didn't you speak with your doctor about when to resume sex? Nonsense and I don't want to cheat.

I blame women who endanger themselves just to keep your lots from cheating.

Will you die if you allow her to heal for 4months before you resume sex? The woman was even crying and you were still digging in with your shovel of an organ.

Who is that woman carrying the baby in that photo? Hope that isn't your wife? If she is the one, just look at how a woman and a wife who just gave birth look, because you have used sex to finish her, a woman that will be sleep deprived and should be sleeping and feeding well.

You are here saying the aunty is making your home uncomfortable, if that home was comfortable, a mattress wouldn't be on the ground.

Oga, go and work and earn money, only lazy men use sex as consolation.
How can you be banging a woman who is still releasing lochia?

Make dem continue to drive recklessly under the influence of alcohol.

After rejoicing alone, you can go back to olosho patronage.