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Abraham4christ:
UNBEHALF OF NAME CHECKERS

When will you clowns get it that evil actions aren't exclusive to any race, tribe or skin tone. False sense of superiority some of you try to establish is due to your small mindedness. You are all Nigerians, From Elochukwu to Adebayo to Ahmed Musa.

party:
I intend marrying my best friend without even dating her.
All i need is to have a good understanding of who she is as she does with me.

Will that backfire?

Yes. You'll be like brother instead of lover. Even if she agrees with you, after a while her eyes will start looking else where because you don't excite her being her "best friend". You are suppose to be her Lover, her man, her rock not her friend.

OP is just trying to get page clicks to get paid. theEYe21 is perfectly correct. The only reason anyone gets and stays fat is that they eat more Calories (food) than they expend via physical activity. That's why some footballers can still be overweight even with all the training because they still eat poorly/too much. You can not out exercise a bad diet. excercise though would get make you more healthy and fit. But you lose the weight mainly in the kitchen.

Can't even spell losers. You are def not a winner.

TheSixthSense:
I excersised restraint here. Please don't be snide with your comments. I doubt you know as much as I do about the theories or science that you base your whole existence upon. The irony is that as a christian, compared with when I was an atheist, I am not afraid to die but I enjoy life more than ever before. I have hope. Hope in Jesus in this life and the next.

But you you probably fear death, why won't you if this is your only life, and how long have you left anyway? You can't claim you don't fear death.

Another question for you is: What do you really want? Are you at peace? You seem angry from your post. Can I ask why?

Jesus would give you peace, He would give you joy, He will give you a new heart and spirit. Give him a chance.

Lol another funny thing is you keep going on about how you were more atheist than any other atheist on nairaland. On what basis is this claim found on? Or is it like your Religious claims whereby we are suppose to believe just because you typed it? You haven't demonstrated any knowledge on here. all you've done is claim this and that and then regurgitate the same ol tired things the religious zealots spout.

Death is inevitable. And like most other people who are not depressed/suicidal, i do not want to go before i have to (which is natural old age death). As animals we are programmed biologically to ensure our own survival and to propagate our species so excuse me if i am staying true to the human nature.

Lol so you want to play the patronizing game with me. I'm not going to drop a list of my personal desires and life ambitions on here. Although i'm sure you weren't looking for a real answer to your questions. you just wanted to be patronizing and condescending. The last paragraph has you regurgitating more mundane b.s that doesn't really mean anything. Empty words.

TheSixthSense:
Isn't it glorious? shouldn't this be additional evidence to believe that God is alive. In an Islam bias forum, my first topic makes front page, not even on a Sunday. Coincidence? I think not. God is faithful. He is the living God!, He died for you and He is calling. [b][/b]

I pray about every post I put up and for whoever reads it. The seed is being planted. You may not know it now, but the Holy Spirit would convict your hearts of sin, and you will see the need for repentance, and only Jesus Christ will save you. I cannot convince anyone like my bible tells me. It is our Father in heaven that draws us Matt 6:44

If you are looking for superior arguments, Maybe this post isn't for you. But if you have questions, or doubt my atheism. You are very welcome.

With thinking like this, i am not surprised how easy it was to delude yourself back to Religion. Just a bunch of anecdotes here, a bunch of hear says there and Bam! OP is back believing fairytales again.

Random event occurs in his life: "It must be a sign from god". Favourable event happens in his life: "god is blessing me". Unfavourable event happens in his life "God is challenging me". There's always a way to rationalize and delude yourself about anything to claim it was god. same way the uneducated civilizations in the past used to claim natural occurrences like Floods, Earth Quakes, Famines, Sickness, Death etc were all the doing of the gods. god even chose who won the wars. Now thanks to science we know better. That's why you still have footballers praying before every match (even from both sides) Which side will this god choose? How can you delude yourself that this prayers to ur so called god does anything?

Christianity is a religion based on fear, the fear of eternal torment from an ever loving god. This is why the practitioners all preach about being saved. They think they can live forever in some perfect kingdom of god. If so, why are you all so afraid to die, even in your old ages? Is earth that much sweeter than your beloved god's kingdom that you all cling to life?

His dick game must be strong.

GloriaNinja:
pervert

Lol your brain must be broken. I know plenty of smooth badt guys have been inside your pantalon and they didn't need to ask in a civilized manner.

GloriaNinja:
Reveal your feelings to her in a civilized way, period!

Never listen to a woman's advice on how to get a woman in bed. This method will get you a sound rejection. You don't create attraction by talking about it. Attraction is not negotiable.

Never be just friends in the first place

Disgusting. Why would you be so physically close with your sister, overnight and in bed. Those 2 are prob not siblings and op is just asking idle minded questions. Plenty of women outside, leave your sister alone.

dollyjoy:
There is absolutely nothing wrong in helping your girl friend out financially once in a while, that is different from investing on a lady.



Just say you don't have, that is understandable.

You, do you have?

The girl no yet marry and she done almost begin to dey fat already. Ain't nobody got time for that.

sarrki:
Africans are something else

Leaders are padding budget you hail them

Leaders are stealing your common wealth you give them chieftaincy title

A hungry man steals you burn him to death or maim him

We have a long way to go

He was hungry for okada abi

Girls encourage it because it strokes their ego. Even though they might not be interested in the guy, they'll allow him continue fawning over them, stringing him along to strike her ego and also maybe for some financial benefits.

And vice versa so what's the news. I think all the girls you like give you lame excuses as to why they reject you and you swallow their lies hook line sinker. She's still riding badt boy joystick all week long and you're just too lame and wimpy to see it. So you come up with this tripe to console your troubled soul.

pretydiva:
I don't seem 2 understand youths of dis days.wanna end ur life all because of a guy dat does nt even worth ur tears.pls let's use our brain 4 once

What does that have to do with "youths of these days" you self righteous old fool. Like no woman or man ever hurt themselves 300 years ago over heart break.

Lame. Only lames try to toast girls on here when girls plenty in front of them in real life but they don't have liver to game in person.

everrichy:
Why would I work for a company that has no future plans for me, no promotion, no further training and then sends me back into the labor market after six months.
Rubbish.

Because you need to chop for 6 months

Stupid thread for the totally ignorant. If with all the internet access in the world, this is the conclusion you've come to, then you're beyond helping. Might as well go to babalawo for epp to grow boobs.

Good for them

She don finger bang herself tire. Mumu.

uncle005:
What about my church


PAY YOUR TITHE CHURCH (PYTC)

Lmaooo nice

BlindAngel:
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You won't understand, you don't know this girl am talking about and the type of heart she carries, i just can't explain it.

Okay, keep us updated if possible.

It's all good till it's no longer good. My advice is stay on your toes, don't relax and think you got her locked forever no matter how much I love yous or devotion she shows. Women can flip or be flipped (by some other dude) at any time. Never let your A game slip.

But he didn't die for the country. He just simply died.

kishimi8:
Had same experience, she only chats and calls when she needs money, initially I felt she was broke, since she had no job first she requested 5k, I gave, after two weeks she requested another 5k gave her 4k, did not hear from her for a while,
after about a month she pops up from whatever rock she was hiding to chat and request for money, I told her she only chats cuz of money, she said I was insulting her bla bla, after a week she requests again I gave her 3k,
Fast forward to last Friday, she called again asking I take her for an outing with her friend claiming the friend visited and did not get an opportunity to see abuja, I told her point blank, I'm interested only if we are going Dutch, everyone pay for himself since I'm not dating her or her friend, what's in it for me, next thing na insults o, ..
I just surrender woman wahala tire me, no be say I DE even knack ,

Your mugu no get part 1

All these females that are claiming to make men great, why can't you make yourself great? I bet you would if you could but most of you can't and that's why you need to attach yourself to a great man and start forming you made him. You think Michelle would be any where near the Lotus if she didn't marry Obama. Even Hillary sef can thank Bill for her shot at the presidency. That said there are self made women out there too. They did it themselves and didn't claim other people's success as theirs.

sanyahkod:
Only Number 7 looks real.

So number 1 is fake abi

baranzy:
it was our first date outside official stuffs...besides she has a serious bf who is a medical doctor in the united states....she normally goes to visit him time to time...all I wanted was just a close friendship stuff though am very much attracted to her...just wanted to build trust and friendship between us via work level...

Lol stop lying to yourself. If you are attracted to her then you can't be "close friends". You just wanna be friends with benefits. Trust me if she fancied you, you'd be ploughing her already, boyfriend in America or not. I'm sure some other guy probably has whihe medical boyfriend is waiting abroad.

cutebobo:
well said but all ur point still narrow down to my first point. LET GOD CHOOSE FOR YOU if you want ur own partner and happy marriage life

This is such pointless, vague advice. How are you suppose to know gods choice then. Cause he certainly won't be pointing any finger at anyone for you. You are still gonna go with whatever options you see as best. All this gods choice is just people believing in fairytales that aren't grounded in reality.

Reeberry:
Nigeria girls can cheat for Africa.

It's not just nigerian girls, it's the same thing the world over. Western women aren't more faithful. 70℅ of divorces in the U.S are initiated by the women.