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tunjion:
So u too see am? Our media desperately need some kind of regulating.

I see am na, e come be average naija parents o, I die if your mama know your email addy as a teenager in these parts.

This story sounds made up, how many Nigerian parents send e-mails to their children?

Babe might just be having the feeling of owning a new toy, you just have to call her attention to it, she probably didn't mean to ignore you but this one you are talking about chatting constantly, I hope it's not a chyker sha.

Calling that malu-ye a f00l will be an insult to f00lish persons, smh.

This is just really heartbreaking, why can't we just go our separate ways since its seeming like we can never love and accept each other? I love the idea of one Nigeria but it seems that's just what it is, an idea, smh.


I hope they haven't killed that child.

That guy needs to eat, he sounded hungry.

Your word is supposed to be your bond, that man needs to keep his promise, especially as his son needs improvement on his self esteem, if the father fails, I bet it will further crush the boy's spirit.

Keeping promises, motivate kids a lot.

Sad.

What is really happening?

Mostwanted7:
Do you not realise that everything in the heavens and earth prostrates/submits to Allah: the sun, the moon, the stars, the mountains, the trees, and the animals? So do many human beings, though for many others punishment is well deserved. Anyone disgraced by Allah will have no one to honour him: Allah does whatever He wills. " (Qur'an 22:18)

I expected this.

Before I say anything further, let me check whether this is the Islam section.

Brb

Na wa o .

I'm a sucker for romance but dude sounded like the babe is doing him a favour, and that definitely isn't what love's about.

free2blast:
So ohun ti aiye ma gbo ko ye wi iregbe oshi!

Ya diri gi ka isi chere'm. Cheers!

Hmmmm


Ndi abok1 na Ndi ruruba na lu ogu, that's something.

Chai! Yaro wende na kuka barawo ne.


Mehn! At this tender age, do I even blame this little kids? They learnt from the best obviously and how can you threaten a kid by sharpening knife? Says a lot.

And how da feck is this nigga 18?

This man should be in jail already.

Smh.

Subom1:
The truth hurts my dear. There is no way she would not have known. She herself said that the victims of the credit card scams alerted the banks and then they got refunded their money back and then she was left to pay for her debts. So are you telling me for 3 years you wont know about these scams? She knew from the very first transaction but didn't care. There were lots of signs that she purposefully ignored like she said he lied about many things like his age. If someone lies and changes stories about something as simple as his age what the hell else would he be lying about.

people should stop this victim nonsense and accept their part. Nobody can scam you if you do not allow them too and if you dont like for 3 years then i dunno

I see your point my dear but remember how love scam works, let alone when one party is obssessed.

LastOkpaBender:
Actually the scenario could make sense. It could be that you didn't go solely for the sake of doing it, you just found yourself in the US and decided to make use of the opportunity.

My main ish is, many people have come up to confirm that you are adulterous. That on it's own is circumstantial evidence. Why do you think they would do that? Do you think there is some sort of conspiracy against you? Why would people lie against you and deliberately tarnish your image for no reason?

Are you his wife? Why is his alleged adulterous life your business? We are talking criminal activities here , you are talking adultery.

jaybee3:
Funny thing is i don't even talk with any uk female nler offline since God knows when except my big sis madam .. Counts as a nl female.

So laughable to be honest

Just ignore the yeye people.

Subom1:
You were young and naïve when you first registered on Nairaland
You were young and naïve when you started responding to an old man’s PM
You were young and naïve when you started flying intercontinental flights
You were young and naïve when you started sending nude pics and getting involved with all kinds of sexual activities
You were young and naïve for a continuous 3 year period sending money to a scammer
You were young and naïve when you saw him having over 100 credit cards
You were young and naïve when you found out he was a fraudster.
You were still young and naïve to the point that you grew more confident and started insulting people online “after you met him”
You were still young and naïve even after 8 months after the breakup

So what about all those other ‘ young and naïve girls who were not sending sex pictures, who were not getting involved with Sugar daddies, who were not flying intercontinental flights. You were young and naïve enough to the point of not letting your parents know about all of these shady transactions because I do not know what kind of parent would allow their 18 year old child to travel across the world to meet a man twice her age.

You mam are saying utter hogwash. Even a 6 year old child who steals cookies from a cookie jar knows what is right from wrong. When something is wrong you feel it in your gut. You chose to ignore all this and decided to ´be an adult´ and do adult things and now you are coming with the young and naïve bullsh1t.

Accept the part you played and learn from your mistakes.
I am not saying what Coogar did is right (assuming this is true) but stop playing the innocent victim card. If you saw cut up fingers in someone’s deep freezer at home and they told you they thought it was chicken feet. Is it the young and naïve card you will play? For how long is one young and naïve? Sometime common sense must surely kick in!!!

You were not young and naïve but a foolish desperate girl. You were simply obsessed with this man. You need help because this is not just a young and naïve thing. Old washed cargoes also get scammed too. The thing they have in common is them being desperate. I mean to be AS and still want to carry on with a relationship that would clearly lead to nowhere shows the depth of your desperateness. Why is it that (let’s assume you were young and naïve for 3 years) after your break up you did not come out immediately? Why 8 months later? We both know why…
There are two parts to a story and you played your part unfortunately as well so stop acting like you are an innocent fragile bird.

As harsh as this appears, there's some truth in it and she already agreed she was obssessed with him but then, she may not have known for sure about his fruaudulent activities.

cherryice:
that jaybee3 own is true.. that I know for sure, no two ways bout it.
I hv a female nlder off here as friend in the UK. she plainly told me jaybee3 is a pervert, in her wrds tho..
The way he dsturbs her for nudes is alarmin..he evn sends his nudes to her. jaybee3 deny ds one mk I post me n she chat now now yeye married man

Na so, he disturbs all nl women for nudes, been friends with me for years outside here but has never asked me for mine or sent me his, those women better check themselves well.

jaybee3:
What part of Jaybee is true?

That i met inkednerd whilst on holiday in NY?

One of the holiday was with my fam and the other was when my sis went for an OP in NY

Why would i need to travel to yankee just to knack coochie?
That makes no damn sense gerrit?

There's No need to explain yourself on that, who decides to fvck who on here shouldn't be anyone's business.

The main issue is the fraud, shikena.

BABE3:
meeting him is one chapter I wish to rewrite if given a chance.
I hate to sound all victimy and whining-y but before I met him on nl I was never really troublesome on here. It was after I met him that that pseudo-confidence came to start insulting people left and right on here. You know that yeye confidence you get when you get an older boyfriend. I'm really a quiet girl. Jeje-lomo. lol.

caracta, bless you. I was blind. I'd never support fraud. I never knew it was fraud. He has a sweet mouth. He had an explanation for everything and I was ready to believe everything he said. I wasn't experienced with how these things worked and I shielded our relationship from people around me.
It wasn't until the evidence became very clear and I started telling people about his ways that my eyes opened.

so sweetcocoa, most of my "smartness" then came from interacting with him. I hardly even had my own thoughts back then. I believed everything he said. That was why some people even thought we were the same people.

hate to sound victimy. I do take responsibility for my fòolishness. I've been repeating that but that doesn't take away from the fact that he's a fraudster.


I've never been to the Olympics in my life.

r231, I replied your mail.

Looking back I can agree with you to an extent, I hate that this is about the both of you for reals, it's really hard to watch but then a crime remains a crime, I guess you really may have not known.

swagloverss:
So why is the hypocrite acting like a saint? If my utterance about Jaybee is true, why do you find it hard to believe other things I have mentioned? You have already judged Coogar guilty until proven innocent. Stay focused.



Stop quoting me. You are a shameless hypocrite. You are defending BABE3 on Nairaland and you are also begging to see her pictures off Nairaland.

While jaybee maybe unfaithful in his marriage and what not, it is not a criminal offense. I have reason to believe BABE is being more honest than you are, coogar lied to me about this issue so don't tell me am judging him without reason, I've told you to leave this outside here but you don't want to listen, it's like you don't know how serious this is.

Mynd44:
Come and fall I love with me too. Let's see if you won't make mistakes....

What did I just write?

Obatala please take over

My dear, making what you call a mistake is not the issue, accepting rrsponsibilty is.

swagloverss:
Please carry out the threat. We are waiting. Coogar stays close to you so this should be fine. MET POLICE will hasten the case and they will have him arrested if your claims are found to be true. Still waiting for BABE3 to deny your involvement with InkedRed.

His involvement with inked is not our concern, face the issue on ground and leave his personal issues alone.

Mynd44:
Everyone makes mistakes na....

That's if this whole thing is true sha

My dear, I don't know how you define a mistake o but I'm sure that ignoring signs because you were in love is not a mistake.

Caracta:
They say "love is blind". She was blind.

Dear let's not toe that path, blind to what exactly? Even I have been stupid in love, didn't mean I didn't know I was being stupid, everyone should accept responsibility.

What will you say If coogar came to say he was blind in love which was why he stole cards to impress his girl?

Mynd44:
You'd be surprised Sha....

But the scam thing remains a rumor....but crazy things happen here

She fvcked up big time on that one, over a hundred credit cards and you didn't suspect? BABE is my girl any day but on this one, she goofed.

Mynd44:
In all honesty, she was warned severally but she fights everyone viciously....but that was based on romance issues.

I dont know about the scams oooo.

I couldn't care less about their romance, am talking about the scam.

BABE is not the type you'll believe is that silly not to know something was up with all the credit cards.

swagloverss:
Follow this with a clear mind. The nudes were sent to Coogar via whatsapp. When I demanded to know if Coogar is innocent or guilty, he asked me to access his iCloud and go over the messages. All the pictures and videos are there.

Are you really sending her nudes to people? You seriously better not be.

Mindfulness:
Babe3,

I really admire and respect your determination, I must say and as much as I can imagine that you were madly in love, gullible and desperate, I do NOT believe that you were so insanely stupid as to not know that you were knowingly participating in crime activities even though you knew that he is in possession of 100 credit cards. Are you telling us that you are a retard? If this is what you are trying to say, I don't believe you.

You go to church, don't you?

"You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye."
Matthew 7:5

This is where I have a problem with BABE, as in BABE of the romance section? This is heart wrenching to say the least.