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MissMeiya:
Why? Is the mod in trouble? Seun do you intend on punishing your mod for revealing your action? I'm grossly disappointed if this is the case. I take back what I said about you.

P.S. @ireneony I don't care if you like me. I'm sorry if I gave that impression.

I don't think you are supposed to be worried about the mod getting into trouble, if actually he said anything to you, it's either he/she lied against seun(which is higly unlikely btw) or you hacked the site as speculated by Seun.

Make I park here.

Hian!

This one rushing, does he even care if the woman loves him or not, how can someone be dragging their feet about marrying you and you seem not to care? Then again, people marry for reasons other than love.

I advice your cousin doesn't rush things, it's best to be sure before tying the knot, I believe her baby daddy is a good example to learn from, this is just too fast abeg.

redcliff:
Lmao... omo na snatching things o.. armed ribbers are snatching full car.. its now human being woman cant snatch?...looool

Cars have no life and can't think for themselves na, so it's understandable that they can be snatched, I don't understand how a person can be snatched, at best, people are seduced and to yield is solely their choice, so let's not get it twisted.

How do you get to the point of marriage without any disagreement whatsoever? Unless una two na robots or someone is pretending.

Hmm.

How can people boldly say a grown man was snatched from one woman by another? How do you snatch a full human being please?

Go to SU and deeper life gatherings, I'm almost certain you'll find a secondary virgin there, someone who can agree to any form of hand/finger play yet keeps saying "I'm a virgin, saving it for marriage", cos I know you must want to touch even if you don't do the main thing.

The first video is actually annoying, why tell everyone the governor knows about the proposal? Duh!And the girl just made the video worse with her poor acting skills, mschew, so fake.

I can understand a guy wanting to go the extra mile with how he proposes,especially if he knows what his woman would like, still just make sure you know what her answer will likely be before the proposal.

Did I hear someone say pickabeau1?

SAMBARRY:

she's just a frustrated she goat looking for who to str@@@ff her and since she didn't see she's channelling her anger at the wrong people

SAMBARRY:
o pulease leave cougar out of this if you don't want some people to pour you acid. Stop looking for his attention

Hmmm, are you by any chance one of the potential acid pourer? How you take know say na him attention she dey find?

Hescuse me lady biko, what are you talking about?

You are just his girlfriend ni o not even fiancée so again what are you talking about cos I'm confused.

^Aww you missed, she was just so wonderful and inspiring not to talk of how beautiful she was.

I know I do miss seeing her and the lovely songs she gives us, its all good cos God knows best.

Indeed you are right, Nlanders are great people.

Hi yellow mango sisi, I'm sure you look fresher now, say hi to Oluwa for me, Badosky still dey craze o, make you and baba find cure for her abeg.

We miss you princess.

dayokanu: That means its everything to do with the OP the girl and nothing to do with the Ex. You cant say your ex shouldnt be happy again in his life just because it didnt work out between you two and OP was the one who broke up with him

That is why I said you should try and understand, she's still hurting, na human being she be na.

jidegirl12: Now I understand where you are coming from..., but you're still unsure of the details of this story to generalize with your own experience .... it's not unnecessary questions ..... let her come and say the TRUTH in details what transpired him throwing her out na ked... people ask questions before you conclude.

..... I believe that's exactly what shed light to how the sister in the other thread was bleeding. OP came back to answer questions.

If my own brother throw a woman out na ked , she must've really rough handled and provoke him to the tangent before he can do that( not that I condone it)..... Lets stop overreacting when it comes to a lady in a story ..., she just posted once and y'all already going bonkers!

Oh well just like you said I shouldn't use my own experience to conclude on this story, do not use your brother to conclude on what must have led to the throwing out.

I quoted you cos from the tone of your posts, you seem believe whoever is abused must have caused whatever led to the abuse but its not always so, most of these men who abuse women are not sane, same goes for the women .

Shey person wey never marry single abi?

jidegirl12: Were you there? Instead of y'all to ask questions .. Y'all chastising the poor guy..... 'everybody's saying congrats to him' can you imagine?

.....You better think well before you hit that keyboard , very important.

No I wasn't there but from the tone of OP's post, he must have really hurt her, her kind of story isn't the type to ask unnecessary questions, she obviously needed to talk to someone about how she feels and guess this is how she wants to do it.

I've been hurt and heartbroken by someone I really loved so I do know how it feels, by the time she let's go I'm sure she won't sound this way.

dayokanu: A bitter breakup cant be worse than what I described below.

"So assuming there was an EX, who stole my money, beat up my family and sent me to jail and whatever evil happened

When I see her getting married and she is happy the next thing for me is to be sad and wish evil on them? or go there and scatter the place or splash acid on her and her groom?"

You mean I would now wish them evil for life and be sad they are doing well? If I cant even wish him well the worst is to be nonchallant but not to be sad that they are doing well.

There are some people who have done everyone in life bad at some point in time, Sweetcocoa Im sure some people too would claim you have done them bad one way or the other So should they wish you evil for life?

Before you type your next reply, do well to remember we are all human, think how it feels when you really feel hurt especially by someone whom you loved or love.

Now I'm not saying its okay to wish someone bad, I'm just saying try to understand how the OP feels, as for your question, you shouldn't be sad and wish them evil but you need to realize that the OP is still hurting, she's yet to let go and forgive.

I've been heartbroken before and I know how it feels so I understand.

No kid of mine will be in boarding school, the gods forbid it.

The detriments far outweigh the gains IMO.

jidegirl12: This was exactly what we are discussing in another thread..... So a supposedly sane man will just start beating his girlfriend and she would just be looking like a mumu ?.... and he'll call her again?? Cos that's the way you're making it look like Uju.

Let OP come here and say the TRUTH bout the claimed abuse ....

Like seriously?

Claimed abuse? Hmm I don't even know what to type right now but believe it or not, if you see where a woman is being abused, you won't call it claimed.

OP relax it is well, like most people have said, you should be glad you are not the one he's marrying, your own man will come.

@Dayo, its obvious you don't know what a bitter break up looks like.

^Ewu

AmBeautiful: Hmm...

this one hard oo!
But ehn @ op have you ever considered that she must have been telling you the truth about that dream?
Am not with her oo! Neither was i there when she had the dream, but i really can't lie to you, dreams cannot be totally ignored.

What kind of talk is this one?

Why wasn't she having the dreams all the while he was supporting her? Now she's seeing small money of her own and the guy is no longer needed, I pity her sha.

You know what OP?

I'm not gonna say much just be strong and thankful that you got to know the kind of girl she is before marriage.

Move on in good faith, its her loss I tell ya, asking for a break up with the flimsy excuse she gave just goes to show she's not the one for you, you'll find your missing rib, it is well my dear.

Idowuogbo: who ban my free putus na.. without her my nl journey no fit complete o!

No mind those people for family section, just because say I laugh person wey dem yab o na him she ban me.

Small time them go start to ban people for quoting another person .

I was told in a dream by an angel with sexy horns that, without me nairaland would not be complete.

He gave me the username and password of the account they created for me, I'm nice so I had no other option than to help Seun make NL complete.

Arrant nonsense.

Who still has time for useless protocols\forming?

Omo follow that dude up as the spirit leads you jare.

They look like they'd fall into that pool at the slightest breeze.

I don't know what to make of such concept walai.

E don reach?

And since when is not having 5ex a man thing?

I fear Albania has the highest number of w@nkers, some places and some kind traditions sef

Oh well!

Guess I'm the only one with one moniker, anyhow we must get there.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Are they feeding their children? [/quote]I thought the same thing o.

I mean that girl looks very malnourished kai.