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How can you be asking what to do in a situation like this? Are you scared of this man you are about to marry? Why would you just quietly walk away when you are not sure?

Seems to me like you already know the answer to why the condom is there.

I get that she's a comedian but that was a little insensitive.

How do people go about saying a man was snatched? A full human being o, smh.

SalC:
This is no entirely correct. Not all Catholics parishes pay tithe. Till date my parish doesn't pay tithe, but I've also been to parishes where tithe is being paid

And yes the Catholic church officially doesn't preach tithe now, that's why today, you don't hear of tithe being paid in Vatican.



You are very correct. And this is especially happening in Nigerian Catholic churches.


I remember some year back I read an interview the veteran actor Pete Edochie granted to one of these magazines published by seminarian in seminary schools, (either Enugu or Onitsha dioceses) I can't remember precisely.


Prior to then, I've never heard or seen people pay tithe in any Catholic church.

In that interview, Pete Edochie was like encouraging Catholic Churches to start collecting tithe like our pentecostal counterparts instead of depending on "merger collections" to fund the church. I was surprised!

I went to Onitsha the next year (exactly in thesame church were I saw the magazine the previous year) to my surprise, they have started paying tithe!

Though they don't force people or threaten them with the so called devourer whatever, I wasn't happy about the development. Gradually today many priests are towing thesame path.

I still trust my Catholic brethren, they even give five or ten naira for tithe

But seriously this isn't right.

Vatican discontinued tithing and Nigeria is just introducing it. Smh

#nuffsaid.

Salud.

Aww!

Children, are what I most definitely look forward to having, I know I'll raise "exceptional" kids and I so want to.

#Gotsomuchlovetogive

QueenAzibar:
that's not true o. it didn't just start now. read a little more and ask your priest.

Can you, pray tell, when it started exactly?

Only people with a great sense of humor, and might I add, intelligence, will find this funny.

I know I do.

lifestyle1:
Bitches always stand out

Cute.

Though, what's with the "b1tch"?

searching4love:
Shut up and face front

I was done talking anyways, have fun searching for love till the chicken grows teeth, cheers.

searching4love:



INI EDO IS SHAMELESS. I MEAN HOW CAN A SANE WOMAN BE JUMPING FROM MAN TO MAN THIS GOLD DIGGING TENDENCIES STILL FOLLOWS MOST NIGERIAN WOMEN TO MARITAL LIFE. ONCE THEY ACQUIRE ENOUGH BENEFITS THEY RUN TO THE NEXT MAN. MARRIAGE IS VALUELESS IN NIGERIA DUE TO THE IMMORALITY OF THE LADIES OF THIS GENERATION.

THIS IS WHY I WILL NEVER MARRY A NIGERIAN LADY. I RATHER DIE SINGLE OR LOOK FOR WIFE IN ANOTHER COUNTRY

Like the Nigerian women you are ranting about give zilch a feck about you, it's the internet bro, no one cares, especially cos they don't know you and don't need to, get real..

Oh! And btw, live your life and have some fun, Mike + Ini, you only get one life, people are supposed to talk, otherwise, we won't have mouths, so why bother?

LadyX:

Na security they go call to escort you out.

This isn't funny seriously, someone that claims to know God discriminating, when the Jesus they so profess was supposedly dining with sinners and had a harlot as a good friend, such confusion/delusion.

QueenAzibar:
yeah I'm Catholic too. all Catholic churches collect tithe. doesn't vary with parish as we are all one.

Not all.

The ones that even do, started not too long ago, it wasn't in the doctrines of the catholic church to pay tithe, they just couldn't see their pentecostal and other counterparts prosper from tithing extortion, without doing nothing, so they joined.

mayorall:
Don't tell me you don't pay tithe or you don't believe in tithing?.

What has that got to do with anything?

This is just sad.

Imagine what will happen if one tells them "I don't go to church"

Na death sentence be that na.

OP find a way to anonymously send miss J's parent a message, letting them know what's happening to their child. Please waste no further time.

That beast shouldn't be allowed to get away with this.

donpeey22:
That's why g string is better than all these granny panties! The babe must be a bush girl.

Lol, serious bush girl.

And she didn't know


"Shawty you ain't gatta take the panties off, just move 'em to the side"

You say.


I truly believe all these law makers and men in power are on a steady high mode.

Death sentence for hackers, yet criminals in power are spending our money freely, okay o.

mbulela:
You know it is possible that the OP has never self-serviced?

Please, we all know he has countless times, if he hasn't, he'd have said so.

Someone came to help you and what you do is kidnap her, if only karma is as fast as Usin Bolt.

I hope she's found safe and sound.

Aprime:
There are a lot of stupíd people here.

If you try to make sense from what they're saying, you'll go crazy.

I mean can you imagine that? Seriously?

Yet they are the first to claim 'intelligent', they are just more hypocritical than they are ignorant, it's not as if they didn't go through what the said girl is passing through,but they'd rather claim "holy"

Yeye.

See the OP sef saying he was shocked, what's shocking about a teenager self servicing? OP how old were you when you had your first self-service? Mschew.

Seriously? People are saying he should have beaten her up? What crime did she commit?

OP, there's nothing to tell, I just wish there was a way to know if she's been sexually educated.

I had my first m*sturbation around that age(can't even remember what led to it but it wasn't p*rn, a mag maybe, cos I read lots of those) and it's not something I continued, I actually felt weird and tired afterwards and I didn't remember to try it again untill much later .

madeinnigeria:
you are a very intelligent lady others would have tried to insult during the course of our discussion but u neva did. Dats very strange on here

Lol, maturity has caught up with me, I guess , thank you.

Please you people should stop making it seem like it's okay for a woman to hit a man, if a woman decides to hit a man, then I can understand hitting her back, just not worse than she did you, a slap for a slap(if you must hit back), though I'd advice you don't hit back to avoid you both maiming yourselves.

Violence doesn't solve anything and should be avoided.

One lady is even proud to say, she hits her man, I hope you'll remember how much you've hit him, the day he decides to give you a taste of your pudding.

P.S, if you are with someone who makes you wanna hit him/her or hits you, you better up and leave cos that person isn't made for you.

I don't support violence but if you hit anyone first, well na you find trouble, but OP to say you will beat the devil out of her, hmmm, sounds like you naturally love fights.

madeinnigeria:
. But how do you know she's not a wife material? Because of all he listed? Is that what makes a woman? Is that what makes a good wife? Is it house chores that makes a marriage work? The laying of bed is definitely her fault cos she should learn to sleep in her own house with her legs closed...some guys see ladies as some kind of product with the manual in a box where u just read out the functions and off she goes...obviously the guy feels he's some kind of limited editon that's why he has d ballz to say such things...when the girl gets someone better than him that's when he starts going around telling ppl d girl was proud not knowing he's a semi- narcissist

You are obviously not seeing the point I'm trying to make, so I leave you be.

madeinnigeria:
. So the only way to bond is by cooking and doing laundry? Why would a guy (boyfriend) tell a chic dat she's not a wife material cos she doesn't cook clean his house blah blah? Since when did a relationship turn into garri market where you hav to taste everything before you buy? If she feels very comfortable with him she will do whatever she wants at her own freewill. My advice for him is to find his kind and she should find her own kind of person too...kudos to the lady for being true to her guts because why pretend cos you want a guy to marry you...marriage is supposed to be sweet nd intresting and its something you do with the right person. No one should force u or try to play the wife material mind game with you. Try have fun with yourlife build yourself nd while doing that d right guy will always show up.

You seem to have it all mixed up, cooking and laundry isn't the only way to bond but it's one of the best ways.

He told her she's not a wife material because she obviously isn't, who would want to marry a woman that can't lay a bed she woke up from? Or a woman that can't offer a helping hand?

I didn't read that he forced her to do chores, he just told her he can't wife her, given what he's noticed. What everything is being tasted? Cooking and laundry is what you ordinarily do for yourself so why can't you help your other half do it?

The main thing is to know your worth and act it, if you have self respect and a man respects you, you won't feel belittled for having to help with chores, you do it with your pride and dignity intact.

$ex workers kwa? Is that what those girls are?

It's hard to feel pity for such a useless man, how can these teenagers be involved in a 3some, more so with their fore father? Who are the parents of these children biko nu?

dechandel:
Yasss..

I agree with being the supportive girlfriend.. But can Wizkid afford you?? Biatch please!!!
You had better go and learn work.. Dey instagram dey find who fit buy your market!

This isn't what being a supportive GF means, not to sensible girls atleast.

Mumu childrens.

I don't understand skales beef though, na by force say person go bless you? If you feel wizkid is now too pompous because he's ahead, then work harder and don't look at him.

Expect less from people, that way you won't be disappointed.

I do understand how painful it can be for someone you once shared everything with to start forming levels for you, still you just have to realize that, no one owes you anything in life, that's a mentality I've adopted, if my friends can't love me the way I love them, then I move the feck on, it doesn't mean I'll hate on the person, it's just realizing that we are on different lanes, which isn't a bad thing.

Then the girl had to jump in? I wonder how a girl can be beautiful and senseless, that should be a crime, talking about being affordable to men like a commodity, I weep on her behalf .

madeinnigeria:
Why should your bf not husband expect u to cook, wash and do other chores for him? Very soon he will ask you to get pregnant for him without him being ur husband..anyway its the way u present yourself ppl will treat u..who knows whether you ask him to perform husband duties too...y won't he complain about bedspread when u cannot sleep in your own house....u guys are still in a relationship for christsake...visit and go to ur house.. Or better still get someone dat reasons well

The OP's boyfriend reason's well(based on the info we have), what's wrong in sleeping over at a bf's house, especially if she expects that the relationship will lead to marriage? How do you bond with someone if you can't spend time together doing stuffs like laundry and cooking?

What you lot don't seem to know, is that, a man will respect you because you deserve it and respect yourself, not because you think it's beneath you to help him out where necessary.