₦airaland Forum

Nawao! Why marry if you know you don't plan to settle down?

Tolexander:
Metallic ladder?

It was really a suicidal mission

Am telling you. What happened to fibre ladder?

Congratulations Op.We still dey single searching for our soul mate.May God bless your union

Why are we doing this to ourselves?

Ijaycool:
Thank you my dear, something is happening behind the scenes, only that you are misreading the happenings.

The Government has been waiting for a time it may need to make the populace believe that it has a solution for our security issues. The advent of RUGA is the time. They need to buy our trust back, so they can fool us into RUGA. The currency with which they can buy our trust is Leah Sharibu . They always knew this, they kept her as a bait, a legal tender, an assurance...

Boko Haram are struggling to feed it's soldiers, it is scrambling for shelter, yet you want to tell me they will keep a defiant Christian girl under a roof and fed her (plus all medical attention it may require) for over 1 year? - please give me Krest.

She is in government-sponsored custody, she is been used as a bait. Now they will release her, we will (most likely as we are prone to do) sing their praise, then they will ask for our land for their cattle, then the cattle will ask for our farms, then their Masters will ask for our lives...

In a classic movie, the Government would have said to us "Leah Sharibu, or your Lives" with a short 9mm Gun pointed at our forehead.

You may be right

Ijaycool:
Thank you my dear, something is happening behind the scenes, only that you are misreading the happenings.

The Government has been waiting for a time it may need to make the populace believe that it has a solution for our security issues. The advent of RUGA is the time. They need to buy our trust back, so they can fool us into RUGA. The currency with which they can buy our trust is Leah Sharibu . They always knew this, they kept her as a bait, a legal tender, an assurance...

Boko Haram are struggling to feed it's soldiers, it is scrambling for shelter, yet you want to tell me they will keep a defiant Christian girl under a roof and fed her (plus all medical attention it may require) for over 1 year? - please give me Krest.

She is in government-sponsored custody, she is been used as a bait. Now they will release her, we will (most likely as we are prone to do) sing their praise, then they will ask for our land for their cattle, then the cattle will ask for our farms, then their Masters will ask for our lives...

In a classic movie, the Government would have said to us "Leah Sharibu, or your Lives" with a short 9mm Gun pointed at our forehead.

You may be right

Jayslicky:
You should speak to your wife about the lack of sex on your lives, ask her the reason why she is always not in the mood, it could be because of her doing too many house chores and you are not always available to help out, I would advise you to always help her in doing some house chores when you are available and both of you can always set a time table when to have sex it would help and make her ready for the act, also try and spice up your romantic life, don't always be in a haste to penetrate when trying to have sex, put her in the mood, make her want you to have sex with her, kiss and cuddle her touch sensitive parts of her body and most importantly make her cum when you are through, if you can do all these things, your wife will be the one chasing you round the house for sex.

Good suggestion.

one day,my name shall be written on the sand of time

Elexdallas:
Good decision,
Since they found a perfect way to take oil to north, why not channel that same energy in taking water and grass to north for our beloved cows.

Exactly

Christophorus:
Truth be told.

In today's world, he who loves sincerely is taken for granted.

So true

Exactly. I will definitely work harder. My dream must come to pass.

freeze001:
I just knew that one calling TB Joshua was off her rockers. She stupidly decided to cash in on the moment because of an ill-conceived protest staged by misguided people. They did not protest when the lady from Redeemed was murdered in Abuja, even Daddy GO and VP no cough! They did not protest against incesssant killings by herdsmen, Leah Sharibu is out there, no noise. Southern Kaduna is practically levelled, no protest. Government has been raping Nigerian citizens especially Christians front, back, up and down; dem don dey plan ruga, no noise yet they all ran off like headless chickens to COZA.

Exactly

PVision2020:
Nigerians will not "set twitter on fire" nor protest to shut down the National Assembly or ask the dishonorable senator they hired and paid exorbitantly with their taxes to step down despite video evidence of his physical assault and battery of law abiding hustling citizen who pays for the Senators' immoral lifestyle through his tax but will rant and become reactor on twitter, organise protest and even ask a Pastor to step down over an "unsubstantiated" allegation of rape by a woman. A man you did not contribute Kobo towards the development of his church. I even saw hijab sisters raising placards on Sunday morning as if a Christian sister can dare move an inch near a mosque to protest.

I'm not/ I've never and will never be in support of Coza or Pastor Biodun. But shouting our lungs out on one issue and over looking others only shows our hypocrisy stinks to high heavens.

Electoral manipulations we won't talk
Ruga settlements nothing
Boko Haram and Fulani herdsmen, no protest
Minimum wage, we no see you
Unemployment e no consign you
Nigerians being killed in diaspora, you no protest go their embassy.
But a woman made an unsubstantiated rape allegation on Thursday and Nigerians mobilize themselves within two days to protest in the Church, they even set up a gofund account.
Who is deceiving who?

Exactly.

Your matrimonial room is not to be left ajar for anybody.Start from that one.

The love that you give away is the only love that you keep.The hate you preach will definitely reside on the surface of your palm.I believe TB Joshua is a true pastor.

So she will become an ex convict?

abacusCm:
OROBO VS LEPA

It doesn't matter

ebonyggurl:
I understand what you mean. Thing is, most nigerian men don't take their marriages seriously. We seem to be in the era of 'using what we have to get what we want'. Its understandable, we're in a third world country afterall. People get married here simply for the sake of having a woman to take care of their 'homes' while they go around doing all sorts of nonsense and society is forcing women to accept this as normal. I know people cheat all over the world, but atleast they don't take it as a normal way of life. The typical nigerian man would say "ehen, ordinary cheating?"

The best thing about marriage is to be with someone that will never cheat.You will never regret your decision.

Do lowkey wedding, save up money and have your child in a country that will give him/her easy access to a better life.

Erediauwa:
Or maybe a foreign OBIOMA.

I haff died

Onlinealaba:
One thing have learnt in life is to always maintain a low-key it might look odd but is always worth it, Dude might have informed his friends and probably village people that he his coming back home with the intention of a big celebration not knowing he has exposed himself to the evil people. Nigeria is not a safe place(No sugar coating) so one got to be proactive and ensure his own safety so many envious and hateful people out there..am lost on what to say further and most saddened with this news.Rest on brother

Exactly

ShitHead:
I prefer Mr Ibu to Mikel.

Don't take it personal.The interviewer was asking him preference questions. It's either this or that.He has to choose one of the two.

luminouz:
Depression comes to everyone at some point in our lives. How u handle it determines how you will handle the next level that awaits you.
Solutions:
Watch comedy movies...
Few people genuinely care about what you're passing through here,because they are going through shiit too..
Forget social media talk of giving help,most don't care. If you still have close family members,talk to them...if not,find a reason to stay alive,we all do. If you really can't find a reason not to kill yourself, do go ahead and die. Depression is a spirit that makes u forget ur successes to focus ONLY on ur failures. just remember one good thing that happened to you.if you can,life becomes liveable,not necessarily easier.

Yeah

chibu4u2:
Avoid isolation and try confiding or opening up to ur parents/loved ones. Shikina!!

In my own case,I developed an attachment to my family.Always running home to be with them.No one knew what I was going through but I got better being around people that genuinely loved me.

I like this kind of unique gift.

Blue3k:
I cant wait till they start teaching the civil war. Awe this will be fun. The states could have added history all this while they just didnt deem it important. I commend the federal government for this.

Good.We are heading back to the drawing table. Restructuring is impending.

Juliusmalema:
So this animal called Nnamdi kanu still have the mouth and temerity to talk.

He should direct his press statement to his fellow criminal European gangsters.

Ipob is a terrorist organization and remain proscribed


SE governor's should use village vigilante to check mate this fulani herdsmen terrorist.

That someone or a state is in South East, doesn't make them Igbo in anyway after same herdsmen has endorsed Ebonyi state Governor for president 2023.


Same way Ohanaeze endorsed obi their son is the same way Miyetti Allah endorsed umahi as their son.

Shut up! Am from Ebonyi land.I support NNAMDI KANU. We don't want to take chances.Fulani herdsmen are heartless.We don't want Miyetti Allah to issue warning nor advice to us.We are a free state recognized by the Constitution.Of what economic value is Miyetti Allah to us?

My phone with fast internet connection and stucked fridge with varieties.

SageMK:
Good wife kill you there.

Damn. Stupid people are dangerous.
We should stop making them famous.

Like say the man go even get the liver to eat the food.

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Am telling you. Anyone that suppressed his/her emotions is cooking up something bad. Control is better

Jayslicky:
Adultery is one of the biggest sins in a marriage and one of the reasons to quit a marriage, there is no gender that is free to commit adultery, adultery is wickedness to one's partner, it can bring STD, trauma and disappointment to one's partner. Men and women should flee from adultery, if you know you can't then don't even get married.

Exactly.I follow her but I don't agree with this one. You don't have any reason for cheating.

crafteck:
At least he's still single.

Is it an avenue for irresponsibility?