₦airaland Forum

biacan:
Something must have led her to commit this dreadful act..... maybe he cheated who knows.....

Its not acceptable

Am just scared of marriage nowadays. No longer as zealous and confident to tackle the challenges as i used to

Lakeside79:
Buhari said they don't carry guns

So.these must be OPC members

Stupid government

Just after Trump's warning against the killings? Was he waiting for warnings?

Gepheral:
From my research I've come to discover that most girls are only after making their female counterparts jealous even if would cost them their happiness!

That's my verdict!

Exactly, Just to show off for respect without looking in depth at what a relationship means.

elitejosef:
Too painful May the soul rest in peace

God forbid cos its worth crying out blood

This baby could have been given up for adoption if the mother couldn't carter for him/her.

ClintonEmex:
No one should allow those things to bring him down, one day at a time, you'll meet someone special and deserving of your love.

Exactly

Am telling you.People can be inconsiderate.They don't what its like deducting expenses from Income.

bigtt76:
These people don't even know how this things work ....you think all that millions he's raking in is all his? Do you know how much of it he needs to spend on tax, insurance, mortgage financing, health care, fitness and so on? Do they realize he's married? Do they also realize he now has kids or his playing days are getting over?

Family, please be patient ....your seemingly wealthy relatives are not your ATM o!

yeah

[quote author= post=66880546]You presented your words like a twisted court case of murder. You know the lawyers would say such person is mentally unstable and hence the killing was a mistake and never intentional.[/quote]That's not what i meant.I just want to point the remote cause. Just incase we want to help people going through emotional difficulties.Doesn't mean they can't be convicted when they commit crime.Even in prisons, prisoners are helped to get better before being discharged and acquitted.

yeyerolling:
Y wud anyone want to do an msc in zoogeria?

Because we cut our clothes according to our clothes.

I actually get what she meant.Everyone has battles they are fighting.We just need understanding to be able to help one another.It's always beautiful if the person is ready to accept help and ready to offer help instead of bashing and tongue lashing the purposed person going through this psychological and emotional problem. Though,these psychological and emotional imbalance tend to make those suffering from it to become toxic.And thus,creating disperse from other emotionally balanced individuals.However,resulting to tongues lashing and bashing against the sufferers. I think we should help them.
The issue here is that those ones that studied psychology doesn't do their Job.They are so busy looking for DSS jobs.Nigerian government will not find a way to create enabling environment for the scholars to prevail.
They only know how to call Nigerian youths LAZY.[quote author= post=66878778]Birds of a feather[/quote]

Just the appointed time.Not okay to marry someone that doesn't know what marriage entails or someone that is not ready to undergo through the tough puzzle of marriage.The worst part of it is that you can never teach them.Its not all that can learn.

allanphash7:
Nothing special


When is your turn its your time


What matter most about marriage is readiness and not age


Obama retires at 55 and Trump resume at 70

cutefergiee:
Dis one gada muscle oo
Dedicate this FTC award to all of us still alive and kicking... Lets be grateful for life..
If we can make it tru d night, brighter days ahead...
Av a great day � y'all

Amen

ihitenansa:
see impunity o. They shot,killed a whole village head,.. pursued the villagers and den came back to leisurely graze their cattle on farms,.. without fear of any kind of reprisal!!



what exactly is happening??

I ask this question too!

waywardpikin:
Not many people will really understand this.

Am telling you. That's why stuffs like above doesn't move me.When i see guys that brag with some silly things that are not asset,i just nod at their short sightedness.

Love your imperfections.Stay so far away from people that will want to shove it on you.They are negative and toxic people

kuanvevo:
You didn't threaten him when you were enjoying all these. You are just a cheap fling.

I hate it when couples that are no longer together behave like this. Such disrespect for someone you once shared everything with? Com'on! Some people need to grow up a bit and get wisdom.

bennynaza:
Just like some above poster said, I only follow this show via nairaland.
And from my observation, I have come to the conclusion that females experience more konji overtime than guys.

Guys have short term konji. Once the arousal factor is out of sight, the konji can be subdued until the next arousal factor is in sight.

Girls accumulate their konji until it is too much to bear especially due to their refusal to cure the short term konjified guys. And when fully accumulated they start misbehaving and directly or indirectly start throwing themselves at guys.

Guys= short term konji
Girls = long term konji

Not so true.Girls can stay longer without sex because that can control the feelings for touch and penetration.

Am scared of death from someone that claims to love me.

Listen,before you say am ready to spend the rest of my life with someone, open your MIND and ask God for help. Its not about the wedding but the marriage. Ask God for wisdom and understanding. Ask God to give you a wise partner wit understanding as from Proverbs.
My friend Ben is no more because he married a woman with no wisdom. Ben had wisdom but was desperate to settle down as everyone was asking, When will you marry?
Ben was a hardworking man with vision, hope and faith for the future. He had a business and was training himself in school. He was a comfortable man. Ken met a young lady in his finals. The lady claimed to be in pursuit of her national diploma,he felt she had prospects just like him. Ben decided to leave singlehood and settle. After two months of his wedding, Ben's business withered down even to an extent,the business was no more. His cars were sold. During his wedding,he paid through his nose for the list given to him. Wife to had no means to support but ensured he paid every pin in the list claiming it was their tradition. Ben borrowed a lot for the wedding. The rumour was that the woman came with bad luck.
Ben shamefully stayed away from friends not until one day,he decided to open up to us as to what has been going on. His partner would resort to bashing him all the time. We even intervened and asked her to learn a handwork to support her husband,her excuses was baffling "My child is too small and its his job to take care of the family". I quite agree woman,but its no longer that way? I advised,pls try to support him at least emotionally. This lingered,her family made things even worst especially her mother who fought Ben for asking the daughter for list of things needed in the house. She claimed Ben should release money and not mind what it should be used for. Ben was emotionally destabilised.He got someone that leased a bus to him on higher purchase. His wife left saying she didn't plan to be with a driver.
Ben died this week in an accident probably as he was thinking about his life while driving. The wife called to let us know the bad news but with no sympathy. Maybe she is happy to have a genuine reason to philander around.
I have been so sad of his demise. Ben has been looking forward to remarry with better qualities in mind as he told me. Not his previous wish he looked for in a partner. Ben could not achieve this after 1 year his wife left him. All the hassles and hard work in this life yielded no result. May your soul Rest in peace Ben. I am with heavy heart. Women should learn to give peace to their husbands. Everyone should look before they leap. Do not be desperate.

MhizAJ:
Same thing with pre-marital sex
It makes you lose focus and ambitions
So much emotional baggage attached to these things

You are right.The guilt alone self

Pavore9:
Nigerians will never learn.

Thank God i was adamant when someone tried persuading me.

I like.

Mariangeles:
Kind uplifting words can save a life!
Many people today are going through struggles and
depression irrespective of how they look, dress or how they appear to be happy...

True

Lucid1:
The woman is just in that marriage for the comfort and security the man provides, she loves him 0 %


The court should be renamed 'Igando DiVorce CoURT'

True.The worst thing that can happen to anybody is to marry someone that doesn't love them.

Give peace a chance

[quote author=mistyebby post=66595590]If you are idle, try get busy. When you done with work, see movies, listen to music, chat, come on Nairaland

Then it could be nutritional deficiency. So take lots of fruits like orange, banana, pineapple, berries, nuts, vegetables and most important milk or yoghurt before you sleep.

Then write out all your worries, promise yourself not to think about them and discard it.

You can also visit the pharmacy for some antidepressants recommended by a pharmacist. Also use the opportunity to check your blood pressure. If your blood pressure is normal then you are fine

Just calm down okay. You will be fine.

You na omo pastor, pray k, prayer is a divine reliever.
[/quote)Nairaland helps me sometimes. It is a safer place to air your view without nobody's knowledge of your identity. You can say your mind to anybody here.Helps me a lot.

Jan.

godofuck231:
Most of these shotguns here are toys, they are called entry shotguns for knocking down door hinges, these are not combat shotguns, these things can even kill the owner or shooter, in occasions where there is a gun fight you can't fire 50 rounds continuously the barrel would tear or rather explode and shrapnels will hit the shooter in the face, Nigerians and sub standard things self

You are a suspect.

donstan18:
He beat her to coma last year but she continued in such abusive and sign showing marriage because of her quest, hunger and obsession for white men.

We are patiently waiting to know the reason behind this murder.

I just pray we don't hear that he found out that she was cheating and that the little girl wasn't his biological daughter, hence the killing of the two.

Because i'm still wondering what the little girl did.

Stay away from abusive and toxic people,they won't hear.I rather stay with someone that earns little and respects me that a rich guy with anger issues.Look how she lost her life now?All material things will hang there.