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kingxsamz:
Oga, you were never like him.
You've always believed in the rubbish you grew up to know all your life.

You've come to realize that there's truth
Smh...
What truth?

Apart from being uncouth, you are totally unobservant. I am a Madam not an Oga. And I like to discuss with unbiased and intelligent people. So please do the needful and get out of my mentions.

TheArchangel:
Arrant bullshit!!!
Who know you for your village. Shouldn't it have occurred to this village people mongers that you can only kill or maim whom you know quite well or whom you are conversant with their itineraries.
This paranoia island is often created in gullible minds.
I am tired of this bull crap of singling out poor hardworking people residing humbly in their peaceful abodes, as witches and wizards, just because someone somewhere is sorta feeling paranoid.
Anyway, it says a lot about this paranoid and demented group of people especially when their purported villages resembles the Congo hinterlands, the Botswana desert-lands or the riverine areas of Kiribati. These city people are even forgotten as soon as they go back to base. I am from the village and I know what I am talking about, we don't give a hoot about anybody.

The developed cities, towns and villages of the world happens to be someone's "village" too. How come you do not attribute this attacks to the developed areas you reside in with your dysfunctional families and envious friends.? Is it because you have been programmed by some fvcked up psyche that poor or poverty means wizardry or witchcraft.??
It never occurred to this 21st century Spanish inquisitors that 95% of their enemies follows from the city??

I used to sound like you. I was actually more adamant. But I have come to realize that there’s truth in what is said about village people. Alas, the village people are moving to the cities totally unskilled and with little education. So, presently the village people are widening their scope of operation while we city dwellers scoff at their mindset, jealousy and total wickedness.

lavylilly:
Why is it that men of these days are so interested in knowing whether a gal is a student or graduate?
Men please, that she didn't go to school doesn't mean she has no career, future, can't make a good wife or make her an illiterate..
The last time I checked my dictionary, An illiterate is someone who can not read or write.. If she can read and write ,you have no problem with her provided she gives you peace.

Please stop making them feel like less human, graduates on the other hand should stop discriminating them because they are not opportune to attend college.

Some of these girls are very intelligent, wise and hardworking, but unfortunately for them, they couldn't get sponsor.
Men if you see a good, but not educated, please marry her and enroll her in school provide she is intelligent and willing to go to school.
Most of these girl are wife materials..

In a lot of advanced countries, you’re responsible for yourself at the age of 16. People take student loans they pay off themselves. Some work more than one job while still in school. Very few have their parents pay for their education. But in Nigeria, it is a completely different story. People are always looking for others to take up their responsibilities. Let them sponsor themselves in school or learn skills so they can stop feeling inferior and sorry for themselves.

Petyprincess:
I dnt know why successful people visit their hometown for what exactly? To show off?
You will see all these abroad returnees visiting village nd i be wondering for what exactly?
My mum never allowed her children to visit her hometown even when my grandpa died nd i was mad that i never knew my grandpa b4 his death nd she explained to me the reason behind it nd gave me examples of some that visited their hometown nd are regretting till nw!! When you hear stories about village people you will fear them honestly!!

Your mum is right but the village people are migrating to the cities with no skills, little education and tons of envy.

We know people who are being harassed, blackmailed, insulted, lied on constantly. Yet they choose life over death. Nothing justifies suicide.

ENEMYOFGOD6:
nobody has ever committed sin.sin doesn't exist.if sin truly exist,then the yeye useless hopeless worthless God could be the chief siner.because the useless hopeless worthless God has committed more sin in that useless Bible than any other person.

It is okay not to believe in the existence of God. It is not okay to be rude to or about a God others worship. I’m a Christian who believes that I am saved through Christ Jesus. I believe there is only one true God. But, I will never disrespect the Muslims, Hindus and others or who or what they worship.

NwaAmaikpe:





God will not bless him for this supposed act of charity because the money is not his.

Why bless him for a gift that technically cost him nothing?

God will only bless him if he goes to his bank account, withdraws from it and gifts these widows in private.

Did you not read that he added his own money? Moreover, when did you become God’s mouthpiece to know who he’ll bless and who he will not? The same God who blessed a prostitute who sanctimonious people like you condemned, who dined with sinners.... in other words, stop being so presumptuous.

crackkhaus:
I'm shocked you only had an issue with being addressed as a 'girl' and not the 'baby' part of it.

Anyway, let me humor you since it means a lot to you.
Only one point in your entire post is to be addressed and that's you calling Meghan a "first rate" (whatever you think this means) actress.

You see, being honest should never be interpreted as being hateful, having sinister motives, or trying to reduce someone's worth. It is just plain honesty.

Hollywood has a scale for measuring the pedigree of actors/actresses - A-list, B, C, and D-list. (Note: not rate)
Meghan Markle is on the C-list.

- A is strictly for box-office movie stars whose presence in a feature film can rake in the mulla at the cinemas.
- B is strictly for big television stars (most are former box office stars) who are the main actors/producers on their own shows, or just the main cast of actors in a long running show (syndicated).
- C also encompasses television stars, but is reserved for those whose career on television is not quite up to the pedigree of those on the B-list. They are known by face, not by name.
- D is for reality show stars, game show hosts, etc.

I did not create this hierarchy, you can take up your issue with those who did.

Every other point in your post has been addressed on the thread. You can scroll through baby.

I tend to respond to the comments of people I think are quite intelligent. Please accept my apologies for thinking you better than you actually are.

crackkhaus:
Lol, girl we have gone way past that comment.. but please, allow me welcome you to the party.
It's never too late to get intoxicated.

So how do you like your drink baby?

Cocktail with a slice of racism, or some Chapman with a tinge of arrogance?

Please stop being patronizing. It is ridiculous and demeaning. On a nameless and faceless forum you address one as girl? You can choose to address the points I raised or ignore them completely. But to be patronizing??

crackkhaus:
Surely you must realize that when people don't like you, it really won't matter if you're doing nothing wrong, they would still find a way to make you look bad.

The bias against Meghan was watered by none other but herself. You can see one of the articles you posted called her 'dictatorial', they may not be far from the truth.

I followed the whole ruckus leading up to their wedding in 2018 up until the wedding itself. You should not take my word for it though, you could make some findings on your own regarding just how much she tried to break almost every protocol regarding how the wedding should go.
A lot of things were changed/altered just to accommodate her preferences - from the flower choices, to the aisle leading up to the alter that was made wider because it's what she wanted, etc.. There was a lot more which I can't even recall off the top of my head.

Now no one is saying she couldn't have creative control over her own wedding, but when you marry into a monarchy that has a certain way of doing things in keeping with age-long traditions as old as her own ancestors, then she probably should have simmered down a little. She got what she wanted most of the time because the monarchy were happy enough to make Diana's little boy happy, but she took it too far and got used to it.
After the wedding, she kept trying to get them to do things her way and most of the time she would get it, but guess what, the British people only resented her for it because she was now effectually implying that their ways of doing things was not good enough for her, her own way was better...it wasn't just an emotional bride trying to make her wedding day perfect anymore, this was a woman who had no respect for the Monarchy and its ways. She confirmed what they already suspected and gave oxygen and water to the bias already working against her. And to make it worse, she was not even that big a celebrity in Hollywood in the first place.

This kind of resentment will obviously make them troll her at every given opportunity...no one holds a grudge more than the British.

If say, a single never divorced well brought-up Beyoncé (still black and American) was the one who married into the royal family, she may even get a softer landing than Meghan. If a Beyoncé DIL wanted the Queen MIL to dance single ladies inside Buckingham Palace, she may have gotten away with it, just because she is a Beyoncé. Get my point?

Meghan already had everything working against her from the start - previous failed marriage, dysfunctional family set-up, being biracial, and an American actress (not even an A-list, which may have been a plus). The least she could have done to warm her way into the hearts and minds of the British people, is to at least appear that she gave a shit about the way things are done.

I'm NOT sorry to type this, but I will because it is what it is:
Meghan did not do Windsor a favor by marrying Harry, Windsor in fact did her a favor by allowing her become a part of their family and she should have acted accordingly and not take a mile when given an inch.

It's what it is.

Marriage is certainly not a favor. Meghan has her own money, celebrity status and following even before she got married to a member of the British family. Every bride wants things done her way at her wedding. Even those that can’t rub two cents together. Meghan is not an exception.

As for being a divorcée, it does not make her subhuman. It probably makes her a more mature individual. And what is the comparison with Beyoncé? Please?

Oh and you’re absolutely wrong. Meghan Markle is a first rate actress. That you don’t know or follow her does not mean you should even consider reducing her worth. She does not need the money or fame from the royal family. What she needed and asked for was acceptance and not to mold her into anyone’s concept of a princess. She adhered to major rules, and things that were insignificant, she like most members of the royal family did not bother with.

Agree or not, from the very days of their courtship, her being mixed race was a very big deal with some members of the British public and not even the royal family. Most often, when people’s minds are made up, there is practically nothing one can do to change it. They did not want the black part of her and made no effort to hide this. Thankfully, the most important person in her life understands her and supports her.

mu2sa2:
For deliberately dishonouring your parent.

Please get out of mentions.

mu2sa2:
"several times i sulked and would avoid my dad" - may God forgive you.

Forgive me for what exactly?

Beautiful Simi!!!! Your beauty is not obvious with long extensions and fake lashes... your beauty is simple and God given. Keep on enjoying!!!!

fairfora:
You may be right but it doesn't apply in all situations. Did you know without funke akindele's dad, she wouldn't have had the opportunity of becoming who she is today? I know them in ikorodu back in the days. This man single-handedly worked out her daughters successful audition in the NTA's enlightenment and family-oriented show of the 90s called I Need to Know, sponsored by the United Nations Population Fund in which she was starred as Bisi. This was what brought funke to a limelight. No matter what my dear, our parents should be dare to us. Her dad was so influential in the lagos state ministry of education back in the days. He was one of the most qualified and exposed teachers then so this gave him the opportunity of featuring her daughter in the tv series.. What is bad doesn't have 2 names than BAD. Some of us admire some people without even knowing them closely to decipher their character.

I hear you and I think that’s commendable. However, I’m not saying he did not do anything for his kids. I’m simply saying if there’s a break in communication, nothing stops the dad from acting as a bridge.

mu2sa2:
Ask their mother if she's available, if not, ask the ansentee 4 what she told them about their father. I heard of woman who turned all her 7 children against their father, by telling them he wanted to use them for money ritual but she refused and left him. The man reverted to bachelorhood and even in his old age the children, then grown ups, never saw reason to have anything to do with their dad. Sometimes it may not be the mother who's the culprit, but a babalawo or a useless "man of god".

Sometimes the father is the culprit. In your story of the kids never reaching out to their father, what stopped the father from reaching out to his kids if he was responsible. Growing up, there were several times I sulked and would avoid my dad. He would always look for ways to break the ice. That is what a father should do and not wait for his children to come looking for him.

Basher8583:
You don't force your kindness on people

It is usually the other way round. People wanting to force you to be kind.

The housegirl has her boss eating from her palm. It may be diabolical or simply knowing what buttons to press to get her way. Either way, you need to forget about them and focus on getting another job. I know you think you need her recommendations, but you can get another job without it.

Lamanii22:
That lady was sent from the pit of hell... Damn... No evidence, no nothing... Sometimes it's good to be mean sef... Too much kindness isn't good... I'm really sorry you were accused wrongly and sacked all at once.. The lord would provide a better job for you Hun..

In Nigeria, being kind is treated as a crime.

complexBoss12:
I was once in psychology class and the lecturer told us that if you are always getting into fights (every time you are fighting and quarrelling) but after the fight it is found that you are always right, that is to say that its always other people that find your trouble...

You are still a trouble maker regardless of your innocence all the time.
(many will not understand this)

simply put, in balotelli's voice "why always me"

Pure crap!!!!! ‘Why always me’ may simply be that the person is achieving way beyond peoples expectations. There are people one does not even know personally who think they can peg other people’s achievements. They say things like “is it not the child of so and so achieving so much...” Then they try to pull the person down. Moreover, being a Christian means salvation on different levels. One of them is salvation from the power of sin. There is no way Satan gives up without a fight. A stupid fight since he lost. Look at the lives of people being attacked vehemently. When you cannot see a single thing they’re doing wrong, chances are they are Christians being attacked by Satan and followers.

I don’t understand what they mean. We have hardly had electricity this year. This is in Lekki phase 1. When I build my house, I plan to generate my own electricity with solar panels. Electricity providers in Nigeria are jokers. When they provide some electricity, they pat themselves on the back. They don’t understand how abnormal that is.

NwaAmaikpe:




This is some acute fvckery.
Lesbianism isn't caused by any evil spirits.

It is strictly a chromosomal misinformation and that's why a lesbian is a lesbian.
Homosexualism is genetically ingrained, it could also be a nurtured preference.

I've seen female toddlers walk like boys, talk like boy and grow up seeing themselves as boys. Many a times, they are lesbians.
If they grow up in permissive countries, they are open about their sexual preferences.

But if they are in Nigeria, they get married to a man just to save face but stay up at night licking the househelp's kpekus.
This is genetical.

I've seen straight ladies who became lesbians after staying in an all-girl hostel or attending an only female school.
This is nurtured.

But for anyone to say it is spiritual tops the ridiculous of the most ridiculouses because all ladies are naturally bisexual.
Society even encourages them to because it is okay to see a girl touch a fellow girl's boobs in public, hold hands while walking or call themselves pet-names but very absurd for a man to.

God makes all things perfect and the Bible says that after creating man, he was happy because he created him with no mistakes.

For people who are genetically homosexual, God won't see it as a sin because it is beyond them.
There is a difference between morality and sin.
Like masturbating may be immoral but masturbating is not a sin; so some of our preferences could just be immoral and no sins.

The truth is, God's ways are not man's ways.
So if God loves the lesbians and the misfits, who am I not to?

I just read this and I finally understand how misinformation spreads. You wrote this in pure ignorance and it was liked by hundreds of people. From this, I understand how Hitler was able to mislead intelligent people into mass murder. How the Guyana tragedy was possible. Just sound intelligent wether you know what you’re talking about and you’ll induce a cult like following. Homosexuality has nothing to do with biology. It is a conscious decision.

Ogegeodey:
Why is she excited?

Any hope to get married?

She is a single mom, she has no business catching any bouquet.

Hanty leave am for the maidens

The bouquet is for single ladies to catch. Linda is happily single so she’s got all the right in the world.

Dobson43:




This is all every lady has to offer.....white or black

Maybe you need to improve your mindset. Then, maybe you’ll get to meet woman who have more value than what you’re used.

Mraphel:
Niger, Kogi, kwara state can successfully and comfortably lead this nation without Nigeria breaking up.

Ordinary governorship, Kogi state has failed woefully. It is presidency they’ll be successful at abi?

She needs to stop the fight with side chick. I know it is difficult especially if the side chick keeps on goading her. She should focus on improving her life, her baby, making money and investing wisely. Oh! And her weight too. She’ll feel more confident. And she needs to watch her back with this guy. A husband is supposed to be his wife’s covering but this one does not know. He has simply disgraced himself.

healthserve:
Pele woman wrapper. Its a woman that's telling you what to do. Why not ask your sister what are the reasons you can't date her beyond the she's a house girl logic. What a sad classist she is. Better be a man and take your decisions solely by yourself. Tell her you didn't chose her own
lover and there's a limit to her participation/involvement in your life and she shouldn't choose yours. If she'll make a good wife overlook the house girl stereotype. Mrs. ALAKIJA that owns oil Wells today was once like her. Shame on your sister if she doesn't have solid reasons beyond she's an house help. Not in our class.

Please say what you know. Mrs. Alakija has never been and will never be like her. Mrs. Alakija got her first degree and masters before she was given the oil wells. That she did not school in Nigeria does not mean you should be writing what you don’t know about. That she was Mariam Babangida’s designer does not make her uneducated or half baked.

Opotoyi901:
I'm also from kogi state and Okun by tribe so I know what am saying.

And

Opotoyi901:
You are a liar! Google the most poorest states in nigeria kogi is not among them, kogi state might be underdeveloped but her citizens are not extremely poor and they are harding working and educated than you lot southerners, so stop saying rubbish.

Keep quiet please. I am from Kogi state. Igala by tribe from Ofu LGA. So I know exactly what I am saying. The one eyed man thinks he has perfect sight until he meets normal people with two functional eyes. Then he sees himself for who he truly is.

bubu2019:
This two are Fulani stop defending your northern evil fools

What exactly is wrong with you? Kogi state is one of the poorest states in Nigeria with most of its citizens too lazy and arrogant to earn a living. The men rush to Lagos and end up as security men, bullies or kidnappers. The women either sell food or go around with a tray of petty rubbish on their head. The degree of illiteracy in that state is truly appalling. The political parties don’t help as they use the people as thugs. When they are kicked out of power, the thugs basically run to the cities for fear of retribution bringing their callous and inhuman characters with them. Very terrible people who do nothing to improve themselves yet want to tear down the few elites they have. Smh!!!!

NCP:
So Kogi no longer belongs to Northern Nigeria ��?

Kogi is in the middle belt. Contrary to popular opinion, Hausa is not their lingua franca. The only ones that speak Hausa fluently are those that grew up in the north.