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I'd always thought i have the worst boss in the world, he's a complete description of evil himself. So i think i have a good idea of your situation. I later realised that those individuals who are full of insults and curses and shouting are actually suffering from some fears.
You can actually conquer them in such a way that he'll always respect you. How do you do that?
a) Be very good in what you do
b) After alot of insults and abuses, he'll sometimes realise you are correct
c) Be ready to face him, be firm on your points and confront him those issues you are sure of
d) Ready to quit and make it obvious
e) and lastly, make it very very very clear that you don't fear him or his threats an inch.

and clearly, you won't a single problem with him again.

If i were you, i'll resign but have my lawyer on standby.

Besides, not everyone need the so sort after good grades, what some individuals need is basic education to be able to articulate their visions towards success. Serious education will come as distraction for these folks. They are eager to get to the labour market and experiment their visions and energy thereby fine tunning the ideas in their heads. Sitting down all time cramming books will never be their thing. While the books types will as well not be so interested in other things except books.

For president Trump to succeed in office, he has to be really careful. Both the political bigwits and the elites are not on the same page with him. I hope he'll adjust appropriately

DeAvenger:
May Allah accept their Du'as

Amin

You are pretty from your look, we dey the same shoe. Why not ask me out and see what happens next instead you waiting for me to ask you out. You never can say o!


Oya kneel down with ring in ur hand and pop the question...Will you...
While I stay there in tears shouting yes yes yes.

Can anyone tell me, why is it that when its Explorers' thread, you suspend whatever you are doing till you get to the end.

Explorers, if them sack me for work na you cause am o

Nma27:
If our youths can invest as much time used in boy/girl talk in Business ideas and innovations, I doubt we will b in recession....

Its actually not the fault of the youths, the environment and our system is repugnant to that. So they're forced to discuss alternatives topics.

missyadorable:
Hahahahaha
The dude doesn't have money na

No wonder,a woman on a wheelchair is a perfect wife material for him

Let wealth locate him,lets see if she will remain the respectful woman he knew and married

Seems she is even the breadwinner sef

Love indeed!

Wat rubbish is ds one saying? Did u read the part where he's been there for her from school? Are you telling he couldn't get other girls in school?

makydebbie:
Its only a MAN that can do this..

God bless your Union.

Thank God as a woman u can admit that. How I hope woman can sacrifice for us half of what we sacrifice for them

mytime24:
Gud4him



police is ur ................

I need to come see ur parents

TonyeBarcanista:
While I wouldn't love to tag the 1966 Coup an "Igbo coup", yet it won't changed the fact that the primary planners and leaders were of Igbo ethnic group. The beneficiary of the coup was also of Igbo ethnic group, while the victims were non Igbos save for one. The man that refused to handover power to an acting Prime Minister was also from Igbo tribe.

That shows that the coup had tribal connotation. FACT!
But I will always be of the opinion that it was wrong to blame an entire tribe for the action of a negligible few.

We should desist from trying to rewrite history but learn from our past, and move on.

As for ceding Lagos to Yoruba, that part is funny tho...

Tonye Gbasibe, wa gbayi. That's why i always like you. Whenever you want to come up with an issue or cover up, you do it intelligently. I'll advice all these IPOBS to hire you in all their defences, you'll definitely do better than they've been doing.

dyze:
Ulcer me. What test should I run?

Go meet a health professional.

WilliamsNedd:
Good morning bro. How did you treat your ulcer? This thing is killing me.

I will say its very easy, probably in my own case, I wouldn't know for other cases sha.

I only worked on my none eating habit. I started making sure i take breakfast, although it wasn't easy as a workaholic who doesn't think of food. I made sure I ate at least twice a day, and I tried as much as possible it was good and adequate food.

Every other rules, I never kept to any of them. But I sticked to making sure I eat and eat well. Hope this will help u as well.

Mind you, ulcer could become chronic to the extent of one vomiting blood, like in the case of a friend who later died.

He was terribly sick twice, but never changed his negligence for food. The last time he fell sick, stayed two weeks in the hospital, started recovering but later gave up the ghost.

dyze:
I usually have this intermittent sharp pain in my heart once in a while. Just comes and goes immediately.

It started about 3months ago.

Doctors on the house,is it something to worry about?

Are u sure u re not having ulcer? I used to feel the same, I later realised it was due to my ulcer, once I took care of ulcer, it stopped over 5years now.

41lady:
You are 100% right, that's why they said when you are living in a glass house never throw stone at anybody because he or she can throw it back to U.

Or don't throw stone into the market because it may hit your own person. Now, that's what is happening... Nevertheless, may the soul of the prof. Rest in peace.

Another Ignoramus on the loose

eyeview:
When Boko Haram started, they targetted and bombed churches. They planted bombs in bus parks going to the east and other southern parts of Nigeria. They bombed schools. And while all these were going on, no Muslim cleric condemned it, all the emirs kept sealed lips, the Muslim leaders pretended they weren't seeing it. Infact, at a point, when the military started gaining upper hand over Boko Haram, the same people who had kept quiet started shouting that the govt was initiating a genocide against the north. They all of a sudden found their voice. Even that dullard in Aso rock now who had kept quiet since jumped out and shouted that 'an attack on Boko Haram is an attack on the whole North'.

Today, the God of justice has turned 'their Boko Haram' on them.
Boko Haram now bomb mosques. They now murder Islamic clerics. They now attack Muslim villages and kill whoever they get. They now bomb markets and destroy lives of those within it's reach. Issorrai.

Now they are suffering it more.
'Those that live by the sword,die by the sword'

Selah

Shut Up! I say shut the mess Up...

Why do people like saying rubbish which they know nothing about?

Boko Haram as always been condemned right from its birth by Muslim Clerics. That was when the clerics were been assassinated.

Alot of Muslim clerics have been killed before BH started bombing places. So when you don't understand issues please keep mute

ITbomb:
I dont understand

Nigerian Muslim should discard the version of Islam practiced in this country and adopt the version of Islam practiced in UAE
The man you are killing is even of your own faith and one of the few who have elevated themselves in academics

No matter how intense any Niger Delta militant activities are, they never kill one of their own

How did we end up in the same country as these fanatics?

There are alot of conspiracies theories around Boko Haram. You never can say, they may not be anything related to Islam as they claim to be. In other words, there are possibilities they are not Muslims at all talk less of practicing a particular brand of Islam.

DickTator1:
R. I. P to the professor.
When Boko Haram started they were applauded for bombing churches and schools. They then graduated to bombing mosques like this example.


Moral of the story: Never support injustice, you might come to regret it.

Who applauded Boko Haram for bombing churches? Gives me names and links

People will just open their mouth and spit out wateva comes out of it.

MrIcredible:
I'm a Muslim but I think the man should shut the Fûck up!

What is his business


Everyone should learn how to mind their business.

You are not a muslim stop the Bleep and stop the lies. Besides did you read the article?

Why should we allow religion to be used in scamming people.

Jenigurl my wife, where are you. You see what u've bn doin to me, ur own sef bad, make we settle our misunderstanding for bed you no go free, oya lets settle it on Nairaland page.

Ginaz:
That "mumu button" comment got me laughing.
Men eh, na dat "tin" go kill una one day.

Reminds me of my mum's friend that quarreled with her husband, she was so angry and said "if na fucck my husband want, I go give am o but solo no go get anything from me"

Her "tin" no sabi quarrel with solo "tin"

Upon all her gra gra, her husband still called her and she went, marriage is sweet o.

But o.p find a way to tackle that character of your wife cos sex is not the right road to solve issues between married couple. Just find a way before one day both of you will have a big argument no doggy style and bend down select style can solve.

Bad girl

Jenigurl where u dey, I want to stoled ur heart o

jenigurl:
Oko mì I dey ...lol

So this is where you've hiding while I've bn searching for you everywhere.

I don catch u

jenigurl:
Well, ehm, I... Is she? .... Is that ? .....
Girl friend you say ? ....

Exactly, that's wat he just said. My wife how u dey?

Owh...see me as lonely as I am. I no get nairaland crush o! Wch babe go come to my rescue so I can start crushing on her

barackodam:
You are not a Messi fan, #fact!

Go read my posts before now #fact!

Neimar:
it is not a must for Messi to donate...nr be una money

No one is saying its a must. We are only looking for who's more qualified to be a better person in the league of footballers, and Ronaldo seems to be more qualified than messi.

For your information, am messi's fan, a die hard Barcelona fan. Lets encourage Messi also to be a better person

olusledge:
better person .... no be everything be noise ..so re u saying messi dosent make any donations? baba balotelli has one of the worst behaviour in the world ..and am sure he donates more than ronaldo

Life on the football pitch is most of the time completely different from life outside football pitch. The balotelli of a person could actually be a good person outside football pitch. If that is what it is, then I go with him. Tell me about messi's donations because I've not heard of any.

VampireeM:
Nothing justifies cheating.. if you tired of the relationship/marriage and want to have fun, you Quit!....

Understandable in the case of relationship but not for marriage. When a woman is divorced, life becomes harder for her including social pressures and alot of stigma. So its to the woman's advantage not to be divorced.

Twaci:
You let her know and together you two should decide if you can work it out or not. No need to involve a third party.

Forget long thing jor, women are completely illogical and irrational and its all women without an exception. so the issue of talking to her is a complete waste of time. Her brain wont process all the rational things u re trying to say. if you must talk, talk to her heart by ur actions. Then her emotions will process wat could be wrong.

obataokenwa:
Cristiano RONALDO !
=>He doesn’t drink alcohol because it reminds him of the disease that killed his father.
=>He hasn’t got any tattoo’s on his skin so he is able to donate blood twice every year.
=>Comes from a poor family and lost his dad when he was just 20 years old.
=>Made big donations for Palestinian schools and gave $3m for countries in horn of Africa suffering
=>He stepped forward to cover the cost of a nine-year-old boy’s cancer treatment.‎

despite the fact that am a messi fan, i absolutely acknowledge the fact that Ronaldo is better person. He has been a better person when it comes to humanitarian issue. Never evaded task, gives more on charity, a better leader as seen in Euro 2016 finals, morally upright compared to messi; tattoo and drinking.

Based on all this, am beginning to ditch messi to the background.

Guy, I see this as comedy relief. Really hilarious, anyway you better face your fear once and for all. Anyone going for HIV yes usually feel that way. A lab attendant once told me weneva he want to yes himself, he leaves the strip and runaway for hours b4 coming to check it. But you can Neva be so sure except with a test.