₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
1. Majority abuse cases go unreported and many, like this pastor here, believe it the man's place to abuse a woman, so.?

Kobojunkie:
2. Osinachi was the breadwinner in her home yet she was treated by her husband, and lived as if property. So?

Kobojunkie:
3. Not all women out there come with a billing list, so if a man chooses to go with a woman who does, one he would likely have to support, are you suggesting that may also mean he is in his right to see her as property? Marriage in and of itself is a business agreement no matter how you look it, so whether the couple live as equal partners or form a master-slave type union, marriage is business. However, does the arrangement agreed upon really allow, legally, the one to consider the other no better than property?

Kobojunkie:
4. Give a woman a little more rights in marriage? I don't follow at all. What has equal rights to do with bride price?

Kobojunkie:
Love is defined by the marriage agreement so why attempt to use bride pride, a cultural idea, to define the relationship in marriage?

Zonefree:
So, someone with 900K is poor

Expectations don high for this country

Kobojunkie:
In a country where women and children are pretty much considered property and a woman is meant to lose her identity the moment she is married or in a relationship— those of them who do not conform are shamed— do you think that number is too high?

That number is not just too high, it is unfounded.


On the issue of wives being considered as property, it is mostly women's fault.
If you and I are going into a business partnership and I solely fund and provide almost every other thing needed to get things up ad running then how exactly are we equal owners?

I recently read about a man who left the marriage venue and called of the marriage because he got tired of being unnecessarily billed by the girl's family.

A man asks for a woman's hand in marriage, he gets a billing list and the woman keeps quiet and allows him handle the bills.

When her family is satisfied, they hand her over to him and she changes her surname at the spot. change of ownership.
You can call this marriage because it is sweeter to hear but that is pure business arrangement.

What exactly is pride price? Why do we still pay it in this age and time?

We all know to give women a little more rights in their marriages but feminists and equal rights activists are not ready for the conversation because the whole setting benefits the woman's family.

One said that no amount of money paid is enough for what was used to train the girl and I asked, did the man's parents find him on the road already grown and employed?

Some argue that this shouldn't be an issue where there is love and i agree but people will always exploit situations.

Kilometres:
The consequences that has made Anambra as developed by Pandora Obi a Dubai and Abia New York?...yet it is the Lagos that Tinubu has tuirned to ghetto that the flat headed yiiibos run to every day in night buses and the ones living in lagos refused to go back to their over-developed eastern region

NB: loser not looser

Kilometres:
Funny enough yiibos say this every election year about Lagos yet they get disgraced at the polls

Richy4:
No be say I wan praise all womenOoo... Honestly some of them dey try...

Imagine returning from a function with the whole family like Church or any outing for that matter, Some of us usually get tired and exhausted...

But Na she go still enter kitchen go fix some thing wey the family go eat... No question asked about it... Where she got those little extra energy to go inside the kitchen and cook since we attended the same function , I can't tell... Some times we men takes some of those little things for granted...

Anyways, I will use this golden opportunity that festive period has offered to salute the women in the house who are doing all things possible to keep their homes... Well-done..

MissSlimbody:
I decided to fry my eggs with green pepper, and I love how it looks

Modified:
Nairaland dey reduce picture quality sha

Lolachef:
Nonsense man.

REALretep:
I like this font.
Thank you for bringing my attention to it