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The designer deserves serious flogging

I know Amaechi and Tonto Dike's Monikers.

Too bad

Buhari will end them in two months

alcatraz002:
God bless you my brother, the way the present generation of ladies behave makes me scared of that institution called Marriage. Are ladies only meant to enjoy money and not suffer? is it only guys that are meant to toil and toil till death? I am really sad and disappointed at the reasoning of our ladies nowadays.

Maybe men should just consider having babies because this kind of situation in s very sad to say the least.See women on this thread justifying the non sense the wife did.

Listen bro........

Things have changed.

Relationships, friendships and marriages no longer hinge on love, rather they hinge on convenience.

A little inconvenience and the lady will port.

iAmCharis:
Exactly. The worst part is the attitude she gives her husband + not picking his calls. Meehn I pity the man. Times like this, emotional support from a loved one can go a long way. Would you say the man wasn't patient enough if things fall back in place and he doesn't allow the woman in?

She will come online to post that she was with him when he had nothing but he abandoned her when money started coming.

Concerns them alone

To impress our daughters I guess

Ok

teddybear007:
In as much as I hate one sided story cos it paints d other as d villain but if I must say something, I wouldn't be so fast in judging ur wife cos u might actually be d cause of the problem.
women are d most rational being on earth, I want u to think bck if u ve ever wronged her while u had ur job. How were u treating her to made her harden her heart against u. Sometimes our partner's behaviour make or mar us either to be a good person or to be bad person. Gracias.

Ok, let's assume he was treating her badly when he had money and she stayed without complaining, but she disappeared once the money stopped coming.



What does that make her

midehi2:
no, naturally shes pretty

Make I use faith believe you

Weird

midehi2:
fine girl, no pimple

Tell her to wash off those fillers and makeup, then we'll know if she's fine or not.

Rubbish

edwife:
I am trying to understand what happening here....

It seems many are bent on blaming the man rather than addressing the real "problem".

He said he

Thanks.


I have seen some comments that I would quickly reply/question on a normal day but the case here is quiet different.

Some even made it sound like the guy is broke. He is not broke, a compensation was given to him, though not enough but it is manageable.

The only thing he asked his wife to do was to cut her spending so they don't go broke before he gets another job. Is that a bad thing?

I am glad you understood the situation here........

Thanks once again.

He should look for a woman that was born on October first then

Is she a priestess?

Looks like a marine spirit in a Nollywood movie.

Fulani herds men again

trendiitee:
hahahahaha. Wicked brother, the guy didn't mention lady z now. BTW happy new month and happy independence.

Lols....

Same to you dearie, wish you lots of good fortune.

Vikky014:
i bet u dnt know sme1 can cheat wtout having sex abiok lemme gist u small.. when i flirt wt sme1else by exchanging romantic txt msg am automatically cheating in my own dictionary bc it will reduce d attention i hv for my partner...i dnt need to exchange nudes or hv sex wt d so called spare tyre. i will jst b playing mind game wt my cheating spouse through that to keep him in check


i wunt leave a cheat. bt both of us will b going for hiv taste evry 3 mnths and b using protection. i can only leave if he is a wife beater. i had dt mentality of leaving a cheating spouse bfore bt to me it wunt solve d problem bc i might be sleeping around after dat

lols....


I get you now but it is still risky.


Here is what I mean.


I don't care about the motive of whoever is flirting with me(assuming I am the one she will flirt with) if she's giving me enough attention then I will definitely Bleep her, ie if I want to.

Flirting is all fun and game until someone takes it serious, shit happens y'know and (not bragging) if I (4 example) wants to nail a woman, married or single, all I need is her attention(no matter how small) and time. The scripture says we should rebuke the devil, but warns us to flee from all sexual immorality because we can't handle the temptation.

I don't care about how long your spoon is, eating with the devil is a dangerous game.

My point is, it is unwise to change and become who you are not because someone changed. If you can't cope and that person is not ready to quit then leave.

Flirting is cool but serious feeling will develop eventually

Thanks guys.

Initially I told him to concentrate on the job hunt and think less of what his FIL and wife are doing but he just can't. Like the thought is stuck somewhere in his memory so I suggested he take @least 2 elders from his own side to his FIL's house, hopefully they would be able to solve the problem but if the FIL still insists that his wife is going to back to him then he should just divorce her.


I didn't trust my own judgment there though and that's why I brought it here.

The link to the post is already with him so I am certain he will see your contributions.



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Meritbaba:
Excellent, Anyone who claimed he can't heard the president should have is brain checked or cleanse his heart of hatred, Better accept the fact he would be your president for the next four years to come.

I think they should just install Google translate apk in their head.

Allow him to try.

RIP if you do not believe in reincarnation, happy return if you do...........

#shocked

Cutehector:
Please ur inputs r needed.. Let's help a friend..

Thanks bro

Miami11:
Sorry you are facing tough times, remember no condition is permanent, God will see you through

As for your wife, she is probably as frustrated with the situation as you are, I bet it's not easy for her to depend on her parents too,

Just be patient and understanding with her too, you both need to sit down and communicate all this issues,

I tried telling him that but I couldn't prove it.

I mean, if she's frustrated as he is then why is she giving him attitudes? They are supposed to stand by each other in a time like this.

Why not call him once in a while to know how he's faring?

Why not stay with the man's family?

Vikky014:
Whatever.i wunt leave i will teach d so called cheat the real meaning of cheating. meanwhile emotional cheating is d best weapon. so if u like take vikky014 as a whor*e. dts ur cup of tea

I don't know you who are so I can't call you a who'e but your previous comment was whorish.

Listen, cheating just to "punish" a cheating partner is silly.

You're putting your health and life in line and if the yahoo boy leaks your pics online then nah serious OYO.

Why not leave?

His Story:



I lost my job (after putting in 7 years) about 11 months ago. The management decided to lay off some staff-with little compensation. Unfortunately, I was affected…the financial compensation is not much and one has been careful not to run out of cash before another job comes.

What is stressing me out is the attitude of my father in-law in all these. When things became challenging (economically) for us, my wife took our only baby (8 months old) to her parents’ house.

She’s been living there, the few times I made it clear that I want them back home with me, my father in-law said I should focus on finding my feet first and leave my wife and child where they are –for now.

I am very bitter about things right now. It’s not as if things are very bad for us, we still get by. Just that I made it clear to my woman that we have to cut down on all our expenses, so as to be able to manage the little money on me…as I intensify efforts to find my feet again.

My father in-law is making me run my home from his house. Right now, I really am considering going for another lady, so that he can marry his daughter. But I want to be advised first.

Imagine a wife that doesn’t call me on the phone and even when I call, she would refuse to pick the call.
When I go there to see my baby (a girl)…she gives me attitude.

It is even beyond her to ask how I am faring or even ask after my mother that has been battling ill health for months.

Should one’s partner not stand by him during trying times? I am not a lazy man and I have been making efforts to find my feet since I lost my job but I also deserve to find happiness in the woman I call my wife.

I am 36 years old, my wife (unemployed) is 28’’

Please what should I do?