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FamilyRe: Facebook And Apple To Freeze Eggs For Their Female Employees by Tallesty1(m): 3:48pm On Oct 15, 2014
This has nothing to do with recruiting. This is about not wanting to employ women with children or women who want to have children in their prime. These companies want employes to put the company first, and you can't do that with kids. I bet you they will keep track of the female employees who use the benefit and the ones who don't. The latter group won't last in the company long. Sad thing is, the joke is on the women who do take advantage of it. When they hit age 40+ and decide to have kids, Apple and Facebook, especially Facebook, will let them go for being too old, too rigid, too out dated, and too expensive. SO now they can have their babies, but won't have a job. And will have to raise a kid facing age discrimination for the next 18+ years.(lajollachemist comment on yahoo)
FamilyRe: What Would You Do If Your Father Slapped Your Wife? by Tallesty1(m): 3:21pm On Oct 15, 2014
moreeni:
Oro rirun. In which kind of cultured family does that play? Non!
None?






Nothing is impossible
RomanceRe: Light-skinned Vs Dark-skinned ladies. Which Do You Prefer? by Tallesty1(m): 3:18pm On Oct 15, 2014
Green ladies
RomanceRe: 10 Signs You’re Dating The Wrong Person by Tallesty1(m): 1:47pm On Oct 15, 2014
djeezy:
Nice thread. No 2 is so annoying.
Yea.
CultureRe: Tower Of Babel- Ubang, C'river Community Where Men, Women Speak Differently. by Tallesty1(m): 1:45pm On Oct 15, 2014
Strange............
EducationRe: The Use Of 'i Was Like Ok' By Nigerian Students by Tallesty1(m): 1:38pm On Oct 15, 2014
He said are "you there"?

I was like "yea, why are you asking"?

he was like, "can't I ask you questions again".

I was like "ok..., but I won't answer you again".

he was like "really? now leave my house".

i was like "Jesus, are you throwing me out of your house"?



Our generation's way of narrating a story
RomanceRe: What Do A Girl Mean By I Need Space by Tallesty1(m): 1:27pm On Oct 15, 2014
[quote
author=Richiy post=27162946]She probably has some issues she wanna
sort. What you need do is ask exactly what she means by needing space
and clear your doubts.[/quote]Counsellor
RomanceRe: 78 Pms From NAIRALAND Randy Boyz All In One Week by Tallesty1(m): 1:04pm On Oct 15, 2014
Seun:
How does she know that they are "randy boys" if she didn't reply those PMs?
Exactly cause she would need to approve their emails before they can state what they want.

Oga abeg remove this (1) from my username nah.
RomanceRe: 78 Pms From NAIRALAND Randy Boyz All In One Week by Tallesty1(m): 1:02pm On Oct 15, 2014
Superstar007:
It is only those you follow back that can send you pms.
I don't think so
RomanceRe: Guys Shouldn't We Protest This Old Law That [ NKECHI WEDS Seun] by Tallesty1(m): 10:38am On Oct 15, 2014
MizMyColi:
To who? undecided undecided undecided
MadCow
FamilyRe: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Tallesty1(m): 10:38am On Oct 15, 2014
prettiest1:
Love, care and trust. Understand our silent and Place nothing above us except God. Be there for us. Those are a few of what women want.
Owk...







What do women give?
Christianity EtcRe: Enter Here If You Think Putting On Jewelry Is A Sin by Tallesty1(m): 9:46am On Oct 15, 2014
3coins:
waiting for those misguided people
That condemns the wearing of ear rings and necklace.



But will gladly accept wedding ring.
RomanceRe: Would Yhu Date Dat Beautiful/ Handsome Friend Of Ur Gf/bf If U Had D Chance? by Tallesty1(m): 9:42am On Oct 15, 2014
NO
FamilyRe: Males Been Raped! by Tallesty1(m): 9:40am On Oct 15, 2014
That shows that the equal rights movement is fighting for the rights of women only.
RomanceRe: Advice Needed by Tallesty1(m): 9:20am On Oct 15, 2014
iceberylin:
Seriously u look like ur 31 undecided
No...


She looks 19.

Abi u don dey drink againgrin
RomanceRe: Guys Shouldn't We Protest This Old Law That [ NKECHI WEDS Seun] by Tallesty1(m): 9:18am On Oct 15, 2014
MizMyColi:

Bia, Tallesty Nwannem, if na joke, stop am o. embarassed





Wey Ceasar1 sef
I'mma open that preganncy thread tonight - in jokes section of course.

grin grin

wetin be ur own sef?

Relationship, you no want.

Marriage, u no gree?
RomanceRe: sorry changes by Tallesty1(m): 8:51am On Oct 15, 2014
It depends
RomanceRe: Why Do Girls Give Out Their Numbers Even When They Dont Want To Mingle by Tallesty1(m): 8:50am On Oct 15, 2014
Na 'im fit some guys sef.
RomanceRe: Guys Shouldn't We Protest This Old Law That [ NKECHI WEDS Seun] by Tallesty1(m): 8:46am On Oct 15, 2014
Congrats MizMyColi
Jokes EtcRe: 15 Painfully Awkward Moments That Make You Want To Crawl Into A Hole by Tallesty1(m): 9:01pm On Oct 14, 2014
Really awkward
Christianity EtcRe: He Is Praying 4 Dis Woman With His Hand In His Breast by Tallesty1(m): 8:58pm On Oct 14, 2014
Maybe her bosoms are possessed
FamilyRe: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Tallesty1(m): 7:40pm On Oct 14, 2014
Broke guys give alot of that
MarvellousGod:
We cherish attention and the op's guy seems not to be giving her that.....
and women don't like broke guys.
FamilyRe: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Tallesty1(m): 7:12pm On Oct 14, 2014
What do women want?
FamilyRe: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Tallesty1(m): 6:44pm On Oct 14, 2014
shindarayo:
bwaaaaaahahaha.so dis tin dey pain una like dis. so u mean to cheat on a woman is a small crime. Mschewww.sharp girl.carry on joor, but pls run for ur dear life when he cant tk no more. Somebody please shout hallelujah
Where did you get that??
RomanceRe: A Progressive Perspective On How To Deal With Heartbreak(s) by Tallesty1(m): 6:38pm On Oct 14, 2014
I'm here
EducationRe: Opinion:education(formal) Is Overhyped In Nigeria by Tallesty1(m): 6:36pm On Oct 14, 2014
MaleoPearls:
This na front page thing oooo.
Believe bro, you've just saved so many lives
CelebritiesRe: I Could Not Woo Women During My Undergraduate Years – Saka by Tallesty1(m): 3:36am On Oct 14, 2014
Jarchi:
Ur foolish can now,such is life
undecided
RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Tallesty1(m): 3:34am On Oct 14, 2014
People sef, why don't you attack your family and loved ones?

Abeg free the girl
EducationRe: 10 Interesting Facts About Introverts by Tallesty1(m): 3:13am On Oct 14, 2014
MizMyColi:
*hands him water melon and fanta cool* Nice combo ey? cool

Okay, on the matter:


We love Him because He first loved us.
So we obeying Him cause we love Him is a result of Him loving us.
Everything must be looked at through the cross at the end of the day.

What better quantifies unconditional love than someone who loved us while we were yet sinners.

Oh, maybe when we became born again, he withdrew some of it and had to make us earn it.

Well that's performance based and if people continue to tow that line, they may never fully realize or get the many wonderful abundance in all wise, that Abba has for them.

I think that God, from His end, only and always loves us unconditionally. The question though is that our measure of freedom can keep us from embracing and recieving the fulness of that love.

God has given us the freedom to temporarily reject and refuse His love. (Which means that in an age to come, all men, all souls will be reconciled to God. For EVERY Knee SHALL bow and confess that Jesus is Lord.)

So when Scripture seems to make God's line sound conditional, I think what is really going on is that the dynamic of our not experiencing or receiving that love is what is really being described.

It takes an empty hand to receive and experience God's love in its fulness. A closed hand, or one clenching on the other can keep the love circuit from being fully experienced. Anyway that's my take on it.

I feel sure of God's unconditional love more based on my personal interactions with it than with any particular Scripture passage. But I also think that IT's all throughout Scripture. It's just better caught than taught.

God is better Experienced!

Shalom Nwa'nnem
*sighs*

You have spoken well but I still have some *buts*

I think I need to keep calm for now......

Unconditional love cannot be based upon performance or it wouldn't be unconditional.

And that's what I see when I study the holy book.

Even when I judge from experience.

I see conditions here and there.

Even the story of the prodigal son teaches grace, forgiveness and mercy but not unconditional love because the young man suffered until he repented.

Owk... See what Christ said here.

"Woe to thee, Chorazin! woe unto thee, Bethsaida! for if the mighty works, which were done in you, had been done in Tyre and Sidon, they would have repented long ago in sackcloth and ashes. But I say unto you, It shall be more tolerable for Tyre and Sidon at the day of judgment, than for you. And thou, Capernaum, which art exalted unto heaven, shalt be brought down to hell ... it shall be more tolerable for the land of Sodom in the day of judgment, than for thee"

Why?

Because they didn't repent.

I know that God's love is vast, unfathomable, and unmerited but unconditional?

I can't say for now
FamilyRe: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by Tallesty1(m): 8:53pm On Oct 13, 2014
Good
RomanceRe: To The Ladies. "Can You Date A Guy Younger Than You?" by Tallesty1(m): 8:47pm On Oct 13, 2014
Djangocode:
Dang... Your age requirement is a bit off-the-shelf. How come someone 3 or 4yrs older is still a kid? I thought dating comes from Mind-Maturity n not Age wise...
she is right
EducationRe: The Melancholy Temperament by Tallesty1(m): 8:45pm On Oct 13, 2014
Rapzino:
you are right about that, i'm kinda lazy, lol. Do you get tongue-tied too?
Occasionally

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