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 Family › Re: Can You? by Tallesty1(m): 2:46pm On Sep 28, 2014 |
NO |
| Romance › Re: What Do Girls Gain From Pranking Their Guy With 'i'm Breaking Up With You' ?? by Tallesty1(m): 2:41pm On Sep 28, 2014*. Modified: 7:05pm On Sep 28, 2014 |
misshoree: is it possible to reap where u've not sown..she came up with such prank because u've been investing a lotta s##prm into herIt can't be a prank and still be real. If it is real then she should take over from there cause I have done my own. |
| Health › Re: Please Help! What Is The Best Remedy For My Nail-biting Habit by Tallesty1(m): 12:05pm On Sep 28, 2014 |
Apply liquid from bitterleaf |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Handsome Guys And Chicks On Nairaland by Tallesty1(m): 12:01pm On Sep 28, 2014 |
Which one among them is your main account  Talk True |
| Business › Re: Have You Noticed The N65 ATM Charges From Your Withrawals? by Tallesty1(m): 12:00pm On Sep 28, 2014 |
Same here |
| Family › Re: I Need Advice (help) by Tallesty1(m): 11:56am On Sep 28, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Cc: Tallesty1Thanks dear.... I know you would deliver. How are you doing today and happy Sunday. |
| Culture › Re: Why Is Criticism Easier Than Compliment? by Tallesty1(m): 8:17am On Sep 28, 2014 |
Criticism purifies person as fire purifies gold. If it is untrue, disregard it. If it is unfair, Keep from irritation. It if is ignorant, smile. If it is justified, learn from it. That is life! 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: The Wooing Challenge 2014 [Men's Edition]. The D-Day! (ENDED) by Tallesty1(m): 8:12am On Sep 28, 2014 |
[quote author=Neldrizzy][/quote]My Son  Network did not allow me to follow up your game yesterday but even though I was not online to watch it happen, I was sure you would win cause a Lion can not give birth to a goat. Ihe agwọ murụ ga etoriri ogologo. I know you would win and I was right cause I have seen how you laced your post with sugar and honey. Even a deeper-lifer would fall for you. TBh--most of the things you said there do not exist I fear for UNIBEN girls because the power in your tongue is amazing  It is not bad if you can sweet-tongue one to accept your old man. I think I can still perform Congratulations. It didn't easy according uncle P. But now that you have a woman of you own, I expect you to know that your dad ain't giving you a dime anymore cause you are now a man. So trouble me no more for school fees. Congratulations bro, you didn't fall my hand  1 Like 1 Share |
| Family › Re: I Need Advice (help) by Tallesty1(m): 1:10am On Sep 28, 2014*. Modified: 11:48am On Sep 28, 2014 |
boynoel: I am an easy going person on the outside who many feels have no worries but deep within me, I have issues that are eating deep into me but try to put up the happy appearance so that I don't bother people with my issues.Thing is, everyone on earth has a problem that is disturbing them. All of us, but allowing it to hurt you is another problem on its own. Well, one thing is clear already, You are an easy going person. boynoel: I am easy going but when pushed to the wall, I can be so aggressive..Every easy going person is aggressive when pushed roughly. They are humans. boynoel: I grow up feeling I was hated by my parents as anything I did wasn't really of good worth by their standards. They talked down on me on the slightest opportunity and this made me withdraw from everyone and learnt to bottle up my emotions. The worse was the fact that I get the blames for everyone's actions and often times wasn't given the opportunity to explain my side of the story. I learnt to mask my feelings and till date, when I get offended, I mask it and make excuses for why whoever hurts me is however, I begin to withdraw from such people and it makes me difficult to build good friendship with people. I am grown now and forgiven them, I talk to my mom quite frequently and my dad is late.I dunno why your parents hated you but another clear thing here is that this you!, this particular trait in you that you hate, this you that you wanna get rid off was created by you. Your being like this is not by chance. You are this way because you intended to be like that. You created it. If you created it then it means your powers are limitless. You can create the you that you wanna be. You can be free from the crushing and controlling feelings and never be bound by them again. Remember “A pattern shown is a pattern blown.”. You have realised that you hate the you that you created so it is time to create the one you want. Let's go down. boynoel: My major challenge is with my relationship. I met my girlfriend through a friend of mine and everything has been going well by my definition until she made a statement which I felt so offended by. I brought it to her attention and she has apologized however, I am having issues with letting go as each time I remember, I find it difficult to even communicate with her. She is trying to make up for her words but I just don't see this working out anymore and I can't seem to let go too as we have been together for over 3 years now. I have tried going for therapy however, I couldn't voice out my feelings to the counselor thus, making the therapy session a waste of resources and time.TBH. You feel bad because you have not forgiven her and your parents. I dunno what she said but I want you to do these: Remind yourself of how much forgiveness would mean to you if it was your turn for a mistake! Remind yourself that she is not separate from you; she only appear that way.Then you will realize you are one, and it is yourself you are forgiving. Do not keep thinking of the past or the bad thing that happened; when you let go of it, you get over the anger/bitterness that you feel and it clears the path of forgiveness! The best thing is time! Lewis Smedes wrote: “To forgive is to set the prisoner free…and to discover that the prisoner was you.”. How true. Stop judging her harshly. You see bro, I also have painful stories, people have treated me too bad but I didn't allow them to changed me rather I started what I call "Attack when attacked............Then forgive". When people mistreat me, I confront them immediately so that it will not get to me. And I forgive them whether they deserve it or not. Don’t let resentment imprison you for life, it will destroy you, your relationship and steal your happiness. I know you had a life altering experience in the past. You are not the same person you once were, and you cannot act the same way you once did because you are changed. But you see you have to drop the past and recreate another you. It will not be easy but it is not impossible. Start acting positively, the more you are active, the less time you will have to focus on negativity. You can find your way out of the tunnel if you just keep taking baby steps. And one day you may even find that not only have you found some peace, but you may have made a positive difference in the world. You have to face your life. Sit down and ask yourself “do I want things bitter or better?” If you want them better then let go of the things that make you bitter. Forgiveness has a huge impact on our own health and feelings. Forgiveness is not so much about the other person as it is about our own hearts. Forgiveness is for our benefit. Forgiveness is not when we say I have forgiven you but when we let go of the past. Finally, Remember that you have a God............ Pray! Goodluck. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Did I Make A Mistake By Forgiving Her ? by Tallesty1(m): 8:41pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
[quote author=]she is blaming alcohol..I believe u say what is on ur mind under the influence of alcohol.. but I think she has changed cos she even made her blood sister surprised by her action ms yesterday.. I think its the alcohol[/quote]It is the nature of human to blame. My ex blamed me for allowing her to fall in love with a another guy. Blame game is not new to me. But I'm not blaming you for forgiving her sha. Just telling you what I'd do if I were you. BTW get ready for another heartbreak when next she is drunk. |
| Romance › Re: Did I Make A Mistake By Forgiving Her ? by Tallesty1(m): 8:29pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
I can forgive her but dating her again is not possible even if her tears turn to blood. 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: She Said It Was Just A Test.. by Tallesty1(m): 8:17pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Nonsense............ Tell her to grow up. |
| Romance › Re: Girls/Ladies If This Guy Says U Should Date Him Will U Agree?(pictures) by Tallesty1(m): 8:15pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Pretenders everywhere. Even some married ones here would date him asaply. 15 Likes |
| Romance › Re: I Really Like This Yoruba Guy by Tallesty1(m): 8:13pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Subom1: My dear just some friendly advice. I know Nigerian men very well. They can pretend to be the best thing since slice bread. You need to be very careful, they can say anything and everything to get into your pants and once they do then you will be telling us stories that touch.  |
| Romance › Re: What Do Girls Gain From Pranking Their Guy With 'i'm Breaking Up With You' ?? by Tallesty1(m): 8:09pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Thats is not annoying as "I am pregnant" Prank 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Please Help An Inexperienced Guy by Tallesty1(m): 7:26pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Lmao............ 29 you said?? |
| Romance › Re: Please Advice Me.. My Dead Friend Betrayed Me. by Tallesty1(m): 6:14pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Just that? Date his sister. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Christians, I Have A Problem by Tallesty1(m): 5:35pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
FrancisTony: This is the worst contradiction of mankind.There is no contradiction here if you can put that big thing atop your shoulders to a good use. FrancisTony: Psalm14:1- The fool says in his heart, there's no God.Proverbs 9:10The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom. So whoever says there is no God does not fear God so therefore he/she lacks wisdom and he who lacks wisdom is what?? A fool. So this is not an insult or a slur; it is an accurate description of the state of his mind, since the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. FrancisTony: Matthew5:22 And I say unto you, whoever call his brother a fool is in danger of hell fire.The term brother in our own time is a "believer". Someone who Fears God. Who has the wisdom we are talking about. So calling him a fool out of anger is an insult to his person. Here Jesus is teaching on anger and control of the tongue, not barring the use of a particular word. Matt. 12:36 says "But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. Calling someone a fool out of anger is one of them. FrancisTony: Galatians3:1 Paul called galatians fool.O foolish Galatians, who hath bewitched you, that ye should not obey the truth, before whose eyes Jesus Christ hath been evidently set forth, crucified among you? Looking at the bible verse you will notice that the galatians were actually foolish. The gospel was preached, everything happened right in their presence but when the fake preachers came, they foolishly droped the true gospel and followed the fake one. Whoever choses lie over truth is foolish. FrancisTony: Matthew23:17 Jesus called Pharisees a fool.16 Woe unto you, ye blind guides, which say, Whosoever shall swear by the temple, it is nothing; but whosoever shall swear by the gold of the temple, he is a debtor! 17 Ye fools and blind: for whether is greater, the gold, or the temple that sanctifieth the gold? Lemme appeal to your conscience, read the whole chapter and tell me if the men weren't foolish. Examine the way they reasoned and tell me if there is wisdom in their reasoning. FrancisTony: They couldn't lead by example.It isn't wrong to state that an action was dumb, foolish or other terms to express the fact that someone acted without thinking. There is a difference between throwing around insults out of anger and accurately labeling bad behavior. There are no biblical contradictions. It just lacks penetration because you lack the two powers that can make you understand them; Conscience and Holy Spirit. 7 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Check Us Out And Comment by Tallesty1(m): 4:40pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
priscaoge: Two lovely Love Birds!!! @Op the next pics I wanna see is ur wedding pics,I mean una wedding picsIs is right to call them Angry Birds when they are fighting? |
| Fashion › Re: Help!!! Am Getting Bald by Tallesty1(m): 4:39pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Pictures
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| Romance › Re: Check Us Out And Comment by Tallesty1(m): 4:24pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
1 Like |
| Romance › Re: , by Tallesty1(m): 4:22pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
A toast for you |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Christians, I Have A Problem by Tallesty1(m): 4:05pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Hosea 6.2— “After two days he will revive us; on the third day he will raise us up, that we may live before him” 5 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Guys: Which Is 'sexier' Ladies With Deep Voices Or Those With Tiny Voices? by Tallesty1(m): 4:03pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Another one is showing off again 7 Likes |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Who Did Cain In The Bible Marry? by Tallesty1(m): 3:08pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
lomprico: Where did u read dat one?In the bible............ “And the days of Adam after he had fathered Seth were eight hundred years. And he fathered sons and daughters.”( Genesis 5:3) |
| Romance › Re: On Online Public Display Of Affection by Tallesty1(m): 3:01pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
I like this. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Who Did Cain In The Bible Marry? by Tallesty1(m): 2:55pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
zleemshaddy: I have always asked this question, whenever i read the bible <genesis> after cain killed abel 'n' GOD ALMIGHTY cursed him n sent him away, but later i heard of cain generation and by that time if am not mistaken Adam&Eve were the only humans then, so now who did cain marry?Adam had many sons and daughters so I think Cain married his sister. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: What Is The Most Difficult Thing To Find In Life? by Tallesty1(m): 12:10pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
onstelly: Am so serious oh anyway I don't expect you to believe meThank God you know that I won't believe |
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