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RomanceRe: How Do I Free Myself From A White Garment Girl by Tallesty1(m): 6:54pm On Jun 17, 2023
Write your will already
RomanceRe: If A Lady Does This To You, What Do You Think She Mean.. by Tallesty1(m): 6:51pm On Jun 17, 2023
Ebi2233:
I discover say she will not block me so i keep telling her every now and then say she should block me, for i had strongly believed she would never do it. She then said i always say this thing to her say she will try and do it since i have more important people and i do not value her so i keep telling her that..
She blocked me. I instantly called her phone number to go and release me back on WhatsApp and Facebook and she went and do it... What do you think about this kind of lady... How do you think she see me..
She is Ijaw like me.. I am from Bayelsa Ijaw, She is Rivers Ijaw. Kalabari. We have known each other for many years.
If two of unah nah still under 15 then it is okay but if unah don reach 18 then I swear two of unah need brain check because sense no dey for this post.
RomanceRe: Sleep with this pretty lady and risk sticking inside her for the next 3 day! by Tallesty1(m): 6:42pm On Jun 17, 2023
graceilina:
Try to be brief. So long a letter. I didn't read what u wrote. Na wa
The gist na about one woman called Gold wey dey suffer from depression. Her husband, Dave, don run comot leave am and their pikin for over 4 years. Dem do traditional ritual wey talk say any man wey gbensh Gold go dey stay put inside her hooha for 3 days until when her oga kpata kpata go come release dem. Gold don tire wella and wan kapu from the marriage go find another Bobo and remarry but the rite dey hold am back, say we die here so she carry story come online dey find who go knock head with am to advice am on how to handle the situation.
FashionRe: Pictures Of Lady Having Snake Tattoo On Her Chest by Tallesty1(m): 6:29pm On Jun 17, 2023
9jahotblog:
But if she see snake she go d shout like say no tomorrow. She’s been possessed by the serpentine’s spirit
She is pretending, they all do.
RomanceRe: Why Do Girls From Far North Always Get Married As Virgins by Tallesty1(m): 11:55am On Jun 17, 2023
complexstuffs:
This post is filled with LIES, bile, envy, and bitterness

Northern girls are mostly pure at the time they get married. Even their university graduates stil marry as virgins
I believe you. Every mother up north is still a virgin.
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Police To Regulate Prank Contents Soon, As It's Becoming Dangerous by Tallesty1(m): 8:55am On Jun 17, 2023
Generalmystic:
Personally I feel these pranks are becoming too dangerous
They are not even funny
CareerRe: Blind Mechanic Perfectly Repairing Cars In Abuja (Video) by Tallesty1(m): 8:01pm On Jun 16, 2023
TsbAfrica:
Amazing ... They should empower him to teach his methods to others ...
To other blind people?
PoliticsRe: Fg Students Loan Conditions And Requirements Na Wash, See Why? by Tallesty1(m): 7:51pm On Jun 16, 2023
SpatialKing:
You might not be able to leave Nigeria or japa if you are defaulting on the loan..
Lols
RomanceRe: If You Have Watched This Movie Then You Should Be Married By Now(pictures) by Tallesty1(m):
Kung Pow: Enter the fist.

Dude and that woman with unequal breasts fought with their tongues
EducationRe: The Negative Side Of The Student Loan Scheme You May Not Know...by greatiyk4u by Tallesty1(m): 4:39pm On Jun 16, 2023
OneCandleAway:
All those directors and lawyers will even charge to be your Guarantor if they agree in most cases.
There is a saying that banks won't give you a loan until you provide enough evidence that you don't need a loan. Students that will be able to get guarantors for the loans won't actually need the loan, and even if they do, they are disqualified. Those who really need it maybe not be able to get guarantors.

So Nigerians were receiving something for free, and then someone comes along and says it is no longer free; you will have to pay for it. However, I will offer you a loan so you can afford to pay for it and he is being celebrated.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Vs Tinubu: 16th June 2023 Live Court Updates by Tallesty1(m): 4:17pm On Jun 16, 2023
I am thinking it would be nice to introduce a feature where a user's first posts[not replies to other people's comments] and subsequent posts are displayed first before the comments. This will be highly useful in threads like this and tutorial theads as it would allow for a more cohesive and logical flow of conversations when a poster breaks his posts into multiple parts.

I had to get to the 9th page to see what would have been easily accessible in the first and second page.

It possible that you have considered it and may have reasons you didn't implement it. I am new in this and do not know how it works yet but the feature would be great if you can add it.


cc Seun
TravelRe: Port Harcourt To Abuja By Bus: I'm Lost! by Tallesty1(m): 8:19am On Jun 16, 2023
I actually came here with a search party
RomanceRe: Why Do Girls From Far North Always Get Married As Virgins by Tallesty1(m): 8:16am On Jun 16, 2023
talented321:
My manchi i will tell today, tomorrow and next year that muslims believe and respect their religion more than you christians.
Chief, I have been with these people long enough to know this. They don't respect their religion, they fear it.

Respect is earned, fear is forced on. Allow Allah to punish sinners/offenders and Muslims will become worse than Christians.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Is Just A Desperate Politician by Tallesty1(m): 8:07am On Jun 16, 2023
bagirajoseph:
Peter Obi should learn how to play politics without regional sentiment and emotion, before he can think of becoming a president.
Jagaban is the answer know that and have peace of mind.
How comes it then that you don't have peace of mind??
RomanceRe: Why Do Girls From Far North Always Get Married As Virgins by Tallesty1(m): 7:40am On Jun 16, 2023
talented321:
They believe and respect their religion more than us. (say u get?)
Nah person wey never go North unah fit lie give. They fear their religion not respect it.

The reason I said fear is that if you get their contacts and plan to meet them outside their area, the entire local government if possible, they go come once chanced and they will sleep with you.

Hausa girls are promiscuous as others. Their Aboki brothers bleep them like rabbits. Pass through school fields or lungus at night and you will see a lady wearing hijab and if you look closely enough, you will spot extra 2 legs.

They organize sex party anyhow, in fact they are not like others, they are worse
FamilyRe: Girl: I Won't Get Pregnant For My Husband Until He Earns Above 200K Monthly by Tallesty1(m): 7:25am On Jun 16, 2023
Ologundudu2020:
To be honest, anyone trying to father a child with a salary of less than 250k monthly should be ready to be running all his life. Don’t talk down any lady giving description to her life on this. The things is I can marry anyone who will think it’s only me the husband to fetch all the needs for a baby we had together. Hence there is a need for one to think. There is more to life than making babies
If the minimum of 250k is what is needed to run a family and the guy is earning 150k then he's done his part. The lady should earn the remaining 100k
PoliticsRe: President Tinubu Is Here To Finish You Off - Sowore Warns Nigerian Students by Tallesty1(m): 7:48pm On Jun 14, 2023
Zxcvbnmghtr:
grin
Sowore still would have been the first person to call Tinubu to book if Tinubu didn't fulfill his student loan promise he made in his manifesto.

Tinubu didn't mention student loan in his manifesto
EducationRe: Names Of Student Loan Defaulters Published By Gov't In The 70's by Tallesty1(m): 6:41pm On Jun 14, 2023
wisewordd:
The new set go reach 1000 pages grin
For one region abi the whole federation?
CelebritiesRe: “I Have Slept With Most Women Advising My Wife To Leave Me” ~ Singer Portable by Tallesty1(m): 6:14pm On Jun 14, 2023
Is this supposed to make her leave or stay>
CelebritiesRe: Excited Chef Frames Texts Of Order Davido Placed In Her Restaurant (Pix, Video) by Tallesty1(m): 4:13pm On Jun 14, 2023
VeryWickedMan:
His loss.
I like this
CareerRe: Why Youths Should Be Encouraged To Be More Involved In Entrepreneurship by Tallesty1(m): 4:09pm On Jun 14, 2023
Hoily:
The major factor in entrepreneurship is startup CAPITAL
LMAO.

Start-up capital is just one part of the problem; multiple taxation by the government is what hinders businesses. Entrepreneurs have to pay taxes to the Federal Government, State Government, Local Government, as well as deal with "unofficial but legal individuals" who demand taxes, such as touts. These taxes can be monthly, semi-annual, or annual. Sometimes, you end up paying the same tax to different entities in different ways.

For example, the Federal Government collects income tax, while the state government collects its own income tax.

You keep your shop and its surroundings clean, pay individuals to dispose the waste and still pay the government for sanitation. You also have to pay electricity bills to NEPA and spend a significant amount on fuel to run your power generators. These are just a few minor examples.

Taxation poses a bigger problem than start-up capital.

People that hawk pure water inside IBB market pay levy too.
FoodRe: Chef Dammy Has Completed Her 120-Hour Cook-A-Thon by Tallesty1(m): 12:49pm On Jun 14, 2023
post=123780795:
Breaking :

Chef Dammy just completed her 120 hour cook-ha-thon. Congratulations.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GfKK3omugu4
She will have to wait till next year before GWR will recognize her officially.
HealthRe: When Last Did You Check Your Blood Pressure? by Tallesty1(m): 5:17pm On Jun 13, 2023
Aforxzy:
Checked mine yesterday.

A friend went to the hospital for checkup and the doctor told him his BP is really on the high that he could suffer a stroke if its gets higher. He was admitted and on medications now.

We need to constantly check our BP. It saves life
BB and Sugar level,


How is your friend doing
HealthRe: When Last Did You Check Your Blood Pressure? by Tallesty1(m): 5:14pm On Jun 13, 2023
MrCGPA:
Yesterday. My BP was 128/70(Can't exactly remember the lower value but the upper was 128. I was told it's very Ok.
Mine is 113/70. Checked it about 10 days ago
FamilyRe: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Tallesty1(m): 1:59pm On Jun 13, 2023
LordIsaac:
I think it has to do with how you begin with a woman. Your authority as her head must never be in contention else, you are gone. The Biblical Sarah called her husband Lord...never marry a woman that does not see you as her Lord.
Lmao. Quoting bible to justify nonsense.
BusinessRe: STUDENT LOAN LAW: Not Yet Uhuru. What To Do Next? by Tallesty1(m): 10:52am On Jun 13, 2023
When you are already in 800k student loan gbese then a lecturer says "Check my record my friend, nobody get an A in my class"

FamilyRe: Why The Rate Of Divorce Is High & Why Families Break Up by Tallesty1(m): 10:37am On Jun 13, 2023
MrBrownJay1:
I beg to differ....
It is your fundamental human right chief grin grin grin
MrBrownJay1:
A person need to love themselves before they can fully embrace the ideology of "love thy family" and be a great mother/wife.
We already love ourselves enough, anybody telling you otherwise is not being honest. Except in a case of mental or psychological problems, humans have self love. It comes naturally. Any person that gives out all his property in act selflessness or starts treating himself poorly[as some depressed people do] needs help, but down here, you are either mad or you are okay. Nobody that is all round okay loves anybody more than himself, folks commit suicide because they love themselves.

"I am going through some shit and I don't deserve none of this. I love myself too much to watch me go through this. I have done my best and it ain't working so imma put an end to it one way or the other"

And they self terminate.

We genuinely love ourselves already bro.

If a person has esteem issues, let them work on it.

If a person doesn't know how to say stop or when to say no, let him work on his value system. You gats set boundaries, you gats reject something.

When you start prioritizing self love cum self care, you are simply rationalizing selfishness.
MrBrownJay1:
in the past many women gave up their identity/character to get married because they were force fed to believe since birth that finding a good man to marry was their "purpose in life",
Which identity fah? Professional Identity? What would they have been? hunter, wine tapper? wrestler? warrior?
Being the wife of one these men was a big enough identity back then.

When civilization got to them, women were not left behind. Women have always been will forever continue to be the breadwinner in many homes and you will not hear this outside. Don't say it is because they never had money, they have always been able to cater for themselves and their children.
MrBrownJay1:
but women of today (although they are still force fed since birth that finding a good man is their eldorado) have no problem walking away with their dignity rather than being stuck in a miserable marriage, were they are unhappy/abused/disrespected etc.
Who force fed them this sh1t?

You are making it seem like it is only women that experience this unhappiness, disrespect and abuse in marriage.

Unhappiness? Do you know that a woman making more money than her husband will make her unhappy? Should she divorce then? Well some do, don't make it seem like when successful women leave, it is because of the man. There is been a change in our value system, society has made it seem like more is better and contentment is a myth so some women go for more and more. A obese woman is likely to file for divorce after losing weight.

What women get after divorce in western world is enough reason to file for divorce.

Marriage back then was for a defined purpose, I provide for you and you raise my kids. That simple.

People marry for shitty reasons now. the sex too hot damn, let's get married.

People don't even vet their partners, s/he is nice to me, I wanna marry him/her. Forgetting that a person being nice to you doesn't maen the person is a nice. What feels good is always good.

Back then, men became men before marriage, now kids are marrying kids

You see people having a grand time online while their partner is going through some shit with nobody to talk to.

And while you are having one of those life sucks moment, you come online only to see your friend posting a short of him and his always selfie ready wife even though their lives suck more than yours.

Times have changed bro, divorce happen for a lot of reasons bro and while women having money and education is part of it, it is not a major reason because women are still being treated that way and they are still there and many women are making like unbearable for their husbands too.

MrBrownJay1:
women of today aint women of the past... back in the days they were in the shadows raising children and taking care of the home, nowadays they wanna do the same thing while being in the limelight, standing proudly next to hubby, wanting to make family decision too (aka want to be as equal as a man)... and you wonder why there are more divorces today?!
Like seriuosly?

How is a woman standing proudly beside her husband a problem? Not where I come from because over here we dey use our wives show off.

Wanting to make family decision is not the same as being equal to a man. People who think like that are sick. Women make family decisions all the time, only a sick man will see a problem there. Make I ask my wife not be folk tales.

A woman who submits to a sane husband makes most of the family decisions.
FamilyRe: Why The Rate Of Divorce Is High & Why Families Break Up by Tallesty1(m):
MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!

there are more divorces today simply because...
A) its easy to get divorced today, compared to back in the days. in the past most of these women were jobless and couldnt divorce their husbands, but today, most women are gainfully employed and can manage to be on their own.
B) people marry for the wrong reasons, thanks to African culture/society....aka marriage because of RELIGIOUS/SOCIAL/FAMILY/PEER PRESSURE!
C) because lots of people have NO CLUE how hard it is to stay happily married. marriage aint a game and sadly, many only figure that out when its too late
D) because people are lazy!!!! so many were pretending to be who they were not (before marriage), in order to catch the right partner....and now that they are married, they dont need to pretend any longer,thats when their partner will discover the real character of their spouse. and sometimes it aint that great
E) what do you expect when you have so many women out there that are so FAKE (fake hair, fake foundation, fake eyelashes, fake nails, fake push up bras, fake padded underwear, fake accent, fake education, fake background etc)? some men only discover the true face of their partner after marriage, and it aint that great
F) so many women enter marriage as slim sexy princesses, and within 2/3 years (or kids) they end up looking like a baby whale version of shrek, and you wonder why so many men aint repulse by their wives?!
G) many people today marry SOLELY for money, and when a man with MORE money comes along and/or their spouse loses their money, then the marriage will rightfully be over.
Some of your points are merely circulating ideas that sound right and are assumed to be true, but surprisingly, they are not.

Starting with point A, there has never been a time in the history of humanity where women in Nigeria, for instance, were jobless. Even when men were primarily engaged in farming, wine tapping, and similar activities, women were actively involved in farming and trading.

Your point B is even more ridiculous. It is highly unlikely to find African countries listed among the top 20 countries with the highest divorce rates. Marriages tend to endure in Africa due to cultural and religious influences. No white woman anywhere could endure the challenges that someone like Kabiru's mother faces. No white woman could remain married solely because of her faith, her pastor, her church or her tradition as Chioma's mother does, and so on.

There are several reasons for the high divorce rate today, and one of them is selfishness, which is now often referred to as self-love. People are primarily focused on what makes them feel right and what benefits them, without considering the needs of others. Ask a woman what a real man is and watch how the qualities of a real man that she will list will revolve around serving her needs.

Don't ask a man such questions please, his answer will knock you off completely.

Another reason is romantic love. This notion can be destructive. In the past, when marriages lasted longer, people viewed romantic love as a form of illness. That's one of the reasons why Romeo and Juliet was written. Shakespeare intended to warn people to stay away from it. Romeo and Juliet is not a romantic tale; it was written as a cautionary tale to steer clear of such love.

Ask 20 people to define love, and each of them will give you a unique definition. Ask the same people the same question ten years later, and you will see that their idea of what love is has changed. Therefore, marrying because you love someone without considering compatibility adaptability, shared values, and a strong foundation is akin to marrying an amoeba based on its current shape.

The shape will inevitably change, and you will be fvcked

Additionally, there are unhealthy relationships, poor values, irresponsible partners, weak men etc................

Foreign AffairsRe: Colombia Plane Crash: Mum Told Children To Leave Her And Get Help by Tallesty1(m): 3:44pm On Jun 12, 2023
One of those things you will never get out of your mind
RomanceRe: Woman Divorces The Eiffel Tower After Falling In Love With A Fence (Video) by Tallesty1(m): 11:29am On Jun 12, 2023
hahahahahahaha. These women that always blame men for everything are currently looking for ways to hold the builders of the bridge responsible
FoodRe: Chef Tope Maggie Set To Gun For Guinness World Record By Cooking For 140hours by Tallesty1(m): 3:38pm On Jun 11, 2023
Lawalemi:
Una dey kolo o. Hilda has opened the door for you copy cats
That is Nigerians for you. Do one thing and succeed, and everyone will rush in like a swarm of ants. There is this street here with no kiosk/provision store for years, then one woman opened one, and it became popular. The next thing we knew, there were more than 10 stores in that street alone. The POS business is another example. There is a POS for every family now.
RomanceRe: How Many Men Did She Hide. by Tallesty1(m): 5:49am On Jun 11, 2023
imagrg:
With a useless woman!
She is very useful to the men

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