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FamilyRe: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Tallesty1(m): 10:36pm On Sep 16, 2023
7arrows:
Feminist I laugh in German. If I was ur man I'll allow u surely handle certain bills but just to keep you spending ur funds on something instead of gold and cloths. The truth is that it's my pride to take care of my woman to the last cent unless I'm not financially capable or she doesn't value my sacrifice.
I am a man Uncle.
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Like To Sleep With Their House Helps? by Tallesty1(m): 10:47am On Sep 16, 2023
IconicR:
If you can do it as you boldly admit, then there's no need for contradicting yourself with the rest of your write-up

I salute you
You obviously didn't understand that part
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Like To Sleep With Their House Helps? by Tallesty1(m):
IconicR:
She'll sort herself out in that regards

A man has no justifiable reasons to sleep with a maid, it's low on all levels

It's an insult to his position as the head and protector of that family

Wait ooo can you sleep with a maid?
Of course I can.

Sleeping with a Maid doesn't require any extra or special skill.


But I won't.

I'm not advocating for those who engage in such behavior either. My focus is on understanding the reasons behind it rather than solely on its justification. Some things don't need to be justified before they happen.

For instance, think about leaving your phone outside or plugging it in an open place. No one has the right to touch it, but would you do it? I'm sure you wouldn't because it would be considered careless and irresponsible.

Instead of dwelling on whether it's right or wrong, my concern is more about how to prevent such situations within families. When someone places another person closer to their partner than themselves, they inadvertently create an enabling environment for issues to arise.

It's important to recognize that this doesn't only affect men; it can happen to women and even children. Some relationships naturally develop in a way that can lead to these situations. Women sleep with drivers, security men, gate keepers etc not because they are better than their husbands but because they more available.

Have you not seen children that love the maid more than their own mother?

Some things just happen naturally.
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Like To Sleep With Their House Helps? by Tallesty1(m): 9:33am On Sep 16, 2023
IconicR:
No she's not a lesser human being but like a family member to him

He should act as a protector and not see her as a prey for his sexual recklessness
Maids have needs too
CelebritiesRe: Naira Marley’s Statement On Mohbad’s Death: Four Talking Points by Tallesty1(m): 9:28am On Sep 16, 2023
The idiot said just yesterday that he needs to be appreciated for not being a serial killer.



Shame on him and every adult that identified with the Marlians
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Like To Sleep With Their House Helps? by Tallesty1(m): 9:25am On Sep 16, 2023
IconicR:
I no even believe say you fit dy this table na wa ooo

All of you are the same, just that some of you are good at protecting your image

Any man that can go as low as laying with his maid is a washout
Why? The maid is a lesser human being or what?
EventsRe: Cleric, Bride’s Father Disagree On Who Should Declare Marriage Has Taken Place by Tallesty1(m): 9:12am On Sep 16, 2023
Ishilove:
You don't even need to go to church for blessings. Anywhere the children of God are gathered, there the church is because the church is the body of Christ, not a building. The priest can still be present and bless the marriage right there on the day of the traditional marriage and it is binding in the spiritual realm.
No priest will bless my own. I don't need church wedding at all.
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Like To Sleep With Their House Helps? by Tallesty1(m): 9:12am On Sep 16, 2023
IconicR:
You can appreciate by increasing her salary and not carnally

Na WA oooooo
No be you go tell me how to run my family
FamilyRe: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Tallesty1(m): 9:09am On Sep 16, 2023
My marriage is 50- 50. We split everything down to light bill.

Even if thieves come to our house, two of us will go get the door because there is no head in the marriage. We equal like that.

I am a feminist.

Y'all should be
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Like To Sleep With Their House Helps? by Tallesty1(m): 8:58am On Sep 16, 2023
IconicR:
I won't ever agree to anything that justifies a man sleeping with his maid

Are maids not meant to help with house chores? Why will a husband begin to have dirty thoughts towards her just because she's doing her duties? I Dy bite ooo
Abegiiiiii
I see nothing dirty in his thoughts. Men generally love to appreciate hardworking people with a promotion.
SportsRe: Who Has Scored The Most Own Goals In Football History? The Top 10 Ranked by Tallesty1(m): 8:54am On Sep 16, 2023
jaeyking:
The name you are looking for is not there

Just move along

His Royal Highness Harry Maguire
This one pass Maguire

FamilyRe: Why Do Men Like To Sleep With Their House Helps? by Tallesty1(m): 8:45am On Sep 16, 2023
IconicR:
😂
Truth hurts I understand
Read my first comment if you are a lover of truth
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Like To Sleep With Their House Helps? by Tallesty1(m): 8:39am On Sep 16, 2023
IconicR:
It is lowlife men that do that rubbish

Somebody you should act as a father figure to na im the lowlife ones among Dem Dy show their unclothedness shior
E don dey reach when I go find you in this Abuja and draw your left ear.
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Like To Sleep With Their House Helps? by Tallesty1(m): 8:37am On Sep 16, 2023
saphiere:
Stories of men sleeping with their house helps and even impregnating them is not new to us.
Why do men indulge in such act?
If you must cheat as you men do saying it's men's nature to cheat. If you must cheat why should it be the househelp?

Nlfpmod please I need answers
It's not just men. When you delegate all your responsibilities within your family (with the exception of intimacy, of course) to someone else, that person essentially becomes your partner's partner.

Marriage goes much deeper than what many people think.

Remember the story of Joseph in Egypt when the king placed him in charge of his household?

That's right; the king's wife was so attracted to Joseph that she tried to rape him.

I'm not justifying their actions, but when a maid cooks, serves, cleans, and takes care of the man and the kids, etc., she ends up assuming more of a wife's role than that of a maid.

You're essentially delegating your position to her, and if she's good at it, she might as well do it wholeheartedly.

If I were a judge, I'd rule that the husband cheated on his maid with the wife, not the other way around, as she's fulfilling more of the traditional wife's duties for him than the actual wife.
PoliticsRe: Why You Shouldn't Eat Beans And Plantain by Tallesty1(m): 8:26am On Sep 16, 2023
lazkizz:
madam put 16 plantain inside my big bowl of hot beans I want to die today .


Rubbish na onyinbo cook and oats no be posion , continue suffering form your colonial masters.


let's not even talk of garri today. the European makes our diets looks like posion while glorifying their junks .


No wonder 84% of them are Obeyised.
The Japanese eat very little fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than the Americans.
The Mexicans eat a lot of fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than the Americans.
The Japanese drink very little red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than the Americans.
The French drink excessive amounts of red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than the Americans.
The Germans drink a lot of beer and eat lots of sausages and fats and suffer fewer heart attacks than the Americans.
CONCLUSION: Eat and drink what you like. Speaking English is what kills you.
EventsRe: Cleric, Bride’s Father Disagree On Who Should Declare Marriage Has Taken Place by Tallesty1(m): 12:58pm On Sep 15, 2023
superlanny:
This country and cruise sef, you agreed for your daughter to be wedded in a church and yet claim to be the one to declare them husband and wife.

Why he no carry them go shrine or better still proceed to confirm them in his living room, some people are just mentally unbalanced and that's not a suprise in this country.
Marriages are actually conducted in the living rooms; between the man's people and the woman's people. No pastor has any right to give out another man's daughter in marriage or even confirm them married. A man a woman must be married officially before going to church for blessings
RomanceRe: What Would You Do If You Got Home And Couldn't Find Your Dick Anymore by Tallesty1(m): 6:10am On Sep 15, 2023
Shey something dey there wey I go dey use piss? No problem
RomanceRe: In Ur Opinion What Happens After Death? by Tallesty1(m): 5:14am On Sep 15, 2023
woginid967:
They do. Stop being a simp.


If they dont. Then murderers are sent from the creator.

What is the content of your brain if you can spew such low intelligence stuff from your mouth.


If they don't die before their time....why are many fighting for their lives. It means there is no point .....i can see this your comment and decide to find you and end you, meaning your life is everybody's hands.


Such a tragic contemplation
You know that you can make all your points, engage in a constructive conversation with me, and even educate me without resorting to insults. You claim to be highly intelligent, yet you lack basic conversational etiquette.

When you assert that someone has passed away before their designated time, you presume to know when they should have died and the circumstances surrounding their passing. Let's use Mohbad as a case study. When should he have met his end if it wasn't his time? In what manner should he have met his demise?

In my personal belief, as adults, if we live our lives in alignment with God's plan for us, we are more likely to live longer and meet our end at the ordained time. Conversely, if we live recklessly, associating with bad company and meeting an untimely death, it could be argued that we have still met our predetermined time.

One's time can be appointed by God or determined by one's own choices.

So whichever way it comes, it is still your time.

If you take it personal and decides to harm me and succeeds, it is because it was destined to happen.

There are folks you will try to harm and fail, simply because it isn't their time.

People have been shot in the head and they lived.

People have inexplicably survived accidents that claimed many lives.

If it is not your time, then it cannot claim you
RomanceRe: In Ur Opinion What Happens After Death? by Tallesty1(m): 4:30am On Sep 15, 2023
woginid967:
Hacking and Loopholes

These things are simply loopholes in the spirit realm.

When a person dies before their time, it can happen.

Sometimes it is their second chance.

Other times it is spirits that use their form to roam on the earth and experience human vanities.

Being prayerful will protect us all from such
People don't die before their time
PoliticsRe: CSU Doubts Authenticity Of Tinubu’s Certificate- Leadership Newspapers by Tallesty1(m): 5:26pm On Sep 14, 2023
KingKO22:
Can a court in USA determine fate our president in Nigeria 🤣

IPOBidients no know anything 😂😀🤣
Atiku is now Obidient
PoliticsRe: Disturbing Images Of Abject Poverty by Tallesty1(m): 9:01pm On Sep 13, 2023
successmatters:
I was shocked to my bone marrows this afternoon, after I saw a trending video of a crowd of people openly stealing rice from a vehicle driving along a public road, in the full glare of everyone!

Mothers were stealing rice, with their children, fathers were openly stealing bags of rice, with their friends, people with religious attires even joined and were stealing rice without any fear?

Is this how bad this country has become?

One day people will be robbing people openly, whole communities could just turn to armed robbers, and people will be looking on and smiling?
They were not stealing rice sir; that is not stealing. They were simply teaching Igbos a lesson.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Ugly Truth About Life by Tallesty1(m): 6:52pm On Sep 10, 2023
Bonus: Gift is a form of power. Cunning people used it to bid time. They're coming to leverage that gift for a needed job. Make an exchange when necessary as it saves you from being a pawn on people's boards.
Every gift is a bribe. Even if that isn't the intention of the giver. I have always known this.
RomanceRe: Scammed by someone I trust so much! by Tallesty1(m): 5:01pm On Sep 10, 2023
It is normal. people you don't trust can't scam you
FoodRe: See Rice Dishes From Other Countries. (pictures) by Tallesty1(m): 5:00pm On Sep 10, 2023
mariahAngel:
Kenya's pilau

Main ingredients: rice, beef, variety of aromatic spice, etc.
I will pass
PoliticsRe: U.S. Court Fast-tracks Release Of Tinubu’s CSU Records To Atiku Before Deadline by Tallesty1(m): 4:56pm On Sep 10, 2023
aQUINandmore:
I feel like posting my nudes on nairaland so I can go viral.
Even if you post your nudes here for free, home training still won't let me view it.
FamilyRe: HER HUSBAND DROPS ONLY 3k EVERYDAY FOR SHE AND HER TWO KIDS. PLEASE ADVISE HER by Tallesty1(m): 4:54pm On Sep 10, 2023
N4.5k to N5K daily is enough for your family, your man already provides N3k so add the remaining N2k and stop disturbing us.
PoliticsRe: Top 5 Performing Governor's Within 100 Days by Tallesty1(m): 4:45pm On Sep 10, 2023
jumper524:
How about sanwooulu.
Dude is acting like there's a third tenure to contest for.
He should make top 3
Top 5 Performing Governor's Within 100 Days
RomanceRe: Pictures Of Me And My Boyfriend by Tallesty1(m): 3:54pm On Sep 09, 2023
His neck and my neck are siblings
EducationRe: Female Students & Their Battle With Randy Lecturers In Nigerian Universities by Tallesty1(m): 2:47pm On Sep 09, 2023
Caaz:
Simply put....women are the downfall of men.
These men are responsible for their own downfall.
Foreign AffairsRe: Morocco: Massive Earthquake Damages Historical Buildings. 296 Dead, 153 Injured by Tallesty1(m): 10:29am On Sep 09, 2023
remoc29:
Oh boy that's large, our own problem na leaders n not natural disasters
They are worse than some natural disasters.

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