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Abduletudaye:
Marketing...

No wonder!

Solution: stop thinking too much and go to bed early

joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.

Pls follow ur instincts and if they are positive go ahead. I once had an experience like that and the lady just helped me out and up till now I still savour d memory

The two of them are tortoise's cousin. One mistakenly run to NL to lay complaint.

Oliviaarims:
This notion seems to be trending these days. But pls, before anyone goes about saying it's okay for a woman to make the first move, then perhaps they should also elaborate on what circumstances and the manner in which it should be done. So many girls are being misled already.. And making complete fools of themselves. I witnessed one such event yesterday and I just couldn't help laughing. This girl must have been feeling like a real 21st century chic when she even contemplated making the move. But with the way things turned out, I can bet on my two Di'ja-like-boobs that she's so never going to try that again. Heck, that dude was mean!


Back to my topic. I really don't get why a girl should be encouraged to make the first move. Look at it this way. Wooing a woman is sth that comes very natural to men. It's what they do. It's what they've always done right from time, what reason then has a guy not to make a move on the girl he likes? So this boy and girl know themselves, perhaps not as friends or anything serious, but each knows about the existence of the other. They are perhaps in the same location.. Work in the same place, live in the same neighborhood, attend the same Uni;So, surely they get to see each other from time to time. Why then should it be the girl making a move since she's interested in him? Hasn't he seen her before? If actually he had any interest whatsoever, he'd make the first move. It shouldn't be an issue at all. Girls are used to being wooed.

But he doesn't and some girl would think it's okay for her to make the first move. Trust me, chances are high that he won't take u seriously if ever u should go into a relationship. He'd simply see the whole thing as him doing u a favour by dating u and perhaps getting an advantage for himself if he succeeds in sleeping with you . I can't even imagine how u'd feel comfortable being in that relationship. He's most likely always going to be eager to show u the door, because after all, u made the first move on him, when he was just on his own doing his thing. It's just like reversing roles entirely. And IMO, it shows desperation.

And I also thought guys used to enjoy the chase. They want girls to be the ones chasing them now? Lol.

Pls, giving the green light and not playing too hard to get is enough. A man's supposed to know what to do when he sees the green light. If he doesn't, well, that's sad. It simply implies that there are so many things about women he isn't sensitive to.

Call me old-fashioned. I like being old-fashioned if this is what being old fashioned is all about.

The last two paragraphs make a whole lot of sense to me. I concur!

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I like ur use of sacarsm and euphemism! So apt

The wise ones in the industry unlike some who destroys their youthful age in d name of catching fun. Some realized this at 40+. May God open their eyes this 2016. Cute family

omenka:
Don't these prophets ever see visions of good things to come?? Shooo!!

I tire too oo

CharlyNick:
Which kind question be this na?
Apply Wisdom please.

Nor mind am. Very silly and I think he lacks communication skills too.

I hail thee PMB.

Politics. We have cooked brains here on NL. I love u guys all. Happy new year

Thank God... get well soon bro

Very pathetic story but the key to success is still in your hand. But ur story at some point really disgust me. A Christian as u claimed to be; u were bribing lecturers and at the same time sowing seed, praying fervently for God to help u. Lying to ur father etc and still expecting miracles without even registering some of ur courses and relying on ur dubious lecturers. I don't really pity u but I learnt a lesson from your story that; short cut to achievement is full of pain and regret.And again, it is ur type of Christians that floods churches nowadays. My advice: don't cut corners read ur books u will surely pass OK.

CircleOfWilis:
Bro u refused to register and face the course squarely, u trusted in ur dubious self/lecturer and prayer. I can only advice u to kill ursef because u are not serious about ur future...

#register the course , attend the lectures, sit down and read for the tests and exam, u will pass..stop wasting ur money, and also stop disturbing God with ur dirty tongue full of lies

I liked d last part of ur sentence' dirty tongue full of lies'

Interesting. Will surely come back for it later but now off to church. Tnx praxs

Yes but only the low self-esteem guys

Everything for them are to show off. If u quietly bought her that car and if this happens nobody will talk. They are also unnecessarily attracting these fine boys within to visit. Very unwise!

I'm not tru with the story yet because of my ba3 but I've gone far.I have to praise u for being a true man. I feel like crying at that point when u were going thru her phone, when she tore all ur clothes and d sack letter. So pathetic. I will still comment when I charge my ba3 and finish d story.

Don't u sense it that they work in the same place? I guess u might wanna ask me what type of work shabi? Tell us where u meet this girl then I will tell u where they work. My advice: be more careful

pretydiva:
See how she b like better person without d nose ring..baba God create u as human, u wan cm tell am say u prefer 2 b a cow

Tnx 2 her fans 4 blasting her alot..,guess she yielded 2 their advice

Abi ! Really looking OK here

I thought u just wanna ask the question so we can debate it on the NL floor but u went ahead to show how perverse, kinky and corrupt ur heart is. Too bad!
The fact that u can't keep such relationship doesn't mean others can't OK. You sound so eloquent in ur speech tho but the ideas are absurd.

One bae trash is another's treasure. Wise babe go ahead provided u are telling us the truth. I mean if u are not d reason for their break up. And after d marriage, cut ur friendship with ur girl friend to avoid poisoning.

CaroLyner:
you will grow beards before they do this in nigerian churches.

Op is just a liar. The original source of d pix title is "this is what Churches suppose to do for its members during d Xmas".

HBD Agbani. I like them skinny because they hardly turns obese

I think u got urself into this because of ur situation then not really because of love. I will advice show more love to him and present ur case. From what u said, he did a lot for u so u too should show appreciation by sacrificing. Handle the situation with a lioness heart u will smile at last.

Look too old for Starboy

Pls take her as ur younger sister and leave the girl alone. You are even too irresponsible to sleep with her considering where ur joystick has gone to.....brothel!

Be like say u short well well. U know say girls nor dey like short guys these days.

Jolllyjoy:
My favourite actor.


This guy is maaaaaaaaauh

U like better thing

naughtynaughty:
I mean you meet a guy newly, maybe exchange numbers because you think he is smart, he calls and the next thing is 'can you come to my house'?? Like seriously? Honestly its becoming so boring and annoying nowadays.

What's it with guys nah? Cant you guys patiently woo a lady without adding the 'come to my house' talk? Its a big turn off for me, whats there to be done in your house that we cant do elsewhere?

Is there some solution to global hunger in your house? Orishirishi. It's so common nawadays that you wonder if guys have lost their minds on dating etiquettes. My new friend has turned this come to my house talk into a daily anthem ooo..no be small thing.

The thing is..80prcnt of the men who invite ladies to come to their house at first meeting have no good intentions at heart..and y'all need a slap to reset your brain on how to properly woo a lady. Lord save guys of dis generation

Am I d only one in dis?

If not for the fact that the world is full of evil, I would've said it is a sign of a responsible guy.

Go and bury ur face in shame. Was the money meant for u people to share like that?

Lol

Oh u just graduate abi...u nor hear say work nor dey d country. Dey there dey ask silly question maybe they just deport u from Cotonou