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Her action was quite disrespectful, unacceptable and (like your username) untenable ; to cap it all, she was indirectly even asking for your blessing - mehn, how naive can you be

Know she's not trustworthy should you decide to continue 

I choose to be happily single

Good Sex + Love + money = Happy Contented Woman
My guess is she probably wasn't getting enough good dicking - why else would she turn her back on such easy money

^^^^Kai, I concur, no doubt he was talking about Mrs Chima

Kpele, seems like guy no:3 is also cheating. Remote chance, though that he was quite busy doing something and that "i dey on top of my woman" was the only excuse he could come up with, without sounding unreasonable or insensitive to his friend.

Kai, the probability of someone in such act making such statement in reality makes me wonder; but nowadays anything is possible

BTW, have you confronted him with your evidence, and what did he have to say? - if you haven't, then do so, just to be sure.

Goodluck.

Not wearing your ring said it all, most girls in her position would be only too proud and happy to be showing off their ring to friends and co; but not your babe, haba - lest there's something you are not telling us - otherwise, what's her excuse for not wearing your ring?

Guy, much as you may love her so much, its obvious this babe isn't into you and the sooner you realize this the better - or else be ready for the inevitable (disappointment) its already on its way.

Sorry, bro

Simple, let your ex know about the asian girl ( she's already an ex, so no harm done), tell her you are ready to take her back conditionally as 2nd gf (as in cutting show) cos you've already moved on; if she accepts then by all means go ahead and be chopping the two of them - without hassle from your ex,cos she knows

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=634018.msg8020073#msg8020073 date=1301514553]Aww.  Bitter and hurting I see.  Well next time pick a non cheating woman if you can.  It is not the end of the world.  Chin up and wipe your nose you are bleeding.   [/quote]Bla bla bla,

You mean pick someone like you, that rolls with ex boyfriends - apparently with hubby's blessing (dat one we know na lie) - no thanks.

Truth is, an ex already knows your password - in your case, the question is how many of them rollers have been logging in?

So shocking, at this day and age, educated people still believing in juju by remote control

Bro, if you really love this girl, go ahead full speed. Abeg, nothing do you!!

mimima:
once there is trust,i think the man needs not to worry

No how such behavior would sustain, encourage or re - enforce trust; but quite the opposite, don't you think?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=634018.msg8018343#msg8018343 date=1301502182]I do not need to report back for you are not paying any of my bills.  My husband knows I have male friends and is not PARANOID because he knows how I roll. I already said this on this thread try reading posts before commenting so you can be caught up on what has been said.  

Try not to be paranoid in your relationship maybe you will keep a woman if you do have one.[/quote]Good for you, so your husband actually knows how you roll with your ex boyfriends, abi? Well, I am sure even you would accept that it is not normal or expected behavior for a married woman.
Anyway, to each his own.

@ Mrs Chima, pls why not try that stunt and make sure your husband knows about it, then you can come back to tell us about his reaction - and pls report back honestly

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=634018.msg8018044#msg8018044 date=1301500230]You can't prove psychological nor emotional cheating but you can prove physical cheating.  

There is NO LAW that a woman can't converse with her exes regardless if she is married or not.

Some of you guys been hurt in the past as I can see.[/quote]There is no law prohibiting adultery in marriage, as long as they are consenting adults, but we all know that it is certainly not right and not expected behavior between married couples.

And the issue at hand is not proof of cheating but giving cause for concern/suspicion

A dedicated wife has no business contacting and exchanging nos with her ex's period, and anybody who disagrees let them imagine their spouses rekindling similar contacts with their past.

In law, there is such thing as having the motive and opportunity (to commit a crime) - in this case, potential cheating by a wife.

Though she has not actually cheated (yet), however, by contacting her old flames in such manner, she had clearly demonstrated a capacity for such motive and in a way had already started the process; the only thing lacking is the opportunity itself - which can materialize anytime down the line - afterall,  who hasn't heard of Okafo's law?

Bottom line, any wife or gf of mine behaving like that would automatically give me cause for suspicion, and where there is suspicion there is no trust - and where there is no trust, we all know the relationship is doomed.

IMO, the lady is asking for trouble.

And by the way, there is such thing as emotional/psychological cheating - as in phone/cyber sex.

[quote author=Phate07 link=topic=632268.msg8013066#msg8013066 date=1301432537][color=#cc6633]
^^ Dont crash Nl servers o.
[/color][/quote]Crash NL servers only or nearly crack my screen
Kai, kai, profile ko horrible! SMH

^^^^ correct guy

Why would I want to miss out on a once in a life time opportunity to kane a punny I've always longed for - and forever be wondering how it would have been like.
Sure I'd go back!

Never know what you've got till its gone.
Na jealousy dey chuck am now that you've move.
Without the second girl she probably wouldn't be giving you the green light.

You have 3 options:
1) Use the situation to your advantage and have both of them, on condition she would agree to play 2nd gf - which she'll likely accept, for obvious reasons.
2) Go back to her and eventually risk losing her anyway after she becomes comfortable and no longer has the challenge of competition.
3) Retain your present girl and lose out on a prefered potential relationship.

The choice is yours bro

Kai, this man get guts, imagine not satisfied with sampling the babe he even wants her to arrange her cousin for him.

@Poster, I'll call him man of all seasons cousins

From a man's perspective (anyway, this guy) its women: you need the money to chase them, and when you catch them to find love, as for the beer - well its to enjoy them

190:
Fail

Explain please

At present, the contest is unfair to some of the contestants because there is an unleveled playing field among them, as majority of the pictures do not show all of them in full view so that voters may choose with objectivity, and thereby enable a true winner emerge.

I therefore suggest that the organizers should request for these ppl to upload fresh pictures of themselves with them in full view; and also if possible, for the list to be expanded to include some of the most recent active posters (some of whom we've never really seen ) e.g. Inked_Nerd, Pweety4me,The Amaka, googles, MzDarkskin, Missy B, Odunnu, etc - whose prolific contributions (even if at times controversial ) has been helping to keep us well informed and entertained.

I've said before and I'll say it again, there is too much resemblance between the poster and Rokiatu. If the two are not the same then they must be related (at least sisters, cousins or something).

Kai, dis guy sef, thought he was starting a thread about one of my favorite pastimes, BJ