₦airaland Forum

The Lebanese community in Nigeria consists of both Christians and Muslims, like in Lebanon.

I have a few friends amongst them and know them quite well(many of them born here).

Unfortunately, its true, they are racists and in general reserve our women just fun, with a few exception who actually end up marrying them.

Even more rare is a Nigerian male having any kind of romanantic relationship/marriage with their daughters, it just never happens - though I know at least two exceptions where money seem to be factor.

Often when they choose to marry, they choose from within their local community here in Nigeria or go to Lebanon to look one, sometimes they even enter arranged marriage - usually, a nice village girl who they can easily mold to their taste is shipped over.

@ Poster
It may be possble you are one of the few exceptions; whatever, just be very cautious.
As somebody, already mentioned; a good sign is whether he is willing to introduce you to his family and if they'll accept you. Goodluck

[/quote][quote author=Odunnu link=topic=630785.msg8082720#msg8082720 date=1302286896]Lol. I actually thought you were female tashanja. [b]You speak awusa?[/b]me, i'm aboki to the core. We are good mahn.

Taking a crash course in the lingo, have my eyes on this fine hajiya who just moved to my area, thought it might impress her.

So how come an Enugu girl (presumably Ibo) sabi Aboki? The Hausas not bad people when you get to know and understand them, I live in the north and have many of them as friends.

Poster = unecessary forming = man shortage

^^^^ correct, you never fail to post intelligently and impassionately, pls keep it up

@ Poster,
I concur, also don't see whats all the fuss about big booty; just junk in the trunk IMO - what happened to things in moderation.

@Darskin & Jackie, well if thats OK, then please suggest how a man should also take his revenge if also similarly dumped

Nope, not until you put a damn ring on her finger, otherwise please dont mind these girls following men with their little shovels - digging for gold

Emotional and verbal abuse, an increasing trend also with NL chicks , abeg, dump her - there are many reasonable girls out there

No biggie, happened to me quite a few times, twice ending serious relationship, last one almost married her but didn't work out ( too much drama, temper, stubborn - something associated with Kogi girls); unfortunately, she's now deceased - bless her soul.

But the most astonishing, shocking and explosive, happened many years earlier, in my student days in London (Queensway, Bayswater, by Underwoods - a drugs store, possibly no longer in exixtance - for those familiar with that terrain).

The area was mainly frequented by tourists, so I wasn't surprised when this lady tapped me on the shoulder, as I turned around to face her anticipating she was lost and about to ask for direction - then the bombshell , her words,
"Sorry, I am not usually like this; but would you like to come back to my place and screw me?"
Boy, those words have never stopped ringing in my brain till date. Kai, it was so shocking and sensational even for oyinboland white chick, abeg

Odunnu:
Your ish is that I called him my boyfriend abi? You failed to notice the inverted comma on the word. I didnt input it now and in English grammar, it has a use

Noted, no harm meant.
Kin san ban iya grammer ba, yarinya mai kyau
Abi, I never try?

Odunnu:
ordinarily, i'd just let it go but I dont understand the part about 'inconsistencies'. Are you suggesting i'm cheating or cheated on my man? #Idontgerrit

Well, referring to my 1st post, you would note I clearly had my doubts concerning your initial story and gave my reasons; again in my immediate last post: to my shock by the sudden transition from the man whom all along you'd been claiming as a friend (at best an acquaintance) to suddenly a boyfriend - hence, the inconsistencies.

As for cheating, well, if you are having or had anything other than a platonic relationship with this man that you are now refering to as your boyfriend, while maintaining the alleged other serious relationship then thats cheating - what else can it be?

Please, I wasn't implying anything other than the obvious and truly meant no harm, nor do I now wish to drag this matter any further than necessary.

Hope no hard feelings

@ poster,
Its not wrong to ask but also neither should she be upset if he refuses

Its too late, 4giv hm, he's now family.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=639672.msg8059345#msg8059345 date=1302032391]Nairaland females are worse actualy. They cuss u out everyday [/quote]Yes, for once I agree with you, its like a recent craze among them; even some of the good ones seem to be turning bad - so disappointingly unladylike

^^^^ Yeah, she's good just like her figure (check d profile)

Speaking from experience: I've had my share of Nigerian girls including those from Edo; and yes, they never failed to disappoint - no more than their sisters from the rest of the country - women are generally Jezebels, with a few exceptions (fortunately, I've found one).

@ poster
Dump her and don't look back, you are def. not compatible

Glad you dumped her sorry arse, she obviously doesn't deserve you, hope you choose better next time

Odunnu:
You like amebo too much.
There's no former or latter boyfriend.
'I'm in a steady r'shp. . .' thats what I told him. an in-house joke abi? Fimile jor. There's no former boyfriend.

Amebo!
Haba, how is that possible considering that the information was freely volunteered (and in this case, directly from the horses mouth )

Sorry, if I always seem to be bringing out the inconsistencies in your story, can't help it when the excuses don't appear to add up.

Might be better to come clean or volunteer no further information - don't you think?

Anyway, its all good and no harm intended, enjoy

Odunnu:
Lol.
Well well well. My 'boyfriend' and I have finally resolved the issue. I paid back the full amount (even though he askd me to keep a sum) about an hour ago.
Thank you all.
THREAD LOCKED

Holy mackerel, so now he is your boyfriend, abi no be toaster before?
What of the other guy you were supposed to be steady and serious about?
Is he being retired or downgraded to plan B?

Hope, its not the dangled 50k carrot that has helped swayed your attention to this new guy, not judging, just surprised thats all

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=637471.msg8047138#msg8047138 date=1301900595]Was you an actor in the Egg (Brain) on Drug commercial? I knew you sounded familiar.

You know I used to looked up to you when I was a kid. You had that toupee that never stay on the center of your head. It was like you had a fan blowing under the toupee.

It is okay even celebrities have issues. I understand.[/quote]Holy macaroni! see the height of illogicality, still rattling around like a headless chicken.
Why can't you damn well re- read your posts (to see if they making any sense) before uploading?- truly, your madness is really setting in - good grief

Whenever you have monopoly, its the consumer that suffers.
Unfortunately, DSTV has now wiped out all the competition and is now in a commanding position to dictate and do as it pleases - we its customers are truly now at its mercy - so help us God

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=637471.msg8046064#msg8046064 date=1301881480]Oh you scamming too huh?  Was you the nigga that sent me an email the other day talking about his daddy got Ebola and he need a manliness transplant?  I emailed him back asking him if he has Ebola what would a manliness transplant going to do?[/quote]So, since it wasn't a blackbery thread then; now it has to be e-mail scam, abi?
Yeah, hallucination is definitely one of the symptoms of MAD COW DISEASE - go for treatment before its too late, booking for you a special ward at Yaba Psychiatric Hospital, don't worry about the bill, its all on me