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true talk, its the nature of their work and of course, jagajaga settings of Nigeria that makes them look rugged.. they are human like us and they are proud of their job...

chiommy123:
I think you still love her. why not give her another chance but be more careful this time and believe me she will love you more this time

Firstly, thanks for your contribution. But i dont believe in this your statement, she only want to come back because the other side is not good as she expected. If she finally see a man of her dream and fantasy, she will not think it twice before dumping my ass...it will be another episode of sorrow for me...

MJBOLT:

if you eventually f*ck her,pls use co*dom because if you give am belle na double wahala be that o

gbam

MJBOLT:

avoid the b*tch like a leper,let her know that you have moved on.

DO NOT DATE HER AGAIN.
If the opportunity to f*ck her presents itself,f*ck her and attach nothing to it

lol... bad guy... this is exactly what some of my friends are suggesting

TonyeBarcanista:
She is coming back to you (option B) after the guy she had hoped on (Option A) used and dumped her. Her coming back is not because she values you, but it's to have a backup plan.

Advice: Under No Circumstances should you agree or even think of re-dating her.

BTW: You mean you humiliated your mother by telling her to beg a girl that dumped you on your behalf? Jesus! Do you have self respect at all? Do you respect your parents at all?

thanks, i got your point

austyn0:
No be small play penalty go throwing direction


That's the thing with ladies. You love them two much, you get taken for granted four much.

Don't give her what she is requesting for, make her regret losing you, you can't eat your cake and have it in life. When next she gets the opportunity to love a real man, she won't mess up.

thanks bro

This is a girl that once broke my heart bitterly. I fell sick. It was terrible and the pain almost unbearable. My mother begged her of my behalf but to no avail. Some of my friends also came into the matter but all was in vein. I felt that was the end of life. She was my first serious relationship and i loved her dearly. However, with time, the feelings i got for her eroded and after months over months, my mind became free. I have forgotten everything about her except once in a while at my lonely time. Since last week, she has been calling me serially and i never returned her call. I was never harsh on her on phone, we exchanged pleasantries as if nothing ever happened. Perhaps, this is the reason why she never got tired of calling. Just yesterday, surprisingly, my mother informed me that she branched her shop to say hi. Is she showing green light of coming back ? Cos i dont want to jump into conclusion. If she is thinking of coming back, then i can boldly say she has played penalty towards the throwing direction... Though, for now, i got no serious relationship that may likely lead to marriage, but her space in my heart is seriously damaged. That time, she insulted her way out of the relationship and almost crossed line with everyone identifiable with me and that tried to pacify the relationship. But now, she is seriously calling and ask about my well-being... Guys, what do you think?

Greatzeus:
So if she was Adenuga's daughter now,your mum will say no
I'm sure your mum is not educated,if she had gone to school and came across students from different tribes or even race,she would have known generalizing about a particular tribe, religion or nation is myopic
Free the girl now,let her know you are no more interested, even though I'm sure you have Nack her tire,but know karma is real. Go and marry and let's see the thing you will eventually marry that will be better than the one you are dropping,not because she is rude or a cheat or can't cook or ugly or dirty or one bad thing but because your mother said.

you yourself check out our conversations and tell me a man that will wave aside such calamity ahead...

Gluckudom1:
Ijebu people never clear you... e get one man for my area (Akwa Ibom) were enter police dem leta transfer am go Lagos na him, him go marry Ijebu woman Omo na de de man dey ooo if you want talk to am na war... de wife twist en head like say tomorrow no de, baba change all all him con get six children.This man come house Dec period na,no na de wife side him de buy things go.e forget him mama all all even when de mama die e no come and na him be first born,him con come when dem bury de mama with the wife alone and not the kids as at this time him don de lag for good six years... so my guy reason well.

with all these comments coming in, i got to jakpa.. thanks bro

tosyne2much:
You never find wife ooo baba.. See the nonsense the girl even dey spew for mouth instead of telling you to give your mom reasons why she is different from other Ijebu women, and why she needs to stop holding tribalism against her

Ladies like this can do anything to conceal the stink of the devil in them and unleash it after marriage

You end up living a miserable life

thanks baba... i appreciate

another

As an IJESHA guy, my mum warned me last week not to marry an IJEBU sister, that if i dare do she will never accept her... i was curious about what could have triggered such statement, she went further to say ijebu babe are found of magically placing thier husband under thier sole authority. Thereby alienating me from the reach of family members. Mum said she can not afford to write application before seeing me. I had to laugh it off and enlightened my Mum how damaging hasty generalisation could be. But she insisted.

However, on the second thought, i have to respect my Mum's opinion especially in regards to the issue of marital life contract. I therefore, called my babe and narrated all what my Mum said about our relationship.

Fortunately and unfortunately, my babe confirmed all what my Mum said without even pretending for a second, she even became furious at one time and directed me to place my Mum within limit. That my Mum has nothing to do with our relationship and therefore should not interfere. The screenshot of my conversations with my babe are attached below... pls what should i do because i love my Babe ooooo

sanmtiago:
lol weed is bad it reduces your IQ trust me

Bro weeds makes you reason practically and intelligently...omo your reasoning when on weed diet no be here oooo

Ecstasy9:
You are killing yourself slowly.

bro, everybody dies slowly....

Today mark exactly one year i learnt my bitter lesson about romantic relationship. My babe left me to wallow alone in my brokeness... i was a perfect man when i got the money but suddenly became annoying nigga when the money was no longer flowing as it was... it was like the end of the world and only those who had experienced bitter heartbreak can relate. Shortly after, while still nursing the wound, i discovered masturbation and later, weed intake without having to drag in smoke. Believe me, it has been beautiful experience. I dont smoke but i eat my weed inside my food.

Today, having sit down and examine the magnitude of what this discoveries have saved me, i cant but to say i am thankful because things are now taking shapes in every aspect of my life. I am no more vulnerable to romantic afflictions...

I never tought life is more sweeter in weed than in any romantic relationship...

GodisGood4321:
Happy Sunday to Everyone.

I'm 32yrs but still unmarried, not because I don't like to or because of money but I just have constant concerns, worries, and fears.

I have been in relationships severally where we both love, respect and care for each other; but I call it off every time it was getting really serious, not because of any grievous issue in particular (because nobody is perfect) but just because of worries and fear of the unknown.

Some of the worries I have are things like:
- Would I still like her in the near future after locking it down with her in marriage?
- Am I sure I have considered all my chances?
- Am I sure I won't regret my choice or find a better choice tomorrow?
- Am I sure this is the right person for me?
- Am I sure I'm not walking into misfortune with my two eyes open?
- Am I sure I'm done a balanced analysis in making a choice or just looking at one side?

Some people think I don't like marriage or that I'm just flexing, but these fears and concerns make me develop cold feet whenever a relationship I'm in start getting serious. These fears and doubt are real.

So guys, what were your fears and concerns before getting married and how did it turn out after been married.

Marriage is a black market( trial and error), what you bought can only be unveiled after the marriage...

Sanwo-olu is our governor in the waiting, its non-negotiable... only a person from one village in Anambra will argue this..

Atiku and his fellow thieves will be politically retired after saturday election... 4+4=8

the slayer of Biafrans till this moment...

CjayMAX:
See his nose like tunnel.NONSENSE

Nigerians are too talented in insult career... bro this ur statement make me laff

Well, i will just organise my family members and appoint our own president... So we will be running our own govt and forget about Nigeria...

APC will win with slim margin... Pls bookmark and hold me accountable to this statement

heart attack loading in the camp of Atiku...

its simple, he should just commit succide and go back

What happens if these rice are supplied to IDP camps instead...

youngest85:
That 'five minutes' pleasure cannot be quantify with anything

lol... wereh

i have always wondered if talking to Jesus should be by formula of first calling his name three times and in violent voice for that matter. Is there any special associated power attached to this method ?

omo ah prefer this Sowore oooo, but as the race is obviously btw Bhuari and Atiku.... Bhuari has my vote

Reno should shut his stinking mouth, rather he should commend the present administration for correcting d 16 years error of PDP

i regret ever meeting my immediate ex... she took my happiness away for certain period of time... she caused me wound in d heart, she made me weak and left, i use to lament any time i remember the way i treated her like a queen and she played me back like a fool in return, i wish i never met her... Thank God i have fully recovered.... Aside her, i have never regret meeting anybody...

NwaAmaikpe:



When will she give us update on the state of her womb?

eranko

itsmeurLady:
sorry Sir, don't be angry Sir but It's Cheers Sir and not Sheers Sir. Have a Lovely Day Ahead Sir, Thank You Sir! Hope am Forgiven Sir?

Lol... You are forgiven, go and sin no more... Sheers, oh sorry Cheers