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coolestofall:
If u want 2 b man enough, d key is 2 stamp ur feet on d ground n start doing things 4 u. I dnt mean u stop caring 4 her, but stop feeling obligated 2 satisfy her every demands, especially monetary. When u start making this changes, its highly probable that at one point in time, she might want 2 end d relationship. This is where being a man is most vital, cos a man knws he might get hurt, but he just doesnt care about d pains, he just never wants 2 b held on ransom by any girl.
Emancipate urself.

I like you bro

pocohantas:
Right now, I feel nothing but pity for you bro. I really do hope your erection ain't as weak as you are. That will be double tragedy.

What I said is not in terms of sex... the more I try to be nice towards her the more she demand more and see it as normal thing...

Ah beg my people, worries don almost kill me. I met this girl like a year plus ago, we started dating 2 months after. At the inception our relationship, she was acting nice and virtuous, to the extent that I used to think in my mind that omo this girl make sense die, that ah never see a well mannered girl like this before... Everything was moving fine in the beginning, never new she was faking her miss nice. To cut it short, along the line of the relationship, miss nice started changing gradually, all those characteristics wey make me fall in love with her started dissapearing gradually.... What I observed is that, the reason for her gradual change is that, she allready see me as a defeated territory. Just because I always tell her that if I don't marry her I will never love again in my life. Let me add this, this girl can lie for Africa, as I am writing this, I have 3 different and conflicting versions of how she was disvirgined, cos she tell you something today and tell you another thing few weeks apart. Though, how she was disvirgined is non of my concern but there is always a topic that will bring up the issue. And omo if this girl attend or greet a stranger for your presence you go think say she specially went to school to learn being nice, they no go know how brutal she can be when it comes to the issue of me and her. Ah don love this girl like mad, to the extent that if any small thing happen, the way ah go take they worry ehn... Though she too go they worry for her side . Sometimes she will behave and I will be thinking in my @ that why did I even meet this girl in the first place. I always behave nice towards the girl, I prove my self to be a real man at every time and try to satisfy her, but what I discovered is that the more I try to satisfy her the more she see it as normal thing and the more she demand more... NOTE: ah never suspect her of having another affair before sha...

Pls and pls, advice needed, I love this girl like mad...and how can I be on top of the game ?

Omo, I am sure the girl collect the jazz from India...

They are only trying to increase the price of my only source of joy and inspiration...God no go give them do

periodic masturbation...

donstan18:
Why not tell us the gender of the children you were teaching.

Because from teaching, you might want to show them some praticals for them to understand well.

ah don laff tire...you have a dirty mind...

I wish to ask this question to know if I am on the right path. I am a kind that believe parents should start teaching their children at age of 14 and above about the danger of having sex at a tender age.

Sometimes ago, I received the most brutal disgrace of my life. I have this neighbor that has two daughters. The eldest is 15 years old while the other one is just 12 years old. So there was a day I was teaching them about the danger of having sex at all and of course at such tender age. In the course of our conversation, their mother walked bye and she started yelling at me and raining all sort of insults on me. She was like, what sort of nonsense am I teaching her children, what kind of rubbish is that, my children are young and yet you are teaching them rubbish, for your info my children are young and they don't know anything about all the rubbish you have been saying, never and never in your life talked to my daughters in your life. I was disgraced but was later rescued by my brother who instructed me to apologise to the woman.

Now, the question is, does enlightening our children who has attained the age of 13 and above about the danger of sex portends any danger. And when is the right age can one start teaching his/her children about the calamity of sex ?

ammyluv2002:
Caught cheating ke? Nna, biko upgrade your reasoning! You didn't even mention "disobedience" na cheating enter your mind.

Don't pretend as if you dont know how ladies sometimes behave... they can be so rude if such avenue to do so present itself... Most ladies are gentle in their household cos they have no such opportunity to be rude...

LessNoise:
Well if you cant GO BUILD YOUR OWN

Stupid Reasoning in 2018

lol... reasoning no go kill me... I know what I am saying bro...

Left to me, I don't think so... Woman can be so wicked and manerless if they have the opportunity. How can I even checkmate her when she is caught cheating ? Can you tell her to leave the house whenever she does the unthinkable ? Most of the ladies i know are gentle in thier household simply because they have no such opportunity to be rude... I rather live in a rented apartment to avoid an impending miserable life when the nagging finally starts...

This guy is a learner, how can efcc arrest you just like that.... by the way, all these oyinbo mumu no be small...

sweetkev:
Pls where can I get the video. Any link??

I hope you have your Vaseline ready beside you ?

But people get mind sha, how can one commit a gruesome crime like this and still have a rest of mind to eat, drink... na wa oooo

These are the face book posts that suggest a slay queen cursing yahoo boys to be yahoo left over... All slay queens should steer clear of any man whose source of income is unclear...

Simplep:
Easier said dan done my dear,i have d same problem with d op and i dnt tink i can change because dats jst who we are..i have realy tried to change but my tongue still gt stuck if i wanna talk to people dat are nt my family member...

Well, I also share the same problem with op... I have been battling with shyness and inferiority complex right from my university days... At a time, I acknowledged it as a problem and I decided on what to do. Firstly, I started learning vocabulary, I became a prolific vocabulary discharger that almost equated me to PATRICK OBIAGBON. So, when outside, I talk confidently knowing fully well that the people I am talking to can never be a grammar addict as I do. It all worked when talking in the mist of my friends and people of lesser status. But when facing a large crowd of intellectuals, omo come they see bad construction of sentences because of fear of failure... Though, I am still battling with the shyness and inferiority complex but definetly I have improved significantly

Dreyk:
It all started when I was 17. Had access to internet and too many Indecency were everywhere on the net. What started out so weird and looked awkward to me ended up being my means of pleasure. Didn't even think of GF coz to me it was stress. I could stroke my organ for a whole day watching Indecency. I really enjoyed it at first and was even taking drugs to delay "release of sperm"
To me it was all fun.

When I got to 20, I decided to try out a GF, but it didn't work out well so I fully went into masturbation and didn't even think of relationship.

When I became 23, I noticed my joystick wasn't getting the 100% erection like it used to but I didn't even bother. Till the day I decided to have sex and my organ couldn't rise, my gf had to give me a Mouth Gig before I got half erection, she wasn't happy, I saw disappointment written all over her face. I had to lie to her that it was coz I was worried about something else and my mind wasn't on her side or the sex.

Christmas night we decided to have another sex but joystick couldn't even rise. I tried force it into her but it fell out all flaccid. Had to use my hand to pleasure her that night again she was worried and the next day she said we've got to talk about it.

I embarrassingly told her nothing to talk about. She is someone I want to marry. Am 28 years now and my mum is already talking about when will I be getting a wife ??

It's beginning to give me nightmare.
Pls doctors in the house ........have I maybe accidentally broken my dick??

Or does it mean I have over used my organ??
Pls is there a cure??

Omo as I see this your topic, anxiety catch me cos I also masturbate but decided to stop it like 3 days ago, but I have not been comfortable since I see this your topic, my mind is hunting me that I should test my self. so, I decided to watch porn to test if erection will come, erection come truely but there was no ability to control my self till I masturbate again, as I they, I am not happy with myself... Pls does anybody have an idea of how to block anything sex on my phone... if I press any thing sex or porn for google make he bring another, this is all I want. As I they like this, water melon way ah go shop tonight go reach 500 naira own

upon plenty things way they give person worry in this life , so na woman matter they give you your own worry... continue o

I am from the same ward... on which platform, PDP or APC ? if it is APC, only TIMO can annoint a candidate for ward 10... Going to primary does not hold any water

Chigorkizz:
get A Girl Friend That Will Be Closer To U.Most At Times Masturbation Comes To Mind When U're Starve Of Sex.

you people are talking as if konji get specific time way he they carry person... what of if konji carry am late in the night say like 10pm and above, he go they call home girl and down to come during such hour, and what is the assurance that him girl go allow am ? just try to advice him how the steps to prevent such urge to come as frequent as the op claimed...

amani63:
my brother all you have to know is that you can't stop masturbation like that.I also masturba.have I stop it? NO
But I have reduce the frequency
Try and implant fear inside yourself you will reduce the frequency brother
Fear like
What if I can married and I don't have child or I can't impregnate my wife
Am having pain at my back I think Is symptoms of kidney failure what if is it I think masturbation cause it
And many more bro

bros you just spoke about me... ah swear, this is the same fear I have been having today cos I still masturbate yesternight... the fear they prevent me from performing it in a close sequence.... my own na like every 3 to 4 days... but I wish to stop patapata... if I decide to stop today, konji go carry me along the way and I will be forced by my feelings to enter instagramm to watch all those twerking fine babe...you no the next thing bro

Prudent200:
it true bro I dey Bleep bed an also they imagine say i dey Bleep real pussy were as am not fucking real pussy. any advice

lol...I tought na only me they this game oooo... me na all those end time lady way they twerk their yans for instagram ah go they watch come they bang ground... before I know it erection don come... I wish there is a practical way to stop this rather than going spiritual ...

Tosinkez2626:
My dear i understand wat u r gng tru ryt nw. All u need is simply an understanding dat cums 4rm God's word dat bn a christian u must grow and dat it is of desire of God for you to move frm just bn a milk drinker 2 a person strong enuf to crack bone. Ds d problem thr. Secondly, watch and b mindful of the things that still makes u keep & constantly cumin for restitution den u will grow. Just add me up on fbk #Tosin Richard ave passed tru wat u r gng tru nw[color=#990000][/color]

thanks bro

Farmerforlife:
Don't let those doing holier than thou here deceive you. Most of them are far worse than you, especially all these pentecostals. There is virtually no day that you will not hear the Pastors embroiled in one show or the other. What do you expect to achieve in those churches? they are only increasing you in sin. I am personally acquainted with 2 pentecostal pastors who confided in me that they are secretely maintaining more than one wife (they think I will approve because I am a Muslim, but it is hypocrisy).

You better become an observant Muslim if you want to truly repent. If you insist on staying a Christian, JW is the only moderately non-hypocritical Christian sect. All the others fornicate Monday to Saturday, then go to church on Sunday to 'ask forgiveness'. They cannot help your case.

I gbadun you bro

Pierohandsome:
nothing else to tell u. Do u need prayer and fasting to be willing? Willingness is a choice and is personal, whn u are willing u repent.

If u tell me that u are willing but finding it hard to maintain ur decision ,that is a different thing. But telling us is not easy to be willing is whr no one can help to make that choice but u urselve. Whn u make choice genuinely to repent, the enablement wil come. Bt in ur own case that is not the issue, ur own issue is enjoying sin and not ready to repent ,and telling me to tell u steps on hw to be willing. Does that sound sensible to u?

Oga oya I am willing, but how can the willingness be sustained like you said...?

Pierohandsome:
Judging by ur response to that brother, u are not really ready to repent. Repentance is not 'Lord i am sorry' . Repentance is the willingness to turn away frm sin permanently, that is whn u receive the grace and power to live right. Until u are ready to forsake ur sins and turn a new leaf u wil never be saved because righteousness cannot be achieved by the energy of the flesh but by the Spirit of the Lord.

you think it is easy to forsake some things in this obodo naija ? I said I need advice as per say he no easy to repent willingly and forsake the old ways. all you need to do now is to tell me those steps to follow that will incorporate the uneasiness associated with repentance..

MhizzAJ:
You are simply confused

I guess Fornication is your major stumbling block

lol, I am not married yet and I think for now, I deserve any beautiful thing under skirt...

Left to me, it is not proper. I know of an old woman in where I served, this woman relied on the people around before she could eat... she was always in tattered cloth suggesting of the absence of care from any children... One man told me all the woman's children were not around but in somewhere else struggling to make living. I asked the man, should been an hustler be an excuse to take care of one's mother ?

Behold, not long this woman died, the woman was buried in a semi-elaborate ceremony. Two cows was killed, beans cake was on rampage and some other foods.

Now the question is where did the money to float such an elaborate ceremony come out.

Why not using the money to give the woman a beffiting living when she was alive instead of beffiting burial...

He get some things wey we Africans they do wey no make sense at all...

I don't know if any body here is in my shoe... Since I was born I have attended many crusade and church services. During any of the services, any time the instruction is prescribed that all who wish to denounce sin and become born again should come out to receive prayers, me no they carry last to follow go out to be born again at that moment. The issue is, my being born again at any point in time doesn't take much time before it expires. Just at the moment I decide to be born again the holyholy will be there but by the time the holyholy run into 2 to 3 days it begins to desolve till I go back to the status quo. The logic behind this is that, if Jesus is to come withing the shortest time that follows the moment of my being born again that means heaven sure me die but if na after it has expired OYO is my case but Jesus will surely consider my seriousness by looking at the number of times I have come to him...

Pls how can someone be permanently born again without much sin ?

Note: he get some things wey Christians go count as sin and wey if ah no do na hunger go kill me...

Christian brothers over to you...

it happened to me sometimes ago... once you start suspecting your lady of infidelity then any time you see her around he go be like say somebody don Bleep her....

joceey:
She is not yet truly delivered from the marine spirit her next relationship will be flop even the next one and the next one until she is delivered full...I can instruct you both what to do if she is ready inbox me

bros pls how can I contact you privately, this is my mail, ogunyemitayooluwole@gmail.com pls message me I will appreciate....

ouigy99:
Instead of you to be great full to God for delivering you by making her tell you the truth. you still dey form Tarzan say you love am. or do you think African marine marriages dey end like Walt Disney little mermaid?

she has freed you. free her before her marine husband comes to arrest you with marine SARS.

Run for you life and don't end up like the stubborn fly.

even though I am sad right away, you make me laff