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See her leg like okparun(bamboo)...

meobizy:
Then we’ll find out in two weeks time that this was only a social experiment. Don’t believe everything you see on the internet. It’s a shame we’ve finally come to this. If by any sudden chance this is true then I don’t see the point of it being news. Who has ever taken wealth to the afterlife? I’ll wait while Nairalanders find an answer to the question. I know it’s easier than passing JAMB after a fourth try.

If i were in the man's shoe i would have done the same and gave even lesser proportion to the so called wife... I only place value on people that does the same to me

I wish i get mind like this man the op has just described... I am sure he has a lot to say and therefore until his own side of the story i will deem your cryout as just emotional outpour that has no such weight for my dear attention


I am sure you're trying to manipulate the relationship that you may become the decider of which direction the relationship moves but the guy, in his silence, is always several miles ahead of your plan. He asked you which of the mother and you answered affirmatively "my mom of course". This statements only emphasize and further awake his conciousness as to some of the tone of undesirable characters of yours he has been noticing since the beginning of the union. Just saying. For a woman to admit her self that she talks too much, i am sure you must have scolded the guy with irresponsible and perhaps some gutter language ulterances. This is not to crucify you but as a guy, i am trying to preempt the guy's side of the story. In case you may wish to know, at about this same time, five years ago, i decided not to judge any man with unitary account from a woman until the other side of the story completes the cycle of the proceedings...check and humble your self and see how sanity and descency comes back into the relationship in droves

No imam will be genuinely happy with this... They may shout religion tolerance in the open but deep withing them they see other worship ground as a place of comedy and infidels

Heartbrokengirl:
We never had penetrative sex, I have never had penetrative sex. The messages are from our past chat, I only cleared the chat after creating this thread. I have not set my eyes on him since then. He has called with other numbers, but that has been it.

Plz, you can reserve the “hoe” tag for your loved ones if it is such a pleasant name. Using it randomly on people you do not know is a not a sign of good upbringing.

You guys here are all about the dick, dick is everywhere, but I have lived 25yrs of my life without it and I didn’t die. I was only hurt he lied to me and led me on. Some of us are trusting. I know people that would have ransacked his house and social media pages, but I didn’t do that. I am not even on Facebook and Instagram. He preyed on the fact that I am quite private and trusting, direct your misgivings to him!!

As far i am concerned, you have had sex with the man big time. Whether oral or penetrative, the objective is the same which is satisfying eachother's fantasy. Like someone said in the previous comments, the man is a good man of conscience, some men would rather take the secret of their marriage to afterlife out of fear of losing your sweet punna...the man acknowledge how good you are to him and he opened up to prevent you from the major heartache that will come at a later date soon like a Big Bang. You should be thankfuk to him, somebody like me will not do that when I have not banged the punna at least a hundred times

Zzor:
I believe you are wiser and better now, but were you expecting his family members to give you a clue, no they won't except they have some weirdo like me among them lol ,just be very careful next time and build a strong wall around yourself, so strong that whoever succeeded in breaking that wall will eventually be your man.Just be very careful, and keep your distance from that man, even if his marriage will break make sure you are not the reason. God bless you.

lol... And if the war protect her to the age of MOTIGBAKAMU, u will be held responsible. Here in the case of relationship, it's simply a black market and therefore I will call it a game of luck. If you like they strict pass Abacha it may be bad guys that keeps coming your way in form of a complete gentle man...

SoftChordz:
If you haven't met the devil or someone worst than the devil...I call on you to check the OP out......
This is why guys can't afford to marry and travel all it takes is a week and another nigha will be servicing your naija "wife". travel n hustle when u come back then marry.
op you're not wicked....ur just a devilll with womb and more. tell the man joor and ensure its when he's on vacation from work before u get him sacked.

your mother and sister played along and his it from your father?!!? are you sure you guys are biological children of your pops?!?! fear women...any man wey no de fear woman na toddler.

Your submission is not well thought out. You have to consider her as human that has blood running in her veins. I will not call her evil and though truly, she has made a costly mistake by making baby coming out of her extra marital affairs. I will advise the woman to close this thread 'cos the comments flying all around will complicate her trauma and may eventually consider suicide as the next available option...

lol... Whala be like bicycle

That weed smoking is from Satan

kombats:
25 - 34 years

This is the age range that forms the larger percentage of the unemployed,,,I hope you know what i mean

Heartbreak is a terrible experience but believe me time passage will do the magic. Hardly You See any man above 35 that has not once, one way or the other, experience the same. I think this is normal and part of life. Bro don't ever be alone, if do you are complicating the matter. Shout-out to my friends because during my own, they all stood by me tightly, they ginger me with the word of mouth,, they even shaparly they organise babe for me left and right so that I can quickly forget the shit called my ex. We cracked jokes and they never stopped checking on me. With time, I became the default version of my self and I looked back only to laff at those terrible moment when i was finding it difficult to let go of my Ex. Bro be strong,,, I know it's not easy but this is all you need at this moment. Be a brave general and move on with your life. Talk to plenty girls. Go to bar or club and catch your fun. This life too short pass make one girl con steal part of your joy...

Wait until the opportunity pass you by...

Bro, you're already addicted to her p**sy, you always feel on top of the world fu***g her...no one can dissuade you from her except if she her self give you red card

Biglittlelois:
That guy wasn't professional from the onset

An hr who wants to approach a potential employee, would have introduced himself immediately, example;

Good morning/evening Mrs/Miss Mary,

This is the human resource personnel of so and so company, we would like to have a word/chat with you regarding your employment.....and the conversation will continue from there,

What kind of hr will start a conversation with "Hello Good evening Mary"?

Even when she asked who gave him her number, he would have explained himself accordingly and politely, why the hell will he say "calm down and hear me out"?

If I was her, after he said calm down, I'd block his ass immediately, has nothing to do with being rude, manner of approach is equally important.

But we all know a company hr will not start or respond to a chat like that except it is awon scammers PLC so.....

And saying calm down and hear me out is an abomination to Nigerian ladies? What Mary need to save her of the disqualification is just 15 seconds of patience and it's too difficult to give? BTW, who the hell are you that you keep bragging about blocking somebody... Nigeria ladies are found of thinking of themselves what they are not in reality. The lesson here is simple... Calculative patience is a virtue, get this straight right to your medular

Certainly village people no be the cause of every problem... The man was about to introduce himself after the salutation but was met with rude interruption. This are the kind of girls that suspect every move to be love advances and now she will reap the labour of just few seconds of impatience so hard. I would have picked umbrage my self if i were the guy. Rada rada. Aifarabale Olori Arun. What happens to " i am fine, pls who is this. It's as simple as this

She is a coward...waiting make Buhari him self do based on insult he receives every seconds

Obo...humble soul...u no go see wizkid in this kind of playful mood,,,na forming forming up and down...No wonder Davido is way bigger than him in all aspect

FFK my guy,,,he been they Bleep Igbo women mercilessly from time immemorial

benzene00:
I love this..

All you simps will Soon be hanging yourselves soonest!!


fools...stop simping you said no, you prefer Love

you should go and commit suicide!!

Bro why nah

MrBrownJay1:
When everyone was telling you that you were being played by this useless woman, but sadly you didn't want to listen... here below is someone who told you exactly what was going on, even before it happened.... which you dismissed.

This person talk ham true true

It is just unacceptable to learn my lesson for the second time from the same person. I became a cheap fool and an object of mockery among colleagues. I was warned but turned a deaf ear. I have been gnashing my teeth for the past three days in regret and this i fear may spread rapidly to many more days ahead. In the first episode, i came to nairaland to cry for help, there was a crossbreeds of advise and comments from which i drew the only lesson of never trust a woman that is still living in her age. I picked my chattered self from the ground, moved on and never looked back to reflect on the pain. Time over time, my heavy heart became lighter, the pain faded and i became the default version of my self. I started doing my things just like i would if i had not met her. On that satanic evening, i got a text from her on my phone, asking about my welfare,,,i flipped the message aside until after three days when the devil in me pinched my civility to reply the message. Just like a fluke, we started the conversation in earnest and soon enough formed into something serious. I never thought she was on a mission to cause further damage to the remnant i could stitch from the crumbly particles of the first damage. We started the relationship again and now she has dropped a quit notice for the second time when she thought she has exhausted her game plan of ripping me off my finances.

I do love her for real and she her self knows but she is just a confused being that drowned deeper in her beauty and has genuine interest in the content of her fantasy that keeps eluding her till this time.

At the moment, the bitterness in me is enormous and the sore pain from the sustained injury is incalculable. I wish i have a stone hearth just like my elder brother and my Dad but i regrettably took after my mother.

If i fall for love scam for the fourth time then i deserves to be called a high ranking asinine and a coward per stupidity.

Now that my heart is finally cutoff from the pipe that holds it in dangle, i wish my self the best of mercilessness as i reinvent and rebaptise my self into a newest rampage heartless man in town. I am not going to hurt anybody but now and going forward, i care-less about any chosen woman.

I put this piece here not for sympathy but to ring a bell of lesson that once a betrayer is always a betrayer and therefore be careful about giving a second chance so genuinely. Pls don't pity me, my woe is self-inflicted.

After u don chop life finish for street,,,u come here con they disturb our peace

Scammar that catch npower beneficiaries off guard

hashtagged:
Thats what women are meant to be, so if women arent slaves, men shouldnt be breadwinners, you put it like women doing house work is slavery, the men doing the breadwinning what is that called?

In a home

A womans job: cooking, caring for kids, child bearing, maintaning the home

A mans job: breadwinning, making money and provision for the family.

Isnt it balanced, OP you are just a simp, ass licking women wont get you anywhere, so you want men to make money and care for the home as women sit down and watch you(their slave) do everything up to washing their undies. Nonsense

You're slowpoke,,,what about those ladies that leave their comfort zone to hustle to bring comfort to her home... OP is right,,, you must have been a perpetual slave bf you are called a good wife in Nigeria...i feel for Nigeria women sha

Which constitution stipulates wife to be the owner of the front seat fan self...making issues out of non issue

The biggest mistakes any guy can make is to ever think any lady can not do without them... You see ladies ehn, once they move on,,,they dust their past behind them and never looked back in most cases. Lady is only attached to a guy for just the moment it last and not beyond,,,all other things being equal

No just go there...single life has no limitation and constraint of activities... The freedom embedded in being single is second to none...no wonder most celebrities chose baby mamaism over proper marriage... There is nothing you can not chose with single life,,,but being married will cut you to size and left u with no many options... As he be ehn,,,this small change way ah they get will be used for my own upliftment and not to service those responsibilities associated with official union... Single life sweet gan

I'm dam happy being a man in this part of the world. African society is not just fair to women,,, in fact, being a wife in African society is 50% equivalent to slavery... In this our clime, what is good for d goose is not good for the gander. What a man does with amusement becomes abomination for women. But why? Accepting a man's proposal for marriage is like saying I accept you as my lord and saviour...As a woman, you must at all time incorporate the interest of your man into your schedule, whereas, for a man, it's optional. A man is free to come home late but women are not,,,in the time past but thank God for civilisation, average African family are not interested in women going to school,,,again women are excluded from sharing the inheritance legacy of a family. The odds are just against women.... omo women they try sha...a lot of them are not even aware of how it's disadvantageous to be woman in this part of the world 'cos the society has successfully conditioned them to such life style...This is not to even talk about the biological risk of being a woman...

timesup234:
Can somebody tell mumu Trump that China is not some third world shithole like America. China has a bigger economy than the US. when compared in purchasing power parity which is the accurate way to measure the strength of economies. America is China's bitch with over $500billion deficit annually and china will continue giving America doggy style for another 10 years

Liar,,,America remain the biggest economy till date...

The is his normal life before he became a king, so you don't expect him to abruptly start a life of an old man...

And at the end, Shola died...think about this guys, life should be taken as a play ground not meant to be stiff about...

Your story inspires me, what ran me into depression sometimes ago is just a fraction of your own story...I am now more resilient and more like my hustle henceforth will rest on d standard of your story...cheers

My papa they always use 1960 mentality take they advise me in this modern day