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donstan18:
A left over lady to IceBerg.

If only these big ass ladies know how useless their ass becomes to a man minutes after ejaculating.

Baba this your comment bad gan o

Tamarapetty:
I'm still looking for the remaining pieces of my heart. Na my kidney dey play the role of my heart now

You are funny

WORDWORLD:
# bolded is NO SIN at all that is being a REAL MAN that you are. The type who will surely be compensated with a WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE if only you don't because of this disappointment choose to change.

It's is that SINCERITY which you invested in your relationship that has saved you from an almost INEVITABLE future CALAMITY had it been you eventually tied the knots.

Brother, what would you do if after been married to her and out of the blue you come back home and find the 'supposed' mother of your children moaning as a result of sexual pleasure she is receiving from her EX under the roof you both live.

And then what will you do if afterwards you carry out a DNA test and find out that you ain't the biological father of your kids but her EX is?

We learn from cradle to grave. It's a lesson. Have faith that she wasn't even up to the shadow of the WORTH of the woman your DIGNITY as a FAITHFUL man deserve.

Take it as one of those life lessons and move on.
#RESPECT EVERY WOMAN THAT COMES YOUR WAY. TREAT THEM WITH KINDNESS. DONT BECAUSE OF THIS EXPERIENCE START TREATING WOMEN AS TRASH EXCEPT THOSE WHO ACTUALLY CHOSE TO BE TREATED AS SO BECAUSE OF THEIR BETRAYAL TO THE DIGNITY OF WOMANHOOD.

You will get over it if only you see this as a great BLESSING. Cheers.

Thank you very much bros

Kingosytex:
You are welcome! please you need a change of environment, it will really do u good

I rush down to Lagos like 3 days ago...maybe my mind will become lighter...

[quote author=Liliyann post=71186067]Same old story we hear everyday!!
After all I spent and did for her, which is not even up to 100k!!
Your girl is wise!!
2years without the talk of marriage and real spending!!
Its better to be with a married man that brings out the best in you,takes care of you and your family than a broke ass guy that doesn't even know where his next meal will come from!!

You better carry your lazy ass and go and make real money!!
Relationship ain't for boys but real men that knows what it takes to love and value their partner!![/qu

I doubt if u know what u are saying...

Kingosytex:
trust me, i know and understand how u feel and what u are passing through cos i have been in an even worse situation than u are right now. there is dis girl i was dating, we CLAIMED TO love each other dearly, then along the line a certain guy who was financially bouyant than i was came around and the story changed. the girl fell for the guy and abandoned me, i PLEADED for her MERCY but to no AVAIL,she told me dat she has moved on with her life, sent me some series of HEART BREAKING texts. i felt so MISERABLE and downtrodden, she changed her contact and it was impossible 4 me to reach her. i was in TORMENT, everything around me was scary so i needed a CHANGE OF ENVIRONMENT,i traveled to stay with a friend in LAGOS and in a few weeks i returned to my normal state of health. i started seeing ladies as HEART BREAKERS. i changed my contact to cut away from HER. JUST SOME WEEKS AGO, SHE COLLECTED MY NUMBER FROM MY FRIEND AND CALLED ME, GUESS WHAT?? SHE HAS BEEN DUMPED!! LOVE IS A SCAM and this is my story!

Thanks bro

It has been hell for me for the past like a week ago... My girl friend broke my @ in a smart way... Me and her have been together for close to 2 years...I tried as much as possible to take care of her because of the love I have for her... Now she has declared to me that we are no more together... She has gone to her ex and I learnt this her ex is married already... A lot of my friends have called her to persuade her but all to no avail. Even my mother called her but she declared she has made up her mind already... I am finding it difficult to erase her from my memory... Each time I remember the games she played with me, I am always sad. She was collecting money from me up to the point when I catch her red-handed... She was still acting like my original gf but it was when I catch her red-handed that she declared that she is no more interested in me, that I should take heart. Each and every day, the past memory of me and her do appear in my thinking. It is really disturbing. It hurts alot. I hardly sleep these days. The funniest thing is that, she said she dont wish to see me again since we are no more together. I went to her house, she did not open door for me, probably she is thinking i came to harm her. My only sin is loving and trusting her. Since we started dating i never thought it once to have alternative girlfriend because of the love i have for her.

Pls I wish to forget her and move on... Pls what are the practical ways to delete her from my memory ?

ednut1:
bros u are a very useless person. How u go give gal belle 3 times. U no fit use condom,pull out or buy postinor. Both u and the gal are mad.

I was a novice then...

QuietHammer:
Did you give her money for the abortions? Did you see any proof that she was indeed pregnant? If no then you have been scammed.

Yes bro I have a proof...I was the one that drove her to the hospital where we had the first pregnancy test...it was positive...the result is with me till today... but we did test for the 2nd and the 3rd pregnancy using stripe...we did this our selves...

i raised a thread here days ago about how my girl friend of almost two years started avoiding me (https://www.nairaland.com/4714794/regret-loyalty-girl-friend-crying ). She has changed her phone number. To cut it short, she has finally reunited with her immediate ex before me. But at first, she was claiming that her parents suddenly don't suppprt our relationship due to my home. We are from the same Osun State but different towns. I found this excuse so flimsy, so I decided to carry out research on what actually happened by secretly perusing her phone. This is when I discovered that she and her ex are now back together... Even she was busy fucking her ex while I was still sending her money...Sometimes she will demand money from me to go visit her ex. I confronted her with the fact I got, she could not deny further but only to beg me that I should just take her as my younger sister and we should forget about the past. I so much love this girl that i find other ladies disgusting as far as relationship is concerned. As i am, i am depresesd, I am rushing back to Lag tommorow to nurse the wound, cos as long as I remain in town, there is no way I will be coordinated... Woman finally got me and break my heart for the first time... I don't think I can ever love again in my life... I learnt my lesson in a bitter way. I learnt this her ex is married already oooo....but her motive behind re-uniting with him is what i don't know. THIS is a girl that we have been together for almost 2 years. Cos of little distance everything started changing. She even aborted for me 3 times on her own demand that she is still in school. Based on my experience with her, I never still beleive what is happening... All in all, lesson learnt, I don't think any lady deserve geniue love except the one you legally marry..

Omo this woman is a brave woman...if to say nah me know say ahh go die in few moments, OMO na to they shake all through out of anxiety... I fear death die

NwaliE01:
my guy fall our hands here. So as long as you have not wear her that ring, she is for all. You don't expect her to keep her kpetus waiting for you when she can't account for your way about during your absence.
You suppose know na. You carry your hope for love dey give one babe to keep.
am Sorry but I am not surprise at all.

Bro, lol... you bad gan o...but you just open my eyes sha...

Frankicent:
all this bros who I taught are well experience are indeed not.

how can you still be hoping on a gal you rarely see.

you didn't you flirt now see your life...m had it been those girl that gave you attention where still with you. you wouldn't even think About your chicken gf.. now see her lodge mate is banging her.. That's a bad guy after banging her he'll move onto the next one.

No go get side chick dey der and be sending money to a gal like say she's working for you.. Bros if you put her mind on a gal you'll just get high bp...


my advice delete her number I know doing it is hard.. Just do it. .

2: Flirt with other ladies

3: Stopping acting like her client

4: See her as a Bleep mate she don Bleep up.

Thanks bro

Yungstev007:
@OP, My story is almost the same as yours and I can totally understand what you are going through now. Please just let her go. You'll heal with time

Thanks

Olalan:
I understand your feeling of betrayal and hurt OP, the girl is notbdeserving of your love and is most likely cheating on you with the games she's playing on your intellect.
If you truly loved her sincerely and didn't cheat on her be sure God will provide you with a better lady.
BTW dating a student is a big risk be prepared for the worst, nonetheless give the relationship your best.

Thanks bro

victorian:
OK.

Well be strong and focus more on making money. If she's destined to be yours, u guys will end up married to each other on the long run but if she's not your destined companion? Then take it easy, the right lady will appear someday.
And all these crying inside will be history.

Relax jor

Thanks, my mind is now light a bit

ednut1:
One of the beat thing that can happen to a man is this. Hahahahah. Been there after hacking my holy holy babes facebook during service .

Bro u are funny...holy holy...

Davryme:
From my experience not easy for a guy dating a girl still in school. it's 70/30 risk. It is not easy at all especially if u are both not in school. To avoid stories that touch.. Love them with your brain not your heart.

Bro you just open my eyes...thanks... if you see how down I am ehn, I am just thinking about the good times we spent together and I am like, would I ever experience such good moments again in my life...

victorian:
Op all this crying inside will not solve the issue on ground.

But before I blame anyone. Swear uv not hurt the hearts and minds of your past flings in the past. Especially those girls u dated for less than 2months.

You are simply feeling the hurt they all felt, when u ditched them and realise they are not up to your expectations.

Anyways dating is 50/50. Dont always place your whole heart and soul in a relationship. Reserve some loving for yourself as well. Very essential.

Anyways make money , be comfortable financially and be wise with your heart next time.

I don't think I ever break anybody's @ bf... my past relationships broke almost on mutual desire...

I have met many ladies in my life and as I am talking, this is my 1st serious relationship. Hardly my past relationship last for 2 months until this present one. Few ladies had come and gone, once any ladies' attributes doesnt fit in to my requirements, I don't waste time before I pick race to prevent the relationship going far. I met this my present gf over a year ago and since then, things have been running fine, in fact, she changed my perception that not all ladies are bad. I developed a very hot love for her along the line and she did the same. Since we love ourselves, cheating on her never come to mind even for once. Why do I need alternative gf since she gave me everything I want as far as relationship is concerned... and of course, I know that not cheating on her will save me many things. We were in the same town for almost a year before it was necessary for us both to depart for a far-distnace place to hustle. To cut it short, i came down to lag, while she remain in town because she is a student there while the town is my own home town. All trough the sailment of our love, I never had another girl friend ( she self knows this fact ) and I never suspect her of the same. Though, she has many toasters that she kept talking to on phone. For almost 3 months now, I have not seen her, we only talked on phone. Anytime, we are on phone she always profess her love and tell me how much she has missed me.

This is where I am having headache, like a month ago, she went to thier village, anytime she is in village, I can not call her except if she locate network and call me her self. It's almost 2 weeks now that my gf has called me and I can not call her my self. I was so disturbed that I had to call her brother using female voice to at least know what is happening... Her borther picked up and told me that my gf has left for school ( town ) like 4 days ago, i asked him that her number has not been going though, her brother told me that nothing happened to her number... her brother gave me her number which is quiet different from her usual number. Which means she purposely removed her normal SIM to prevent me from reaching her.

Omo I was emotionally knocked down, almost immediately, I called her with the new number and immediately she heard my voice she became mute as if network was not ok...

I said ok no p, so I called one of my guy in the town to help me run a check on her if she is actually in town, without wasting time, my guy went straight to her house and lo and behold, my guy met her gidigba in the house in her room. NO BODY WAS IN THE HOUSE except she and the guy that has been disturbing her for date. This guy happened to be staying in the same house with her, different rooms. All other housemates have gone to thier respective home due to strike.

Well, without wasting time, my guy handed phone to her that I wanted to talk to her, she could not say anything but was prevaricating that she has no phone again that's y she could not call to inform me about her presence in town. She told me she arrived town( school) yesterday, whereas her brother told me that she had left for town like 4 days ago. I was so devastated. I proposed to her that I will coming right from lagos to town to atleast see her, since its been a long time, she told me not to stress and bother my self, since she is leaving for her village again tomorrow.

At this juncture, I was in short of words but had to express my dissatisfaction about her excuses with few words.

As I am talking now, there is no way I can call her since she said she has no phone, whereas her brother gave me her new number which is actually going, but she is acting smart anytime I call the number...

Do not forget, i called her on my friends phone and my frined has already left her house for his own place.

As i am now, i am emotionally down, though she emotionally professed her love to me while we were talking on phone but I am not comfortable... To me, she has been running things behind me. And this a girl I so much love and decided to not cheat on her no matter what.

I did send her money any time she is in need. I am in pain cos my trust was smartly betrayed...

Guys, I don't know if I should still count on her as my forever partner...

Pipedreams:
Why Are Ladies Like This? Is Sex A Gift To Men?

I met this lady on saturday walking down with her sis. I holla at her then we exchanged numbers. We chatted briefly on saturday night after she saw a watsapp status of me stunting with my guy and revving the streets in my ride while doing a video. She hailed me for being a flexer.

Fast forward to Sunday Afternoon we chatted and she said she was a bit bored so I invited her over. I picked her up half way at Opebi and we drove to my crib after a brief stop over at Chicken republic for takeaway entertainment.

We got to the crib and after eating and while watching DSTV i made a move and she said it was early but was moaning and we bleeped two rounds, then I dropped her off at Ikeja with some little transport money 2k. I never asked her out or told her i needed a GF.

Why do Naija girls feel after sex you owe dem something? So stupidly entitled. Didnt we both enjoy it? Lmao. Now because i did not call yesterday and text shes getting pissed off. Watsapp chat below.

Bro you bad gan o....you must be good looking physically and in cash...

bibicici:
Did you even have to sleep with her? If you weren't interested in her would it not have been nice if you just ended it by she just having a non sexual company? To me both of you were wrong, the girl even more so. Did she lose her sense before coming to your house? You sef took advantage of her senselessness, though she had no right to tell you that.

Gbe enu e soun...

Vaseline addicted can do without pussy...

mascot87:
I need help seriously and it has been like that for the last two weeks and it got worst today. PLEASE i need someone to talk to

WhaSapp me bro...let's talk....08134811425

princechurchill:
That's my favorite type of breast so don't be ashamed come to daddy

omo ale

Shegzy8:
Lol..most girl do this. there was one I brought home and immediately I finished fu***ng her, she started crying as if I raped or drugged her..then I had to pet her....before I know she don hold me again for second round

Bro I like you...

NwaOhafia:
The problem with when God bless someone from the village is that; you still see an iota of that village thing in him

Bro you go get bad-mouth in real life

I love Muslim faith for thier clear demonstration of vanity... All things shall become history, its a matter of time

Make una forget Ekiti election and let's focus on 2019... I think ipbo suppose don accept thier Faith by now cos Ekiti election is a microscopic specimen of whats gonna happen in 2019... Make una forget am, Buhari go reach 2023... shebi na 1.9 million in favour of apc come from kano in 2014, this time around it will be 5 million in favour of apc...shey una never know say our population don increase ni ? if you know you know

Bros, I understand you fully. It's not easy for someone's life to suddenly hit a rock. The sorrow left behing will keep hunting-following you until you finally have an escape route. A critical look at this life will tell you that this life does not worth living at all, but we have no choice since it is designed to be of good and evil. Happiness today and sadness tommorow. My brother, almost everybody has an hiding injury which pose a source of worry. The worst nightmare of any man is to be feeling rejected and astray. Therefore, take this life to be of bad and evil, which ever side you fall at any point in time, accept it as your fate. You are even lucky to be alive to write this epistle, a lot are in hospital, prison, room alone due to illness, some live thier life by the prescriptions of doctor and they must not miscalculate thier drugs intake. Don't you know that these people I mentioned are badly in need of this same chance you have. My brother, that you are still alive, anything can happen, God that did it for you in the first episode is still there to attend to you in the second episode....Bros desist from suicide tougth...don't add salt to injury... God will help you

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Op sorry to say... I think this is whom you are and I doubt if anything possibly can be done about it...