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Ok, let me ask again.Can we hv at least 2 people who ll volunteer to b physically present wt DJ? People who can respond wenever they re called upon to do any physical running around? Lets hv dem volunteer here. Sm pple arent comfortable wt leaving d funds wt family cos we may nt really b getting regular updates etc. So lets c if we can get d volunteers.

Now its very clear how impt/useful Tehn has been.They were abused, bashed etc. They ve made their decision.
Babyosisi mayb u can use this ur vigour to re assemble anoda team to carry on. Members of d team ll b frm among us here, hu hv bn following dis thread.

@Tehn, i dont kno if this ll mk any difference, bt i just want to appeal dat u guys carry on wt d case. I kno u hv every reason to b discouraged and back out but i want to plead dat u find just one reason to carry dis through. God bless u all

@originalsy, i think jaybee3's post s clear. let me try to explain. The conclusion is dat its an adenocarcinoma most likely originating frm d liver.The definitive test to confirm if its frm d liver ll b a liver biopsy, bt dis ll b stressfl for d pt to undergo @ d moment.However, treatment wt chemotherapy can still b carried out because d specific type of cancer has been identified. Hope dis s clearer.Also, blessed mother and anonymous hv donated $350, and 30k naira respectively specifically for DJ's mother

Olu4life and gbadexy, God bless u guys for paying DJ a visit.
Blessed Mother and anonymous, may God replenish ur pockets.
Ishilove, well done in ur mod role.
Jaybee3, thanks for d update and all of ur efforts. only God can reward u.
Tehn well done guys. May u never lack help wen u need it. May ur good works speak for u.
DJ, may God, our Jehovah Rapha, heal u completely, in Jesus' name, Amen!

@busybody, ur previous post stated emmysexxy has said all she wanted to say. Ehee, if its so then dats fyn. But in one of her posts ystday abi 2days ago, she was calling on pple to mail her as if she still had some info.
I also undstd wot u explained abt moral ethics etc, bt wot i m saying is dis: she s ready to share d supposed info wt a few pple hu re nt family members o. if she tells one outsider, an info dat shldnt b public then she s nt abiding by any oath.Mayb u can read thru her ysdtay's post. Bt thank God u ve mailed her. I think wt ur maturity u ll b able to close d gap. She may actually mean well, no doubt, bt her approach get as e b. Waiting for an update frm u wen she replies u.

Busybody2:
Tchwinnie I believe you are in the medical field as well...my thinking is that Emmysexxy is apprehensive of posting because of ethical reasons under the Hippocratic Oath...I have read her posts again, she has posted more than enough information which Colossus2 rightly sussed out was what was pushed Tehn to stop keeping people in the dark and update the house as to the true state of things...

I undstd whr u re coming frm bt dat doesnt seem to b wot she has in mind. Afterall she asked some pple to mail her so she cld gv dem d info.Pple(including dose she mentioned) said she shld post d info here. D way she dropping d hints s my problem Meanwhile she hasnt sworn d hippocrates oath yet o.

@DJDOLA , good to read from u. Lett ur faith not waiver. God is on d throne. Trust him completely.Feed urself wt His word. Tk gud care bro.

emmysexxy:
I did not want to comment but let me chip in something.this email ad is nt ann alternate address it is mine and it is the only account I use both for facebook,school,bbm and other things.thanks

see emmysexxy, u re still in schl right? d road is still far o( uzo ka di anya). Do not let pple doubt ur character at all, NL apart. D most rational and sensible thing for u to do s post ur info here. At least dat ll clear up doubts pple hv abt u. Dont think because dis s a faceless forum, it doesnt matter. Or dont u care abt ur integrity? Until u settle dis, dont just b causing confusion here.

pickabeau1:
I am tempted to believe it is an alternate account

it cld b o.

sammieone:
Una well done ooo...like is in stages, the vigilante without touchlight no be small for here...the joy of my baby no dey make make feel stressed.
Beedam...am ur Big fan and I wish u well
Tchiwinnie...I see u, nurse Kaffy..twalle, proudmom...whr is prouddad...modath nko..plenty loving people here, cutesonai..I see thee, toyosiR..weldone. Lovina..what's up, mytestimony hope u are moving ministry...
Sorry if I didn't mention your name.
And all this loving big family, may God grant our heart desire,AMEN
DW(@clinik)..thank you always.I cherish you.

I dey o. Hope u dey follow do vigilante. lol. Jisike o, as u tk care of dem

Well done Tehn. U guys re doing well.
Do we kno for sure nw d site of d primary lesion? I think it ll help cos prognosis of cancer depends on d site of d primary site of d tumor. Dats y sm1 may survive a stage 4 cancer and anoda person may nt, cos of diff location. Of course, there s always room for divine intervention

emmysexxy:
When I was trying to say something that will help hammed you all insulted me and my family you also went ahead and banned me from speaking.I have a lot of things to say but I can't cause am scared of bashing from you guys when you know that what everyone of us want is for dj to get better.@babyosisi,busybody,chaircover,olu4life,idowu,caracter,gboliwe I think you guys started this case from the begining pls mail me I have something to tell you guys so that we can look for a way fforward.I know I might be banned again but who cares?a bread winner life is at stake.as yourself what if dj is my brother and he is the one training me in school or if he is not around I will have to survive by myself.I still pray healing upon your soul dj.nothing is impossible for God to do.note you are free to mail me and ask sensible questions buT dnt exspect me tto tell u what tehn can't update at least I owe them that respect.thanks

stop causing confusion. Even the pple u mentioned dont want to mail u. Y nt just say it out here

ToyosiR:
@all, I have been down as my mum is very sick. she had been to ikeja gynae department. i want her to move to luth.
she have done series of test but some said is gallbladder stone while sole said its uterine fibroid. i will post her recent abdominal test soon for our gynar to look through.

@ kaffy4bill. pls u work in luth right? kindly give me ur number.

sorry abt ur mum's illness dear, I pray she gets well soon. Tk gud care

CharmyBliz:
@kaffy,winnie and vicki...thanks 4 ur sugggestion. The dr. Prescribed Panda Cold drops for him and said it is normal and it will pass wit tym.

Anoda issue dat bothers me is dat my 6weeks son's navel is still big after the outer skin has closed. Wat can I apply to make it go in?

nothing o. some pple hv big navels na. i wish u can c my brodas own. wen he was a child, pple tot dat mayb he was hiding smthg there.lol. he s a man nw.as long as its nt giving him any trouble, let it b

Position yourself well for greatness.

cluksy:
And you call those experiences good old days? That was poverty (suffering n smiling)

Thank God for internet, space exploration, good life n fast cars.

twas good old days joy. its all part of it, and u ll just b happy o. children of these days dont even hv 'childhood experiences'. we enjoyed our childhood and we re still enjoying d internet, space exploration, fast cars

Herzumpther:
Breakfast....Local agidi dried fish pepper soup. Malaria no gree me rest.

Lunch... Fried Yam and egg.

I want d agidi and driedfish pepper soup o. Get well dear

Marc9:
I'll strongly think it's a case of 'threatened abortion'. A threatened abortion is a vag*nal bleeding observed in pregnancies below the gestation age of 12weeks.[b][/b]

Were you diagnosed of any sexually transmitted or urinary tract infections?

Were you on any strong medication prior to the advent of the first miscarriage?

So sorry to draw u bk. Bt wasnt it rather a complete abortion? and nt threatened?

aderonila18:
And please the fact that someone has stage 4 cancer dosent mean all hope is lost. My mother was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer about 4 years ago. It had spread to her lungs and other organs. We went to the US and they basically said there was no need to do a mastectomy since it was already stage 4. She was given hormone drugs to suppress the hormones and help to slow down the cancer, when she got back to Nigeria she did some chemotherapy and since then she's been very healthy. The first doctor that saw her basically said she had very little time left yet it's been years and she is doing very well. The doctors have been shocked at how well she's doing.definitely it is God's mercy

So let's keep giving our all to help him either with money, time or advice and we pray ceaselessly also. With God no case is ever too bad, we need to keep helping DJDOLA and not lose hope. It could be anyone

and least some people ll kno chemotherapy isnt a death sentence.

kaffy4bill:
Pls get him to d hosp, sounding like a resistant respiratory tract infection.

or it may b viral and run its course. she cld just gv symptomatic relief

kentochi:
thanks
we are back from hospital now.
The only problem now is that she need strength .
How and what can i buy for her to come back normal.
I love my daughter and am ready to spend my last pay.
To see her happy this second time she is falling sick after her birth 8 months ago. And she is very very smart.

its a gradual thing. she ll recover fully and become her playful self wt tym. gv her multivite daily to help. bt just b patient.

BryDario:
Good evening mothers,please is it normal for the soft spot on a baby's head to still be opend at 11months+??

very normal. it will close anytym btwn 9-18months. my ds s 11months too and his s still open

sexiebecky:
@ modath,thanks dear for ur concern. Am 28th weeks wit twins and dis is my 1st pregnancy. Accordin to d last scan I did,d babies ar fine and d 1st did not breech. But DH and our dr ar sayin dat d best way to deliver twins is 2ru CS. Accordin to dr,she said dat I won't pass 2ru pains much,dat within 5-10minutes I will hear d cry of my LO. But am confused cos I know I can still deliver my twins safely witout passin 2ru CS.I hv been prayin to God to make me deliver lik a hebrew women on dat D-day whic I know he will answer me. I dnt know much abt CS,dat's y I asked dos questions abinitio. Sorry 4 d long story

dont let any1 put fear into u. Wot is d indication for d cs( u can ask ur dr if u dont kno). if d pregnancy is uncomplicated, and labor progresses fyn, vaginal delivery is possible even for a first timer wt twins. D hsptl may b after d money they ll mk frm cs

pjthatcher:
congrats to the new mums in the house.
@ sexybecky what part of egbeda do u stay cuz I stay at egbeda too
@ all I checked my bbabys weight today and it was 2.27 am 32+1day gone hope he is not too big and what can I do, eat or not eat so that he does not get too big at delivery time. thanks for your timely response

he s nt too big. Just eat healthy(nt for 2)

@mamas, d most accurate method to calculate ur EDD is thru ur LMP(1st day of ur last period). So if u re really sure of ur LMP, it overrules woteva ur scan says. Besides, d later a scan is done, d less accurate it is. first trimester scans are more accurate

Prouddad38:
@kaffy4bill.. I hail ooo. How re you na? I dey recive ur halla...

I beg help me tell dem say na Twins Oga dey find oo. Cnt wait for dat scan sha.

Regards

b ready to carry d pregnancy wt her o.

sexiebecky:
thanks dear,I really appreciate.I think am cleared now

u re very much welcome. wish u d very best

sexiebecky:
Good mornin mamas,hope we ar doin fine? Pls I hv a queStion to ask concernin dis CS. How many times can a preg woman deliver 2ru CS And pls is it possible dat u can deliver natural after passin 2ru Cs in ur 1st birth. Thanks mamas

If u gv birth via cs all thru then 3x is adviced, at most 4x to avoid uterine rupture.
Its very possible to have vag deliver after cs(VBAC), as long as d indication for d 1st cs isnt a recurrent one and there re no complications in d 2nd preg to warrant cs. Its also impt to gv @ least 18months interval before taking in d 2nd tym to increase ur chances of vaginal delivery. Hope dis helps

Onegai:
There's no exact number of limits with CS (it is a surgery so it comes with its own risks). Yes you can deliver natural after CS, but it isn't advised so you don't tear your stitches.

While in the UK, my sister's baby went into distress and he had to be CS-ed out. For her 2nd child, she wanted Natural birth but the doctors advised CS due to certain factors.

Fear of CS in Nigeria is because Nigeria has very poor Healthcare facilities so even small surgery that is minor and you should leave the hospital that same day becomes a death-defying situation. In the US, women even opt for CS and inducement so they can schedule their childbirth in a convenient manner. As you're entering the hospital in labour, they will offer you Epidural sef (before you even start crying too much). Now they're trying to encourage more natural birth though.

I dont completely agree wt y. The supposed fear of cs by nig women is more of a mentality thing nt abt our healthcare. it tks just abt 3-5mins for a baby's cry to b heard thru cs, its nt a complicated surg. Yankee pple get their own mentality, naija pple get their own too.

ogheneyoma:
Goodday mamas, Pls am a January mum and currently 39weeks, since yestday I was having mild menstrual cramps which have migrated( since 4am) to frequent tightening of my uterus with pains in my lower abdomen that spreads to my waist. The pains are quite painful and uncomfortable wen dey come, bt as soon as it fades, I feel relieved for a while then it returns again. Pls experienced mamas could this be Labour? Am a first time mum and am kinda confused. My mum tinks it's early labour. What do u think please?

E don set o. Carry ur bags and go to d hsptl so u can me checked. Wot does ur mum mea by early labor? U re 39wks, so its nt early at all. May it b easy for u. Awaiting ur birth story

the most impt stimulus for continued milk flow frm d b*reast is suckling. So even if one or two drops of milk come out, and dat suckling is nt there, production of b*reast milk automatically stops wt tym